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The sugar mummy and sugar daddy menace is a very
Worrisome issue!
This menace can not be curbed anytime soon because of
The present economic quagmire the country finds itself.
Where young graduates are roaming the streets having no
sustenance,
No readily available means of livelihood,
having to lean heavily
On aged pensioner parents for survival!
In the face of all of this,one sugar mummy or sugar daddy
waves small cash in face,what do you expect?
The irony of the situation is that these lecherous socalled
Sugar people are ogbu mmadu ritual killers most of the time!!
May God deliver us from them.
Blessed day.

That pix looks more like a village setting!
No 21st century educated chick and guy can do this!!
Na local soquito versus local soquito! Cest finito!!
So no problem at all!
Blessed morning dear.

@marvelck,nice one there!
2nded here;nobody's worth all that trouble!
Unless of course if they've shown that they're
also down with you! Then give them your attn.
Otherwise,sorry,no time!
Thanks again.
Blessed morning.

So your best bet is to move on;no need to cry over spilt milk for me!
If its meant to be,it will stay;if not it goes...
And life goes on,in fact,the world will not stop spinning on its axis!!
Enjoy your day. Blessed morning.

Sorry if I'll sound harsh,but you are dealing
With a reprobate who doesn't give a flying f**k how
You feel!!!!
Dump her sorry a** ASAP!
Here's where I'll say:"You'll be glad you did!"
Blessed evening.

Well,IMHO,I would say go for the hardworking one as in lady B.
The reason she seems possessive as you claim is because
You have made it obvious albet unknowingly that you are
Double dating alias cheating.She knows!!!!
For every action,there's always an equal and OPPOSITE reaction!!!
How won't she act like she's possessive?!
She's a sharp girl!
Besides,pity your progeny! Are you gonna settle down for some
beauty without brains?
Pity you if you are ugly and your children take her dullness
PLUS your ugliness,which means you are finished!! Remember it is
Very possible in human genetics! Don't say "how can!"
Or your handsomeness plus her dullness!!! Let's say they are all guys!
So you are gonna have a bunch of handsome-ne'er-do-well-money-spending-but-cant-produce-any
Set of sons on your head!!!!!
Its your call anyway. Make your choice.
Blessed evening.

Haba op,what exactly is the incentive he is offering
That you want to mortgage your future happiness on the altar of
A few moments of madness?!!
This wicked world wherein the "good morning" of
Most guys to ladies today is "sex"!!
You want to mortgage your life because of sex!!
Arueme! Run for your dear life before it is too late.
A word is enough...
Wake up.
Blessed evening.

You are not getting any younger here.
I would have said discuss the matter with him,but
That's so stale an advice at this point seeing
as you guys have already done that at least 5times
this year alone!!!!!
A very red light signal you are missing is the way
And manner he treats his family now;
he has zero communication with his mother that carried him
For nine months and spent a good number of the years of his life with!
How well do you think you'll fare when you get married to him,if at all?
Well,sorry to disappoint you;he'll treat you the same way
he treats his mother!!!
You better put your acts together and run for your time to
The arms of a reasonable man,not just any man because you
Want to get married.
No marriage can ever be described as utopic;even when the individuals
involved courted for very long!!
Your best bet is a new r/ship that's bound for
the altar ASAP and then nurture it the way you've
Nurtured this one;the new one will equally grow!!!!
Blessed evening.

Its possible she's not that into you anymore or prolly
Hooked up with someone else where she is.
Or she feels you may get hooked yourself being so far away.
Either way,its a lose-lose situation.
Anyway,give her the benefit of the doubt and try calling her up on
A more regular basis to ,at least,keep in touch.
As much as is possible,make the journey sometimes to see her;
or encourage her to come down. Don't transmit your negative
feelings on the state of the r/ship to her;always try as much
as possible to remain positive. Then, keep watch on how things unfold.
Rmbr to show active interest in her welfare;its reassuring too for her.
If you are low on cash,take advantage of the midnight calls and other
Such facilities.
Blessed evening.

I see you as one who has a large heart and empathy(not sympathy) for
Fellow humans.
What you are feeling is your ex's pain in your heart so to speak;
its not love. She's obviously not in the best of circumstances.
You'd make a very good family head because you
Are accomodating.
Try investing this empathy on your very own r/ship and you'll
Be surprised at the loyalty you'll get in exchange.
Cheers to the lucky woman. Your type are rare.

I wonder o! The rate at which "prophets of doom" are increasing
These days is alarming.
If one is not careful,one may end up with high bp and stroke!!!

In simple terminology,they are testing the practicality or otherwise of
"arrangee" relationships,marriages,etc. Where behaviour shapes emotion.
From our African experience,I can say yes,
you can fake it till you make it if
You try. Those of our forefathers who were in this kind of relationships,
Went on to have children,many of whom we are their grand kids today,
And lived successfully together for many years thereafter.

Why must it be about looks all the time in this generation?!!!!!
No wonder our parents had better deals and love added to the bargain!
If only pple would concentrate less on the same things namely,
The same "beautiful/handsome"eyes,nose,mouth,etc!!!!!!!!!!!
This is not to say looks are bad but they shouldn't override good judgement.
Whatever happened to intrinsic values?!
That r/ship is a disaster waiting to happen! A r/ship based on looks!
The guy has pple fighting for his attn;whereas the lady is drooling
All over him in another corner.
She should forget him and his Morris chestnut appearance.
Give him a few more years and the six-packs will turn to pot-belly!
He's not worth all that stress,otherwise she can go in for the ultimate
Technical knockout bout.
Blessed day.

If she wants to be friends,then by all means,let her be your
Friend. But,make sure you call the shots in the r/ship;for
Instance,set definite boundaries for her,not by words but by
Your actions.Eg on issues like your man,your personal affairs,etc
Eg if she's in your house & its getting close to when your man is coming back,
Politely dismiss her indirectly,etc.
You'll be playing safe, at the same time you have a friend.
Blessed day

And what is your relationship with "Miss Qualifier"?
I hope she's not your gf's friendly enemy?!!
A friend or acquaintance to a drama queen
would be called what?! After all show me your friend,I'll
Tell you who you are!!!
Sour bells-may God deliver us from them!!!

I actually enjoyed the "Love" part of the write-up,
E make sense die!!!!
We need more stimulants like this for our medulla!!!
Thank you jorh jare! Well done.

On the grounds of a human being with inalienable right to
Their own opinion.

Point of correction,its not all ladies that would want to get
All mushy with an ex!
The fact that they don't forget them, because their brains are still
Doing their God-given function of coordinating memory amongst
Other functions, does not in any way say they'll be happy to
Jump into the sack with their ex!!!!!!
In fact,some ladies will not touch their ex with a '000m pole!!!
Esp if he was the horrible type! Talkless of sleeping with him again!!!
Unless he's willing to be decapitated from the rear!!!

@ Mrs Chima,I agree with you 1000%!!!!!!!
Yes,most of the single mums out there,95% of them had their
Babies from some dumb,broke a** who can't afford to get up to
Look for a job.
The only time they get up is when they want to sleep with an
Innocent woman to mess up her life!!!!

Its like saying:" people are involved in road accidents in their cars,
Is it still advisable to buy a car?!"
The fact that there are many single mothers out there is not an
Indicator of the fact that they couldn't get mates! Some are separated,
Divorced,etc meaning they had mates previously.
A lot of issues give rise to break-up in a relationship;most times very
Complicated issues.
Most single women later marry;most single mothers too later marry or re-marry.
This does not in any way call for polygamy because quite a few that I
Have personally come across;beautiful,elegant single mothers with
marriage proposals flying
At them,say they do not wish to re-marry!!!!
Life is not usually a one-way road!!!

You need a chaperone from now-could be a friend,a sister,
A brother,etc. This will help to strenghten your resolve,
Never be alone in a tight corner together with the lady.
For high libido,focus/think less on intimacy related matters.
Blessed evening

Because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
When the guy goes,a lot of issues, that assumed dismally
Large proportions appears insignificant over time.
The lady begins to think:"this guy wasn't so bad after all"!.

yes,the hepatitis B Antigen is secreted from infected liver cells
During the acute stage of the disease.
Chronic hepatitis B and C can lead to cirrhosis of the Liver
And Liver cancer.
The earlier treatment is administered,the better.

IMHO,that lady is yet to get over the guy in her subconcious
And is only acting up to make the guy look guilty or feel bad somehow.
Tell me,if this is not the case.
Fine,you borrowed money & on the basis of that you want to
Repay your loan.
Now on what basis are you giving back all other money,when the
Guy in question never asked for total refund of money he didn't loan you?!
I feel its a cheap way to draw attention to oneself.
If I were the guy,I'll reject everything plus the loan refund,afterall
Money gets lost sometimes,maybe falls out of a pocket,pickpocket,etc
I'll regard it as one of those.
While she's at repaying both asked and unasked,she shouldn't forget
To refund all the hours out of his time on earth which the guy spent on her!!!!!
Blessed day

I wonder o!!

Those who are behind the heartless and unrelenting activities
Aimed at robbing innocent pensioners of their years of toil and sweat;
Some even die in a bid to claim their entitlements.
They will have to answer to their posterity;
for their sins will be visited on them.
Their bread will turn to gravel in their mouth and their water
To blood.

Too much of everything is bad,True.
To the making of many books there will be no end, and too much
Devotion to books is wearisome to the flesh True.
On the other hand,are we supposed to stop attending school because some of our
Teachers definitely failed a few exams in their time? False
Getting advice from experienced people who have been in a
Similar situation is a course of wisdom because we are able
To learn firsthand from someone who has been there and avoid
That same mistake for ourselves.
What use is there in making the same mistake over and over again?
That is why we have literature review in thesis,where you have
Opportunity to go over what others have done,correlate with your work,identify
Their mistakes and pitfalls and avoid them as much as possible,from then on
Till the end its the student's work.
Blessed day.

"From the beginning",before the time of Luke,there were other
Inspired writings namely the
Hebrew scriptures,Genesis to Malachi,these would obviously be referred
To by Luke and other contemporary writers in the past tense.
Luke was an eyewitness and penned down all he saw in his account to Theophilus.

Best advice I got;Shine your eyes!

@ Serpentine,I gbadun your reply
I also believe the guy can also try to find out if monetary
Issues are involved.
What I mean is that you need money to
Buy recharge cards and if the girl in question isn't working
Then pray,where will the money come from for the cards?
I noticed he didn't say the girl disturbs him for money.
Op try sending her cards sometimes since you know she's not working.
Then watch if the situation improves or not.
Blessed day.

She's the over-religious type,
This type can make the husband (not boyfriend o)say a catechism
over punny before he enters!!!!
And you must fulfill your other "Biblical"responsibilities as a man!!
Better tie your belt well!!
She likes you! If she doesn't like you,she won't complain about your SMSs.
As for you,stop those your text msgs! Why robbing Peter to pay Paul?
This is a new r/ship,stop bringing the past into your future!
There's no future in the past!!!!!!
What you do to stop being "call center agent" as you put it is,
Focus more on helping others than on yourself.
When you are busy helping others out,you won't have time to
be thinking about who you should call. Also,call like 3 out of the 7 days.
You have people around;parents,brothers,sisters,try to keep in touch
and be busy for them if you don't know where to get busy.
This advice should not serve as a caveat emptor to keeping your eyes open.
Blessed day.