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*opens thread, *reads thread, ......... ........ *scratches head with a hoe thinking deeply why a woman would take her husband to a strip club for his birthday. ....... ....... *unable to find a logical reason that would completely help bond the couple together without causing any strains to the marriage, makes a mental note to return to thread and view the various schools of thought hoping to find one that would prompt him into deeper introspection... |
why would a man send a lady a picture of his car via chat - is he being interviewed? Are you trying to tell me that for he to become the lady's friend and possibly woo her he must answer some JAMB questions with images attached? I shall assume an assumption that the guy was only after the lady to have sexual relations with her in the long run, hence she, in a bid to promptly ascertain his power of influence or financial prowess (to guarantee her comfort), desired to size him up by measuring his overall aptitude for success by consulting the rendered digital imagery of a liability he uses for self transportation. A most foolish thing to do, for a man's wealth does not consist in the physical things he possesses. Women were not created to suffer, I'd give you that (there was a reason Eve was placed in the garden, surrounded by food and other fascinating things whilst Adam worked), but a lady refusing to forge bonds with a man because of the nature and physicality of his tenacious struggle to succeed in the pursuit of his purpose or goals is a woman who is denying herself the beauty of the reality of the order of life and its phases; the pleasure of growth (inception, conception and increase) There is no way in all of the 3 heavens I would even send a lady a pic of my car or tell how how much I earn, if she must size me up before accepting to be my friend then I am not unhappy to deduce that I am not the one with the problem. He should delete her number with a speed that would dwarf that of light. Her kind are those who give womanhood a bad name, then would come back to this forum and create a new thread "why do guys like sex so much?" |
Every man or woman old enough to have sex should be very well competent to atone for their sins and errors. So, let everyone do what they believe is right in their own eyes, and patiently await the consequence of their actions. To continue to chant and rant that virginity is sacred may no longer have any impact on some, as some people have to always learn the hard way, for them, a most painful experience is their best teacher. And for those who believe that "to err is human and to forgive divine," let me warn you that although God forgives and forgets our wrongdoing, the devil does not. And when given the window of opportunity he will make sure that those who engage in the pleasures of sin for a moment will suffer the consequences for as long as the chains that bind him and his evil machinations can stretch. A word is enough for the wise, two for the foolish, three (rest in peace) for the damned! |
The man is the problem. Its that simple. A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard. Only an animal would beat up his wife. If he loved the mistress so much why not marry her? I have always said as well that "women may be the source of all the problems of the world, but it is we men that are the problems of the world". Do your research, any woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman. We men are the architects of the misfortune that is come upon this world. If we all can act mature for just 5 hours every day I am sure the world will be a much better place. Imagine if every father was always at home (and not outside chasing another man's daughter in a bid to treat his male organ to a temporary, sensual venture only possible by the laws of oscillatory motion and lubrication found in physics) raising their daughters well to feel and know they are princesses and their sons to always cherish, respect women and treat them like queens, imagine how our society will evolve morally in a few years... But no, all we have are children who think they are men (because they have large male copulatory organs or academic titles {MD, Phd, Msc, Bsc, MON, HIV,} ) and the world belongs to them living in sheer stupidity, fathering sons and daughters who will obviously out-do their own calculated acts of foolishness. As men, the future of this world, this eternity, though spotless like a virgin awaiting her first sign of bleeding, is very much in our own hands. |
lol! omoshiroye so dana!!! |
The spirit beings mentioned in Job chapter 1, are immortal, eternal and blessed with a life span that cannot be corrupted by anything in this eternity (except that which they deliberately inflict on themselves). As a result of their immortality, they need no heirs or no descendants to further their existence. But for we spirits blessed with an organic construct which we use to interact with our physical surroundings, this is not so. Our construct (bodies) are corrupted, hence we cannot live in them forever. Hence, in order to preserve our existence, we "beget" offspring. Now to "beget" means "to bring forth someone who will take our place in eternity"; as a result, our bloodline, like the spirit beings that exist outside time, becomes immortal as well. We give birth to children for many reasons one of which is to "beget" or have them take up our place in the course of time when we transcend the very limitations of our corrupted, adamic bodies. I personally see it as a grave misdeed for someone to have a child and then because of his makeup abandon or terminate the child's existence. After all, we do not choose how we come into the earth, or who will sire us. This child has a purpose on this earth, hence, he would not have manifested in a body that once activated by his life source, begins a precedented descent into maturity and mortality. If it were I I shall take care of him and be the father he so desires (except I am immature and lack understanding of the course of life itself. After all, if I were born in such a state, what would I have my parents do? The answer is as good as cold water flowing down the throat of a thirsty soul in the heat of a lazy, frustrated afternoon. |
Shakespeare once said "there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so," [- No Fear Shakespeare: Hamlet: Act 2, Scene 2, Page 11] I guess I can apply such a school of thought to this question. As for the lady who refused to share a bike with two men, I guess her reasons, like her shadow, are her own and are not open to ridicule or any of such. As adults we must always respect the feelings, ideas and ideals of others unless they tend to offend and threaten the coexisting welfare of the majority. Back in the day when Deeper Life was still the same (and we guys were condemned to hell for wearing jeans, watching television and talking to girls), my mother never boarded a bike. Why? The reason amused me at the time; a woman who boarded a bike might make the male okada rider sin by the contact of her boobs on his back, prompting him to begin to imagine thoughts that would corrupt the normal process of his mind, corrupting his righteous stance in the presence of YHVH (who because of convenience we call YAHWEH). Viz-a-viz, deeper-lifers in the late 90's (when okada was still learning to walk in lagos) had the preference of not entering okada as women or refusing to carry women if they (men) were the owners of the okada. As a result my mother would trek great distances where there was no bus available (and our driver, just in from mental surgery, was still recovering from her verbally inflicted bullet wounds). She suffered a lot, but believed she would rather not make a man sin by denying herself some comfort. You should have seen the look on my face two world cups later when she said she would be taking a bike to get to her destination in one of the eastern states as they had no other means of transport in the area. I dared not voice my thoughts (even in the vastness of my own imagination where I so often carelessly play god) else I might have over-died at the time, unable to re-spawn like most Death-Match Tournament Games. So my dear, there's no big deal, I guess it depends on the person and their overall orientation about Life. Or else how would you explain someone telling me I couldn't get born again because I was wearing Jeans that was worn by the Cowboys of the then Wild West and thus, because I am now possessed by the demon spirit of those Cowboys, I can never ever attain salvation in a denim wear? The first reaction that comes to your mind, prompting an equal, proportional, physical expression in body language as you attempt to imagine this, is healthy, sincere and nothing short of what I felt two decades ago and counting. |
Shakespeare once said "there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so," [- No Fear Shakespeare: Hamlet: Act 2, Scene 2, Page 11] I guess I can apply such a school of thought to this question. As for the lady who refused to share a bike with two men, I guess her reasons, like her shadow, are her own and are not open to ridicule or any of such. As adults we must always respect the feelings, ideas and ideals of others unless they tend to offend and threaten the coexisting welfare of the majority. Back in the day when Deeper Life was still the same (and we guys were condemned to hell for wearing jeans, watching television and talking to girls), my mother never boarded a bike. Why? The reason amused me at the time; a woman who boarded a bike might make the male okada rider sin by the contact of her boobs on his back, prompting him to begin to imagine thoughts that would corrupt the normal process of his mind, corrupting his righteous stance in the presence of YHVH (who because of convenience we call YAHWEH). Viz-a-viz, deeper-lifers in the late 90's (when okada was still learning to walk in lagos) had the preference of not entering okada as women or refusing to carry women if they (men) were the owners of the okada. As a result my mother would trek great distances where there was no bus available (and our driver, just in from mental surgery, was still recovering from her verbally inflicted bullet wounds). She suffered a lot, but believed she would rather not make a man sin by denying herself some comfort. You should have seen the look on my face two world cups later when she said she would be taking a bike to get to her destination in one of the eastern states as they had no other means of transport in the area. I dared not voice my thoughts (even in the vastness of my own imagination where I so often carelessly play god) else I might have over-died at the time, unable to re-spawn like most Death-Match Tournament Games. So my dear, there's no big deal, I guess it depends on the person and their overall orientation about Life. Or else how would you explain someone telling me I couldn't get born again because I was wearing Jeans that was worn by the Cowboys of the then Wild West and thus, because I am now possessed by the demon spirit of those Cowboys, I can never ever attain salvation in a denim wear? The first reaction that comes to your mind, prompting an equal, proportional, physical expression in body language as you attempt to imagine this, is healthy, sincere and nothing short of what I felt two decades ago and counting. |
bigneorapz:If you so desire to self-terminate you don't need to come here and bother us. The action and consequence of such is only a choice away, Awaiting your endorsement... |
How do you know you are in love? Is it because of the emotional torrents you feel in the right side of your brain? I find it very hard to believe someone can be in love with someone they have not met physically and interacted with on a physical real-time plane. Perhaps you are merely infatuated. If that be the case and you come to know this, may i recommend you tread carefully with regards to the issue. But if you insist you are in love, might I also recommend you approach her as a friend first, build up trust and then you can then make your feelings known to her. Hopefully both of you are mature enough to handle the situation, especially if the other is a child that wants all the goodies of adulthood absent the responsibilities. I wish you time and chance on your venture. |
When you fail to plan, When you choose not to see ahead and counter unwanted results with necessary premeditated caution, And you act and engage in a calculated venture of pleasure newly wed to stupidity, And everything goes sideways, You find yourself in a pool of regret, drowning, unable to swim to the shore of an absolution, imagining countless scenarios where you could have been good to reasoning, known better and done what was unseemingly best at the time. All of a sudden, Time travel, impossible as it is, begins to whisper possibilities to your confused mind, Reality slaps you in the face with two choices, murder of the first degree, or parental responsibility that will usher in a faceless shame that will take years to bleach her skin and then, become unknown and unfamiliar with your reputation. Either decision you take (no matter how many eons you masturbate on the possibilities in between) leaves you and your present predicament violated, the anal rectum of your pride and ego unable to come to terms with the suddden sodomy the consequences of your actions has so rendered on you. Through all this, He that inhabiteth eternity (impregnating her, birthing the Space-Time continuum), amused at your plight, watches your humbled state; it entertains Him, because, unknown to you at the time, your girlfriend will later call you to tell you her period only shifted by a few days and she is not pregnant. And through the Eyes that sees all things, knows all things and becomes all things He sees you heaving a sigh of relief heavier than lead, only for you to make the same mistake three fornications later, and this time, with a daughter of a retired General. Man truly is the architect of his own misfortune. And it appears that in every eternity, schooled by our fleshly desires, we graduate to wreck havoc on ourselves and others all in the name of pursuing a momentary gratification of mental stimulation. Interesting... |
Dude are you here to ask for help or are you here to make a statement? |
why? Feelings are often backed by reason, care to tell us? |
It is said that a woman worries about her life, until she gets married to a man. But a man has no worries in his life until he gets married to a woman. Probably this picture does justice to that school of thought. |
If you were given birth to by a man meeting another man and having sex with him, then by all means you are qualified to support gay rights not just in nigeria but everwhere in this eternity. If you were not conceived or birthed by such a union, then you don't qualify to express your acceptance here. The poster above me and others supporting this insane, unnatural abomination won't be alive to do so if both their parents were men and were both depositing their seed in each others fart holes. Its a shame that a country that was born in a bid of the Pentecostals in England escaping the persecution from the then catholic church can now accept such a spiritually insulting, morally degrading and physically improper stance. I have never seen a male goat or dog mating with another goat or dog, But we humans can now do this, simply because sin has reduced us and made us lesser than even dogs. I know sha, that He that sitteth on the circle of the earth doesn't sleep and has witnessed this and judgment will come upon all those who have endorsed and practice this. Because if He doesn't, then God will have to apologize to those who overdied in sodom and gomorrah. |
Rajjah:You should be more discerning to separate the children that think they are men from the men that believe a woman should always be treated as a queen. This way you won't make the foolish mistake of allowing a child to hurt you. A child will always be a child after all. A man will always handle a lady well, even if she is a child, he will always comport himself well and behave in a way that is mature and well-spoken of. So my dear, forget the past (if you have been hurt before), learn the lesson and move forward with your life. Don't forget to always take your dignity with you anywhere you go as well. Feel with your emotions (don't carve them up; they are what makes you a woman {we men cannot easily connect with our emotions because the right side of our brain [or the neurons connecting it with the left side of our brain] is dead, so no biggie}), but think with your head and seek advice from those who know better. And, you did not need to go the extra kilometer to give us an impression that you are not what others paint you out to be, Life your life with your chest (bosom) out and your head high, And if anyone wants to see you differently let them go and hug some livestock. |
boombay:By all means go and make a blood covenant with her. If the covenant backfires or you break it by marrying another lady and you are lucky, you will reap the rewards of your foolishness in your lifetime. If you are not, your descendants will continue to reap it on your behalf. After all, our children take up our place when we die, thus preserving our bloodline (which is eternal, like the immoral lives of angels and other beings), thus the curse will continue to afflict your descendants because the demons will take it up with them. Meanwhile, those who us who are finding it difficult to believe that the OP travelled to France and his blood-seeking covenant girlfriend is in Atlanta, you can replace "France" with "Lagos", "Nigeria" with "Port Harcourt", and "Atlanta" with "Aba" or "Illorin", to get a better idea of what the OP is talking about. |
Hauneg:If you really want to know, go look in the mirror. We are all responsible for the tragedy that has become our economy. Meanwhile naming blames and blaming names won't affect the price of tomatoes in the market. We need to stop pointing fingers at each other but at charts and diagrams that spew ideas that can change our economy positively, that is the way forward. Searching for who is to blame my dear will only get us to the middle of nowhere. |
Madam merlissa, the dude's logic is flawed, based on the fallacy of Argumentum ad Ignorantiam (Appleal to Ignorance) which states that a proposition is true simply on the basis that it has not been proved false or that it is false simply because it has not been proved true. This error in reasoning is often expressed with influential rhetoric i.e. "You can't prove I'm wrong, so I must be right." There are some well brought-up ladies there that have very high morals that can't boast of corruption, they may be few, but they still exist within this our present eternity. Thus, the dude's logic, however accepted by some and probably all, does not affect reality. I would rather people chose the words they trade with online, as they might just be giving some another good reason to fornicate and sell their destiny like Esau did for a loaf of bread and bean soup (which would equate with a TFC takeout). To err is human, To forgive, divine, But to she that desires to live a morally upright life, Her determination will find a way to do so, In time... |
If this is a joke then why is it in the politics section? |
the things some people do just to drive traffic to their blogs and websites enh?!?!? So to know the reason I have to go to your site abi? Interesting... |
jarkbauer:I don't understand the question. Which of these can I deal with? As in, which of these two can I handle? Like seriously?!? Am I supposed to be angry at the vague memories of calculated actions of a woman's past that can never project itself ever again through the vastness of an interrupted eternity that is time? What is past is past, the future, is always spotless. Any male that gets angry over a lady's past escapades is a child that needs to be taught how to embrace and accept reality. As long as she loves me and vows to remain faithful to me. It matters now how many men she has slept with or how many still use the memories of her sexual relations with them to have sex with their hands and use such to redefine their chronic mentally-stricken ego. I shall merely listen to her exploits and smile, being amused at the thought of it all, and if possible, recount an experience I had (which I shall concoct on the spot) in a bid to make her hold her sides in laughter. I am tired of all these dudes saying they can't date a lady because of how many men they have slept with, claiming their genital hole is as wide as an expressway. Believe it or no, someone else will marry them and achieve happiness with those ladies so if you like be the first to cast stones at a lady's past enh, a true lady will never get hit by such cos her past actions can NEVER define her! Yareh Yareh! |
A welcome development. Let's hope the 1GB will be complete and not a 200MB claiming to be 1GB. I dream of the day when 1GB 4G data will be 100 naira, now that will really be awesome! That way I can download a movie in an instant like the way dem australian boiz are doing... We shall get there, and nairaland shall be there to remind us of how far we have come. Rise and rise, until lambs become lions - Russel Crowe (Robin Hood) meanwhile, kudos to my fellow nairalander above me who didn't use the childish "FTC" to quietly showcase to me his mental age. I am happy there are some mature minds in this forum. |
Damikevin:your point pls... |
Dindondin:I couldn't agree more with you my brother. Godwin is a good song, a most perfect combination of good lyrics, tight beats and instrumentation a deep understanding of both singer and producer. But, my first problem is Korede Bello is not a Born Again Christian, or at least he hasn't come out to openly declare so. If he is, then anyone who comes to a church or ministry to render a song is a minister by default, with a sole aim of using his spiritual gifts to openly edify the church and glorify God. He is not just a 'Guest Artiste', he has a mandate to operate and minister the word (through song in his particular case) and this ministration should be done spiritually and with a spiritual undertone. Godwin as a song to me lacks spiritual depth and anointing. But if we assume it does, then Korede Bello MUST LEAVE the MARVIN LABEL owned by Don Jazzy as the Label itself is not Gospel and is not directly interested in winning souls to the Kingdom of God. It is more of a profit seeking organization that seems to entertain and not minister spiritually (which Godwin does - entertain) and make money in the process. A Born Again Godwin Korede Bello unequally yoked together with a Tiwa Savage who uses her body and lyrics to sell sex in a bid to feed herself and attain cheap popularity internationally does not rhyme and sit well spritually. Any mature Christian will attest to this. So, for entertainment and emotional excitement, Godwin is like Gongo aso or Dorobucchi; a smash hit, perfect by musical and international standards, but it is not and should not be mistaken for a spiritual song to be used in the church to minister. If anyone has felt the anointing by listening to the song let them come and state it here. There is a reason why Don Moen, Nathaniel Bassey, Frank Edwards and ifeSinachi's songs are never played in clubs. The reason is simple; the anointing will never be allowed be manifest in such places simply because people simply know the presence of God does things to you and will scatter the atmosphere of sex and vanity that the club so desperately tries to sell. A song like Godwin (anointing lacking, club-stricken and entertainment seeking [which is completely opposite to the enlightenment that comes from the spirit and the word]) should not be played in the church at all and any pastor or church that allows it is in gross error of spiritual principles. Don't get it twisted; the song glorifies God but it wasn't composed with spiritual edification in mind; just for entertainment and profit making. The church should uphold its standards and stop trying to be like the world. It is a shame that most pastors and church leaders do not know this. |
Not everyone falls when hands are laid on them; this doesn't mean they have not contacted the anointing, and Not everyone who has hands laid on them actually feel anything, they are probably just falling anyways. The power of God is beyond falling on the ground. I have read the bible cover to cover several times and I have never seen anywhere where people fell down on the ground when the apostles or others laid their hands on them. The church should stop this attitude like because it is what is giving the OP this strange mindset that he needs deliverance. God deals with us differently, we just need to be sensitive to His leading. I have never fallen when hands have been laid on me, and I have been a Christian for over 20 years. Meanwhile OP a christian can not be possessed by a demonic spirit because God and satan cannot stay in the same place. He or she can only be oppressed by a demonic spirit. So fear not, you are not possessed by a spirit that is yours to submit to spiritually. cheers!!! |
Only a child will be scared of a career woman. A man is a symbol of strength, wisdom and control. With vision and integrity being wielded by him any mature woman will be ready to submit to him. Sorey dakeda dayo! |
katherinna:I couldn't have said it better myself. A truly dumb question to say the least. |
yaskarahyelhope: yaskarahyelhope: yaskarahyelhope:hello good madam yaskarahyelhope. Why don't you enlighten us on what recent event you experienced led you to to adopting this strange mindset? For the life of me I can't make head or tail out of it (since you are implying the possibility that all men are milk drinkers {in a psychological sense}). I am sure we would understand you better if you share it with us. So pls do... |
Nice writeup dude! Your head is there!!! lol! Omoshiroye!!! |
I guess it depends on the size of your bank account and budget. Also on how grand you want the memory of your wedding event to be. |
captainobvious:nice post! as your name implies, it is obvioius you have taken some time to study the feminine psyche! cheers! |

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