ZarZar:

Comfirm what that guy told you? I can't. Because that's his POV.

POV

ZarZar:

Comfirm what that guy told you? I can't. Because that's his POV.

POV

ElsonMorali:


Thumbs up.

Don't give another human being the key to your happiness.

Keep working on yourself. The girls who have disappointed are not worthy of what you've got to offer.

All the best. And don't cross over to the dark side. You won't meet HER there.

thanks bro, yeah i figured....

ElsonMorali:


Lol. People are funny.

Anyway, look at it this way.

Falling in love is a whole lot like falling asleep. When you are awake around 1a.m unable to sleep, the worst thing you can do is to start fretting about How you'd like to sleep and trying to force yourself to sleep. It won't work.

But If you take your mind off it and pick up a book and start reading, sleep comes.

Same thing with love. Take your mind off it. Develop yourself. Learn some new skills, piano, cooking gourmet, lawn tennis, chess etc and see If you won't meet the right person.

Love is what happens when you're not expecting it.

So on point bro.......that is what I am doing now, working on myself physically, psychologically nd emotionally......with what my eyes have seen, I so much want to cross to the dark side but I am fighting the urge.
they just don't want your honesty

Palmwinetapper:
quote her right! She didnt

dude, calm down! I said I realised she wasn't in the "don't break the beat" song.....but somewhere in my mind I "think" she has done a song with phenom before......you get it now?

Sezua:
No she didn't, that song had Phenom, TKO, Lemmon and Eva on it

oh oh, yea my bad........but i think i remember she did one with phenom tho

she did the "don't break the beat" song with phenom

ChristyB:
Side Chick, Side chick everyday, madam oya top your game nau, afterall before you married your husband you were always hot for him, wearing those bum shorts, hair on fleek, nails on fleek, perfume on fleek. after marriage you turn to mama nkechi cos you've got the certificate of life, you no tie wrapper, hair unkept, nails zero, perfume nko zero, you sit at home open all your legs as if na competition to open legs, act the opposite as to when you were not married, your husband will even talk to you, you'll be there forming honey but we're not going out now, only representing when you have an outing.

This man still needs that fire so all he'll do is go look for a geh that's still sexy and hot, babe wey no dey tie wrapper and that's how you'll be there screaming "my husband is cheating on me" my sister you are the one cheating yourself. Bring back your swag, go clubbing with your husband if he's that type, if not follow am go night vigil, you'll see a great change and your husband won't even look out cos he's got whatever he's looking for at home.

If you do all this and you're still hot and your husband has a chick then no vex, dem swear for your husband with woman body.

wagbayi, it is simple really......be that b***h he lusts after, that is for me anyway.....other guys might have diff opinions

MrTeCO:
To be Honest, i masturbate all the time. Every day infact. I started in my SS3 back in 2010 while i was still in the Seminary. Am trying hard to stop cos its making me feel like i don't need any gurl to satisfy my sexual urge. I don't even put much effort to toast a gurl. Once she starts doing shakara to give me the Koko i jeje leave her n do ma tin. I hope i get to stop this soon cos am not rili hapi abt masturbating all the time. Thanks 4 d post though.

exactky bro, like you don't even feel the need to chase girls for long......once attitude start, m off nd it is sad

Girls nd the "I was raped story"..... it is getting old abeg

damn, na mouthshot them give am sha

Guyman02:
You dont really know what you want, free the young man and stop wasting his time. Many ladies like toying around with the emotions of soft men while the hard guys take undue advantage of them and toss them around like coins. Later when your head clear you will come looking for him and he will be finally gone.

Players quickly tell ladies what they want to hear and make them fall in love in one day to the extent of them getting a quickie and one night stand and move on leaving her with emotional crisis; but the gentle, soft and good guys take a long time studying the girl, making long term plans, falling in love and ready to make all the sacrifices to make her happy and then when he finally makes the move he gets the response 'but we are just friends now, I dont think I love him enough to date him' and the sincere guy is left emotionally bruised and this can lead some of them into deciding that ladies hate the truth and he starts learning how to be a player from 'bad' friends who will readily coach him on how to be a player.

this is so me right now....m trying so hard not to go into that path in life, cos I know me, I am very good in anything I develop passion for......my whole thought about most ladies now is that, they don't want the truth

Skillfullulu:
really? I was 23yrs b4 I slept with an opposite sex for the 1st time ever.

ma nigga.....mine was a day after my 23rd birthday

nani667:

na nabs b dis na........paragon with maelstrom

http://countrymeters.info/en/World

you guys should check this out, don't know the authenticity of this though, it is like a clock, u choose the country nd it gives you the stats, reason why i said i can't vouch for the authenticity is that every second it shows people re dying nd babies re born, like it reads every sec

mind u, use chrome or uc web browser not mini if u want to check it out........the stats in d screenshot below re for nigeria as at d time stated in the screenshot

introvertme:


Abraham who is described in the Bible as "the Friend of God", (James 2: 23) was a polygamist, He married Sarah and Hagar, as it is written: "And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian…. and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife." (Genesis 16: 3)

As a matter of fact, God was in favour of Abraham's marrying Hagar. This point is buttressed by the fact that when Hagar attempted to escape from Abraham's house because of her insubordination, God through His angel ordered her to return and submit to Sarah. He said to Hagar: "Return to thy mistress, and submit thyself under her hands... I will multiply thy seed exceedingly, that it shall not be numbered for multitude…”- Genesis 16: 5-12.

Some argue that Abraham was impelled by the circumstance of Sarah's barrenness to marry Hagar. This argument is most untenable. If it was forbidden to marry more than one wife, no circumstance would have forced Abraham - a man known for his exemplary character of faith and obedience - to break the rule.

Jacob who had twelve sons through whom the Jewish Nation emerged, was a confirmed polygamist. He married Leah and Rachel and later had their handmaids, Zilpah and Bilhah. (Genesis 29: 21-35; 30: 1-13; 35: 23-26) All of them had children for him and none of his children was treated as "illegitimate". Out of the tribe of Judah, the son of Leah, Jesus Christ the Righteous who is the Saviour of mankind, came into the world; and St. Paul whom even H. G. Wells acknowledged as “a man of great intellectual vigour", and, whom St. Peter commended for his wisdom, sprang up from the tribe of Benjamin the son of Rachel. - Genesis 29: 31-35; 35: 16-18; Matthew 1: 1, 2; Hebrews 7; 14; Philippians 3: 4, 5; 2 Peter 3: 15, 16.

After the twelve tribes of Israel had been organised into a nation, their customs were brought under the strict guidance of the laws which God enacted through Moses. There were laws against incest, fornication, adultery, prostitution and every form of immorality. But nobody can cite a single instance of a law that prohibited a man from marrying more than one wife.

The ancient worthies enjoyed polygamy in abundance of freedom. Gideon was the husband of many wives and he had 70 children. (Judges 8: 30) Elkanah was a polygamist, and it was one of his wives, Hannah, that was the mother of Samuel the famous prophet. (1 Samuel 1: 1-3, 19-20) What about David, the anointed king of Israel, who was described as "a man after God's heart"? He, too, had many wives, and God was not displeased. (2 Samuel 3: 2-5; 5: 12-16) But the moment David overstepped his bounds and committed adultery with Uriah's wife contrary to the divine law (Exodus 20: 14) God showed His disapproval and anger immediately, and subjected David to discipline and caused the child who was the fruit of their adulterous union to pass away. - 2 Samuel 11: 1-12; 12: 23.

The most striking point in the whole incident, which is very relevant to our argument; is that God Himself indicated through His prophet Nathan, that He gave David WIVES to marry. Nathan told David: "Thus saith the Lord God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul; and I gave thee thy master's (Saul's) house, and THY MASTER'S WIVES into thy bosom...and if that had been too little (not enough), I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things (including wives)."-2 Samuel 12: 7-12.
The point here is, if God did not approve of polygamy, why did He give David his "master's wives" for inheritance?

We cannot do without touching briefly on the issue of King Solomon who was a polygamist to the core. He was the husband of 700 wives and 300 concubines. God was not displeased with him because of his marrying more than one wife. It was when, at his old age, he committed idolatry through the influence of some of his wives who were pagans that he incurred the anger of God. - 1 Kings 11: 1-10.

Anyone who has read the Bible well cannot fail to understand that God's attitude was never in disfavour of polygamy. The practice was legalised, and to this effect God enacted a law to guide the polygamist. As it is written: “If a man has two wives one beloved, and the other hated, and they have had children by him, and the son of the hated be the firstborn; and he meaneth to divide his substance among his sons: he may not make the son of the beloved (wife) the firstborn, and prefer him before the son of the hated (wife): But he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn: and shall give him double portion of all he hath. For this is the first of his children: and to him are due the first birthrights."- Deuteronomy 21:15-17. Douay Version.

you guys won't see this o......cos it is in the old testament. they won't follow the old testament, when God spoke to people but will take the word of Paul as law.....issorait

happy birthday bro, we april 6 are quite special people......reason why we re not that much

princessayesha:

What's wrong with Italian men?

if your libido is high enough......you re good to go

princessayesha:
mek I find one oyibo man marry comot for this contri

lol, God help you jam italian.......na you go run last last

ebonyeyes88:
why won't you hit me back bae??

Oops, sorry.....I have replied you

know it all, by knowing it all....you can almost have or have all....cos you know your way around things

the guy Bleep up sha, call her for small talk nd Bleep her......then she free to go

hell no....my name comes first cos she coming into my home not the other way

Ugosample:


Whatever happened still does not justify this

of course her death ain't justified but she made that decision which brought her to the end

you know how I woulda loved this to go:
she using her best friend to test her man maybe he is faithful nd then the love blossomed...... any girl wey try that kind play with me don blow cos even if i don't date her friend, we re done.....some girls nd trust issues sha

What I believe:
I believe we all have the power to make our own choices, yes there can be external influences but at the end the decision still lies with us.
Everyone knows what is good nd what is bad.......you can always choose a side, but you see no one chooses for you

Ugosample:


Don't mind these uselesa boys here talking rubbish.

Nothing justifies the death of anyone, and from their snide comments, you will know that they have lost all sense of humanity in them
So a young girl cannot go out and have fun again

She is dead, and see the dumb comments

It's very unfortunate

oh right, she couldn't have fun with her friends, maybe her boyfriend but an unidentified person....oh no think again bro

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I remember emphasizing about YOU dating your best friend.....abi you re not different from other girls?

Lilyqueeny:



what exactly do you mean

you mentioned getting married to one's best friend but the excuse you ladies give when your best friend tells you his mind is that you guys re too close to be dating.....

Lilyqueeny:



It's possible my best friend loves someone else

I see you did not get what I meant when I said that

Lilyqueeny:






I'm not an expert so I don't really know the right answer to this question.


I think it's better for someone to marry one's best friend .

would YOU marry your best friend? cos I believe you guys are too close to date now.....right?

eyaaa.....this is why a guy should read the writing on tbe wall. she can't just wake up nd dump a niccur na.....dump her before she dumps you. in other words, don't ever love first, cos once you fall your mumu button don dey her hand be that.....