₦airaland Forum

Corosive:
@ congoshine
If u had ur facts right u wulda knwn that d R.adm is nt servin in Lagos, n he jst came 4 a meetin n there4 d guest house. So stop being shallow mindd talkin about young girls (except if u aint gettin any anyway) lol!

@Corosivebrain,
You are an ignoramus !

His guest house don become naval headquarters,abi?

Abi dem tell you say im family no de Lagos?

You are the shallow dim wited one,you are so f**king gullible. Meeting ko,meeting ni !

The man was there to file a congo & the girl's parent's prayers caught up with him

Lesson for all Aristo officers

still waiting for sistawoman !! ^{*wonder if she still takes it in posteriorly*}

I think the key question is 'What was Admiral Arogundade going to do at the guest house?' , this should teach people like him from filing young girls anyhow

[center]^{*What's this doing in the Romance section?*}   [/center]

Naija for show !!!

MWL,the sad thing about Nigeria is that the thieves won't have to pay for all their evil deeds.
I'm sure they must have stolen all the money from state coffers now !!

OPE oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

There's finally hope for Nigeria.

Lets rally round this great man with prayers,may God be with him !!

Am I the only one thinking 'Wetin Ifeanyi do?'

tashante86:
I have been with my boy friend for 6 years now. During our first year together he cheated on me with one of his best friend ex.
He told me one year after the incident. I never made a big deal about it and I forgave him right there, it took me a while to get it out of my mind but I never brought it up again even after it was killing me.

During our third year together he messed around with my best friend of 9 years despite the fact that I told him she liked him just for it not to reach anywhere. I found out that they were texting each other for some time. He said that they never had sex. I was devastated, I told him that I was going to ask her but he begged me not to. About 2 days later there were rumors going about campus that had sex that she was spreading, he still denied it. He still never wanted me to ask her. My friend even stop speaking to me after. I did not tell my family because I never wanted them to think the worst about our relationship, even though it was killing me,so I spoke to one of my best friend who I dated for some time but, we remained friends after we rested the relationship. While we were talking we slept together, it never happen again. It was the biggest mistake I ever made. I finally told my boyfriend a few months ago. He told me that he hated me and that everything was over. He was going on and on as if he never did anything wrong and like his actions had nothing to do with what happen.   

I blame myself every single day since it happen and can't seem to forgive myself. I should have never let it happen no matter how hurt I was. We are still together as I was going to leave when he told me to. My problem now is there is this new girl since I told him who keeps calling him at all hours even after 10 pm, sometimes she calls several times for the day. When I confronted him he brings up my cheating incident and is making insulting remarks. I will never forget what I did I feel badly about everyday and it hurts me to know that I hurt him.  I really love my boyfriend we have been through a lot. I know the girl and I am tempted to go and ask her why is she calling my boyfriend. I know that I must give him time to get over what happen, but I can't handle another cheating incident, cause if it happen again I will lose it and I don't know what I might happen.

He tells me that they are friends and I don't buy it. She never calls me we know her around the same time. I  have told him every thing about me from day one and I that he uses my past against me. We don't talk some days at all then there are days that we are OK. I have told myself that he may one day leave me for what i did, but I had to be honest about what happen as I would not want us to get married and I have that secret from him. What should I do. I am 23 he is 26. I live away from home so I don't have any family support.

I have serious advice for you,& I'll only tell you one time ;

FACE YOUR STUDIES,AFTER ALL SAID & DONE;IT'LL NEVER FAIL YOU !!

olabowale:
@HUxley: If he entered Islam deceitfully, with the intention that when he leaves it because of his/her prominence, others will leave it. If he maligns Islam in addition, speaking falsehood about it. Yes.

Thing of it, it is better for a person to die, while million lives are preserved, saved as a result. When that person is evil, he should be made a true example of the ending of evil soul!

This is the way moderate human being thing. I know that you are off-the-chart in your thinking. Mr. Monkey, the grand Child of Gorilla! You are not insulted am sure, since this is your belief. I have to, God willing bleed it off of your blood.

You just lost all the respect ,i had for you with this statement.

I sincerely hope,you have reconsidered,if not I certainly cannot continue to exchange views with someone like you !

Gamine:
So she Sues them to Court

Whats the "Investigation" for?

Gamine,
Olofo ni e ni?

Oga naval officer,i appreciate your point of view & I'm sure almost all of us have friends or family directly/indirectly related to NN.

However,what is criminal,should remain criminal.

We are not in a state of war & no matter the provocation,officers & men of the Nigerian Armed forces are expected to conduct themselves in a disciplined manner !

Further comments below.

Heads:
a. The Efficiency of the Nigerian Navy. The Nigerian Navy (NN) is constitutionally tasked, amongst others, to protect Nigeria’s maritime assets and protect her against external aggression. In fairness, the NN has done well in performing its tasks within the resources available to it in our peculiar environment. Whatever lapses you might have observed in the NN are a reflection of the larger Nigerian society. Officers and men of the NN should therefore not be blamed solely for the inefficiencies of the larger society in which they belong and are forced to operate.

Forget all these talk about efficiency ! We all know most of your senior officers are behind oil-bunkering. Who can forget the recent court-marshal of 5 naval admirals?

i have an in-law who is a naval rating; Nairalanders: you won't believe this guys are sent to confront militants w/out ammunition!!!

Slow gunboats etc. The militants deal with them like small children,so please leave efficiency aside. the 'Nigerian factor' is certainly not unlimited to NN

Heads:
b. The Molestation Saga. It is rather unfortunate that the NN’s side to the story is not available for all to make fair judgment. Witnesses at the scene of the incident have corroborated the fact that the lady in question brazenly refused to give way to the Admiral’s convoy and went further to confront the ratings when she was challenged. She later willingly stepped out of her car to assault the ratings to the amazement of passers-by. This part of the scene was mischievously left out of the video footage posted on the net. A closer look at the video however indicates that the girl was only trying to create a spectacle for the admiration of onlookers. After the ratings left her alone, she still went after them and called for more. In the ensuing struggle, the girl deliberately wriggled out of her shirt so as to create the impression that the ratings stripped her naked (you can have a second look at the video). She had the guts to act in that manner because she knew that as a lady she would get the kind of public sympathy she is presently enjoying. Even a man wouldn’t attempt what she did. Anyone who has the guts to assault armed military/police men needs to have his/her head examined. Ask yourself how you would have behaved in her situation. My guess is that you certainly would have allowed the “mad men” have their way. Even in the so called civilized societies, you cannot assault an officer of the law and go scot-free. All what the ratings applied on her, in military parlance, was “minimum force”.

What are you saying? So,if she had a gun,she should have shot them or what? If it was Ateke Tom that blocked their way,no be beg them for beg?
Almost half a dozen men on one woman,imagine it was your wife that her underwear was exposed like that,will you be telling us this nonsense?

Heads:
c. The Admiral. I really empathize with my Admiral. This is a man widely known in social and official circles as a gentleman of honour and integrity. This incidence has no doubt tainted his name. I am however convinced that he would be able to defend himself and his men as is expected of any gentleman officer. I urge you all not to judge him by this singular incident. The Admiral is a man you would love to meet and associate with.

Altho' I can't comment on Admiral Aro's naval career,he should be used as a good example for others like him. In developed countries you become an admiral when you have proven yourself in war or related exercises,but in Nigeria. . .  .story.

Lesson: Caution your boys,this is a civilian admnistration,if you want preference on the highways,drop your uniform and contest the presidency  !

Heads:
d. The Lady. I equally sympathize with her. I wish to advice her with a popular saying; “discretion is the better part of valor”. I wish her quick recovery.

This singular incident should not be used to judge the Nigerian Navy. The NN is very conscious of her public perception and would not do anything to damage her reputation. My kudos to all of you on this thread for crying out. We all need to be more objective.

I don't know how old you are,but the lady could be you younger sister,girlfriend or wife; so she deserves all the support she can get !

We are all rational people ,who have seen it before; a friend's mother was killed by this same naval people in similar circumstances in Abuja,so i know how it feels.

I'm really concerned because it could be anybody.


In conclusion: This culture of impunity MUST stop !!!

kool kid:
everyone is just postin replies without thinkin straight
d lady in question was on d wrong side of d road and she assaulted d rating n tore his uniform
even d navy has it in recaords that she apologised2 d rear admiral and her father also did
we r so gullible n don't investigate matters before we barge into issues
Rear Admiral Arogundade is a good man n d Navy don't cause trouble
She must av crossed her boundry even before actions were taken

Kolo kid,
You are one of the silliest ignoramuses to ever post here !
Look at your head? Are u a woman at all?? Imagine if u were d one that got your shirt stripped and ur durty black bra exposed o a hot monday morning in the full glare of lagosians?

How dare you?

If she broke the law,the proper thig is for her to be charged to court not brutalized !!

Are you okay at all? she's a human being not a goat, remember?

the latest :

the girl's father is a retired soja too:

http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art20081107184896

[color=Black][center]MY GOOD GOD !!![/center][/color]


THIS IS AN EYE-SORE !! HOW CAN ??

IS THIS A LAWLESS COUNTRY??

ALL THOSE CONCERNED SHOULD GO TO JAIL !
Thank God for camera phone and internet !

These fools can't fight Niger Delta militants,but can brutalise women,abi?

The Admiral pot-belly must face the music too,admiral without ship,I'm so angry !!!

I understand the feeling . . . . . . .

olabowale:
@Congoshine: « #39 on: Yesterday at 09:54:29 PM »
The Sunnah of all prophets, including that of the last (AS Jamiah), is that the pubic hairs, including that of the armpit be lean, always. For men, the facial hair, beard is to be lesft alone, in the same sunnah of all the prophets. You do know that all the prophets were men, and none was without beard, right?

Thanks for taking time to clarify. Tho' the object of keeping the hair long shouldn't necessary be for 'her feminine quality' as its haram for her to expose her hair.

olabowale:
@mybad:
Women are not supposed to cut their hair, you know.

Please which hair,are u referring to? Thanks.

ferdiii:
May be Alison dey shine Kongo or/and she dey arrange them for some politicians and her name no fit show for that list.

You can say that again . . . . . . . . . . . _{I should know considering my ID}

Daggash is close to OBJ & was probably funneling info to baba !

What took baba go-slow so long?

I can't see Deziani Allison-Madueke's(Transport) name on the list?

_{Lets wait & see. . . . . . . . . . No further comments pls}

zayhal:
Don't mind both of them. Their trick is old.

mybad:
@congoshine
Why not go ahead and tell us what you'll prefer or how much you'll want to see in your woman?

I think above all peace. . . . . . . . . . . .

mybad:
@Nimshi & congoshine
Don't tell me you two are congratulating each other over sharing thesame opinion on this topic.

Hmmmmm . . . . . .

mybad:
@olabowale
I agree that all the quoted Hadith are of the Noble prophet.
I however disagree that all of them can be entirely adhered to.
These are the teachings of the most perfect of Allah's creatures and i wonder who can ever match his ways.

Perfection can be aimed at but i don't think it can be attained by "us".
Besides,i wonder how many of us followed the afore mentioned rules while choosing his bride.
I don't know how you did it in your time but i still stand a good chance of going by the sunnah in my time because i've not taken my bride.

Well said . . . . . .

Nimshi:
Well done!
.

thank you

This is really enlightening.
But to be candid,the suitor need not see the bride- to-be's hairs,hands ,legs etc. This can be done by his sister or mother.

All he needs is the face and getting to know her character which is poosible without unveiling. Although that will be very difficult for me. . . . . . . but we're all different !