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Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

constancefriday:
"Many Christians (Church Goers) are actually brainwashed Zombies"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani

Take note; Christians and Real Christians are not one and the same.

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constancefriday:
News - "Apostle Constance C. Friday responds to critics who call him a "casual gospel minister"

Being friendly and jovial has it's downsides. The moment I undisplay my Friday face, even for a few split seconds, Folks begin to think or say I'm too harsh or to strict, so I try to wear my Friday face everyday, everytime.

Ask my students, when I tell them with even with my Friday looks that I'll score them ZERO if they don't take schoolwork serious, they know I MEAN IT!

I talk about very serious things both when I preach and when I discuss sociopolitical issues. Some of the folks who my critical talks don't favour try very much to portray me as an unserious person to the public so that some folks would find it hard to believe that the things I say are both serious and true.


Many Folks don't know what it means to have a Monday mind hidden within a Friday face, that's why, i'm not trying to appear "over serious" but dear friends try to take some of the things I teach about or talk about quite seriously.
I'm not a casual minister of God, just take this as a reliable piece of information reaching you just in time to keep you out of harms way.
Thanks.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani
(Lead Pastor/Presiding Bishop of RLGC)

"Talk about serious things and critical issues but do so with a smile on your face"

constancefriday:
News
"I won't lower my standards to please my haters."

I won't turn into a demon to please demons, he says...
Many attempts to water down my ribena (as they'd often say around here) or outrightly pour sand in my cereal, are deliberate attempts to force me to lower my standards. I won't budge, I won't tilt, I remain unmoved, unfazed and unequivocal about my stance.

Those who're asking me to change my ministerial title to Pastor or Reverend or they'll never call me for big program...I won't change my ministerial title.

My ministerial title remains "Apostle"
Apostle means "Angel" I won't turn into a demon to please demons.
If you like deliberately refuse to call me, and rub it in by making sure I notice that you refused to call me....I won't lower my standards to bow to you instead of God.
I wish to unsay the good evening I said to you officially, I stooped beneath my level to tell you "good evening" by the way.

I won't change my ministerial title, my title is Apostle, I no dey change am...

You call me you no call me, I'm above sea level...

constancefriday:
News - "I know I'm a controversial person"
I may be an a s s h o l e to some of you but I'm not a bad ass. I don't give a f u c k if you believe me or not.

"People who can't control you always have bad names to call you"

I believe in the philosophy of being the driver of my fate and destiny...I mean allow God to drive my fate and destiny.

I'm an a s s h o l e but I have a GOD who loves me.

I'm blessed, much love.
If you don't accept much love from me, enjoy the opposite.

Cheers!

constancefriday:
"Some Folks say I'm too careful because I'm afraid of death or dying. Well, I'm not afraid of death, there's something worse than death that most people allow to exist in their lives due to the fear of dying. In a shared post from Peggy Calahan (an English Philosopher) I talk about that exact thing that's worse than death or dying"
Click here to read it - https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02mkscaQ3V1nLJyTG5S7y6rvZitHiAqugAC97Gv9ryA4wkH46uVVpUQCywjqog2v5ql&id=100045266976796

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani

constancefriday:
"I'm not saying our stories are exactly the same but the story of the present Oniba of Iba is quite relatable"
Oba Sulamon is one of the youngest Kings in Yorubaland. In fact he's the youngest King in Yorubaland.
Wow! What a majestic legacy.

constancefriday:
5 Quotes about the TOP from Constance C. Friday:
If you hate being successful only for a while and then falling off like a one season sensation, here are 5 quotes from the legendary Constance C. Friday for you to always keep in mind.

1. "When you reach the TOP, don't stop. Keep climbing up"

2. "Don't let the fear of falling stop you from climbing up"

3. "The battle to stay on top is harder and tougher than the battle to climb up" - many people don't know this.

4. "Right living guarantees a bright future"

5. "The least of GOD is always greater and better than the best of Man"
- Always involve God in the climbing up matters.

Cheers! Remain Blessed!
I know religion and philosophy don't really mix but we can give it a try.

constancefriday:
The Three voices within:
There are 3 voices that we hear speak consistently within us, all the time, every time.
I call them the 3 voices within.
They are the voices within that contends for the steering wheel of you life, and your destiny.

The Bible says in Proverbs 4:23, that we should "guard our heart with all due diligence, for out of it flows the issues of life". This means; we should allow the right voice to drive the steering wheel of your life and your destiny in the right direction.
The three voices are the voices of
(1.) The Devil
(2.) GOD and
(3.) Yourself

(1.) The Devil's voice: is characterised by noise, it always suggests that you do the things that don't please God and it always provides a rational basis for getting them done, but in the end it's only a decoy to destruction.
In Genesis 3:1-5, the voice of Satan told Eve that "God knows that if man ate the fruit her eyes would be open and she'll be like God, and know both good and evil"
That was the rationale that was presented as a basis for disobedience to God but in the end it causes destruction.
One of the biggest causes of destruction is the rationalisation of the disobedience of God's words or commands.
If you can learn to say "Devil get thee behind me more often, you won't fall victim of his wicked voice" Read James 5:7

(2.) Your own voice: The sound of your own self trying to choose between good and evil all the time is so loud that sometimes you wonder if God is the one talking while it's actually yourself.
Your own wisdom, knowledge and understanding means that you could at all times choose to do good by your own self instead of evil but it's nothing compared to submission to the will of God.
Yes, man can choose to do all the good he can think of, yet God isn't seen as part of the decision.
Choosing to do good by yourself without involving God can get you far, but it cannot get you very far.
The word of God calls this leaning towards your own understanding or philosophy, instead of trusting in God.
Read Proverbs 3:5

3. The voice of God: this is the voice of the Holy Spirit. The voice that always asks you to do all that you do according to the scriptures.
It's not often the loudest voice in your inside, but if you study God's word consistently until it's now part of you, it becomes easier to hear God's voice more clearly.
The consistent study of God's word on a daily and regular basis "fine tunes" your spiritual antenna and enables you hear God's voice much much more clearly. It also helps you to distinguish between God's voice and your own voice very easily and most important of all, it makes you know precisely when the devil is speaking to you.
The consistent study of the word of God fills up your spirit with the grace of God and the Holy Spirit.
Perfection cannot be found anywhere else except within the framework of submission to the leadership of the Holy Spirit within you.
That is the effect of heeding the words of the voice of God.
The voice of God will never go against anything in the scriptures. It will always tell you that the grace to do all that God has commanded is abundant and available for you.
Dear Friend, heed to the voice of God today.
Read Proverbs 14:12,
2 Corinthians 12:9

Gospel Article Written By:
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani
(Lead Pastor/General Overseer of RLGC).

constancefriday:
"HAPPINESS is the climax of JOY.
Without being JOYFUL, you can't be HAPPY"
- Apostle (Dr.) Constance C. Friday Ani

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Nehemiah 8:10

constancefriday:
"The Teachings of Daddy Freeze make about 90% Sense"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani

Two press statements within the last 48 hours have really got my attention

1. Daddy Freeze's statement about giving, which follows up most of his previous teachings without inconsistencies.

2. Pastor Tunde Bakare's statement about getting NO VOTES for keeping it real.

Both statements are very interesting (and very correct.)

Is it better to wear a sheep's clothing and bleat "baaa" like a sheep when you're actually A WOLF?

Isn't it better to say, look I'm a Wolf, I don't have to start bleating like a sheep to deceive you? I'd really fall in love with you if you're sincere and honest. I've been bitten in the arse a lot by Sheep whose teeth's are as painful as that of a Wolf. It got me confused wondering, Was that a Sheep or a Wolf? Because these teeth marks are those of a Wolf but the person who bit me is a Sheep ??

Daddy Freeze is very correct, I'll score him 90/100 for all his teachings and statements.

That's a distinction by my ratings with a teacher's red pen.

You now need to find out what the 10% are that got an X from my red pen.

But let me not lie to you while trying to please or actually lead anyone up the garden, Daddy Freeze is over 90% correct √

constancefriday:
Apostle Constance C. Friday shows off his Gospel DJ Skills during the anniversary podcast of his Gospel Magazine Show.
- click here to view -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Ce_jWWPlQ4

constancefriday:
Apostle Constance C. Friday parts ways with ASMILA & Co.
He now officially operates independently.
According to him (while addressing the general public yesterday), the inconveniences of working with the so called dumb ASMILA crew and all their gangs were way much much more than all the benefits they initially presented in the first instance to lure me into joining them.
In fact in life, it's best to do whatever you can do independently independently, too many cooks ruin the meal.
I have the best recipes for what I do and I don't want any set of individuals to always come and mess my game up all in the name of the group nonsense.
Being part of a crummy or dumb group like ASMILA can slow down your strategic speed!
I know that teamwork makes the dream work but not when you're in the wrong team or with the wrong group.
I'm officially out of ASMILA, pls cease to regard me as a part of anything connected to them in your minds.
Thanks!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani.
( Bishop/Lead Pastor of RLGC).

Q: What will it profit a smart guy to be a part of a dumb group that makes him look dumb??

A: Nothing, leave that dumb group!

constancefriday:
Re: Nigerians in extreme hardship few months to 2023 elections.

#News "If I can specifically point out the political party/parties responsible for the present hardships Nigerians are facing, I'll makes sure no Nigerian votes for them"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani.

Fuel price hike, hardships, inflation etc are all caused by "Politicians" and their political campaigns.
What kind of funding for politics will put Nigerians in hardships and pains like this? If they do this before they get into power, will they do any better when they get into power?

Dear Nigerians, please vote with your eyes open come 2023.

Remain Blessed!