rockstarB:
This is true, but we are hypocrite!
How many men will genuinely date a lady without asking for sex?
Men feels entitled to a woman's body, especially if you happen to be their girlfriend. It wont be hard hearing words like "you're punishing me" "you dont love me" how am I punishing you oga?
Worse off for a lady that has been involved with a guy before, men feel ladies like this do not have a right over their bodies anymore. It doesnt matter to them whether she wants to really get it right this time.

People talk about sexual compatibility, "what if we are not compatible", how many ladies or men will you sleep with before you find the sexually compatible one? What if he is sexually compatible but stingy? Emotionally manipulative, a beater and so on. Will you settle for someone like that has long as "sexually compatible"
Will you even be in your right mind to have sex with a sexually compatible patner that treats you like trash.

Sometimes we need to do a self evaluation, think about all the guys and ladies you have had sex with. Especially men, think about the ladies you intentionally lured to bed in the name of marriage, girls you broke their heart by getting them to be yours through sex; what has it profited you? Okay maybe a little boost of self esteem, but at the detriment of someone's emotional wellbeing. You can do better guys.

I am of the opinion that men and women that are genuinely looking out for partners to get married to do not put sex first, because they are aware that sex doesnt keep a marriage. It takes more than that. With all the premarital sex and sexual compatibility going on, see the rate of divorce all over the world.

Lastly, peoples view about marriage are different, there are men and women that do no want to get married, should they deny themselves sex because of this?
Abstinence is for our own good as long as both patner comes out clean, no lies.

Even if we are hypocrites, the truth still remains the truth. Our hypocrisy doesn't change the truth.

If you want a man that will truly date you without sex, you too should be ready to date him without having your eyes on his money. You too shouldn't think he should be giving you money because he happens to be dating you. If you settle that, then you have done your part.

Ladycewhy:
and did i tell you I came here or opened this account to look for man or impress anyone? . . You all want gender war on this forum and I fought one war today ,that is my acheivement

Imagine. So abusing people's ancestors is an achievement to you? Like the other guy said, you haven't recovered from whatever turned you to what you have become

Ji

AhoadaRivers:


Mr yoruba, not every other tribe in every part of the world have town union. 2 or 3 yorubas visiting Indonesia or Cambodia at different times within a year cannot initiate a viable ethnic/town union.

I did my first PhD outside Nigeria and I am definitely far well travelled than you are. Take it or leave it.

And is Yoruba the only other tribe aside from your tribe in other parts of the world?

AhoadaRivers:
The only tribe that dominate popoulously in their lands, second most populated outside their homelands after the indigenes in states within Nigeria and scattered in every nook and cranny of the world are the Igbos.
They have town union and ethnic union associations in every country and continent in the world.
It is just impossible to downplay their huge population.

Every other tribe in every other part of the world has town union and ethnic union. There is nothing special about having ethnic union in a foreign country

J111333:
It has since been reversed at the last meeting of Bachelors Association of Nigeria. The decision unanimously reached at the meeting was NO MARRIAGE BEFORE SEX.

However, I want to remind you that our brothers at Deeper Life church, MFM, and other related churches are not members of the association so the decision at that meeting is not in any way binding on them.

No sex before marriage is not a matter of church; it is a matter of what the scriptures say.

BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Oga, stop covering up sin. Sex before marriage is fornication and the Bible condemned fornication.

Xzellentgraphic:
Come 2023....SW Presidency or we dissolve Nigeria.....until we reduce the influence of Northerners in Nigeria governmental system, Nigeria will not move forward....

When you threw your weight behind illiterate Buhari in 2015 to spite Jonathan, you never knew your decision would come back to haunt you, right?

You thought the north would hand over power to southwest, not knowing that the north was just using you to get power.

Now, the chicken has come home to roost. If they don't give you southwest President, you will do nothing. If you try to cecede, they will give you the Biafra treatment.

That's when you will realize how much the igbos hate the Yorubas. The igbos will not mind joining forces with the north to deal the Yorubas a deadly blow.

Seetto:
We pray so, whether he is telling lies or saying the truth, this is what we are praying for, since discos license have expired after the ogogoro master sign a contract putting the federal government at a difficult edge to take discos back from the portfolio political briefcase business men, the federal government have right to take important decision on issues regarding electricity generation and distribution..

Did they not peomise you more than this in 2015? How many of those promises have been fulfilled?

oglalasioux:
Same girl has numerous guys in her life. But I give her a thumbs up. She meted out her anger on the perpetrator and not on her friend.

And she will be sued for what she has done and made to repair the damage. It's a loss loss for her at the end of the day

kingjoe:
Please how much is Camry 2010 windscreen. Oga mechanic how much.how much for fixing. I think it's high time we get a relationship court to handle these issues.its becoming rampant. What if it is not true? Just what if. I am not supporting cheating but this is similar to mob attack.there should be fair hearing for all accusations.there should be a relationship court specifically to handle these issues.also laws on relationship should be in place. Such as what are my rights as bf/gf. Fiancee/fiance.what are my limits.expectations.etc.

The guy should sue her and get her to repair what she damaged. It's as simple as that.

Ladycewhy:
and did i tell you I came here or opened this account to look for man or impress anyone? . . You all want gender war on this forum and I fought one war today ,that is my acheivement

"You all want gender war".

Where is that coming from? Have you discussed with all the men and women on this forum before you made that general statement?

I hope you know that hasty generalization is a sign of mental dumbness and outright stupidity.

Ladycewhy:
yen yen yen, I am sure you didn't notice the insult in your comment or you choose to be stupid too? ,come una dey mad? How can you insult me first and be claiming victim , thunder fire you this night ,what rubbish!

So, what have you achieved with the uncouth way you have been conducting yourself all along? Bitterness makes the most beautiful of women look ugly

Ladycewhy:
oh shut up there, have you finished talking to your brothers that are rearing terrorists in the name of almajiris? Have you finished talking to your brothers stealing babies in the hospital from their mothers for ritual?


But you are more concerned about a matter that doesn't concern you. Nigeria has the largest number of out of school children, children are being used in the north to fight a senseless war ,but here you are concerned about my children ,this load wey you carry so go break your neck.

The way you just cuss any how really says a lot about you and your background.

This one that Kano starts featuring repeatedly in COVID and sudden death, I hope it isn't a plot to also attract foreign aids to the north?

anigbajumo:



Lol,from ur own view the ONSA and Ministry of defense is doing a great job abi....lol, being powerful is not his fault but the vacuum the president u voted for allowed him to fill,hope u knw his office is not recognize in Nigerian constitution,he is just a worker of the president, blame the president that gives him such power not him.

You clearly didn't read my comment well

Choski78:
Kyari is a good man till death, he help revamped Nigeria economy, and just signed a contact to improve our power sector, he is true Nigerian. He was not currupt as percived in some sector but only tried to shield that old man from the likes of budillion not to pocket naija as the have done to there state

Where is your evidence?

anigbajumo:


Same here,I even read it from journalist that it is rare to see people of his class that doesn't bother about rumor or anything they said about them,same with Alex Ekwueme he barely talk wen he was in power but doesn't mean he is not dedicated to his work.Both of them av that distinct personality.

So dedication to work made him take up the role of minister of power and attend a meeting that shouldn't concern him?
Is that also why he encroached into defence ministry and ONSA?

Bighead9:
Fine Guy. I too like this Man.


R.I.P my mentor.

You better be careful who you choose as your mentor so that you don't end up power hungry like him.

Stalwert:
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Corruptionist? if you have a modicum of common sense, send it to them to act upon, send it to Code of Conduct, send it to EFCC but to use the video as a basis for Immigration not to sanction erring staff is promoting corruption you pretend to abhor. Like I said you are not helping them by creating outrage over a behaviour immigration deems to fall short of their code of conduct.

I pray to see a time when youths can use their common sense in dealing with issues the same people who advance human rights to free the likes of Dasuki and the same fools that will complain that corruption is bad.

Two issues were on videos about immigration officers' misdeeds. The ogas acted on one, but ignored the other and all your brain could produce was the rubbish you wrote up there?

If anyone is lacking common sense here, it looks like you

I and after the onslaught,they will add them to Nigeria Army

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Not surprised
Them learn am from their elder brothers called police ( SARS)
Especially the ones on highway

Na so them be want dirsturb me and my guy day before yesterday( Friday)

As a sharp guy. As i see them for front. Na so i give my phone to one woman for inside the bus

Them say make me and my guy come down
Begin check the tip of our thumb

Imagine! As i turn around i see one of the officers with pos machine

Please what has the tip of the finger has got to do with any thing

helinues:


I read your comments. Did you read mine?

Facebook is not faceless/nameless like NL

Even is the person is from the east, does that now renders the news unreal? Stop being unreasonable.

Chriswazo:
Cruelty at it's peak, a lady for God's sake, mtcheew. Am pained really

So, it's cool if it is a man that was beaten illegally?

helinues:


You probably missed this

You are the one not reading my comment with all your mind and brain. Trying doing that again and stop repeating this stupid notion and dumb mindset. There are many people in the north, middlebelt and south who are opposes to Buhari

helinues:


Stop defending what you are not sure of.

The op is 100% from East.. Why can't you go over his comments?

BTW, we need to ask if Kyari had ever been state Governor, senator or house of reps member in any of the SE states.

Cos me wondering why people from East are celebrating about Kyari's death as if he Kyari had been depriving SE if development.

Go to scan news facebook and read for yourself. That's not a faceless forum

What's even this idea that anyone who opposes this government is from the east?
How do you manage not to feel stupid each time you make this statement?

Are you trying to say all other parts of Nigeria are supporting Buhari or what? I want to believe you have enough mental balance not to even believe that rubbish.

yyba:
Igbos online miscreants and poor photoshop are like 5 and 6

Using the brain will prove a lot helpful to you, as well as, putting an end to your tribalism mindset.

computergenius:
WORDS FROM ANCIENT EGYPTIAN LEGAL SYSTEM FOUND IN MODERN ENGLISH
Power : Par war : right to kill us.
Citizen : Si ti isin : about public service.
Alien : Ale eni : unknown person.
Senator : S'eni t'ori : be the person at the head.
Judiciary : J'odi si ari : see to end extreme abuse.
Judge : J'oga : administer.
Moral : Mo 'ra : control of the body.
Immoral : Ai mo 'ra : no control of the body.
Legal : Li egba : is acceptable.
Illegal : Ai li egba : is not acceptable.
Bow : B'owo : show respect.
Testify : Tie she ti ifa e : things you caused.
Testimony : Tie she ti mo ri : things you did that I saw.
Sentence : Si eni to she : to the accused.
Atone : Atona : guide to do the right things.
Fine : Ofin e : your laws.
Execute : Ese iku ti : do the killing of.
Execution : Ese iku ti oni : do the killing of person.
Jail or Gaol : Ja ole : thief.
Hubris : Hu buru si : bad conduct.
Debauche : de ba o she : had sex with you.
Seduce : Shi di si : expose your unclothedness.
Sedition : Shi di ti oni : exposed their unclothedness.

All I see here are Yoruba words

As far as the Nigeria government is concerned, the death of those people doesn't matter since they are not Abba Kyari

Chad president eradicates Boko haram members

But Nigerian president give them places of importance in the Nigeria Army.

And mannabbgrills will be deceiving himself that it is PDP that is sponsoring Boko haram, whereas Buhari looks guilty of being a Boko haram sympathizer and sponsor.

Mannabbgrills, your lies will find you out and no mod can save you from that.

TheChameleon:


Evidence...or you are as daft as they are.

Looks like your father was doing homosexuality in your presence.

Or are you your father's homosexuality partner?

The way you play around with this foul word really gives an insight into the kind of life your father and you are living.