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There's nothing wrong with u. Its perfectly normal 2 feel d way u do. What 2 do? Remember, 4 every nice guy u let slip away, it means u'r letting ur abusive ex still hv a hold on u. Relationship aint a do or die affair. U give a guy who seems nice a chance, he bleeps up, u drop him. Its dat simple. Its not like u signed any binding contract. Xo, go enjoy urself.

Yeah, we male best friends always hang in there under d sun or in d rain waiting 4 a perfect time 2 strike. Its really nothing special.

Benita27:
Having sex with another girl after a heart break isn't going to help him 'cause after you've cum, the reality of the situation on ground would dawns on you again and you're back to square one; trying to let your loved one go. He should focus on getting well then could engage in that later since it seems some of you always reason with your dick.

Really!!! Usually I dnt do this, but hw does my advise come out as one 4rm smone who reasons with his dick. I'm just being real here. Nothing wld magically turn his mind off entirely, but random sex wld surely help. N lets just leave it at dat.

Probably her fingers reach places ur dick just couldnt reach.

Benita27:
It doesn't. Don't misinform people 'cause he'll end up having regrets after the sex.

I knw what I'm talking abt. Guys, we dont regret hving sex.

Dude u shld b proud of urself, but I guess peer pressure is getting 2 u. Xo here is my advice b4 u start thinking of rape. Go do u hooker cos ur frame of mind is not stable enough 2 wait 4 d cause of things 2 run naturally. Plus u cnt turn 2 a pro all of a sudden. Go get laid.

MRSANITY:
Fight? who is fighting with you? what i am landing you here is what we call "bitch slap". you must think so highly of yourself to even consider this a fight.

Guy u self free her, u just dey do like woman. All these to what end.

Airforce1:
When your girl really cares but deep down , you don't love her.

Guy u'r still a kid although u look like an adult in ur pix. Who d hell cares what u got 4rm whom, whenever?

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

So on point. Most pple here r unwise, smone is dishing out d gospel truth n y'all r doubting.
Op gbayi

Teebilion:
Am seriously suffering from an heartbreak and it is obviously affecting my day to day Life,have tried to get over it ,the feelings and the good times wont just stop coming,and i dnt want to do anytin stupid,i want this to stop ,i need to get over it very quickly ...Advices and opinions please

Guy go get laid. rebound sex always does the trick.

Folaarch:
I have gotten some past questions on workforce, anyone with the same invitation that is ready for the practice, signify.
so that we can start exploring it.


Thanks

Hi Folaarch, kindly send me a copy of the questions to isulaimon63@gmail.com. I would appreciate d gesture.

Guyz, take a chill pill. Y insult d OP when she's just trying to profer a solution to a common problem holding this nation back 4rm d rest of d developed world.

Let me try 2 dumb her point down so all can understand. OP: "Y not put into the constitution a law dat requires rigorous accreditation of both IQ and EQ of aspirants for political offices as is the case when recruiting for top jobs in private organizations". She might have expressed it wrongly by laying much emphasis on university class of degree. What I expected 4rm u guyz as leaders of 2morow (although I'm not sure when dat 2morow begins) would b 2 come up with ideas as to how these political aspirants should b better screened. For example; conducting IQ n EQ tests on aspirants 2 ascertain their eligibility 4 political positions.

Pls lets try 2 pick useful points 4rm posts rather dan just sieve though 4 junks. We can kid with posts in jokes section but its high time we start taking posts like this seriously.

PS: No disrepect intended 2 anyone n I'm no supporter of any politician. Most of them r a pathetic bunch in my opinion. Pls let's stop letting politicians take us as fools.

Plus I don't like typing dis long on nairaland but as some one once said; "once i start I get too lazy 2 stop".

Its not always abt d size, its abt hw d plumber lay his pipe. N if u got an experienced plumber with a big pipe, that is bonus. Enjoy!

sunshyne20:
@blessed11 sometimes NL can be confusing, as so many people give advice based on their perspective, ideology, experiences & characters.
He may have lied, yes!!! But have thought of the fact that he is being intimidated by your success, and doing all he can to measure up?
Am sure he didn't know you were US based when you guys met.

I think, make him feel comfortable, make him know you love him for who he is and believe in his future.

Not all men are savages..
About his ex pic, I think you even have yours, but if you don't, it's Because you decided to let it go.
About living in Nigeria, I feel he said that so you wouldn't think he is in for the visa.
About the age, I have a friend 27 marrying a girl 32 and he is so proud of it, that we(his friends) have not say.

Dont just conclude, weigh your choices. It may be true love.

@ Blessed11. I don help u spot ur guy, na him dey use dis moniker. Him dey try convince u 2 stay.


On a serious note, if u love d guy n u want 2 go ahead with marrying him, do this:
Don't work his papers 2 America. Leave him in Nigeria in d mean time.
Secondly, tell him u want a prenup.
If e can live with those terms, then u can go ahead with previous plans.

Guy, ur imagination too fast pass reality. Slow down make bed action sure b4 ur johnbosco rise na.
Abeg learn 2 clear ur head.

Actually if he plays his game right, he might not hv 2 dump anyone. Keep both girls, but with d ilussion of each being d only one. 5 yrs relationship doesn't gaurantee marriage. At any point in time u think any of d relationship might lead 2 marriage, come clean with d other.
No malice intended, its just being real.

Funny Nigerians, with d problem wey una still dey face una still dey carry Britain matter 4 head.

Reporting d case or not is ur choice but b sure never 2 remain with dat disgrace of a human. N pls remember 2 take ur mutual kids with u, cos he might also molest dem

Jesusgirl92:
hmmm..... See your confidence oozing..... Hmm.... What panel were you if I may ask?

No offence but would rather not 4 d sake of anonymity.

[quote author=lola800 post=53929406][/quote]Yeah, just noticed it isn't sent aaccording 2 panel. I don't think it is done by performance neither. Becos mine was gr8 but still hvn't received n i know no one 4rm my panel that has gotten.

Any recent top management interview invite should keep us posted.

Ayo12345:
lol. I was referring to the top management interview invite not assessment test invite.

What panel were u in?

Ayo12345:
Hi, got any idea if the invite was done by panel or randomly?

Possibly by panel. Only those candidates 4rm panel 7 n below hv testified 2 hv received mails.

Op don't worry, he can't arm u. N even if e beats d crap out of u, don't worry, we'll post it on nairaland 2 get sympathy n possible compensation. If i were u, i will always pass d checkpoint with my girl.

No need increasing body count just come 2 an experienced guy dat will stimulate ur senses n make ur body sensation count.

jornie:
I was in panel 7 also..i didnt receive any interview invite.Can you copy the content of the mail let see pls

I will b really pissed if dis is false, cos i hv smthing i hv 2 do outside Lagos but will b shrugging it waiting 4 my batch.

jornie:
Has anyone at all gotten?

smone here claims 2 hv gotten. Just go 2 d previous page. He said it is scheduled 4 2morow. What panel were u in.

Hi, has anyone from panel 11 upwards gotten any successmail/invite for top management interview?

HuntazWorld:
From some comments above, that's why I said it depends on how the lady approaches the guy. She doesn't need to do that to declare her intention noticed. Some guys wouldn't want to approach a lady also because they don't know what to expect and a turn down scares them.

If a lady should create a very simple and neutral conversation with a guy just to get a little of his attention in a decent way, I don't see why a reasonable guy wouldn't engage her in a conversation without thinking she is an attention seeker except she does it in a very unreasonable way

Well said. All d lady has 2 do is just create a neutral conversation.
Thumbs up dude.

Thanx 4 bankinf with us!
Just kidding. U'r not obligated 2 say anything. Just put on ur cloth n wait.

I am not understanding . Pastors preach 2 only seek 4 heavenly rewards but Adeboye was scared, he wants his on earth. Una no go kill person.

Akinaukwa:
Their own student was accidentally knocked down by their own lecturer who still had the conscience and courage of carrying the corpse to the female hostel for identification. So what is the basis for the protest on the highway? I believe the deceased may not even have remembered a pedestrian bridge was existing before dashing into the road. Now all the rogues among them will start attacking innocent motorists and stealing their properties. This doesn't call for such protests in my own view.

Guy u no leave dem. Students nowadays no dey rsuh 2 finish o. Wey d work? Pocket money still dey sweet dem.