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Ramos16:
Dowry is the form of payment made by the bride to her husband as a form of commitment to their union.
Bride Price, on the other hand, is the payment made by the Groom as a form of commitment to their union.

In Islam the mahr (dowry) is one of the rights of the wife, which is hers to take in total and is lawful for her, in contrast to the widespread practice in some countries, where the wife is given no dowry. Evidence that the wife must be given her dowry is found in many places, for example the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “And give to the women (whom you marry) their mahr (obligatory bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage) with a good heart…” [al-Nisaa’ 4:4]

Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “This refers to the mahr (dowry).”

Ibn Katheer, may Allaah have mercy on him, said, summarizing the comments of the mufassireen on this aayah: “The man must definitely pay the dowry to the woman, and he should not resent it.”

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “But if you intend to replace a wife by another and you have given one of them a cantar (of gold, i.e., a great amount) as mahr, take not the least bit of it back; would you take it wrongfully without a right and (with) a manifest sin? And how could you take it (back) when you have gone in unto each other, and they have taken from you a firm and strong covenant?” [al-Nisaa’ 4:20-21]

Islam has legislated the giving of the dower by the husband to the wife in order to please the woman’s heart and to honour her. It is also meant to bring an end to what was done in the Days of Ignorance wherein she was wronged, exploited, despised and robbed of her wealth. The dower is a right exclusively for the wife. It is her possession and none of her guardians or relatives may share any part of it. No one has any power over her concerning how she wishes to dispose of it, as long as she does so in a legally acceptable manner. She may give it away as a gift, she may lend it to others or she may give it in charity or do any other permissible acts she wishes with it.

1Sharon:
These Hausa people have come again.

Does Hausas has Prophet?
Grow up!

Ramos16:
Might be unislamic, but it is the tradition. Believe it or not.

Hold on...
Can u expand your understand of the word dowry ?

Ramos16:
This is wrong. In the Hausa tradition, and even in real English definition, it is the girl who pays the dowry, not the guy, as a matter of fact, in an ideal marriage the man's sole responsibility is to provide the house, the woman is obligated to fill up the house with whatever is required to make a home.

U are wrong, thats unIslamic.
Ask google u will gain a lot

3000 ATM ke!
Bunch of 5% collectors!

Deathisfree:
I Live in an apartment, just me and my landlord . I noticed strange things when I travel,I don’t meet things the way I left them when I’m back

It’s a modern door so padlocks can’t be used ,no intruder can come in because it’s well fenced and gated.
I’m 100% sure he has my spare keys,I can’t be saying how I found out he has my keys cox he might be reading this as well.

Please what do I do. I feel my privacy is being tampered it.

He is trying to gather evidence, cos you slept with his Wife few months ago.
U shouldnt have slept with a married woman upon all millions single ladies

Hiw I wish Christians can reciprocate this gesture.

Na them children of beerfraud

Who know that child can be the president of 9ja someday.

Oh Allah forgive me for voting this Man in 2015!
Its a decision that i will keep regreting

What do u expect from the people that vote for PMB

RTSC:
The worst death is plane crash.

You are virtually seeing death calling you.

Yes but my Bro survived it with just 2% injuries.

Five Cars worth over 60millions just for one Man!
Naija I hail una

favour32:
Think very well before you date a nurse.
Many people may be right about them. The husband of a nurse opposite my house ran away from her since 2015 and never came back. She had two kids for the man.
I guess the man knew why he ran away from her.
I know a retired matron who rejected one of the son's choice of a nurse as a wife to be.
She could not fully say her reasons but she said no!
Finally,I ran away from a student nurse just because the very first day of being intimate,she wanted me to "eat" her.
I ran away!
I cannot do it!

EAT? She be rice?

mhizsuzzy:
Mostly sleep with the doctors shaa
But it is not a general rule

U are right, just few weeks ago, one Doctor was exposed for kancking married collegue

youmour:
Wallahi as I dey see you so, you go sweet fvck.kai danburoba

Hahaha chai dia ris God o

donestk:
The few i met are a bit loose but they are very health conscious. They demand for hiv test b4 riding you.

Thats cool

Phenomenal16:
I'm a very dark skinned lady, before now I used to have low self confidence about my skin....... I also noticed that I av a light skin and any small thing bleaches me.... Leaving dark knuckles on my legs... Now that I av worked on my self esteem..
I need a good cream that will bring out my glow.. Including soap too.
Am tired of Ppl saying my skin is dull.... Forgive my typos pls.... Thank u... Patiently anticipating ur reply

Miss take my advice dont bleach your skin for God sake!
You cant have your expensive chocolate skin back!
But if u must bleach then I have no option but to tell u names of both soap and cream though a little bit expensive.
They are some cream that can glow but not bleach skin

Ass licker!

Mtss He should go and confront them shikenan!

Chartey:
She's an indigene. There are many indigenous Christians all over Arewa.
I don't know the facts of this subject however so I can't say if her being Christian is related to her woes.

Am talking about Sokoto and Zamfara are u telling me there are indigeneous christians there?

Oh my God herdmen again!
RIP

Whoever blame herdmen on this killing is a coward!
Must u blame them on every appalling thing.

Dokitadotun:
May be becos she is a Christian. The way some of these northern state treat Christians is terrible. Imagine a governor refusing to sponsor Christians for pilgrimage meanwhile he is doing the same for Muslims.

How many Aboki's are in Enugu, Rivers state govt payrolls?
While may will find a lot of sourtherners in almost every sectors in core Northern states.

Thousands of masses was killed while majority of this hypocrites doesnt care but when the daughter of one of their own was killed hear them ranting!

And some bastards said it was Fulani

AbuuBilaal:
Nobody is immune to scam. But there are two tips to help you avoid scam:

1- don't ever be desperate to get anything. Desperate people are the target market of scammers. Once you're desperate you'll lose all your rationale and reasoning. It won't matter if you're a professor or Nobel laureate.

2- If it looks too good to be true then it probably is. Exceptionally good offers are usually scams. For example there's this guy that sends Whatsapp broadcast of 400naira for 1gig MTN. This is too good to be true true so it's a red flag.

You are right.
Desparation kills!
Even during those days when Gal notice u are desparate to...
She will begin snopping u like something that a cat dragged.

CyynthiaKiss:
Misplaced Priority!
How many times have they condemned thousands of Islamic clerics that are defiling our young girls in their different mosque on daily basis.. ?


Very useless terrorist group.

Center for eradicating Innovation (IN ISLAMIC RELIGION) and Establishing Sunnah.
Whats wrong with u

CyynthiaKiss:
Misplaced Priority!
How many times have they condemned thousands of Islamic clerics that are defiling our young girls in their different mosque on daily basis.. ?


Very useless terrorist group.

Center for eradicating Innovation (BIDIA IN ISLAM) and Establishing Sunnah.
Whats wrong with u

CyynthiaKiss:
Misplaced Priority!
How many times have they condemned thousands of Islamic clerics that are defiling our young girls in their different mosque on daily basis.. ?


Very useless terrorist group.

Center for eradicating Innovation (IN ISLAM) and Sunnah

mykelswa:
I don't watch it but that's why they is NBC. Fu*k you Islamabad. This is not a Muslim country.
That's why any adult show has age variety. Do they even know dstv is not owned by Nigeria at all. Create your own TV station and give such command else shut d fu*k up Islamabad

Does christianity encourage BB Naija shit?

Stupid Pastor