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Romance › Re: Me And My Rivals by coolier(f): 9:06pm On Nov 02, 2009

Ignore them, concentrate on your girl and be happy that you have what other people are dieing for.

Family › Re: If It Were U, What Will U Do? by coolier(f): 8:59pm On Nov 02, 2009

Confilass:
YES

Family › Re: Welcome To Dreamland! - A World Of Dream & Reality by coolier(f): 8:52pm On Nov 02, 2009

I dream all right. But the ones I ever remember are my enemies running after me, trying to capture me and all of a sudden I start to fly. And they never could catch me.

Romance › Re: Is It Possible ? by coolier(f): 8:44pm On Nov 02, 2009

What is it about Ghanaian girls?

Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by coolier(f): 8:40pm On Nov 02, 2009

Follow your heart.

Romance › Re: The Softer Side Of Me by coolier(f): 8:30pm On Nov 02, 2009

So touching!

Family › Re: Wife Seeking The Truth by coolier(f): 10:17am On Nov 02, 2009

lostgirl:
But there is one thing in particular I would like to know. That is A woman he claims is his sister, I want to know is she really his wife. I feel in my heart that she really is and all around him are covering for them. But how can I find out for certain? Any ideas?

lostgirl:
@Posakosa

Ha ha ha ha. I already did. He has another wife and I got a man.

lostgirl:
In some situations no matter how done they are, you still seek closure and truth. I want to be absolutely certain before i go on with my life. Have no hangups.

What exactly is your problem?

Family › Re: What Do I Do With This Pregnancy? by coolier(f): 10:11am On Nov 02, 2009

When kids grow up and start to leave home one after the other, either to work in other places or marriage, the house becomes empty and lonely for the mums. So I subscribe to this new addition that would probably keep the mum company and busy in future.

Family › Re: Help! Her Marriage Is Failing by coolier(f): 9:57am On Nov 02, 2009

'He who runs from a battle lives to fight another war'! I think your friend should leave her kids behind and go take care of herself at her parents place or where ever - health is wealth! Am sure the husband will look after the kids. It's only when one is strong that one can fight. She can later return to her husband's house if she so desire or go back for her kids.

Family › Re: More Nigerians Shun Marriage — Census Report by coolier(f): 9:46am On Nov 02, 2009

Why would any sane person want to be married anyway? kiss

Romance › Re: Love Is A Decision Do You Belive That? by coolier(f): 9:35am On Nov 02, 2009

Love is not a decision. It is an extraordinary feeling peculiar to you alone. One doesn't decide to love or fall in love! Love happens!

Romance › Re: Can One Find A Life Partner In Nairaland? by coolier(f): 9:28am On Nov 02, 2009

One never can tell!

Romance › Re: Is Love The Root Of All Evil by coolier(f): 9:58pm On Nov 01, 2009

No. Money is.

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 9:48pm On Nov 01, 2009

posakosa:
I am not arguing blindly are you the poster/ I am more than certain that it was a SHAM marraige; let her answer for her self sha.

See me see trouble! Did I mention you?

Family › Re: If Your Husband or Wife is Found to be HIV-Positive by coolier(f): 9:43pm On Nov 01, 2009

I'll stand by him all the way.

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 9:32pm On Nov 01, 2009

N101:
Even if it's a sham marriage, it took place legally in Nigeria and so to that end she still needs to legally divorce - provided she can provide proof via the marriage certificate. If she doesn't be guaranteed that man could very use it against her in future if given the chance.

However, if they remain permanently lost to each other. . .

I love you N101. Some people just argue blindly.

Romance › Re: Girls:you Have The Power To Change Your Boyfriend To Better Guy by coolier(f): 9:11pm On Nov 01, 2009

Thanks.

Romance › Re: What Is The One Thing Your Significant Other Hates About You? by coolier(f): 6:48pm On Nov 01, 2009

My kindness to a fault!

Romance › Re: How Do You Tell Someone It Is Over And The Just Wont Listen by coolier(f): 6:34pm On Nov 01, 2009

Have you thought of changing your number?

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 1:25pm On Nov 01, 2009

posakosa:
SHAM MARRIAGE IN NIGERIA recognized in the U.S. LMAO!
Pls don't give a poster a headache with your rubbish information.

I don't like the use of the word rubbish, I was only passing on information I know is correct.

posakosa:
@ OP, where in Nigeria did your marriage take place ? How many witnesses were there ? Do you have the certificate ?

Witness or no witness has there ever been a marriage conducted in a Registry without a certificate?

posakosa:
If the U.S. had a record do you know how many Nigerians marry American wives just to get Green card and when they do, they bring their REAL wives into the US. and settle down with them ?

Loads of them. But the so called new American wives are not psychic, so they could never have know these guys had wives hidden in Nigeria. And the many Nigerians who do this know that they have to divorce one after some years before they could marry another or file for their real wives and take them to US. The US have a record all right, and to think you live in the US!!!

Romance › Re: Would you test your Fiance/Fiancee? by coolier(f): 1:12pm On Nov 01, 2009

No.

Romance › Re: Gals Did You Sleep With A Guy Before Marriage by coolier(f): 1:11pm On Nov 01, 2009

Most gals have slept with a guy before marriage!

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 1:01pm On Nov 01, 2009

And as SHAM as the marriage may seem, it was made legal by the fact it was performed at a Registry.

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 12:57pm On Nov 01, 2009

posakosa:
I don't know how a SHAM marriage in Nigeria is LEGAL in the U.S. ?

The U.S. has no public record of foreign marriages, unless you file taxes/or conduct another marriage here in the U.S.

TRUST ME filing for divorce here in the U.S. is a WASTE of your precious time.

The US State Department lists the documents that it accepts to prove certain events abroad, such as marriages, on its website. These are also the documents that US immigration accepts. Here is what it says about Nigerian marriage certificates:

Marriage Certificates

Available from local government bodies if the couple performed civil marriage at the Marriage Registry. Traditional marriages may also be recorded with the local government and a certificate of marriage issued. Places of worship that are registered with the Nigerian Government may also issue marriage certificates for ceremonies performed there. It is obligatory that every registrar and religious minister furnish such documents to the Lagos Marriage Registry, but some fail to do so. Records are generally available through the local government where the marriage took place. The Marriage Registry in Lagos has marriage records dating back to 1802. They are filed by year and place of marriage and can be obtained by writing to the Marriage Registry, 19 Kingsway Road, Ikoyi, Lagos. Since both parties to the marriage technically must be physically present at the same location with witnesses to sign certain marriage documents, proxy marriages have ceased to be valid but still occur.

Family › Re: How Do I Go About Divorce? by coolier(f): 12:30pm On Nov 01, 2009

posakosa:
If you don't have a body to show, nothing is legal with the fraud marriage. He only wanted his green card.

Every marriage conducted in a Marriage Registry is legal whether for green card or not!.

lostgirl:
I get what you are saying. I have moved on. I just want to know that if I marry it will be legal. I dont want any issues to arrive associated with the registry wedding I had with him in Nigeria.

You cannot conduct another marriage if you are still legally married. It's called Bigamy and punishable under the laws of US if it blows into the open.

lostgirl:
I am American married a Nigerian in registry ceremony in Nigeria. Never had a ceremony in U. S. Do I need to go thru the trouble of divorcing him in Nigeria or can I just go on with my life?

You don't have to return to Nigeria to divorce him, you can file for divorce in US and that will give you a better chance if he is stuck in Nigeria and cannot attend the hearings or has no representation. But you're not free of him believe me until you do that. He is also not free of you.

Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Sef by coolier(f): 12:09pm On Nov 01, 2009

r231:
how do you work dis out
the guy is on student visa himself not a citizen/permanent residence or nothing shooooooooooo

http://www.ukvisas.gov.uk/en/howtoapply/infs/inf5students

Romance › Re: Gals Did You Sleep With A Guy Before Marriage by coolier(f): 12:00pm On Nov 01, 2009

Sometimes you don't get to marry your first love.

Romance › Re: Would You Marry A Prostitute? by coolier(f): 11:58am On Nov 01, 2009

I believe everyone deserves a second chance! What led the lady into prostitution in the first place we would never know. And what's prostitution anyway? sex for money. Every decent man, woman has done it directly or indirectly one way or the other, with your partner, boss, spouse etc. And come to think of it we have seen prostitutes become first ladies in some countries - so what else is new under the sun, tell me?

Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Sef by coolier(f): 8:34pm On Oct 31, 2009

justwise:
U think its that easy to bring somebody here as a student? I mean, a gf not even his wife.

Yes. (below culled from UK Visas website)

How do I qualify to join my fiancé, fiancée or proposed civil partner in the UK?

You must show that:

* you plan to marry or register a civil partnership within a reasonable time (usually six months)
* you plan to live together permanently after you are married or have registered a civil partnership
* you have met each other before
* there is somewhere for you and your dependants to live until you get married or register a civil partnership, and you will be able to live without help from public funds, and
* you and your dependants can be supported without working or claiming any help from public funds.

Food › Re: I Need Local Balance Diet by coolier(f): 8:18pm On Oct 31, 2009

For breakfast try pap and beanballs.

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