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Ask her!

Time. All the time in the world!

Poor girl, she was too blind to see. The writings were clearly on the wall. Segun should be made to answer to this criminal act.

Yes

There has to be a reason he doesn't want to go to school and that is what you have to find out first. Maybe you should change his school. Talk to him again.

Sixteen.

kheme:
so what the hell is wrong with the braiding of hair? yea, i know that in nigeria, they're think am irresponsible and stuff (and i REALLY don't know why), but over here, THEY LOVE IT! i get favours because of my braided hair, and i even look better on braids

What sort of braids are we talking about here? Is this the normal 'million braids', or 'bob marley' because people do that all the time in Nigeria and am sure nobody would label you irresponsible for it. By the way are you mixed blood? Maybe your dad doesn't want to see you like you're black. I love braids and I do it all the time.

Eternal Rest.

No.

Seek professional opinion, see a gynaecologist.

SeanT21:
Why is She Apologizing to him?

because "she forgave him and stayed in her father's house"

Sometimes a second. That is love at first sight.

He shouldn't, ever.

He shouln't, ever.

The people to talk to are your in-laws since according to you 'you are the only wife they recognise'. They might be able to get through to your husband and make him see reason.

Yes.

For that kind of money, stick to Nigeria.

It happens.

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

No

It's not your problem. Let him solve his own problem. See now, you already confused.

Leave her for some time, am sure she would eventually come round. Blood they say is thicker than water!

As it was in the beginning, it's now and ever shall be.

biolabee:
ww u do?
answer first

hommer:
If you are a man and you re in this kind of predicament, what will you do?

She's not a man.

For goodness sake she got herself pregnant while still in the secondary school as a teenager! According to her a senior girl in the hostel sent her out to cut grass because she was extremely rude. And she did not only cut grass, she cut sex with a total stranger. Mind you she was not raped. Where I come from that is waywardness and promiscuity.
On the other hand its only fair to let the guy at least know he has a son.

No it shouldn't be and should not be a condition for a relationship either. Good gal, take your time and when you're ready go for it.

Yes, times are changing.

No, but it makes you act older than your age!