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Family › Re: Fire Service by coolier(f): 8:13pm On Mar 24, 2010

Unbelievable! shocked

Eko a r'omi ro legbe legbe!!!

Family › Re: Marriage, Money And Happiness! by coolier(f): 8:09pm On Mar 24, 2010

tEsLim:
My friends wife cheats now and I can't tell him , he'll die to know its because of money.

And I read the story of a popular multi billionaire polygamist business mogul in Lagos some years back, whose supposedly favorite wife cheated on him times without number right under his nose, and actually had one of her husband's children fathered by her lover. It was a big scandal and they finally broke up. And what about the other multi millionaire that passed away, who left instructions that all his children do DNA tests to determine who is actually who, before his estate is shared. You know how many of them failed the test? Does it ever occur to you that these people are extremely wealthy and comfortable but still cheat on their husbands: reason, they are unhappy! And the husband continue to take on as many wives as his money can buy! Reason again, he is not happy! Now would you still say money guarantees happiness?

Romance › Re: How Many Year Are You Suppose To Been In Relationship Before Marriage by coolier(f): 12:43am On Mar 24, 2010

lila007:
I have been with this guy for 5yrs and we have children together and live together too

Obviously you are okay with the arrangement, if not there wouldn't be these many children.

Sports › Re: Britain Deports Its Five Gold Medal Nigerian Hero by coolier(f): 12:30am On Mar 24, 2010

tlops:
"The government has given me three months of painkillers for my return to Nigeria and told me to get on with it. But I need proper care. Sending me back is a death sentence."

The fact he has represented Britain on a number of occasions does not mean he is above the law. Let's face it, he wasn't smart, he could have held them to ransom while the ovation was loudest, when he was winning medals for them and wearing Britain's national colours, but he didn't, maybe he had no good advisers or he took things too much for granted. They needed him then, they would have done anything for him.

He was convicted twice for driving carelessly and jumping a red light! what was he thinking? to kill someone or make them disabled too! thereafter he was disqualified from driving, yet he still went ahead and drove, knowing fully well he was flouting a court injunction plus he also had an immigration case pending. I can only pity him, he has rightly said it, I cannot help but wonder how he would manage his disability in a disabled country.

SEFAGO:
Some people are above the law, just a certain class of people. Like everywhere in the world it is who you know that matters. Its not an affair of migrant or not. If he was friends with the head of scotland yard or whoever handles police business I am sure his records would have been expunged. I have seen cases inan advanced country where someone got into real trouble (not rubbish like running traffic lights) and his file never reached the court because his father was high up in the police dept.

Very funny!

Family › Re: Marriage, Money And Happiness! by coolier(f): 11:17pm On Mar 23, 2010

usbcable:
I am of the view that money is of high importanc in marital life.
So a happy married life is also dependent upon a regular or foreseable source of wealth.

A happy married life is dependent on love, trust, loyalty and understanding. If you have all these you'll both be able to stand the test of time and weather all storms. We cannot all be millionaires, we must learn to live within our means and cut our coats according to our sizes. Money is not a yardstick for a happy married life. My point is you can have all the monies of this world and still be terribly unhappy.

Romance › Re: If Your Boyfriend Always Shed Tears When You Want To Leave by coolier(f): 9:14pm On Mar 23, 2010

He is a sissy. Run away from him fast.

Family › Re: Marriage, Money And Happiness! by coolier(f): 8:57pm On Mar 23, 2010

jumie:
Is money however the sole factor that determines happiness in a marriage?

Money doesn't guaranty happiness in marriage. I've seen a lot of extremely wealthy couples break up because they were not happy in the relationship.

rerute1:
Whether some people will agree or not, money is a vital tool in experiencing complete happiness.

"The rich also cry!"

Romance › Re: Why My Relationship With Girls.don't Last Long? by coolier(f): 8:05pm On Mar 22, 2010

Henphil:
I'm a vry nice guy.so cool n humble n dnt race my voice with girl.cus naturally i'm a solve spoken humanbend.bt i wonder why my relationship with girls dosen last long?i'm vry good in takin care of a girl.both finacially n emotionally.at the same time i'm not a bad cheater.vry hard b4 i cheat a girl that i love.but i wonder why i loose them so easily?the[b] must [/b]painful one is anita.just with no raeson.she turn her back on me.though i remember a girl once told me that i receive so mush calls. forgeting the native of my job.as a manager.my boss.the managerment board.may call to know how i'm doin with incoming n outgoin products.should i quit my job bcus of love? Pls i need good advice.

If you speak the way you write, you wouldn't last a second with me. Maybe "Mind your Language"!

Romance › Re: How Will You Feel? If Your Fiance Just Start Answering Ur Call Casually by coolier(f): 7:57pm On Mar 22, 2010

Me thinks she needs a breathing space undecided

Nairaland General › Re: Why Are Their Alot Of Faceless People In NL by coolier(f): 7:52pm On Mar 22, 2010

We all use fictitious names on NL in the first place to conceal our identities, uploading photographs on profiles to me does not make sense, as it has completely defeated the purpose. My photographs are on facebook for instance because they tally with my real names.

Family › Re: Should She Leave ? by coolier(f): 7:24pm On Mar 22, 2010

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=417489.msg5744784#msg5744784 date=1269279317]why would she continue to go out with him on weekends while the man chased her out of his house? if she was so important to him, he would at least tried to mend things since then. he doesnt to marry her but still want a date on the weekends.[/quote]Weird! don't you think?

Family › Re: The Necessary Steps To Take In A Divorce: Urgent! by coolier(f): 3:17pm On Mar 22, 2010

Vie:
However, his family do not want the union as they were not aware and so have refused to give their blessing. True, we are both adults but i believe a family blessing is very important and haven kept me a secret from his family worries me

You mean you actually went ahead with a wedding without having met any of his family and now you want their blessings. Do you still have parents? were they part of the wedding or unavoidably absent as well? What sort of person are you? it's so convenient for you to rush into marriage without thinking and want out again so soon.

Family › Re: Strange by coolier(f): 5:26pm On Mar 21, 2010

abi2008:
strangers to me well yes you are since i do not know you nor you know me - thats the definition of being a stranger.

The word stranger is inappropriate in this context. Here we are family grin

- black, white green or red! and that's why you feel safe and at ease to spill out your family problems and seek our opinions. And before anybody can give a candid opinion or offer a solution, they want to really know the root of the matter and understand the cause of the problem. I think that is what they're trying to do not chiding you.

Travel › Re: Information On Uk Tourist Visa by coolier(f): 8:45pm On Mar 19, 2010

12. Visa fees:

Single, double and multiple visit, valid up to 6 months N25,000 (Not sure about this)
Longer term multiple entry (1 to 2 years) N54,600
Longer term multiple entry (5 years) N105,000
Longer term multiple entry (10 years) N130,000

Family › Re: Hey Guys Please I Need A Information On Old Peoples Home: ? by coolier(f): 10:56pm On Mar 16, 2010

If your dad is sick, he needs to be in hospital.

Family › Re: Divorce Cakes! by coolier(f): 4:59pm On Mar 16, 2010

Family › Re: Ex Gf Or Real Wife Abroad?advice Needed by coolier(f): 8:12pm On Mar 15, 2010

rusgal:
as i know they didnt marry,

You can never know for sure.

rusgal:
Is it possible to have two families like that?

Nigeria is a polygamous society.

Family › Re: Ex Gf Or Real Wife Abroad?advice Needed by coolier(f): 7:58pm On Mar 15, 2010

rusgal:
Can a nigerian woman waite for a man who stay abroad for long time to hope he will be back one day?Is it possible to have two families like that?

It depends on his relationship with the Nigerian lady, if she is actually his wife, then she would wait for him until such a time he is able to get his papers, divorce you, remarry her and file for her and their daughter(if she doesn't have more from his trips to Nigeria) to join him abroad.

Family › Re: Sibling Rivalry by coolier(f): 7:54pm On Mar 13, 2010

Outstrip:
How old are your siblings

They must all be over 20, since he left Nigeria with his mum over twenty years ago, when she left those kids behind in Nigeria.

Politics › Re: You And Obasanjo One On One: What Would You Tell Him? by coolier(f): 8:24am On Mar 13, 2010

Go to Hell.

Family › Re: Render Yourself by coolier(f): 1:12pm On Mar 09, 2010

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Family › Re: I Need A Vet by coolier(f): 12:54pm On Mar 09, 2010

Centkaycee:
if you would agree to relocate you 'l get one.

Family › Re: After A Month,of Their Weddn D Husband Discovers Dat His Bride Is 5mnth Pregnant by coolier(f): 12:51pm On Mar 09, 2010

Simply "return to sender"!

Family › Re: Can You Live With Your Mother Inlaw by coolier(f): 12:47pm On Mar 09, 2010

I could give it a try. If it works out fine, if not she moves! We can always find a place for her to stay.

Politics › Re: Soyinka Calls For Criminal Proceeding Against Turai by coolier(f): 12:35pm On Mar 09, 2010

Seconded.

Family › Re: If You Are Turai Will You Disclose The Where About Of Your Husband. by coolier(f): 12:23pm On Mar 09, 2010

Turai should face trial for kidnapping Yar’Adua – Soyinka

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Written by Kunle Awosiyan

NOBEL Laureate, Professor Wole Soyinka, has described the alleged role of Hajia Turai, wife of President Umaru Yar’Adua, in the current political crisis as an insult to the nation, calling for criminal proceedings against the first lady.

He made the call at a rally organised by a non-governmental organisation, “Women Arise”, in Lagos, on Monday.

He said: “We have an example with the president of the nation being abused physically by a woman. He has been kidnapped by a woman under false imprisonment. If it were in a civilised society, this woman should be in court by now for kidnapping and false imprisonment. Far even worse than abusing her spouse, she is also abusing a nation, abusing and insulting the intelligence of a nation.”

Soyinka, who was accompanied by chairman of Board of Trustees of the “Women Arise,” Professor Pat Utomi, convener of the Save Nigeria Group (SNG), Pastor Tunde Bakare, and leader of the women’s group, Dr. Joe Okei Odumakin, called on Hajia Turai to release the president, to speak to the nation about his condition.

“Release him, stop insulting and belittling his family. Even his mother was not allowed to see him. For me, this is sacrilege, acute sacrilege and I think we should begin criminal proceedings against Turai for kidnapping and false imprisonment of her husband,” he said.

http://www.ngex.com/cgi-bin/frame/frameit2.plx?link="http://www.tribune.com.ng

Romance › Re: Thanks again by coolier(f): 10:56am On Mar 05, 2010

badboym:
She called me after 5 minutes to explain my name was the first number on her phone and she must have dialled the number mistakenly,

I am just going to say believe it or not my phone does exactly the same thing. I use a touch screen phone, and when it's in my bag, something rubs against it, it dials the first stored number that starts with the letter A. Most times I want to make a call, pick it up to scroll down on the names, before 'am done it's already stationed itself on that first number without me realizing it and starts to dial and I quickly cut off because I don't want to talk to that person at that particular time. But sometimes the calls get through before I cut it off and the person calls back, thinking 'am flashing. My phone's done that a couple of times and I was able to get away with it because the person is my very good friend. For all you know she might be telling the truth.

Romance › Re: I Am Hooked With A White Lady: She's All Over Me: I Am Afraid Of Marriage by coolier(f): 10:12am On Mar 05, 2010

DHighPries:
I dont know what to do because I cant marry someone older than me

This age problem again!

Family › Re: Which Is Better An English Name Or Your Native Name Or Even A Christian Name by coolier(f): 10:00am On Mar 05, 2010

snowdrops:
ABSOLUTELY YES. You are not that travelled then. People dont exactly mind origin of names provided it sounds well and has a nice meaning.
You are still trapped in the shackles of the colonial slave trade. Free yourself. Not every thing is "colonial mentality" or a conspiracy.
Its only a name.

Now you are wrong. And I have not come across an English family who go out of their way to call their kids Ngozi, Umaru or Adebisi, neither would an Indian or Japanese. And I am not trapped in the shackles of the colonial slave trade, people who still give their children English or foreign names are, they are the ones with a complex. And the little bit about travelling? I only wish you knew.

Family › Re: Men,can You Marry An Older Woman? by coolier(f): 9:39am On Mar 05, 2010

Tarmpa:
A friend of mine got engaged last val's day,to a lady who's 18years older than him.

The question is are they Nigerians? Because in civilized societies, it happens all the time, and it's no big deal. To them love is not about age. And I totally agree with them.

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