₦airaland Forum

Candyness:
the females on Niaraland have nothin to write home about. They just ok .please dont hate the messenger

Toonice:
Goto work by 6am in the morning, come back very late in the night.

How did you do it, without having a fight with your Husband?

Your advice we help many woman that have this type of job, but not enjoying her marriage.

9jafetish:
i myself am african and half nigerian and its true. you nigerian men are players not all but most are, my aunt is nigerian and she always warns me about u guys. the thing is i never listened to her , which was a bad idea, if only i listened to her i would of never been screwed over and degraded.

Smilenw:
No pain no gain. Every man and woman needs to invest into their marriage, no matter how wonderful your courting period was. Invest as in lots of patience, lots of love, lots of compromises , lots of prayers (people might ridicule me, but a family that prays together stays together) etc. Also there shouldn't be any space for ego in one's marriage. Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilty as opposed to the carefree period of courtship. If everybody relaizes their responsibilities and strives to carry out them, then all marriages shall be perfect.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Then don't date him. Find someone who will no be an embarrassment to you.[/color]

Exactly . . . . if ur uncomfortable, dont bother . . .dont manage so u dont insult him wit it if u get into an arguement. Leave him for those who dont think its a big deal . . . Ul find someone wit a great job whoz cute and speaks well . .dem plenty.

blankees:
Halo pals

Am into a very serious relatnship which i pray will end up in marriage. My friend happens to be a virgin and i tink i will classify myself as one too since i have not had sex for over twenty years now. We had promised each other sex only after our marriage. Now,our challenge is dat, she had an irregularity in her menstraul period last month, after wch we decided it is neccessary she sees a doctor. After seeing the doctor, he said she had some bacterial infection in the stomach and prescribed some antibiotic drugs for her. He also said the only way to reduce such infections later is for her to get married on time cos frequent sex will reduce such, shez just 23 now and about to graduate and am 28 though am working. Am really afraid cos i dnt want to break my vow. I intend to settle down in da next one or two yrs after her service. Pls your advice will go a long way to help us overcome dis situation especially on medical grounds.

Tnx.

Firstly . . ur 28 and uv not had sex for over 20yrs . . . when did u first have sex? wow . .

2ndly . . .the Doc has given u his advice based on experience. There is a greater being than the Doc. If indeed u intend to wed her after her service year, talk to God about it. He can do all things. Secondly, if its a bacterial infection, there are drugs for it. He is not insisting that it will be frequent if u guyz r not married . . . he is just saying it can be averted with frequent sex. There is a possibility she may not have it again even if she dosnt get married in 5 yrs . . .

Good luck.

190:
[color=deeppink]Creamish please teach ragdollz how to be a real woman

( I saw both of you on the same attire ) he is a damn handsome man

@ compliment . . thanx . . . .

Im not a teacher tho' . . . i believe everyonez mature enuff in this forum .

r231:
bride's parent church. . . . . preferably the Dad



not really

neily:
the bride's church cos it will mark her last day there.

. . . . rily? so wat happens if the Groom is also a member of that church? will they both leave simply because it is the Bridez church and d wedding marks her last day there?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Prolly brain and character, since i'm not so strict with physique [/color]