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Tallesty1:
Stingyness Season 30 Episode 15.

hahahaa... oya take!

refiner:
my dear am not surprised cos u are lady and so u are trying to defend ur gender!...buh truth be told women are more selfish!



a woman loves doing stuff DAT will favour her not minding d feelings of d guy!.... u can hardly see a lady sticking on a poor diligent guy wifout having two or more guys outside!.....

let's call a spade a spade!

Bullocks!!

Do not assume MOST women to behave exactly like U. Its always safer to stick with "SOME" when making un-researched statements... There is no spade to call here. I know a good number who have stuck with men in their poor state and were supportive without having backups outside their relationship. These women have the respect and luv of their men.

refiner:
I fink women are more selfish!....yea guys are selfish buh women are more selfish!....


op d example u sited above was from just a friend of urs and it apply to some men too buh most women does all DAT and even more! ....dey might date more Dan 10 men,each has dere purpose......maybe one for sex,one for money,one for love,etcetera!

dey mostly fink abt demslves wifout feelings for oders!

Source? @Bolded

Tallesty1:
Thanks dear.




Why u dey cut eye 4 me

Datz ur bday gift!

Tallesty1:
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Happy Birthday Dogo!

postmann:
@OP,

From your post you said you've been married for a year and blessed with a beautiful daughter...

Should I take that to mean that your wife is just 3 months into her postnatal?

If that's the the case, you'll need to give her some little more time. It's normal for her to be less responsive to your sexual advances.

You can quicken the process of her sexual recovery by being extra romantic. You should know what used to turn her on before her child birth and work towards that line. Little non-sexual kisses, hugs and touches do great magic overtime. Also do a complete boxers and singlet/t-shirt overhaul. This will definitely catch her attention at her vulnerable moment. Hopefully she'll start having thoughts of intimacy with you.

Exactly.. well except the child was born out of wedlock.. otherwise, give her sometime. Its a recovery process for her. U shuld never try to replace communication with psychology or assumptions. Say it as it is...datz how u address issues.

chibwike:
Congrats to seyi shay and his wife

... Seyi Shay na woman oo...

This is very encouraging.

Audray:
Possible ways of being a mother of three and still a virgin...1.getting artificially inseminated and conceiving triplets which will be delivered through ceasarean operation.(hymen still intact 8-))
2. Officially adopting three kids...(hymen still intact 8-))
3.Kidnapping three children and claiming to be their mother.(hymen still intact 8-))
4.Rearing three imaginary children(hymen still intact 8-))

Thank you. Some people are content with not thinking outside the box. smh..

Nigerian Girls.

They were only married for 3 months... wow..

EnigmaticEnigma:
You guys are missing the point, or maybe I wasn't clear.

I meant like on the same day.

Like you both stopped over at the same supermarket on the way to the same office, you try to talk to her and she doesn't simply reject you, but embarrasses you in public.

There's a huge difference between a girl rejecting you in public and just out rightly embarrassing you, you know what i mean?

No way she would forget in such a short time and she'd even be shocked seeing you as the interviewer

Okay..

So would U ensure she doesn't get the job? ...even if she is qualified?

D'u know it's more painful (psychologically) when U don't meddle with her employment? Tables are turned and she will be the one seeking u out to apologize and make things right...especially if u are her boss. U'd best be watching out for kiss a.ss moves..

Now this is more like it.. a gospel worth preaching.

Rexhenrex:
The stakes are high it should not be encouraged...

What if it gets to the wrong hands,prolly someone sees it in his phone and tries using it against her because you can atestify to the fact that when someone get a hold of your phone the head straight to your gallery!

Some men act possessed and childish he might show his friends
or decide to punish the woman by uploading them online when the have a fight and misunderstanding.

We know the wife is his woman and can do it if he wants but mehn..the advantage is less jarey the idea is preposterous and outrageous when the are both together at home they can decided to live nake.d but aside that to avoid stories that touch..not send nude to there phones.

Well said.

Hmm..

Ikokore... I juss nor fit understand dat delicacy..

Smh... No point having a headache over talks. U know who u are as a woman. Wat anyone says of u should make no difference to u if u know u truly are not what they say u are.

Nigerian women this... Nigerian women that..

Its all for conversation sake. It doesn't take away ur pride as a true, beautiful, black and proud woman.

Make Dem talk. Raving fans everywhere..

BumBae:
Lol feel free to go through mi post dearie , proofs in d pudding ..

Aint got time some of us have work n life outside this

Word!

Lezzlie:
Loooooolz!!!


But women are gradually filling up the middle class more!!

Check it, if a male and a female finished university, the odds of the woman getting a job before the male is high.

In the lower strata of society it's the same.

Bank cashiers, marketers, sales rep and receptionists etc are all positions that women have become the preferred choice to manage!

True.. in my office, there are 8 women and 1 man.. LMAO!!

OK the OP is going thru some emotional turmoil...let's stop laffing biko. We're not helping at all..

Lezzlie:
....

Why does this verse come to mind, are we at the hour already?

And there shall be 7 women to a man, and will say to him, we can feed ourselves but we want to bear your name

No be my generation abeg... dat time never reach..

Lezzlie:
Lolz, the OP is also a joke too!!!

She has been falling for those dumb lines of the quasi-literate, dumb singer!!!

And she's a student? Deceiving her struggling parents to feed the greed and laziness of a dumb guy like that.


Lolz, give women money and a lazy dude soon takes it.

Its all in the name of luv...

OP... Wake up already. Dude is the King of Leeches! Get yo azz outta there Pronto!!

Wow!!!


The guy is a joke!

solid3:
We don repent. But seriously if my wife's sis has that kinda body, the my wife has something hotter, why thing with phallus when the brain is intact?

A very solid point there..

gabinogem:
Greet her & go pick up a chilled bottle of heneiken from the fridge to quench my lust.

solid3:
I will tell her to go and dress properly and will immediately leave without waiting for her response. Cos standing by the door and watching her come pass may lead to something else.

Mediator97:
to set your mind on the things of the flesh is death but to have your heart fixed to the things of the spirit is life.

....3 strange replies the OP never saw coming..

gerarahiamehn:
But does it happen to all women?

Did it happen to you? you don't understand. She gets annoyed easily and blames me for everything...everything!

Not every woman is wired same. A vast majority go thru similar symptoms.

Before now, has she ever behaved like this? If she did, I doubt she'd be your wife right now..

Now that you know its a phase, try not to take it to heart...dat way, U dont get pissed.. cos if u get pissed and shez pissed/moody/crazy, it'll be an all out war. U need to take ur rage out of her reaction cos it wont help U get thru the whole period (9 solid months).

gerarahiamehn:
Pls when will it end? She easily gets provoked these days

Mood swings... manage her. Once she has put to bed, it will drastically reduce.

It seems this is ur first time. Mood swings and weird cravings are normal symptoms. Some meals appear unappealing especially if the pepper in the pepper-soup isn't much or not spicy enuff..so don't blame her if she rejects rice now.. its all part of the phase.

Manage her craze for now. Its temporary.