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BiafranBushBoy:
Lol... I think it was far from that...

The write up can't portray exactly what happened, but I actually heard just a bit of it.

Attitude changed, Everything just started to fall apart...

Even tho it wasn't that obvious, I knew things were no longer alright.

It was psychologically devastating but I have passed that stage tho!!

Goodluck!

BiafranBushBoy:
This is a true life story!! Read below and see the "reward" for being loyal.

On the 6th of July I resigned voluntarily from my place of job due to breach of contract from the Indians I was working with. My job became hell instead of heaven for me. I was paid off my remaining contract terms and I was back again in the streets again looking for another job. Days went into weeks and weeks ran into months.

I woke up every morning starting at my mail box and hoping that something would come forth from the numerous applications I sent out. Whoever told me that I would stay at home for this long period of time searching for a job, I would have seen the person as an enemy of progress.

Months ran into months and it dawned on me that I was currently spending my 6th month at home and it was a new year 2017. The prayer intensity increased as I continued to bind and cast every spirit of my village people.

Luck dawned on me and I got two invites simultaneously; one from Indians again and the other from an indigenous firm. The Indian firm had a higher pay, and they were willing to increase it just to convince me join them. After due consultations, praying and fasting, I decided to go for the Nigerian firm whose salary scale was far below my level but I felt I would have peace of mind. I was initially employed to spear head the marketing activities of the company, but along the line they continued to add up other job functions which even included uploading contents to the company’s website and managing it. I willingly accepted so as to develop myself in those areas.

One faithful day in the second month of my new workplace, I got a call with a foreign number asking me if I could have chance for a Skype interview. I accepted and the interview was conducted and I was being begged to take up a marketing manager’s role with an Indian firm here in Nigeria. I played along till the salary part and when it was dropped, it was too good to believe. I accepted the job and promised to resume but deep down I knew I wasn’t going to resume. I hated working for Indians and I felt I should be loyal to my Nigerian employer.

My parents were in support of my loyalty and my boss even asked me not to dump the company but instead, I should grow with it. I continued and my hope of better days and the hope that my little beginning would take me places kept me going. A point came and my boss even praised me for being such a good addition to his firm and promised me heaven and earth.

I was even sent on training with my prospective firm, which I didn’t go because I felt that I wasn’t going to resume with them the next month.
Towards the ending of the month, I was asked to undertake an assignment in my current firm. I was asked to design a brochure using Corel draw.

“Wetin concern Corel draw and Marketing na?” I asked myself. Me trying to be a good employee, I decided to give it a trial so as to show that I still love my job and would do anything to keep it.

After designing, I submitted and was congratulated on a job well done. Just the Sunday that ended that month, I got a message on my Whatsapp that said “When you are free please call me.”

I immediately called my boss and with happiness at least for the last month’s salary, he told me…

“I am sorry to inform you that you will no longer be resuming with us for the next month…” I never really allowed him to land as I terminated the call right there in the middle of his explanations and bullshit!!

He continued to call till on Monday morning as I picked up my new suit and tie and resumed work with the nationals I dreaded the most!

“What if I had rejected the Job before hand?”

"What really happened?" These were the questions that flooded my mind as I waited where they asked me to wait for the driver to pick me up!

Source: http://topwritersden.com/loyal-to-my-boss-and-this-happened/

Cc: Lalasticlala

assuming he wanted to ask u to resume in the new office in america as the new manager?

AdoraAmadi:
Instagram user, @enkay_umeh, has taken to the social media platform, to share a beautiful photo she took with her siblings. The photo has all 10 siblings from same parents in it.

Here's what she wrote;

"Family Goals
Siblings of life
And yes we are all from the same Father and Mother
#sisters #grateful #happy #blessed #brother #alwaysandforever #pride #family #sassy "

https://www.instagram.com/p/BTLWffqlabY/?taken-by=enkay_umeh


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/04/beautiful-photo-of-10-siblings-from.html

waooo very fine... no boy?

Iamwrath:
You won't get text if you didn't regiser

register as how pls?

ChangeIsCostant:
Here are photos from scene of where Enyioma Okwudiri, a 30 year old bank staff at Okigwe town in Imo State was murdered. Okwudiri was reportedly shot dead last Saturday at his home town, Umuka - Okigwe, while he was said to be on the way to drop Nanman Lamak (also killed) and another lady in his Honda Civic.

The Police on Tuesday claimed that they had shot dead the suspected killer, simply identified as Amobi. Popularly known as Toosolo Sharpiro. He was said to have been arrested in Aba, Abia state, but shot dead when he attempted to escape while he was being brought back to Okigwe Local Government Area.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/04/see-where-30-year-old-banker-was.html

Credit; Chidiebube Okeoma

RIP to Ecobank staff! The T- shirt...

MicroIce:
Ehen, so na wetin patience don dey use my money do be that?? She had better bought scalp bleachers before I get her

lols.

MicroIce:
You people should kwantinu, you hear??

Good but do u have anyway to know a lady is bleaching? Always check the scalp of her head it will always remain black if all other areas are affected. Thank me later!

MrEgbegbe:
God forbid

Enjoy your next sex and whatever comes with it

Sinner

ooooh now its about being a sinner not dirty and worthless p..ussy anymore? u are just a useless igunna who only knows how to condenm the very p..uss.y dat brought him into the world.You are the worst sinner.

MrEgbegbe:
Hey

Tell me the reason you called me a liar and do you think i would waste my time lying to you ?? What would i gain from lying ?? $100M ??

watever... pls enjoy ur next session of sex.

MrEgbegbe:
Culpable ??

Again, you don't know me, how the hell do yourself know my life more than me ??

Why do you think that everyone loves and will do anything for sex ??

I haven't touched a woman or thought about sex in 15 years now, why ?? Because there's nothing special about sex

liar! liar!!liar!!!liar!!!! and u expect anyone to believe you? as if you are a ghost... even ghost go around sleeping with humans in form of spirit husbands and spirit wives, so wat the heck are you talking about?Am sure you had sex last nite......

MrEgbegbe:
Shut up

Do you know​ me ??

How do you know i can't do without it ??

Bunch of brainless girls

you tink u can intimidate me by ur useless talks and ranting? as long as u are a human with vein and blood flowing in you are culpable I dont need to know you...# e-talkative#

MrEgbegbe:

No Vagina in this world is worth 5 naira

Even if it is made of gold and the tunnel leads straight to heaven

Vagina is a piece of flesh that smells like rotten fish

Vagina is a wound that bleeds for 5 days every month

When you shave a Vagina, it looks like Kpomo

Ignorant girls everywhere

yet you cannot do without it... dat makes it worth everything...

Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
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I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
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The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
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When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
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From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
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That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
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Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

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Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

This is why I advice guys to always make money first before considering love, girls can be bittchhy wen guys are still struggling... My advice try and forget her she is'nt worth dying for, time will erase all ur feelings for her and wen u look bak u will feel so stupid....

So how is that an embarrasment?

kingphilip:
I'm in a dilemma to either commend the couple or condemn them

The delay of justice through the court system still makes it impossible for people to stick to the court while there's an escape route for jungle justice

Now the boy may go scot free even with the rape allegation

lol!He may go scot free but at least he has been taught a lesson to last him for a lifetime.

curtisaxel:
chai!!....all he wants is jonathan's offering and tithe. Fake pastors and rich politicians be like.......

association of e-judges, wat has d pastor done now?

realmey:
Hello NL

I visited my father-in-law sometime in January this year
We had certain conversation that included him asking me to visit him either on a weekly or monthly basis

Hmmmm,it didn't go down well with me,though i said nothing so it does not look as if i'm disrespectful.

I made up my mind it was not going to be possible as ordinarily i felt he was trying to control me;i didn't bother visiting in February as i already decided to visit at my convenience.

I really don't know if i am wrong,pls ur sincere advice

nope u are not wrong man.. keep it up however try to find out the reason for such request from ur fatherinlaw, if it is due to loneliness den I advice u find a way around to visit him more frequently but definitely not at his requested period of time, remember u wil also get old someday.l

Henrybright:
You visited your boyfriend's mom for the first time and when you got there she asked you to help her wash the dishes . What will you do in such a situation??

For the ladies

only a wicked mother inlaw will do dat, however incase I am subjected to do such task unavoidably all I need do is to feign illness in my most polite way den I jump am pazz... kikikikikiki. #teamwickedmotherinlaws#

Opinionated:
source: http://www.opinions.ng/6-places-never-toast-nigerian-girl/

So where should a lady be toasted? Abeggii toasting can happen anywhere since no one plans for it the most important thing is your manner of approach.

igwegeorgiano:
Wonders they say shall never end. this is not a cock and bull story or a fabricated gist. its very real and its happened right before my "opolo" eyes. Just now, i mean few minutes ago i caught my boss pants down hitting sooooooooo hard on our secretary's punnany if you understand what i mean.

Every organization with randy bosses at the helm of affairs in various depts will agree with me that such scenerios play out almost on daily basis and this is not healthy for the health of such firms. personally its irkes me when bosses who are supposed to protect the interest of their female subordonates decide to take advantage of them simply because they call the shot in the organization they work.

I wouldn't want to bore us with where i work; but i'am millions of miles away from my fatherland NIGERIA. Please note this; i was sent here for a one year training by my organization in nigeria over a year ago. after my training our headquarters decided that i should be retained and i was later re deployed to one of our base here in the same country

Today, i am the first staff to arrive the office this morning. while ascending the staircase i heard voices and was like who could be in d office so early today? so i decided to tiptoe till i got to my boss's office. my office is directly opposite my boss's. secondly i noticed the cctv cameras were all switched off so i switched it on before going to my superior's office where the soumds were emanating from. The door was nt locked it was left ajar so i peeped. low and behold my oga(a black man also a nigerian) was digging so deep into our secretary's honey pot from all angles and for almost 10mins i watched a live porn movie playing out right in the office of my boss with him playing the lead role.

While this was going on and none of the duo noticed that a third party was around, i decided to go back to my office. while in the office, i thought of what to do with my boss and the secretary. i arrived at the conclusion that i will download the video of their unethical act in the office and keep it just in case. i want to state here that my boss whom i caught pants down this morning is never a nice man at all. he is a saddist and an unrepentant pvs...y addict. its obvious to me now that its not his first time of doing this nonsense in the office.

Back to my eyes witness account. When they finished the fvcking session, my boss and his accomplice were shocked to see me. the look on their faces were like that of a rat who suddenly saw the flash light of a hunter and felt like the ground should opened for it to enter. note that up till the time they finished no other member of staff has arrived so it was just three of us in the building. He (my boss) started shouting at me calling me names and also asking me a million question at the same time. All i did was to keep quiet and absorb his rantings. meanwhile, i have already switched off the cctv camera so he wont know that i recorded is stupid act.

After all the brohaha and shakara he invited me to his office and asked me to sit down. At this point he was so calm and friendly but i refused to be deceived by his fake disposition towards me because i kbow how wicked the devil in him is. He offered me coffee which i rejected so at that point he asked me if i noticed anything i told him straight to his face that question will not be neccessary cos i just came into the office few seconds before he saw me; but he suspected i wasnt telling him the truth so he he started making promises that i know deep down in me he will never fulfilled till he kicks the bucket.

I have his scroatums in my palm now. i don't intend to blackmail him for any reason not even for all the money in the world. but its gonna be a tool for me to keep him in check. As for the secretary, she has been pleading with me not to divulge the secret to a fouth party. she promise to do anything for me at the snap of my fingers. For a start, she gave me 2,000 euro just to proof to me that she meant what she just told me. for now my boss is been extremely nice to me in the past couple of hours but how long he intend to play this nicety script towards me remain a subjet of observation for as long as i am still here. i have passworde the recorded sexual act in the cctv camera. i will duplicate it as many as i can before deleting it from the memory.

just be careful incase ur boss may begin to habour thoughts of getting rid of you.

skypeme:
Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise

My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it

I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl

My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month

My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,

I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her

Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend

Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account

So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira

I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again

I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me

Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?

Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?

She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done

Your wife is planning to go prodigal, she is seriously comparing u with someone else trust me...

benjanjo1:
My God i am done!!! what will i do?! Where do I go?! See this message!

 



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Thanks.

wat is the OP talking about? I dont understand a jack.

ObiOmaMu:
According to the Twitter user who shared the video, an NYSC member said it happened to her in Abuja. The driver, who was carrying NYSC members was filmed flaunting his dick as he drove.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/03/driver-caught-by-nysc-member-wanking.html

may be he was trying to advettise his big sized dick to the lady coppers, who knows someone may be interested! Ladys and big diiccckk shaaaaaa....

ObiOmaMu:
According to the Twitter user who shared the video, an NYSC member said it happened to her in Abuja. The driver, who was carrying NYSC members was filmed flaunting his dick as he drove.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/03/driver-caught-by-nysc-member-wanking.html

may be he was trying to advettise his big sized dick to the lady coppers, who knows someone may be interested! Ladys and big diiccckk shaaaaaa....

Nwodosis:
How will she prepare a meal for herself before we talk of her husband(if any)?

lols. this is not normal, there are unseen powers controlling her mind.

Daniyemi:
I and my exgirlfriend parted ways about 3 months ago precisely on new year day.
Shortly after our breakup, I met a couple of girls. I had flings with quiet a few of them but I wasn't comfortable because at my age, I am not suppose to be having flings but a committed relationship.

The problem is I currently have two girls I am in love with. They could easily pass off as models. Beautiful ladies with good hearts. I had to pretend I was flat broke to know if they were coming because I am rich(not very rich though but I am super comfortable for a 20 something yrs old guy. I own a law firm and a school which is setting off soon) One of the ladies is in Abuja she studies there and the other with me here in Kano she is also a student. As a lawyer, I know it is improper to date two girls at the same time cos if one should find out I may end up loosing both.


My problem is I tend to love the one in Abuja more, she is 20 and I took her virginity I was amazed to find out she was a virgin. But the downside is the distance. Distance was one of the factors that led to I and my ex parting ways. We lost the trust we had for each other(there are other reasons though.).
She comes to the North to see me. She was here last month. But I am already feeling since she is no longer a virgin she will want to explore especially giving the fact that she is beautiful.
I don't know if I should use the distance to leave her alone as I do not want a repeat of what happened between me and my ex.

The second one with me here in the North she is 23, very beautiful has a good heart, jovial, polite my friends like her. she is a good cook as well.

When I was asking the girl in Abuja out, she was playing hard to get and I asking the second one out too just incase the first girl failed to date me. They both eventually agreed to date me even when I feigned I was a broke nigga.

Pls house I really do not want to double date. As I can only marry one wife. (I date to marry like I did with my ex). I can't Introduce two girls to my People. What do I do to remedy the situation? insults are welcomed.

Modified* I was well aware that no viable solution will come from nairalanders. As usual they didn't disappoint.
I wonder if it was my own doing to have had the girls say yes to me almost at the same time.
I will resort to prayers.

did you say you are 20 years? pls do the right thing at the right time so u dont eventually make a mistake.... concentrate on oda issues for now...

Dyt:
Market must sell

yes ohh by fire by force..

Scented:
I asked for the ladies in the house to help me out with advice because I feel they would know better in such a situation. Men who may have ideas can also contribute.

I will try and be short as possible. My sis turns 28 this year. She has been down emotionally for some time now and she is very close to me and it has made me down too.

My sis has been dating this guy for about two years now, the guy is 28/29 years I think. She got pregnant for this guy about a year ago, the guy was not ready for marriage and they decided to abort it. Along the line she wanted to keep the baby though, but a medical condition stopped her from keeping the baby. The doctor said the baby was growing outside the womb with complications and an operation to abort the pregnancy was needed even if she didn't want an abortion in the first place. Two other hospitals confirmed this through scan.

Also, another shocking revelation was discovered, the doctor said she has a medical issue which would make it kind of difficult for her to conceive easily, that she needs a man with a very very high sperm count for her to take in and the chances are slim because just about 1% of men have such rare high sperm count. This meant the guy she is dating has the rare high sperm count and she attested to this because she said of the previous 2 guys she has dated before him, they at some time engaged in sex without protection and she never had taken in before, but as for this guy in question the very first time they had unprotected sex she took in for him. She didn't reveal what the doctor told her to her guy though. Just her and myself know about her medical condition. The doctor even suggested she sticks to her guy because there is slim possibility of finding another man with such high sperm count. The doctor even asked that guy enrol for sperm donation in fertility clinics as his type of sperm count is in high demand and rare. The guy doesn't stay in the same city with her so he couldn't be around during the abortion process and the doctor couldn't tell him any of these revelations.


After the abortion she and the guy have still been dating, although they don't stay in the same city. She said they guy loves her but he is not directly clear about wanting to marry her anytime soon. This dude is the tall and very handsome type and I sometime see him as a playboy because he gets a lot of attention from ladies but my sister says she has never seen any red flag to suspect he has ever cheated on her and he respects and cares for her like a responsible man. I presume the guy still being young for a man(28/29 years) and very handsome doesn't feel its right time to get married but its not the case for my sister as she is turning 28 years soon. For what I know between her and the guy, they love each other deeply but the dude is just not ready yet to get married, both of them are working but the dude isn't too comfortable yet, but at least comfortable enough to get married if he is serious. The dude isn't just saying anything about settling down at all!

Now here are the questions I need to ask the ladies in the house to help me;

1-Should my sister tell the dude everything? Would this make him more emotional towards her and consider marrying her soon or he would feel he is doing my sister a favour in marrying her?

2-Should my sister consider breaking off with him and giving a chance to other serious suitors? She is very beautiful and has a job and men keep asking her hand in marriage everyday. Remember the doctor said her medical condition makes it hard for her to conceive and needs a man with very high sperm count, can she find a man with that rare high sperm count in the other men asking her hand in marriage? The doctor said just about 1% of men have such and if you do the maths the possibility of finding another man with such is very low in probability.

3- Should she try to make the guy get her pregnant again and based on the fact she has had an abortion before for him he would not have the guts to request she aborts it again and would be forced to make marriage plans? Ever since she had the abortion about a year ago the guy and her have become very strict towards unprotected sex, she says they don't even make the mistake to try it again. But we know as a lady she can have her way with him if she really wants to get pregnant. Mind you she may get pregnant but it would not be that easy from my family side because my dad has said he would not give his blessings to any of his daughters who gets pregnant before wedlock.

4-Married ladies, is there a way a woman can smartly make a man consider marrying her faster? Are they any tricks to making a man more eager to marrying you or are there proven ways to push a man who has cold feet towards getting married? Please has any lady been in such a situation before and know what to act accordingly? Please help a sister out.

Thank you all!

my candid advice; tell ur sister to shut her mouth let her remain open to the guy and also other suitors....

doublewisdom:
Now we know how Efe got his strong face.

how can u call efe stong face? show us ur face lets see.

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

I dont understnd what exactly ur question is because u have been scammed already!

Swahili0:
pLs house help me i have feeling for ladies and i dont know what to do

delievrance things.