₦airaland Forum

Every Igbo worth his salt should come out on both sides of the divide.
Flood the APC and pdp primaries with Igbo candidates and let us see their excuse.

Elsueno:
My dad doesn't care about all this tradition stuff, if nobody is close by he clears the table, if my mom or any of us kids are around we do it instead. He never Eats & just leave the table., NEVER!.
in fact I jump at the opportunity to do these kind of stuff for him.

If your mum or any of the kids are around, they will do it for him.

Okay Good.
You have answered my question.

There is no where I said a man should not park his own plates when nobody is around.

Elsueno:
You have time to put the food in ur stomach, but clearing the plate is a problem?.....

So u will just eat, wash hand, push the table & leave ?. There is nothing alpha here bros

Sorry to ask.
When you were growing up as a Nigerian in Nigeria, did your father clear the plates he uses to eat by himself?

Be honest with yourself.

Very good.

Let us see who buhari supports.

Don't let tinubu get it on a platter.

If you are a female here and you are dating a Yoruba boy, you better open your eyes very well.

I am not saying you should break up, but open your eyes well.

Trust nobody.

Unless he has married you, don't go to secluded places or hotels with him.

If you must visit him, let people know where you are going.

She has all the beauty to move into prostitution
Really?

We should praise her for not whoring?
Lol.

It's like nairaland is filled with people that grew up in Finland or Sweden.

The wokeness in this place is too much.

Elsueno:
Bros, so u just eat & leave the plate for ur wife to pack not cool man, the least u could do is drop the plate in the sink after eating..It's only for a while, when ur kids grow, they will even race to clear ur table for u

He is going to work.
His wife is at home.

There is nothing wrong with leaving the plates for your wife.

You are not suffering her. It's not work.

If you clear the plates after you eat, good for you.
Husband of the year.

If you don't, it's no big deal. It's what happens in most Nigerian homes.
The kids clear the plates, if they are not old enough, the wife do.

I don't know which woke mentality I dey see for this nairaland.
It is as if most of you did not grow up in Nigeria.

GboyegaD:
What I don't understand is how from January to maybe August that she coincided this want nipped in the bud. How does she go to shop from 10am to 3pm? Is she selling nursery school children snacks?

You also have your fault. As an adult you can't eat breakfast and leave the plates on the dining table to go to work. That is disrespectful and not a clean behavior which could have fueled her behavior to mess up the home as well.

What is this BS?

A husband cannot leave dirty plates for his wife to clear?

A stay-at home wife that goes to shop at anytime?

Na which kind marriage una dey do?

Musrataman:
Igbo are minority in Nigeria case close

A minority that have turned your ancestral burial grounds into their place of business and bought over your family inheritance.

Dsalvo:
God bless you. They want Tinubu out of the way so Atiku can then continue everything they are shedding blood to end.

Truth is that Igbos are a people who are innately self-destructive and confused. They know damn well they cannot be voted President of Nigeria at this point in time.

Yet their hatred of Yorubas mean they are ready to embrace further Fulani rule of gradualism and conservatism that would harm them more than most others and even worsen IPOBs lunacy in the SE.

Left to me, I would prefer Igbos be granted their Biafra today. Let them join Cameroon. Nigeria would thrive tremendously without these hateful people

They cannot be voted presidency because na your papa get presidency?

The president and the vice president that you voted in 2015 in the name of change, how has it benefited your generations unborn?

I am just watching the news on aljazeera this morning of the senseless waste of lives in zamfara.

Your governors are going to aso rock everyday complaining about bandits with different ethnics creating paramilitary groups to do the work of the military, and inflation and cost of living is sky high.

Going by the absolute failures your father voted for in 2015, Dem no suppose talk about presidency for the next 30 years.

You and your papa are very destructive for not only voting one of the dumbest leaders in my lifetime whose answer to everything is "go and farm" or "Nationwide grazing lands for herdsmen" and travelling the world on a blank check, while Rome burns.

And they are trying to perpetuate their madness by voting in a kleptomaniac .

PeaceJoyLove:
You tried to maake a bit sense, but ended it with bigotry and pseudo history bullcrap which is always your ways...lol.

The issue you have failed to realise is that most people tackling you guys don't hate you. They are simply telling you the truth. Ok. Is it Pius Anyim you want to put there? That one that was a total failure as the senate president. What did he achieve? Look at Orji Uzo Kalu. Was he not a governor the same time Bola Tinubu was a governor? Look at their achievements....so wide. Kalu destroyed Abia totally
Who will hand over Nigeria to him? But you all relocated to the Lagos Bola Tinubu developed. Lol. Yet, you hate this man so much. If he was Orji Kalu, would you have Lagos to run to?

Even Kalu relegated himself to the extent to taking up chief "weep" of senate after losing the senate president's seat. But look at Asiwaju, he is focused on his long time ambition. He was not into any senatorial seat. But look at your own people? Even the statue builder Okorocha who first came out as a presidential aspirant. He relegates himself to governorship and them a senator now. Why? Cos he wants to eat money. To the extent ordinarily Uzoma or what is his name has tarnished his image and destroyed his political career. Who will ever make Okorocha the president of Nigeria with the mess in Imo? Who? Compare him to Asiwaju...even after 15 years of leaving office, he is still the leader in Lagos. And even recovered the whole of SW from Obasanjo who used presidential to steal all states apart from Lagos. Asiwaju was the only last man standing. And after, he returned to capture the whole of SW. Look at Buhari, as full as he is, did he change his after after not getting the presidential seat for 8 years? This is called consistency and being focused. Determination wins everytime. You must be disciplined to win. And you want us take the useless ones you are presenting serious. You people are not serious at all.

We dont hate you...but it is you people who hate others. You do not want to listen to history cos that is where the truth lies. You keep on telling those innocent ibos outside who dont know the history lies. We need to tell them the history so they see you people are very senseless and greedy. Which super ibo brain is around in Nigeria? They all move out cos terrible ones chased them away.

Mind you it was a yoruba man (obasanjo) who made Soludo the governor of CBN. Even his fellow ibos worked against him. And after leaving, you all saw his input in CBN, yet it took over a decade to accept him as the governor. Imagine what that man would have achieved if you had made him a gov earlier. I am sure he would be a top shot in the presidential race. But nope, na money be your focus.

Yes, you always miscalculate. But one man who has not miscalculated is Charles Soludo. He didn't say cos he was robbed of the gubernatorial seat all the time he lost to run to senatorial...and didnt lick the ass of anyone to become a minister in Abuja. He knows he is an economist who should be a governor and then a president..not a law maker. And he is focused. I am curious to see what Charles will do. And if he succeeds, I will support him for presidency. Why not?

But wait. I ask you again, isn't not the turn to Ibibios? Is it not the turn of Tivs? Is it not the turn of the ikshekiris...and many more. Why is it the turn of ibo when we have over 250 tribes in Nigeria? Why? Are they not human too? Why must it be the turn of the ibo? Have you not had your first shot in 1960? Who said you should waste it?

See, no one sends you. If you like change. If you like keep ranting on social media and keep hating Fulani and Yoruba cos of the APC union. You worked against their union for good 9 years, and you want them to hand over the seat to you. Clowns....Keep molesting girls in markets in Lagos. No one hates you. You must use your head and find a way forward.

Look at the hopeless candidates you are presenting: Orji Uzo Kalu, Pius Anyim, and who? Who can you compare with Yemi Osinbajo and Tinubu? So, only Anyim and Kalu are fit? The records are there. Orji Kalu should close his eyes and bury his head in shame. A worthless man who should be in jail by now. What did he do to Abia people? Exactly what? Agreed all of them are thieves...what did Abia gain for good 8 years that nuisa.nce ruled? You better wake up before it is too late. Very nauseating. You worked against the party and the man, and now you want him to step down for you. Very terrible way of thinking. Come on! You no dey shame? Upon all your chest beating, this is where you take land? Chai! Who willl take you serious. Imagine, instead of them to fight in PDP..they are talking rubbish. Whoever takes ibos serious too is a clown.

Na you vote in Obasanjo? Na you? Which Obasanjo did you support? Which? The record is still there. Obasanjo won via north neatly...and the numbers were shared between Falae and OBJ equally in SS. You didnt support OBJ.

In Yaradua's case, OBJ single handedly picked Yaradua. And your leaders were as usually money hungry so OBJ bought them all. You were bought and not that you supported anyone. Its money you went after. And naturally, when Jonathan brought the Ebele slogan you fell for him. Which time have you ever supported Yoruba, hausa, or fulani? Never. Na your game you want. Only you...you..you..you. your selfish interest only. Yes. I cant even remember you willingly team up and support anyone. Never! And then whenever you lose you always play the victim game. When did Fulani start getting powerful too? Did they play the victim's game with the Hausas when they were under the shadow of hausas? No, they fought hard. But you...na victim's game you dey always play. You go beat chests before election and cry foul play after. We know you na. Na your ways. Lol.

See eh..you will not seat in that Aso for the next 100 years if you are not careful. You all better stay united and be focused. If you want to join APC, then do it and participate well. If it's that ApGA you will do well, then do it. No one destroyed your APGA. In your greediness and the act of bringing yourselves down, you destroyed the party called APGA your warlord leader Ojukwu gave you. Na Yoruba destroy am too?

Look at the whole nonsense you just wrote.

You said Igbo don't support others, which is the sum of your bigoted point.

I just debunked that.

Since you had no other point, you decided to jump into endless nonsense that has no meaning.


You are just an empty bigot.

Own it with your chest Instead of writing nonsense.

Who did Yoruba support apart from Buhari?

Clown writing nonsense.

Perpetual opposition telling us about mainstream politics.

You must think we were born yesterday.

He is even trying to sound like one political maverick because tinubu managed to enter mainstream politics in 2015.

It's clear to the blind.

I am waiting to see how he will win.

And it seems for the forseeable future, the Nigerian state will keep tethering on the brink of disunity and alternate interests.

Of course, we don't expect tinubu if he ever becomes president, to have the moral right or credibility to calm the likes of ipob and other secessionist groups.

Which mouth him want take talk?

Who will listen to him?
A greedy man.

The Nigerian future is bleak.

PeaceJoyLove:
I had real fun and a good laughter with comments on this thread. I do not need to add anything again, but I will. Lol. My only concern is that ibo's children abroad who dont know the situation of things here feel ibos are sidelined. But this is the truth....they hated the party.. its democracy. When Tinubu came with his vision, they abused and insulted him. He left them and partnered with Buhari to form APC. He single handedly funded many things. Even while he was romancing Atiku, we read how that one would always ask them to ask Bola for money. Bola this...Bola that. And then, Atiku dumped him. He was not discouraged, but still moved ahead. Ibos worked against his party in 2015 and 2019. They worked for PDP the other main party. Now, they want to port to the ruling party cos they have seen that their Fulani slave master called Atiku has captured PDP. Also, Wike the money bag in PDP has chained down the place and he is the VP of any one who is going to be the presidential aspirant who is likely from the north again. Wike knows he cannot be the president now, and the easier route is becoming the vice, and a northerner must be the candidate. This is clear to ibos. Now the way out is to destroy the same party they have been against. Lol. If Bola Ahmed Tinubu is not stable and determined like these people, he cannot be where he is today. Tinubu has had many disappointments too. He has invested so much and has been betrayed. Number on the list is Atiku Abubarkar, and it is the reason Atiku cannot be the president. After OBJ, it should have been Atiku, but greediness took the seat away from him. Very hopeless man. And that same useless man is who Ibos followed in 2019 just because they hated Tinubu. Lol. Atiku use abrakatabra picked Peter Obi, and they were running mouth here and there even on this platform in 2018 to 2019. And then look at these shameful people now using "it is their turn" to blackmail everyone. Who told them to sell their Esau to Jacob? What about the Tivs? What about Ibibios? What about other minors? Is it not their turn also? Ibo were the first to be president of Nigeria. Na we tell them to lose out? Na we tell them to kill Tafewa Balewa and Ahmadu Bello? Na we tell them to start a war they couldn't fight? We have over 250 tribes in Nigeria. What about others? Are the ibos the only one in the southern region?

Ibos are selfish and self centered. Always trying to reap where they dont sow. Like I always say, they should forget becoming the president in the next 16 years. It's SWs which seems to have it for the next 8 years. Then, the north again for another 8 years. That's 16 years...so the earliest time they can come to power is 2039. And if dem head no still correct, it will go to SS or SW again so that they can try in 2055. But the ibos I know, na so dem go dey beat chests and rant online till they are relegated to minority in Nigeria. Till 3023 (a century from today), dem no go smell Aso Rock if they do not amend their ways.

No one hates ibo people. They need to face the reality that getting involved and supporting others is the winning recipe, and not one useless rant while working against people who they need to achieve their goals too..

Let them support Pius Ayim na..is Orji Kalu not an ibo who has shown interest in becoming the president?? Is he not trying to come out too? Why can't they support these two?

Since 1999, the igbos have supported others.

Obasanjo, Jonathan, yardaua are not igbos.

Their absence in the presidency is not because they did not support others.

They have done that more than any other southern ethnic.

The real problem is that the igbos have failed to make the right calculations and capitalise on their support in a strategic way.

As for supporting others.
The igbos have done that very well.

Buhari is not the only president in our history.

Don't hide your bigotry with pseudo history.

This guys have the brain of a millipede.

A disservice to the Igbo people.

How does tinubu declaring make him president?

Why not play your own game?

Since Azikiwe, it seems the igbos have lost all their political bone.

The only reason why a fellow like pantami is minister of communication is because he is a known cleric in the North who actively supports buhari and fortunately has a certification in tech somehow.

In a field where there are so many Nigerians blazing the trail like no man's business.

A Nigerian woman in Canada won a Canadian govt civilian award for her work in computer Science.
She is a professor and one of the top voices on LinkedIn.

So many Nigerians doing great in communication technology.

But Buhari gave us a pantami.
Does pantami know any programming language?

Enceladus:
Confused here also. What a country.

In any normal country, a lot of resignations will occur.
This is a serious breach of national security.

From the minister of communication, NSA, NIMC, all would resign immediately.
And would never enter into public office again.

Nigeria is a banana republic.

I remember when some clowns said pantami went to Robert Gordon university in Scotland.

Robert Gordon come and carry your product, abeg.
He has no concept of basic cyber security or pentration testing.

Africonji:
Smh. This is why short people should not be elected president, they can be easily disrespected and intimidated.

Buhari is tall as an iroko, but one of the dumbest president I have seen in my life.

Putin and Xi ji ping are both short yet they will always dominate the room.

descarado:
Will you stop please. Its becoming irritating.
Not going to and fro with you.
If your mum was a nobody, mine wasn't. My granny wasn't and all the females I know. Majority are house owners. Women hardly make noise about stuffs like that and some to cover their husbands shame will tell who cares to listen the husband built their house or bought their car.

Very low self esteem. See how he is running round trying to belittle industrious women all over Nigeria.
Heaven and earth forbid

If your mum was the president of Nigeria or the CEO of a fortune 500 company, the vast majority of mums in Nigeria are not.

And don't quote me again, you have just annoyed me.

Make I no change am for you.

If the likes of tinubu, atiku, kwankwso, saraki are the ones that will run in 2023, then I can predict the future of Nigeria for free.

The standard of living will continue to drop and the nation will keep sliding into the abyss.

Babastrong:
We are watching the watchers!!
what i know is that if pdp zones its presidential candidate to north and apc picks tinubu.
BIAFRA People are in a dilemma. Is either they choose the devil or embrace new angel.

There is no dilemma as far as I can see.

It's disgusting but it is not a dilemma.

Voting for tinubu does not serve the "biafra" people's interest in anyway.

He has no history of pro-igbo sentiments.
He is not an obasanjo.

And even if he wins, it means he postpones the next southern slot much farther in the future.

Like it or not, a northern candidate that can win is in the best interest of the "biafra" people.

yomi531:
Any southerner that thumb prints for a northern candidate based on party politics or whatever come 2023, na Ogun go strike am

It will be a question of regional interest.

Nothing like Ogun here.
Personally, I don't like it but it is what it is

The south west voted for a northerner against a Southerner in 2015 and Ogun did not strike them.

Fridaya30:
Bath them too , pack the pups, replace the pampers, breastfeed the baby, pamper ham if na cry the baby Dey cry, be there always to attend to the baby’s needs �.
Abeg find another thing talk about. U think say e easy to be a mother. I be man o. Before u come replying yin yin yan yan yan

Absolute Bumkum.

Make papa no get work, make you see whether the pikin no go suffer, especially in most Nigerian homes where the woman is often not as buoyant.

You think it is by to bath and remove Pampers.?
Anybody can do that. Get a house girl and pay her.

descarado:
Mummy don't work

Maybe, all the women out there in various fields went out to play.
Mtcheew and very stale.

Even when mummy works, the critical spendings is done by the man.

Which woman will willingly fund house rent or school fees when the husband is working?

The little she spends in the house sef na with complain.

TheGidRedpiller:
Who exactly is this message for?

The ladies having 60 body counts and the men risking it all to sleep with them without a condom.

HIV is real.

When it happens, nobody go tell you to relax.

descarado:
Very divisive approach that will make the kids hate you more.
Kids need their daddy not his money.

Until you know that, kids will grow to continue tilting towards mummy side

They want their daddy, but they need his money.

It's daddy's money that will feed them and send them to school and provide a roof over their head.

Mummy's attention is just vibes.
It's nice but it is not a need to the extent they think it is.

Ladies wey slim like dis dey deep die, and don't get tired.

The way they will lock your down with their legs like crab, na you go carry your prickkk run by yourself.

Speaking from experience.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Mothers do that too but if the man is a terrible father the children are not blind and can clearly see things for themselves.

And children can interpret your being disciplined when spanking them or not making out time for them as being wicked or indifferent (not showing care) to their well being.

Sometimes to effectively handle children you should reason like them and some father's fail to communicate with their children hence the friction and a bad wife can use it to her advantage

Most women portray an overly exaggerated negative view of their husbands to their children.

Atleast 90% in Nigeria.

The women will never talk about how he is funding the children school fees, and living expenses.

It's only when he did not drop enough money for soup or is shouting at her that she will talk about.

And then add the fact that it is men that bear the burden of disciplinarian.

Sacrificing our selves and reputation for the greater good, while the mother is there smelling of roses.

Very correct.

Any woman wey wan discipline her pikin and is waiting for me to do it for her in the name of father, go wait tire.

Madam, na your pikin too as well as mine.
Discipline am yourself.