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famozine1:
Is it advisable for a man to be sleeping on same bed,using same room with his lovely wife or they should have a different room

its not just good, its best but its also good to get a separate room for her goods if the room you share is not big enough because their stuffs alone will occupy every damn space in the room

Ehis8:
I am 17 years old, I am done with my secondary school, I stay with my grandparents in the village, Uromi Edo state. I started living with my grandparents since I was 8 years old around 2013 when my parents got separated. My father live in Abeokuta and he is married to another woman with 2 children. Although my father has been the one paying my school fees and sending me money for up-keep, he even told me to pick jamb form in order to further my education in uniben.

My mother live in Lagos, she has a daughter for another man but they were not married. The man took his daughter and kick my mother out his house. Now my mother is Single, she own a mini bar where she do her ashawo work. She sleeps with men that come to drink in her bar. Her house is just opposite the bar.
No wonder my grandfather ban her from visiting us in village. 9 years I didn't set my eyes on my mother. So when my uncle visited us, I begged him to carry me to Lagos just to see my mother, I also begged my grandparents too.
When I got to Lagos, My mother was looking like a slut. Long eye lashes, nails, chewing gum, tight leggings revealing her bum bum & hip, her skin looks bleached.

Since on Friday evening i came to Lagos I have been crying. She couldn't even respect herself. She have just 1 sales girl in her shop, the girl is also an ashawo, she dressed seductive like my mother, she would be in her early 20s. Anytime men comes around to drink and they want to have sex with my mother or her sales girl, my mother will jst take them to her house opposite the bar.
I told her I will be going back to the village tomorrow, she gave me 25k but I rejected it. I was crying, she was crying too. She could sense that I hate her reckless lifestyle
I am at my uncle's place now, I am so devastated, My heart is wounded. My uncle told me so many things but he said I should forgive her, a day will come that my mother will come looking for me by herself.
I will be at iyare motor park tomorrow morning going back to the village

have you heard her story? it might not be worth it but she probably took this route as an easy way out. She loves you and probably regrets what she now do; her reason for crying too.
Please forgive her, love her more and work harder to be better and change her way of living and give her a better life.
You're a man now, this should push you further to be better in all ramifications

my request is too plenty self, where do I start. I will appreciate any intersection you can do for me honestly

you should think about picking a savings plan you won't touch to raise capital for yourselves or better still, start an edu savings with any good insurance company. It should served 3 purpose at ones

you can adjust some items on the list to cater for this.

Ginaz:
a teen in my compound has a problem with body odor. several times she come to my house left the air smelling so stale and rotten, i noticed her younger sister had same issue too.

i couldn't take it anymore, it was so bad and i was afraid she might be mocked in the future if nothing is done to combat it.

i asked her if she ever heard about roll-on or antiperspirant, she replied NO! and this is someone using an iphone and changes clothing periodically.

i gave her my antiperspirant and taught her the need to use it daily as most of the odor comes from her armpit. i told her point blank she doesn't smell nice, her face changed somehow as if i insulted her and she left.

i saw her today and she walked passed me while i was trying to talk to her.

did i do wrong ? children of these days.

yes and No.

you did no wrong in telling her about her body odour but waking by you, giving you attitude, you should have held her hand, draw her close and let her know what you did is out of love and care you have for her and since it annoy her, you will never involve yourself in anything that concern her again.
She Ought to be grateful to you.

Hmmmm, nothing is sweeter for children than growing under both parents watch and tutoring

These people like deceiving themselves, like it or not, these governors have a lot of influence when it comes to voting and election.
If PDP don't have the young masses (which belong to Obi mostly) and they don't have govs no their team, then what or who are they banking on?

[quote author=Zonefree post=116886753][/quote]Do they pay you guys for this?

no. it doesn't. Explain to your dad and keep it clean and simple

we may not like or vote this guys but if only some people know what these guys go through especially during electioneering period.
rest for 5 minutes and you'll most likely sleep off.

That's government hospital for you but they are also good ones ooooo. very good ones

men keep other peoples secret compare to ladies. Telling any lady a secret means the secret is half exposed already.

2. guys can stay together for years and also be friends for years without issues or quarrels but ladies....My cousin once said she can't live with her best friend or any Lady she like just to protect the friendship because its HARD for ladies to stay 2 months together without quarrel. During quarrel, they is high chances of exposing secrets unlike guys. guys can fight and still keep secrets between both of them.

Nigeria my country

That's the ideal thing...

Apexter0001:
I feel so jealous, frustrated and angry whenever I see biological males with penis.

I hate them for having what I lack

This is gradually and completely turning me into a misandrist

because what you wish for, its not easy to be a man.

I love how you handle it, maturity. Please cut communications and every every with her.

potland:
recommend a good condom for me

A buy anyone really. I do buy kiss, something the usual gold circle, I am not particular about the brand but most people prefer Durex, rough rider and fiesta I think.

Amen oooo. God's grace will see us through

potland:
will you fùck her if presented the chance?

how this one take relate to the topic now?

This Chichi girl is very lucky ooo abi fortunate self.

this is good!!!

yes!!! very important ooo, both both males and females

I picked that habit immediately I left secondary school, I wasn't using it but you must see me with condom, if it expires, I dispose and replace.

The idea is to preach abstinence but the person still want to do, give condom.

its unfortunate they don't give free condom now like before, one of the reasons you see infections flying around like watin.

#Afterall, it might come handy. who knows.

if you can keep to these rules, before you know it, you will master it all.

If he can't accept and love your son, you shouldn't even think it.

some people are not suppose to venture into marriage at all. it gets annoying sometimes reading stupid reasons that some put up just to take whatever useless decisions they want to take

only few get lucky and it's easy to get addicted to it. Its better you don't start.

QuinModah:

oya no vex, na question I asked ooooo, I no mean any bad thing.

#meanwhile the question shock me, this are things to discuss before marriage. I told my partner that marriage for me is first about companionship, that having children will be an added blessing from God. marriage shouldn't be all about children.

ImaIma1:
I just recently heard of a woman that collects money from her husband to do any other thing apart from penetration. She is someone i know well and i laughed when i heard it.

If he wants oral, he pays first. ..any extra extra, he pays first. And she keeps the money for those times when he is really broke and she gives it to him .

doing the right thing in the wrong way. The day my woman wanted making request during our special time, I stood up, wore my clothes and was done, though she apologise and asked that I come but I was done. They are ways to get money from your man (which most good ladies still end up standing on the same man) aside this method.

Kologirl:
So have been dating this guy for the past year now. At first I didn't really take the relationship seriously but with time I found him to be a sweet and caring guy
The problem is his financial situation, I don't really mind it but he does.
All his friends are into Yahoo and other fraudulent activities.
They flaunt their wealth in his face all the time. They have gone as far as nicknaming him their house boy, I honestly Wonder why he still keep them as friends.
I try to be supportive, sometime I give him money and advise but it's never enough.
He works hard and he earns about 40k a month.
But because of inflation it's as good as 5k
I try my best to advice him that things will be better. He's even saving money to start a farming business.
But he's not happy
Mind you he's 22
I don't know what else to do, If I tell him to cut off his friends, it will look like I'm trying to control him.
He really wants to go to school, he said he is going to write jamb next year but anytime he's around his friends, he feel sad.

I just feel hard work pays, and I try my best to work hard and support myself but he doesn't feel that way
Please men in the house .... please advise me

it's not about controlling him, he don't need such friends around himself for his mental health. Patience is a virtue, things will definitely change.

thanks for supporting him, guys don't forget women that stood by them when they had nothing.

So unfortunate.