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Family › Re: Help Me Celebrate My Wife's Birthday by culf: 6:40pm On Jun 18, 2021
lammyna:
@Lamasta
@culf
@Xilsbridalhouse
@ lanre9ja
@chii8

Thank you guys. God bless you all. I wish to invite all of you to dinner tonight but sorry guys, three will be crowd.
you're welcome, God bless you and your family too.

you no try for us oooo oga, you for allow us come chop cake first na, before the after party.
Family › Re: Help Me Celebrate My Wife's Birthday by culf: 12:16pm On Jun 18, 2021
Happy birthday to madam.
Family › Re: It's My Birthday Today, But How Can I Celebrate It Without My Wife? by culf: 1:45pm On Jun 16, 2021
Happy birthday to you. May God console you and the entire family and I pray God grant you long life to train your children
Family › Re: My Princess Is 5yrs Today by culf: 6:55pm On Jun 10, 2021
happy birthday to her....she is cute!
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Know The Only Thing That Got Jesus Angry In The Bible? by culf: 6:48pm On Jun 10, 2021
what of when they were gambling and doing all sort in 'His father's house'.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: LCV Lounge by culf: 3:56pm On May 13, 2021
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: LCV Lounge by culf: 5:57am On May 12, 2021
hmmm....
Celebrities › Re: DMX: Hundreds Of Bikes Escort Monster Truck Carrying His Casket by culf: 11:45pm On Apr 24, 2021
may his soul rest in peace
Romance › Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by culf: 1:01pm On Apr 24, 2021
SavageResponse:
Don't vouch for anyone, it's better to say you have not caught him!
I know these people I'm talking about, we do stuffs together
Family › Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by culf: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2021
if you can hustle to see yourself through school, I will advice you leave there to somewhere else.
Be strong and patient
Family › Re: Sad Day, Tribute To My Elder Brother by culf: 11:06pm On Apr 23, 2021
hardluck, may God console you and the entire family.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got An Invite From AXA Mansard Insurance by culf: 10:34pm On Apr 23, 2021
Mrfintec:
Hi Family,

Please what do you know about AXA Mansard, is the company flexible. Anything that concerns insurance scared me a lot.
forget all the fear they are trying to create in you. if its marketing, thank your God.
All you need is prayer, consistency, sincerity and patient. If God connect you, one business and you're settled for life.
Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by culf: 7:39am On Apr 23, 2021
Hi, am I late to the party?
Family › Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 11:32am On Apr 22, 2021
November24:
Thanks my brother , it's a problem,I sat In a commercial bus with some teenagers,God,their laps all out,let's say no to rape,but we must help our men too,some are drawn quickly by what they see.

Go to lecture houses,if you are a genuine and caring person,it will break your heart
its everywhere, undergraduates even dress more decent now compare to what we see in streets and our environment.
my neighbour (young married man ) came back one day and was coming how he saw a lady wearing net and everything was out. I was laughing and trying to change the topic but he wouldn't because he was pissed.

God will help us
Family › Re: Surprise Alert by culf: 11:22am On Apr 22, 2021
God bless her more
Family › Re: It’s My Birthday Yaayyy! by culf: 10:55am On Apr 22, 2021
happy birthday. May this age be more fruitful and memorable than the previous ones. Enjoy your day
Family › Re: Why Are There More Birth Complications IN Marriage Than Outside Marriage? by culf: 10:52am On Apr 22, 2021
because outside marriage, people don't usually look forward to having kids like in marriage and as such, no need to put keen attention to complications

Some see kids as fruits of marriage.

some of the complications in marriage are results of incidences or actions some took when they were single.

Again, this is Africa, sh*ts happens in this part of the world and don't forget that people; family, friends, neighbours etc put eye in married couples more than the singles.

etc
Family › Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 10:39am On Apr 22, 2021
AsherAmari:
Don't they have parents? Do the parents not see them leaving the house dressed like that?

I wonder why you're stressing yourself and bothering the other man. If the parents cannot give their children good home training, then so be it. When the time comes they'll be the ones to bear the brunt.
but its wrong, some parents don't even see anything wrong in it. Some men are like dogs, when some see small young ladies dress like this, they may start disturbing them, following them up and down until they have their way which could lead to pregnancy and even destroying such ladies future.
What is wrong is wrong.

remember, most men are mostly control or attracted by what they see
Family › Re: Indecent Dressing Among Teenage Girls by culf: 10:33am On Apr 22, 2021
November24:
Honestly there is something which have been bothering me,I happen to hustle in a Jamb lecture centre where I teach Jambites and others somewhere in South Nigeria, they way these teenagers dresses is very abusive and hot.

They seduce their male teachers and I don't blame them.
these girls dresses like prostitutes to lecture centre. I have complained to my boss several times,but he said he is after his money.
pls parents help your children.
its really an issue now, had same thing in mind for sometime now. The most unfortunate part is that alot of older ladies and even some married ladies are joining the trend and its very unfortunate.
May God help us
Family › Re: I Feel Like I Am Being Used ! What Should I Do? by culf: 10:23am On Apr 22, 2021
let the Child's father take care of his Responsibility, you can only support when necessary and when you have the means but don't start what you can't finish.
Don't take over the child's responsibility unless you have the means and you are capable.

its time to give your people small space, move out if you're still living with them. Support them from afar when you can.
Politics › Re: Rising Debts: Senate Approves Buhari’s $1.5 Billion, €995 Million Loan Requests by culf: 9:23am On Apr 22, 2021
Nigeria is in serious trouble!
may God help us
Education › Re: I Ran Into My Classmate After 10 Years And She Did This by culf: 8:57am On Apr 22, 2021
ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser
call her and tell her it was nice seeing her after awhile, not necessarily for help, just normal discussion. If she ask how things are with you, then you can tel her every every.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Guys Let Play by culf: 10:20pm On Apr 21, 2021
Casalindal:
Old enough lol
Ok ma
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Guys Let Play by culf: 3:41pm On Apr 21, 2021
how old are you?
Romance › Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by culf: 3:34pm On Apr 21, 2021
DEMZEE:
Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options
I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help
Family › Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by culf: 2:21am On Apr 20, 2021
Gratefulaheart:
I noticed he has been exchanging calls alot with a particular number on Whatsapp. So I asked him about it and he bacame defensive. He angrily asked for me to give him back his phone, and when i refused he forcefully collected it from me, twisting my fingers in the process.

I later got my hand on his phone at a later time and was able to get the number of the person. I called and i received the shock of my life when the female who answered the call said he's her boy friend and they have been seeing for a while now. She admitted they have been having sex in a hotel, that my husband told her he isn't married.

Thank God my call recorder was on. I have the qhole conversation stored on my phone. I was very calm although my conversation with the lady, wven though it's the hardest thing i have ever had to do.

I confronted my husband and he denied it. I played the recorded call and guess what? He still denied!

We have been married for 4 years with 2 kids. I feel so devastated and awful right now not knowing which way to turn.

He's not apologizing or feeling remorseful. This is too much of a betrayal and I just don't know how we could ever get past this. I feel so betrayed and can't believe he would do this and not think of the impact it would have on me and our kids. I thought we were soulmates and would grown old together.

I have been sobbing all day since i found out.

Has anyone ever gone through this? What is the right way to handle this?


Moderator* (Please no front page. Pls i beg of you cry
Make up your mind on what to do, most advise that you will get here are from singles and people that don't have experience

Make up your mind what you want to do; either divorce or forgive.
I will advise you forgive and pray for God to change Him, genuine forgiveness but if you can't and if you know you can't be faithful to him then leave, You have right to walk away since he cheated.
Whatever you decide, consider your angels and know that it's not always best to make decisions when angry. May God see us through.

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