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November24:
Honestly there is something which have been bothering me,I happen to hustle in a Jamb lecture centre where I teach Jambites and others somewhere in South Nigeria, they way these teenagers dresses is very abusive and hot.

They seduce their male teachers and I don't blame them.
these girls dresses like prostitutes to lecture centre. I have complained to my boss several times,but he said he is after his money.
pls parents help your children.

its really an issue now, had same thing in mind for sometime now. The most unfortunate part is that alot of older ladies and even some married ladies are joining the trend and its very unfortunate.
May God help us

let the Child's father take care of his Responsibility, you can only support when necessary and when you have the means but don't start what you can't finish.
Don't take over the child's responsibility unless you have the means and you are capable.

its time to give your people small space, move out if you're still living with them. Support them from afar when you can.

Nigeria is in serious trouble!
may God help us

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

call her and tell her it was nice seeing her after awhile, not necessarily for help, just normal discussion. If she ask how things are with you, then you can tel her every every.

Casalindal:
Old enough lol

Ok ma

how old are you?

DEMZEE:
Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options

I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help

Gratefulaheart:
I noticed he has been exchanging calls alot with a particular number on Whatsapp. So I asked him about it and he bacame defensive. He angrily asked for me to give him back his phone, and when i refused he forcefully collected it from me, twisting my fingers in the process.

I later got my hand on his phone at a later time and was able to get the number of the person. I called and i received the shock of my life when the female who answered the call said he's her boy friend and they have been seeing for a while now. She admitted they have been having sex in a hotel, that my husband told her he isn't married.

Thank God my call recorder was on. I have the qhole conversation stored on my phone. I was very calm although my conversation with the lady, wven though it's the hardest thing i have ever had to do.

I confronted my husband and he denied it. I played the recorded call and guess what? He still denied!

We have been married for 4 years with 2 kids. I feel so devastated and awful right now not knowing which way to turn.

He's not apologizing or feeling remorseful. This is too much of a betrayal and I just don't know how we could ever get past this. I feel so betrayed and can't believe he would do this and not think of the impact it would have on me and our kids. I thought we were soulmates and would grown old together.

I have been sobbing all day since i found out.

Has anyone ever gone through this? What is the right way to handle this?


Moderator* (Please no front page. Pls i beg of you

Make up your mind on what to do, most advise that you will get here are from singles and people that don't have experience

Make up your mind what you want to do; either divorce or forgive.
I will advise you forgive and pray for God to change Him, genuine forgiveness but if you can't and if you know you can't be faithful to him then leave, You have right to walk away since he cheated.
Whatever you decide, consider your angels and know that it's not always best to make decisions when angry. May God see us through.

Weird. Are you serious?

imagine! This family needs deliverance, both father and daughter

b0rn2fuck:
he should better invest his time with something positive, all relationship has expirary date either it will last or not

simple and short

maasoap:
Wrong statement. You can only say this when you don't really love her

you're the one that is wrong. When you love someone, you have a level of trust for the person, that means you're not really worried about what the person is doing because you trust the person until the person betray such trust beyond redemption.

Truvel:
Nice One. Now Know Dis, Dat A Person Is A Witch Or A Wizard Doesn't Necessarily Mean Dat D Person Must Be Stubborn. Stubborness Is Just Part Of Their Nature But Not All Witches/wizards Shows Dat Stubborness. A Person May Be Quiet Or Gentle Person & Dat Person Could Be A Witch Or A Wizard. Intercessory Prayer Is A Gift. If U Aren't Gifted In It, After Sometime, U Will Get Tired. Dis Doesn't Mean U Shouldn't Interceed Or U Can't Interceed 4 People. A Person Who Is Gifted In It Won't Get Weary Of Doing It. As 4 D Dream Abt U Giving To Help People. I Would Advice Dat U Start By Giving 4rm D Little Dat U Av. As It Becomes Part & Parcel Of U, God Will Gradually Increase U When He Sees Dat U Are Now Committed To It.

nice one, thanks.

I don't get tired praying for people, the dreams reduces and become less clearer when I reduces my prayer life and become unserious.
Thanks for the advise, that's what I've decided to be doing now.

Look up to God, keep your head high and makes her proud. you're lucky you enjoyed her until your 23, some of us are not that lucky.
You will be fine, Go closer to God, you will be OK! hard luck for your lost.

seanwilliam:
Ohhh so make I trust blindly a woman that refused to talk to me but find it easier to talk to stranger Wey go kidnap her in Lagos island ?


E go shock u say your girlfriend Dey under dick right now ( if she’s not with you at the moment )

I didn't say trust blindly, I said if she is giving you reasons to doubt her and not willing to change after talking to her, then move. What will be will be. relationship needs at least small level of trust, blindly or not


well, what my woman decide to do or not do is not my business. Any human being on earth can disappoint except God but that doesn't mean I don't trust her.

@Truvel , nice one. just saw this thread now and I read through.

I always believe most things that happen in physical are controlled by the spiritual. I know someone who had experiences too.

for me, I'm not a witch nor a wizard but God has bless me specially even in my sinfulness. Some things you mentioned may just be mere coincide like flying and hopping in dreams sometimes. I'm not stubborn but if my mind is made up or I believe something is important, I go for it the matter what, which is my reason for my so many crazy night journeys but God has been faithful

I believe I have that intercessor gift too but I think I'm not fueling it. My off and on lifestyle and again, its not easy, being so tired, having such dreams especially the crazy ones and waking up to pray. its very refreshing and soul lifting but not easy, thank God all the same. Another issues with it might be my dreams mostly needs interpretation, I think that's another factor because I don't think I have that gift, I just do general prays. The few interpretations I got, aside God's processes and hindrances, is that I should help people; feed people, monetary help, even to pastors but God's knows I love to but I don't have that capacity yet

somebody said he believe he is a wizard because of what he had survived, well, his case is small compare to mine only that I'm not stubborn and I'm not a wizard nor a witch. God just decided to keep me alive against all odds though the enemies is fighting hard especially with setbacks and disappointments but I believe God is the final and what God says must surely happened. When I was in school, my neighbour jokingly asked if i'm sure my grandfather didn't cook me, the truth is, its just God, He always come through for me,...accidents, attacks, several experiences but he is faithful. Crazy movement, stubborn (necessary) night journeys... God is awesome.

all these have help in building my trust and confidence in God.

thanks @Truvel

maasoap:
Lol. What's wrong in catching a thief red-handed?

if I know my partner did what you posted above, we are done.
The truth is, you guys don't trust each other and as such, you shouldn't go this far to prove anything, just walk away, relationship without trust is not a relationship.

you get time ooo, why all these? if you're not feeling her, tell her, if she refuses to make amend, move, its simple.
it's wrong of you to do this.

yes, if she is your friend and you not have any ulterior motive

nice one, other states needs to do better.
what is even the use when we'll not see what the money is being use for

is this a story, fiction or what?

Orld777:
Noted thanks

you're welcome

I'm happy she kept the pregnancy. That child needs love and care. what you're doing to the little baby is wrong please
Confess and plead for forgiveness from your wife. if you're not bold enough, talk to someone she respect to help you out.


goodluck

love is a beautiful thing....never say never!

may God bless your hussle?

good luck to them

hearts of men is truly wicked.

unfortunately no award for who bed the most women

A very funny question...