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most ladies don't go through that very painful natural process again....
meanwhile, in as much as child bearing process is not easy, being a man is something else, just that most men don't talk much about what they go through.

Na so, swag.

too much money!

Newyorkitis:
Oga mi, this is what i have been advocating for: Marriage class. But most of these new churches wey no get branch for another place no dey take am serious. They just dey happy say wedding take place for their church.

I dey also pray to marry who never finish her sexual bundle before i marry her.

Amen to your prayers

una no do marriage class?

Let her know the consequences of her actions, seat her down and talk sense into her.

some women no dey try at all, only if she knows what her actions could lead to.

Congratulations

Things fall apart! This one is out because someone died and the parents are rich.
A visit to some government schools or community schools will shock Nigerians especially the rate of cultism in secondary schools.

Na only God fit help us from this mess.

xpool:
Hmmm, their homes now will be like Fuji house of commotion, with parents trading blames over their children waywardness.

Exactly. Parenting is not an easy task, may God help us.

more revelations, parents really need to be friends with their kids.

May God help us, imagine what the parents will be going through now.

Kobojunkie:
ON the dot!

Thank you Sir

Kobojunkie:
ON the dot!

Thank you Sir

Bros no vex but to be honest, I don't think you're mature enough for marriage, no offence please.

Your wife dey try, if you dey some people shoe here you go don kill your wife be that.

married to them or use them?

this guy 28? e choke

amen

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

bro you try oooo, still communicating with her and taking all the emotional blackmail from her.
The best support you can give her like your guy said is cutting all ties with her, them no force her, na she chose the guy over you but that is life.
you're hurting yourself more by communicating with her, cut her completely, through all channels. Its time to double your hussle, channel all this energy and anger to doing something positive for yourself.

People that control things.... All these general self...

Congratulations to them.

He is just saying it, let it happen first and you will see a different reaction.

most men can't forgive a cheating wife.

chain, I remember that year. I fit sabi this thing again so?

fxexperts:
That's why they life. This life nor balance. Good guys gets married to them Oloshos. While bad guys get the good girls. Am Sure OP had a lot of sexual fantasies with randy men when she was single, and her husband was a virgin before marriage. She saw a good man and jumped to marry him and the husband was carried away by Op seductive body type. I think that is the root cause of her problem.

lol....you're funny.

It may not be so ooooo? Men that give head are not many, both good and bad guys. A lot of men don't do oral, but like you said, na them sabi marry wives wey dey like oral pass.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

talk to him when he is happy, if you are like friends as you said, he should do what will make his friend and wife happy and oral is the easiest and fastest way to satisfy a Lady to me.
Keep talking but if he refused to agree, get yourself a toy.
marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured.


#Life is funny, while some men that like oral got married to women that will hardly agree to it, the ladiws that love it end up marrying the no oral men

Hmm, good for him.

Update: I took her to a police station, after plenty talk, they search her bag and offer to let her sleep over. I waited and after awhile they took her to one room with benches to pass the night.
I weak ooo, I pleaded with the woman assisting us if they can get any hotel close by for her, the police woman went to discuss it with their Oga and after another plenty talk and questions, Oga called someone, tell the person to get a room for the Lady. Oga said someone from the hotel will come to pick her, I asked if the hotel guy agree to the amount I'm offering but he said I shouldn't worry that they (hotel people) are his boys.
After awhile again, Oga asked one of the police guys to drive the Lady To the hotel in a police vehicle.

Thanks to everyone, I appreciate and may God bless you all

chatinent:
There's sth you said about your wife and her not being at home. You intended bringing her home? A stranger?

Is she receiving the Queen's treatment because she is a lady? Would you be so concerned if it was a man?

its not about being male or female but being stranded. to your question yes, will do it for a guy too. Have done that before and almost on daily basis including today I gave people directions to where they are going. People around here won't even stand to listen to you talk more of directing you. I'm not claiming saint either. Please its advice I need, if you don't have advice that can help me, then don't bother. thank you.

Good Evening. please ignore any typo please. On my way home now, I met this Lady from Kano that doesn't speak English. I manage to get someone to interpret for us. the person she claim she is coming to see, I try the number but network say number does not exist. She doesn't speak English and does not have anyone in Abuja. my wife is not around so my house is not an option.

my mind won't allow me leave her here. My account is currently cleared but I can get her to sleep in a hotel till tomorrow but what about tomorrow and her safety.

Please what do I do. We are currently at central Area Abuja

Nice! may they enjoy their friendship

Bolarineliza202:
Over thinking is good sometimes @culf,it's crazy and sexy sometimes too.

No dey over think biko, the thinking of life wahala is always too much, no add more ooo.

happy weekend

this is so wrong, there are single guys on the group, while going after someone's (new) husband. This is odd!

Bolarineliza202:
I will peck her and wink at her.
She did the right and anyone who sees the car will acknowledge the true love she has for her father


PS it will serve as a turn off to some of those silly husband snatcher,once they discovers he has a child

Who say the "husband snatchers" don't steal husbands that have kids?

madam I hail oooo, see where you don think go now now...

Moji12:
The problem is not the fact that ladies don't listen. It is more of when we are in a relationship we trust each other too much that nothing can go wrong in that aspect and even if we go our separate ways, the other party wouldn't use that as a cheap blackmail to get back at.
Because as long as this warning keeps flying around people that are still doing it are still....
Why?! The simple answer is trusting the other partner, spoken.
It is only a fool and a baby that will use that to get back at someone jus because the going is no longer good.

Thank you jor! why will a mature and sensible guy post a nude picture or video of his ex because they are no longer together or because she offended him. its childish and stupid.

this is serious! Be careful sha