₦airaland Forum

Johnchrix:
Not a bad Idea I have been bathing without sponge for over 10 year's now

wao, i can't.

orohbiro:
Me and this guy has dated for over 6months without sex, he has been caring he bought me nice clothes and shoes, and he also but me the latest Samsung. We both slept with each other yesterday for the ist time, I was surprise after he finish having it he starred frowning his face the idiot told me my pussy is overrated I regret ever opening my legs for him. He will never in his life are it again. Girls be wise this men are pretenders.

Not all men are pretender and don't allow what he said to disturb you, just cut ties with him. Some guys are like that.

NA to quietly ignore her oo, all through her stay, i will hardly call and when we talk, the call will be so formal.

if e pain me well well, NA to call MIL

This is nice!
#na why e good to go good sch be this, op, your parents no waste their money oo

Divoc19:
Words cannot express how I feel right now

Hard luck dear!

so, i should bath without sponge? what happened to one using a good antibacterial soap.

Hamachi:

Beauty166:
hmmm yes thank you I really appreciate

you're welcome

Beauty166:
I don't understand my life things are really getting worst day by day I am feeling so tired and terrible what I fell is so painful I feel pain why is life has to be like this God please help me and my family I am not enjoying this life at all God please help us

Alot of people are on that boat with you. Keep praying and be hopeful, know that the foundation of a big house that will last long takes time compare to a small or temporary one

congratulations bro, welcome to the club. God bless your home and Union

FelaSkye:
Is 10 million enough to leave Nigeria, people are saying it’s better to invest the money but the market is too risky. Is 10 million enough for Japa and which country can that get me into?

Thank you!

why not invest it and keep doing your thing.

That amount can guarantee you additional 44.4% every 5 years or 5% annually, safely.

Good luck tho

mjuvey3:
You've never lost an argument

Are you a bot?

You're so consistent

thank you, i thought its only me that notice that. Though i luv the fact that she does that in a good way, she is hardly insultive unlike others and she hardly take offence too.

Thank You Lord Jesus. Quick recovery to him. Congrat ma, Your son will Leave to fulfill his destiny, You wont bury any of them by God's grace

Murphyenemuwe:
I get you bro. Some fathers are so mean.

Agreed. some will intentionally refused to stand as Father, i know a case like that, they have to beg and beg.

Murphyenemuwe:
You said a relative but I'm talking from first hand experience. When divorce sets in, both parents would try to poison the children's heart in a move to win them over and spite each other. Check my comment I said the bride would have insisted her father must be on ground if he was at least reasonable. Don't tell me you're part of women can never be right movement

You are also not getting me, i am not stupid, any man that says or think that women can never be right is stupid and irresponsible

Kobojunkie:
1. It is wrong for a grown woman to decide whether or not to have her father present for her own marriage?

2. Divorce could have saved Osinachi's life but because she probably chose to believe as you do, she is underground food for worms today while her murderer continues to thrive. It is time to change the narrative abeg. Divorce is an opportunity for people to turn what may be bad into something good — it is not evil. No opportunity is evil, only some people can use it for evil.

If a lady wants to be married without her father's presence then she doesn't need to do traditional marriage, its not by force and that means severing all ties with the father's people. sorry please but are you African?
divorce when necessary is good but we should try to leave excessive hatred, bitterness and anger aside when children are involved.

Kobojunkie:
If the woman in question does not care whether the father/mother is present or not, why is the parent that is present for the ceremony to blame for it? Why do you approach this as if the girl was somehow sold off into slavery without the other parent's consent?

Wait a minute....what in the world are we yapping about consent for here... is the woman not grown enough to decide whether she wants
the consent of her parents or not as far as her marriage and life?

this is Africa and we are talking abt traditional marriage here, ladies do not marry themselves off, they don't collect their own bride price, the parents do, its different from choice of who to marry.
In my place its even a shame and a disgraceful act to attempt marry without your father or his representative. The husband family will not even agree unless they are not aware.

Murphyenemuwe:
You should leave sentiment aside. If the father was a good man to that girl she would have insisted her dad must be on sit. We want a better world but we still hold on to selfish and devilish values. What u put up there in short is, he has the right to stand as a father even while being absent all through the girl's life. Responsibility comes before honour don't change the order if not, the whole world will be in disorder

Hw did you know he was absent all through her life, the post only said they were divorced awhile ago? I wouldn't want to sound like i'm supporting the man but what is wrong is wrong.
Did you also read that he was involved, the first time he refused that they should pray about it first before she was married on the second attempt without his involvement.

Divorce is never a good thing, these are issues that comes with divorce, bitterness, unforgivingness, hatred even when children are involved.
i know what we went through when something like this but slightly different when a relative was getting married. let me not say more.

MadamExcellency:
Do you mean the sperm donor?

Where was the father all these while when the daughter needed him the most?

Haba madam!

I guess you didn't read the post?,even at that is it right? lets leave sentiment aside, same way i wouldn't support a father marrying off a child without the mother's presence whether they are together or not.
what is wrong is wrong.

funkmrflexx pls move far away from her, ignore her. She lost a good guy and she know it and its paining her. She obviously truly loves you but wanted enjoying her life thinking she could have both but it backfired and her ego want let her apologize.
Pls don't have anything to do with her else its compulsory second wife you've gotten.

This guy is right tho, a typical ordinary Nigerian is very good and hard working

Enny2013:
They won't hear. They will Sha want to do.

which them,you no dey do abi you no dey cum. The advise is for all adult.

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lavylilly:
Werey

dem say who ask question no the lost, i no understand na, naim make i ask. Abi you wan help me?

season's greetings to all NAIRALANDERS

Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way

1. some women don't pretend and i like such women.

2. she was right abt marrying who love you more.

3. if you love your babe and want to marry her, then fine, else i will advise to give this lady a try. Not marriage yet but dating, getting to know each other.

It takes alot for a lady to approach a guy, don't abuse it

Kdsml:
If i had more than enough i would have given it to her for free but i don't have any and the money i have now is for my business and daughter. I can't sacrifice my daughter happiness for someone else

Seat her down, explain to her to let her see reasons with you, tell her its not as if you don't want to help but you don't have enough.

Also for your foodstuffs business, be mindful of debt please.