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Romance › Re: Bf Clubbing by culf: 3:25am On Jan 16, 2023
Its a habit, you either learn to leave with it or let him go. you can't change him, unless he sees the need to change by himself
Family › Re: In Need Of A Co-parenting Partner by culf: 1:18am On Jan 16, 2023
thatthickgurl:
I didn't even know this was an old post. Wow
same here
Family › Re: In Need Of A Co-parenting Partner by culf: 1:15am On Jan 16, 2023
ifyalways:
Biko, some things work in developed countries where there are checks and balances.

You cant be acting British in Mushin.

40 years old (or almost) , with a child is already midnight newspaper according to Nld and a vast majority of today's youth. What You'd get here is boy toys who will scratch your Vee for a fee.

The type of men you need are not on NLD.
you can never tell, she can actually get what she want, they are lots of people here but hardly comment on post. The only thing is for her to choose wisely and how to go about it
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by culf: 12:59am On Jan 16, 2023
I have this feeling that this BBTitan will be interesting and highly entertaining.
Family › Re: Girl child touched by culf: 3:32am On Jan 15, 2023
7 years is a big girl already, its very wrong.
Crime › Re: Woman And Her Partner Arrested For Battering Her Two Kids Aged 5 And 2 (Graphic) by culf: 1:04am On Jan 15, 2023
wicked souls, God have mercy...damn!!!
Family › Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by culf: 4:04am On Jan 13, 2023
Fun
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 4:01am On Jan 13, 2023
Mindlog:
Dey form baby, you hear. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
hahaha, no vex, just tell men...
Family › Re: Women At The Receiving End by culf: 3:49am On Jan 13, 2023
DaBogu:
Man tells woman he doesn't want the pregnancy early enough.
Woman still decides to keep it anyway thinking that he will change his mind. Man doesn't acknowledge the existence of the child.
Woman causes a public scene and drags man's relatives into the matter

We keep forgetting that Nigeria is not known to have a strong child support policy for single mothers. I've never heard of a single case. If there was, we can easily enforce compliance on the side of the man , whether he wants the child or not.

Knowing that the policy is unlikely to be enforced anytime soon, many women will always be at the receiving end of negligent baby daddies. History has proven this.
Why sleep with a lady and even go raw when you know you don't want a child. Are you aware she can die doing abortion, aside it been totally wrong, what then happens; the guy moves on while the parents mourn their daughter i guess? Let's be considerate sometimes and put ourselves in others positions and see how far.
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:32am On Jan 13, 2023
Mindlog:
Are they not supposedly a couple? Why the preference for separate bedrooms?

Couples living in separate bedrooms is not even good for their kids who are naturally observant.

I have worked with a 5 year old kid, who told me his parents are "quarrelling" and I asked him how he got to know, he replied " daddy doesn't go to mummy's room again to do shukushuku"....hmmm.
LOL...what is shukushuku pls?
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:28am On Jan 13, 2023
ibkayee:
I’m used to couples sharing a bedroom but I’ve also come across people who sleeping separately is a norm for? Maybe they’re one of those couples.

Couples competing for ‘ranking’ will always be alien to me.

Anywho, men lord their status as highest financial contributor over their partners’ heads and act like it’s license for them to take certain liberties all the time, but when women do it, it’s ‘noise’.
Not true ma, most men don't do it because of financial contribution, they mostly do it because feel they are the head of the family. A responsible man know its his responsibility to take care of his family so their is no need dragging anything became of that.
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:19am On Jan 13, 2023
emmanuelbrown26:
A man would feed a family until his dying days and nobody will hear anything about it but a woman would feed a wife for just a day, d whole world would definitely hear and know about it. That's women for u
D gods are wise.
not all women, my friends mother is an exception, that woman sha, her types are rare.
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:12am On Jan 13, 2023
ednut1:
Hmmm nawa o, my gender and useless ego
most men will not give take it, she should have use another argument and not because she is paying the rent. Its more like rubbing it on his face.
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf:
Trivial issues, marriage sha, its well o.

My wife will never agree to staying in a separate room even with all her plenty stuffs. I guess you both love it separate.

meanwhile i think both of you have ego, yours maybe because you pay bills. I feel is its wrong to say because you pay bills you shoulder stay in the bigger room, your argument should be because you have more stuffs not because you are paying the rent, most men will not take it. I know a woman that will give her husband money for the children fee when oga is not buoyant and no one will know, its the man that will still tell them what their mother did.
Family › Re: My Prison Exeprience By Perfectmatchng by culf: 2:36am On Jan 13, 2023
Its unfortunate, thank God you're out and may God help us. I visited just once, i think i need to do that more often now.
Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Me. A Picture Collage Of My Transformation From Birth. by culf: 7:30am On Jan 12, 2023
See fineness oo, mehn. God bless You and be with You always. I pray for a bigger and better You
Romance › Re: Shaming Of Women Over Leaked Sex Videos Or Nudes. by culf: 4:19pm On Jan 11, 2023
Shortyy:
If you want to be shamed, then you get shamed. Live your life and fvck what people think.
I like this statement though not relating to the thead but to life as a whole
Celebrities › Re: Nkechi Blessing's Younger Lover Kisses Her, Sparks Reactions by culf: 3:35pm On Jan 11, 2023
Shortyy:
That's how i like it. Make money and catch them young.
it shouldn't be just about catching them young but about the one that will give you peace of mind.
Family › Re: How Parents Fails As Leaders by culf: 11:27pm On Jan 10, 2023
Family › Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by culf: 2:01am On Jan 09, 2023
biggy00000:
Desist from doing that last line boss.

No matter how bad MD/CEO fight dem no day call regulator to interfere o.

Only call your in-law during emergency particularly health related. #my opinion#
I understand You but its good sometimes in some extreme cases so that when You take some decision tomorrow they won't be surprise
Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Using Sponge To Bath by culf: 4:02am On Jan 07, 2023
Johnchrix:
Not a bad Idea I have been bathing without sponge for over 10 year's now
wao, i can't.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Insulted Me After Sleeping With Me For The Ist Time by culf: 1:04am On Jan 07, 2023
orohbiro:
Me and this guy has dated for over 6months without sex, he has been caring he bought me nice clothes and shoes, and he also but me the latest Samsung. We both slept with each other yesterday for the ist time, I was surprise after he finish having it he starred frowning his face the idiot told me my pussy is overrated I regret ever opening my legs for him. He will never in his life are it again. Girls be wise this men are pretenders.
Not all men are pretender and don't allow what he said to disturb you, just cut ties with him. Some guys are like that.
Family › Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by culf: 12:26am On Jan 07, 2023
NA to quietly ignore her oo, all through her stay, i will hardly call and when we talk, the call will be so formal.

if e pain me well well, NA to call MIL
Family › Re: How Parents Fails As Leaders by culf: 12:18am On Jan 07, 2023
This is nice!
#na why e good to go good sch be this, op, your parents no waste their money oo
Family › Re: A Word Of Encouragement Please by culf: 12:03am On Jan 07, 2023
Divoc19:
Words cannot express how I feel right now
Hard luck dear!
Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Using Sponge To Bath by culf: 11:55pm On Jan 06, 2023
so, i should bath without sponge? what happened to one using a good antibacterial soap.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: There Is Something About NIGERIANS �� I Need To Get Off My Chest... by culf: 7:12pm On Jan 06, 2023
Family › Re: I Can't Sleep This Life Is So Very Confusing by culf: 7:09pm On Jan 06, 2023
Beauty166:
hmmm yes thank you I really appreciate
you're welcome
Family › Re: I Can't Sleep This Life Is So Very Confusing by culf: 1:48am On Jan 06, 2023
Beauty166:
I don't understand my life things are really getting worst day by day I am feeling so tired and terrible what I fell is so painful I feel pain why is life has to be like this God please help me and my family I am not enjoying this life at all God please help us
Alot of people are on that boat with you. Keep praying and be hopeful, know that the foundation of a big house that will last long takes time compare to a small or temporary one

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