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Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:32am On Jan 13, 2023

Mindlog:
Are they not supposedly a couple? Why the preference for separate bedrooms?

Couples living in separate bedrooms is not even good for their kids who are naturally observant.

I have worked with a 5 year old kid, who told me his parents are "quarrelling" and I asked him how he got to know, he replied " daddy doesn't go to mummy's room again to do shukushuku"....hmmm.

LOL...what is shukushuku pls?

Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:28am On Jan 13, 2023

ibkayee:
I’m used to couples sharing a bedroom but I’ve also come across people who sleeping separately is a norm for? Maybe they’re one of those couples.

Couples competing for ‘ranking’ will always be alien to me.

Anywho, men lord their status as highest financial contributor over their partners’ heads and act like it’s license for them to take certain liberties all the time, but when women do it, it’s ‘noise’.

Not true ma, most men don't do it because of financial contribution, they mostly do it because feel they are the head of the family. A responsible man know its his responsibility to take care of his family so their is no need dragging anything became of that.

Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:19am On Jan 13, 2023

emmanuelbrown26:
A man would feed a family until his dying days and nobody will hear anything about it but a woman would feed a wife for just a day, d whole world would definitely hear and know about it. That's women for u
D gods are wise.

not all women, my friends mother is an exception, that woman sha, her types are rare.

Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:12am On Jan 13, 2023

ednut1:
Hmmm nawa o, my gender and useless ego

most men will not give take it, she should have use another argument and not because she is paying the rent. Its more like rubbing it on his face.

Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by culf: 3:06am On Jan 13, 2023*

Trivial issues, marriage sha, its well o.

My wife will never agree to staying in a separate room even with all her plenty stuffs. I guess you both love it separate.

meanwhile i think both of you have ego, yours maybe because you pay bills. I feel is its wrong to say because you pay bills you shoulder stay in the bigger room, your argument should be because you have more stuffs not because you are paying the rent, most men will not take it. I know a woman that will give her husband money for the children fee when oga is not buoyant and no one will know, its the man that will still tell them what their mother did.

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Family › Re: My Prison Exeprience By Perfectmatchng by culf: 2:36am On Jan 13, 2023

Its unfortunate, thank God you're out and may God help us. I visited just once, i think i need to do that more often now.

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Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Me. A Picture Collage Of My Transformation From Birth. by culf: 7:30am On Jan 12, 2023

See fineness oo, mehn. God bless You and be with You always. I pray for a bigger and better You

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Romance › Re: Shaming Of Women Over Leaked Sex Videos Or Nudes. by culf: 4:19pm On Jan 11, 2023

Shortyy:
If you want to be shamed, then you get shamed. Live your life and fvck what people think.

I like this statement though not relating to the thead but to life as a whole

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Celebrities › Re: Nkechi Blessing's Younger Lover Kisses Her, Sparks Reactions by culf: 3:35pm On Jan 11, 2023

Shortyy:
That's how i like it. Make money and catch them young.

it shouldn't be just about catching them young but about the one that will give you peace of mind.

Family › Re: How Parents Fails As Leaders by culf: 11:27pm On Jan 10, 2023

lavylilly:

lavylilly:

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Family › Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by culf: 2:01am On Jan 09, 2023

biggy00000:
Desist from doing that last line boss.

No matter how bad MD/CEO fight dem no day call regulator to interfere o.

Only call your in-law during emergency particularly health related. #my opinion#

I understand You but its good sometimes in some extreme cases so that when You take some decision tomorrow they won't be surprise

Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Using Sponge To Bath by culf: 4:02am On Jan 07, 2023

Johnchrix:
Not a bad Idea I have been bathing without sponge for over 10 year's now

wao, i can't.

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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Insulted Me After Sleeping With Me For The Ist Time by culf: 1:04am On Jan 07, 2023

orohbiro:
Me and this guy has dated for over 6months without sex, he has been caring he bought me nice clothes and shoes, and he also but me the latest Samsung. We both slept with each other yesterday for the ist time, I was surprise after he finish having it he starred frowning his face the idiot told me my pussy is overrated I regret ever opening my legs for him. He will never in his life are it again. Girls be wise this men are pretenders.

Not all men are pretender and don't allow what he said to disturb you, just cut ties with him. Some guys are like that.

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Family › Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by culf: 12:26am On Jan 07, 2023

NA to quietly ignore her oo, all through her stay, i will hardly call and when we talk, the call will be so formal.

if e pain me well well, NA to call MIL

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Family › Re: How Parents Fails As Leaders by culf: 12:18am On Jan 07, 2023

This is nice!
#na why e good to go good sch be this, op, your parents no waste their money oo

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Family › Re: A Word Of Encouragement Please by culf: 12:03am On Jan 07, 2023

Divoc19:
Words cannot express how I feel right now

Hard luck dear!

Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Using Sponge To Bath by culf: 11:55pm On Jan 06, 2023

so, i should bath without sponge? what happened to one using a good antibacterial soap.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: There Is Something About NIGERIANS �� I Need To Get Off My Chest... by culf: 7:12pm On Jan 06, 2023

Hamachi:

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Family › Re: I Can't Sleep This Life Is So Very Confusing by culf: 7:09pm On Jan 06, 2023

Beauty166:
hmmm yes thank you I really appreciate

you're welcome

Family › Re: I Can't Sleep This Life Is So Very Confusing by culf: 1:48am On Jan 06, 2023

Beauty166:
I don't understand my life things are really getting worst day by day I am feeling so tired and terrible what I fell is so painful I feel pain why is life has to be like this God please help me and my family I am not enjoying this life at all God please help us

Alot of people are on that boat with you. Keep praying and be hopeful, know that the foundation of a big house that will last long takes time compare to a small or temporary one

Family › Re: 02/01/2023 Was My Introduction/traditional Marriage. by culf: 11:38pm On Jan 05, 2023

congratulations bro, welcome to the club. God bless your home and Union

Travel › Re: Is 10 Million Naira Enough To Leave Nigeria? (japa Plans) by culf: 1:04am On Jan 04, 2023

FelaSkye:
Is 10 million enough to leave Nigeria, people are saying it’s better to invest the money but the market is too risky. Is 10 million enough for Japa and which country can that get me into?

Thank you!

why not invest it and keep doing your thing.

That amount can guarantee you additional 44.4% every 5 years or 5% annually, safely.

Good luck tho

Christianity Etc › Re: If A Demon Possessed Man Tells You Your History by culf: 12:54am On Jan 03, 2023

mjuvey3:
You've never lost an argument

Are you a bot?

You're so consistent

thank you, i thought its only me that notice that. Though i luv the fact that she does that in a good way, she is hardly insultive unlike others and she hardly take offence too.

Health › Re: My 6years Old Son Escape Death In A Ghastly Accident/faithful God. by culf: 7:30pm On Dec 31, 2022

Thank You Lord Jesus. Quick recovery to him. Congrat ma, Your son will Leave to fulfill his destiny, You wont bury any of them by God's grace

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Family › Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 12:41pm On Dec 30, 2022

Murphyenemuwe:
I get you bro. Some fathers are so mean.

Agreed. some will intentionally refused to stand as Father, i know a case like that, they have to beg and beg.

Family › Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 12:44am On Dec 30, 2022

Murphyenemuwe:
You said a relative but I'm talking from first hand experience. When divorce sets in, both parents would try to poison the children's heart in a move to win them over and spite each other. Check my comment I said the bride would have insisted her father must be on ground if he was at least reasonable. Don't tell me you're part of women can never be right movement

You are also not getting me, i am not stupid, any man that says or think that women can never be right is stupid and irresponsible

Family › Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 4:51am On Dec 29, 2022

Kobojunkie:
1. It is wrong for a grown woman to decide whether or not to have her father present for her own marriage?

2. Divorce could have saved Osinachi's life but because she probably chose to believe as you do, she is underground food for worms today while her murderer continues to thrive. It is time to change the narrative abeg. Divorce is an opportunity for people to turn what may be bad into something good — it is not evil. No opportunity is evil, only some people can use it for evil.

If a lady wants to be married without her father's presence then she doesn't need to do traditional marriage, its not by force and that means severing all ties with the father's people. sorry please but are you African?
divorce when necessary is good but we should try to leave excessive hatred, bitterness and anger aside when children are involved.

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Family › Re: Drama As Ex-wife Marries Off Daughter Without Father’s Consent by culf: 4:41am On Dec 29, 2022

Kobojunkie:
If the woman in question does not care whether the father/mother is present or not, why is the parent that is present for the ceremony to blame for it? Why do you approach this as if the girl was somehow sold off into slavery without the other parent's consent?

Wait a minute....what in the world are we yapping about consent for here... is the woman not grown enough to decide whether she wants
the consent of her parents or not as far as her marriage and life?

this is Africa and we are talking abt traditional marriage here, ladies do not marry themselves off, they don't collect their own bride price, the parents do, its different from choice of who to marry.
In my place its even a shame and a disgraceful act to attempt marry without your father or his representative. The husband family will not even agree unless they are not aware.

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