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moondust:
tell her its 'because she's cute

@ chiegemba
How are you??

Tell her she already is my great friend

I've thought about it a number of times, and i can't come up with an answer[b] yet[/b], Cos i don't know what it'll be like until I'm there

I hope and pray to God that he spares me from going through that, "a failed marriage" is one of my worst nightmares, but if i should get to the bridge, i'll cross it where and when i get there

moondust:
I'll abduct her boyfriend and take over

ask him why he'll want to take over??

exotique:
Ask her how her cute brother is doing _{plus when he will be available}.

I'll tell her he's doing very great, and about his availability?? i'll seek that she becomes the no.7 on his list of potential sugar mummies


_{hope we're cool but next time when i'm in a bad mood cheer me up not make it worse}

Hmmm, nairaland we hail thee

@ Kamura

and which kind of"extra and special help" is it you deal and specialize on?

it will cost you little' or nothing

I don't trust that "little" little of yours at all

inze:
@poster

Well Cute-ass our counsellor has said it all, that the only word i have for you.

Read in-between the lines.

luxoire:
hahahahaha

@cute-ass my twin from another mother, took the words out of my mouth,

LMAO ABI??

@ exotique dear
listen to yourself

what makes me
think i'm in
a good mood?

lol ooh chei

isnt that the
height?? anyways dear
im not here
to fight ok??

please let the
game continue jare?

jesusfreak:
dig your style

lol, i'm glad

well the truth
is i'm in
a good mood
again. guess i
woke up from
the wrong side
of the bed

exotique:
And so what?

heaven knows i
wasn't talking to
you and that
you should have
minded your biz
Cos i dislike
unfriendly souls

abeg talk to
the hands joo!!

tseye:
kike, if am dondada will u go out with me

What a stupid question??


@xjovial
I'm not sure i agree totally with you on that "love philosophy" of yours of "guys are gods and girls are the love slaves"

In my dictionary, love is sharing, undemanding, and doesn't think of bad intentions, yes its pure and original.
What happened to both parties giving 50:50?? afterall there have been cases of some guys taking advantage of girls' love too (and please don't tell me it isn't true, Cos i see victims here everyday), it actually goes both ways

If both parties love each other, then there shouldn't be need of who says "i'm sorry" or "i love you" or "i miss you" or "i want to make love" or "lets go out on a date", it should come natually, that is why you're together in oneness, thats why you love each other, thats why you can count on and confide in each other
So just bear in mind and remember that what works out for you might not work out for somemone else, Cos there's no stereotype in love. We love differently and there are no rules either!!
And in a relationship its always natural for one to love a bit more, but it shouldn't matter who the cross falls on as long as you know the other person loves you and you've got their support, everything and everybody will be just fine and happy


@ poster
I've given my 2cents earlier already, but you should just know that when you find true love, all your listed problems will solve themselves. Both of you will be giving it all to make it work. What method will work for you?, i'm not sure but you guys will be going with the flow!!

uyai:
don dada, i feel your pain. I'll borrow an advice i got from the counselor in charge (Cute-ass)

ROFLMCAO @ uyai darling, that was funny

@ don dada
Atimes i feel sorry for people that fall in love, Cos in as much as love is a wonderful thing and feeling, there are some that get to witness the ugly part of it, which one you ask??

The part that makes a partner walk over the other, and you're so beaten in love that you just sit back and accept it, the part that makes you see and write down your spouse's atrocities and yet not see the situaton as critical as the rest of the world, that part which is so blindly in love that it might not have the courage enough to walk even when they're suffering in misery

As sad as it seems, You my dear are in that shoe and it pains my heart so, that a lady like myself would be so cruel, and dubious. But thats just life.

But you my guy, you can't just live with that, i know you're in love, but wasn't it so that love is more enjoyable when both parties are doing the job?? Why would you want to be doing a solo??

Or isn't it obvious to you that the love you once shared (if any) has left the building?? the only thing holding her back is the financial and "car" priviledges she's getting from you.
She was caught in a hotel with another guy?? and what the hell did you say you were still doing with her?? waiting for her to go on a "second missionsry" journey with someone else to another hotel before you know she's playing you for a fool?? What girl will get so non-chalant and less-caring towards her boyfriend just because you couldn't provide her with a car, to go to school with?? what rubbish

Just listen to yourself . . whether we think she'll come back fully to you if you lend her the car?? lmao . . are you sure you're alright?? are you really willing to be her door mat?? to only have her "fully" bacause you satisfied one of her material needs or the other?? Comm'on now, where's your sense of dignity and human appreciation not just for material things, but loving you for you??
Its time to wake up from the slumber
What happened to a partner bieng understanding?? or she doen't know you're struggling?? she wants a "bed of roses" kind of life, and you on the other hand are willing to go to the ends just to make that happen, for what??

I can't see any foundation for a relationship here, you guys seem to be on two different ends of the universe, and it might need a miracle to make it work. When the love two people shared isn't there anymore, the goal of a relationship is somehow beaten, and deeping your head in ignorance wouldn't make matters better, only that you'll get more subdued into giving in for all her childish cries Please i beg you in the name of God, for the sake of your sanity and hapiness (you won't understand it right now), snap out of it, let her go. You can do so so much better!!!

Good luck.

hey darling chiegemba
apologies for not
seeing your mssg
before you signed
out, hopefully you
will when you're
back here again

what a day??
i'm not in
a good mood

ask her to tell me about herself

Wrong guess



tpbm would smile now

Bolarge:
Abuja now.
Come catch some warmth^/heat.

Eehn? Ok now, wait for me, (2 guys in 1) just for answering a riddle? Can life be any better

mellow:
Please, do tell us what the problem is and then we

can know how to and what to aadvice?

My dear thanks ooh

@ poster
you're a disgarce to the word "love"
So you'd rather leave your fiancee, the love of your life, your "supposed" soul-and life mate just because of some paper notes. Shame on you

My advice?? Leave the girl, let some other worthy well esteemed and respectable man come and swing her off her feet, then you could go and live in an oil company and make all the money in the world and be miserable for the rest of your life, kid!
Infact your brain is too immature to marry the girl, because you obviously still think like a 10yr old, and that's not good for her at all

When you finally get a child, ask us if you should leave your child beacause . .
Don't go and marry the girl and live a happy life, continue having some unnecessary thoughts that'll only eat you deep till you're left ll lonely. If you're able to get a better paying job, fine. If not, search til you find, but in no circumstances should you let that come over your priorities of a happy married life. Afterall some graduate ladies are married to ungraduate business men, and are all living very very happy.

Just for the records, if you don't have confidence in yourself and self-esteem like my sister babyO said, then even with all the money in the world you wont have a smooth marriage, which lady wants to get married to a guy they can't respect anyway??

Mr. please eehn hun, snap out of it!!

@ topic

Well like i always say, every action, i mean every action has its consequence whether good or bad

If he was trying to be a "fast guy" by taking the fastest way out, then he should sure as hell be prepared for whatever that "lie" might bring his way.
Well like some [/b]said, its not a big issue (we'll see about that, and i hope to God that he's learnt his lesson and that it doesn't cost him a whole lot)
[b]Omo eko mentioned his possibility of loosing an important person in future, well i guess he'll just have to try and convince "this" person otherwise, if at the long run, he doesn't get her to see facts with him then he has no other person to blame other than his "smart brain" self

That is why it is so so necessary to look before you leap, but my dear 2dye4, its such a lovely thing that you're looking out for your friend, but until he reaches that bridge, he can't cross it. He has to wait and see what happens, she might spill it or not, no one can tell yet. If he decides to confront her and tell her the truth, it'll only result to either of two things, either it makes her mad and she does the unthinkable or she understands

He has to make a choice, either to let it go and see what happens, or pick it up with her and face whatever comes from it!!

Rhea:
In as much as it's never good to pay evil with evil, I think you should try and flirt sometime soon. Cheat on your boyfriend for a change. You'll feel better thereafter.

What a bad and nonsense advice
What good will that do her?? gain her her dignity? no, make him love her? no, make her feel better? no

So what exactly is your point? Don't just post because its nairaland, try to be wise

LOL

Unfortunarely, I'm neither for nor against you . . truth of the matter?? I know - zero about football, the only thing I know is that i like watching "penalty" and when Beckam is playing

Other than that i couldn't care less (no offence to football lovers), i might change with time lol. But for now i'm just fine without

But good luck with your demonstration

Why now @ teddyface??

She loves her family, thats a good quality to have in a woman, but on the other hand i still don't agree with the fact that she should leave you hanging. But if you guys love each other, then there shouldn't be a problem fixing it.

Try and talk to her, maybe she doesn't know you feel that way. Tell her you like the fact that she's a family person, Cos you guys will need it after the big "i take you to be my lawfully wedded - - - - " lol
but that you dont like the fact that its coming between your own needs, tell her you need her full attention atimes too. If she can try and share it 50/50 then she's tried, afterall its not like she has your ring on her finger

If she invests all her time in you, and you walk out on her at the dying minute, don't you think she'll need that her family's shoulder to cry on and their undying love to pull her through??

You can't have it all dear, but you could sure ask for some!!

Naked already?? Stupid yeye "birthday" man, they should light the birthday cake candles on his d*ck lol

I just love this joke, thanks christino

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kamtoz:
any matured lady that needs a guy that can do the real thing please call mail saint.ozone@gmail.com .i ma kool,strong,energetic and size able

male and female at the same time
Good luck with whatever it is you're searching for

kike001:
what do u mean fruit?

He's talking about sex dear . . Like in the "garden of eden", the unforbidden fruit Eve ate

@ Orikinla
I think you might have a point there, most people like threading on forbidden grounds. That which they're told not to do, is their goal to be achieved.
And these are the ones thatend up regretting, because you were doing it for the wrong reasons