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I advise you go see a capable skin-physician . . so that your skin will be examined, then she can give you a list of potential creams and cleansers

Why i think so is that what works for someone else might still not work for you Cos of difference in skin types, if worse comes to worst, I'm sure there should be some pharmacitically produced and clinically tested brands tat'll suit you just fine

Thats something you're going through right there, but to every problem there is a solution. Good luck!!!!

ikamefa:
the kind of muscles that girl can shake or jiggle ! i can only do that in my dreams

So you've been whining in your dreams? lmao

Seun:
How can a husband be unable to do such a simple thing?

Re-read her post, its been taken to the next level

Seun:
Did he behave differently before the marriage?

exactly the question i was about to ask, if he was like that in the beginning, Cos it sounds like he's always been like that, why going into a relationship with him in the first place and then having two kids??

At the end of the day, the innocent kids pay the "prize"

ikamefa:
that girL can whine,jiggle and shake " "

Abi?? the wole package
Her hips don't lie

She's an angel

LOL

Thanks dear

maryD:
im asking cause i hear alot lately thats why that if they get married they will kill the person and things like that.
sorry for asking but since im not from Nigeria things like that scare me though i love him very much

that anambras kill people??

The person that told you that is a nuissance and retard . . rubbish, arrant nonsense, ignorance in its highest grade and degree

News flash my dear . . every people/country/nation/state/town whatever is capable of murder just like the place next mile.

Now if you really love the guy, you better start being realistic Cos a lot is yet to come your way but its the "survival of the strongest"

[b]I was just wondering though, if they were all killers, how come the whole population isn't of single widowers?? [/b]My girl be wise!!!

Eeeya, I wish her luck ooh, i really like her a lot.

What a lucky dude

@ bigbooty

BTW do you tell him you miss him??

If yes . . What's his reply?? Does he go off changing the subject??


If yes . . call back his attention and say something like "hey i just told you i missed you, i was execting some "i miss you too" my way"

Or after he's told the kids he misses them try saying "don't you miss mummy too?"

Don't be too persuasive or harsh, do it softly, gently and lovingly, sooner or later he'll say to himself "WTH" and come down his high horse. If he really believes thats what his culture demands of him, then he needs time to let it go. I'm sure he's been like that all his life and thats not a short time. But with the right attitude, he might just snap out of it

teddyface:
hay where are you?

Right here

@ Chukycho
you're so right!

[quote author=Chukycho. link=topic=54728.msg1130792#msg1130792 date=1179693915]I think that just who he is. You should bear with him. That he doesn't say he misses u doesnt mean he doesnt love you.[/quote]Some just don't have it in them. Thats why the word "unromantic" exists, to describe the ones like your man.
But before concluding if he really misses you or not, try look into the other "little" things he does. Does he show you in other ways that he loves you and wants to be with you?? If yes, well dear you might just have to ive with it, no one is perfect and atimes, as sad as it sounds we can't have it all

But i don't thik he should coverup with culture. culture aint got sh#t to do with expressing feelings.

Well there have been threads on stereotypes of "african/nigerian men not being romantic" I guess that's his umbrella,
But after living for a while in the states, he should be wiser than that. I wonder what he'd be saying if he was still living in Africa?? Guess he's one of those "a leopard never changes its spots" Sad!!!

Atimes, its not just culture, its the ignorant principles they abide by, I know i've come across aome here on nairaland, at least one thats says he leaves the "i miss you", "i love you" and all the rest to his woman, so she doesn't ride him like a horse. How pathetic *sighs*

luxoire:
@cute
hahaha i no go blame u, u hear, it wasn't ,meant for my r/ship,

I wasn't assuming that either, the "you (s)" in the post is "general

i had already had a private consultation with u abi?

Right that . . you're still owing consultation fee though
Your ass will soon be in jail

hahaha, i guess your right the right combination makes the best combination

My "2 cents"

@ somto13

You're right dear, but he mentioned "viagra" in his list. And I think that's for erection, so maybe he doesn't have an erection either

@ hype
You couldn't have typed more for me, i conccur to the least

@ topic

Yea, they both work hand in hand.
If someone has only either of both, then you might as well wave goodbye to it. If you have the "fate" attitude thinking everything will take care of itself while you sit on your throne like a "gueen/king", bad news for you, but sooner or later the other partner will feel neglected, unappreciated Cos fate doesn't put it in you to practicalize those feelings.

If you got the practiacl aspect, and "fate" hides away from you, you might be doomed too. Being with the wrong person (which is a bad fate), makes all your effort (practical) to make it work a waste of time. The person isn't feeling you, so whatever you do is wrong.

Why will you see a couple (f. ex. all these ones forced into marriage, the guy is evrything any girl will wish for, he's got it all, but yet the girl can't love him (lack of fate)

A couple, the girl is the love of his life but after all her bullshit, lack of contributions to compromise and meet him half way, he decides to let go (lack of practice from the girl's side

Imagine that your right leg is "practical", and your left leg is "fate". Now trying walking with just the right leg (practical) or just the left leg (fate), and see what a disaster will come out of it,

Now try walking with both . . Oooh what a happy feeling, thats when you'll move forward (now put that experiment into your relationship)

iice:
Crappy messages
Crappy Useless conversations
Stalkarazzis
To avoid unnecessary wahala!

naijacutee:
They don't want unwanted (i.e spam) mail.

For security reasons

@ pannyman

LOL @ your soap for-washing-hands-after-toilet visits story. You reminded me of something and i just can't stop laughing.

One day, all of us working in the rception and our boss with his assistant, had a work-related meeting. After the meeting, my boss decided to take us all out to a "pizza joint", to dine and wine, afterall it was saturday evening

On getting there, my boss has to use the men's, he came out, we ate and drank and had fun. After the meal,he was like he had to go to the rest-room again, On coming back to the table, he was so so shocked

He was like, "when he left the men's earlier, he had used the last drop of soap that was in there, but to his amazement when he got back this second time, the soap was still empty (mind you, the distance from the men's to the ladies is farer than telling a staff to fill it up, so No, they didn't borrow from the ladies)

His $2 million question was "there have been at least 10 guests to the toilet between his both visits, what the hell have those ones been washing their hands with??"

Food for thought!!!!!!

Yea, just search the net, when you come across any website that sells it, you'd be able to order

You'll just have to fill in your name, adress and then "method of payment", just like any other thing being sold on-line!!

samsilo:
@Cute-ass I have to join your growing no. of fans for your well thought out response to issues on this forum .

Awwwwwww, thats the sweetest thing i've heard today Thanks hun, there's always place for a fan like you (didn't know i had a number though)

samsilo:
I wasa not expressing my personal preference as far as the confidentiality bit is concerned just the legal aspect of it.

Ok, then, guess i misunderstood. But i did understand what you were saying Cos i've seen them practise it. But i still think there should be a boundary. I can't do anything about it anyway, so i might just let it rest!!

samsilo:
HIV is wreaking havoc in peoples lives every day and its sad to know the number of people joking with their lives in the name of love or trusting someone.
When I was in Naija some months ago I was surprised the way some guys were talking about girls getting pregnant for them. All they were concerned about was aborting the pregnancy, not the risk they were taking having unprotected sex.

I thought i was the only one petrified at the level of ignorance some people exhibit.

Their only problem seems to be pregnancy, so when they're on "pregnancy pills", they think its all settled, forgetting all the diseases that can join suit.
Its good to know someone loves you and trust them, but you can't possibly trust the other people they've had in their lives, can you??

And even a virgin shouldn't go scot free either, Cos the last time we were thought "health education" in school, we learnt that sex wasn't the only potential cause. There are 1001 others.

In as much as i've advised that you could go for a blood test if you insist on having "pregnancy pills or injections or plasters" as your only protection measure, the fact still remains that unless you guys are having a lasting relationship, you can't ask every Tom, Benson and Harry to go for a test before you have sex (for those who jump at sex at any slightest chance)

Though condoms aren't a 100% safe, they remain the only protection towards "sexually transmitted disease", Now i can't force it into anybody with a teaspoon, he who has ears, let him hear!!!!!!

teddyface:
read one of your post sometime today and you said you work in a hotel , balbalbal, you are not an addict of the forum, so whats all that all about? are you a lier?

Ooh, well the post wasn't posted today, its been a week at least, go and check the date (does that make you a liar??)

But anyways sha i didn't know that was what you were referring to . . and No, i'm home