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busygirl:
Thanks omo-eko and cute-ass. . .

Ooh darling, it was nothing short of a pleasure, anything for our london baby girl

@ topic

Well atually, i agree with Seun, when i was in naija what we did was boil and filter, and the water did us just fine.

On the other hand, in secondary school other girls drank from the school's bore-hole (this is water that is so so impure, when you've let the water stand for a day, you see oil-like substance floating over it) but they drank it and they were fine

Not to talk of boiling the water and filtering afterwards, nothing in life is most secure so we just have to live with whatever we find availabe, I'm sure  the people in the village drink whatever water that comes their way, and they're all healthy Not everybody is rich enough to live on bottled water you know, all hands aren't equal Even most of these "pure" waters aren't safe

And for the records (Sorry londoners) London's water isn't anything to brag about either, their water is as contaminated too, but they're all drinking from their taps and living happily, I know this Cos when i and my cousin are travelling from Norway to London, we always travel with bottled water from Norway (who on the other hand has one of the cleanest waters in the whole world), even to brush our teeth, we use bottled water

Cos anything less is trouble for our system. So different strokes for different folks, some are sensitive, some aren't. Just work with anything that works for you!!

Thats the height girl, he's a cheat, liar and deception is his personal word. Now the worst part of this story of yours is that he hasn't thought of changing, at least not yet . .

Now why on earth will my darling girl (YOU) not walk out and find a more worthy man?? (I've been thinking of that for the past 7hrs and believe me not a single answer') and you know what that means?? You're out of his life, and there's no going back.

We give people second chances because they want to change, this guy's days of being a playa are not over yet, so plese do not think of being his spare tyre. You deserve more respect and appreciation than that

Its never easy to forget someone we love dearly, but would you rather stay with him and have your heart crushed and broken over and over, some days thrice than go find your sanity and a wonderful life without him??

If the latter is your answer, then determination and courage and acknowledgement of your being is what you need. Some before you have achieved it, why the hell won't you?? I know you can do this, anytime the love story comes flashing back, remember that fateful day he chose some stranger cheap lady over you, that should do the jobb

Its sad, but the sooner the better for you, very soon you'll be dancing a whole new dance. I wish you all the luck and progress you need. Love ya!!

@ tayoccu

I understand your pain, and i feel for you. Its a difficult one standing and watching your loved one being played for a fool, or about to get her heart crushed.

But the truth is there are some things in life we just can't help, and there are somethings in life we just have to let happen for the truth to be revealed.

You love this girl, yea but you just have to let her walk that path. What you know is that you'll be there when she finally needs a shoulder to cry on (because she will), in as much as it'll pain you to stand by and watch the inevitable, you owe her that much.

Now experience they say is the best teacher, unless she finds out for herself what a lying, cheating bastard your friend is, she'll never be yours wholly. Your trying to get her out of it, might just end up drivig her farther awy from you, this is a guy she didn't mind crushing your heart into pieces for, as blindly in love as she is with him, do you really believe that anything you tell her would matter?? It will only make her hate you, and we don't want that, do we?

So you have to stand back and wait for the church bell to ring, let her see him for whom he is by herself, then if she comes back to you, you'll know its her you got not her shadow, and then she'll learn to appreciate you more She would then know that "not all that glitters is gold" and that her walking out form you was her biggest mistake.

You just have to let it go down that way, i mean you just have to. You don't want her to come out of the relationship when she herself doesn't believe the guy is evil, she'll hate you down the road and accuse you of making false accusations against him so she'll leave him and blah blah blah, believe me that day you'll remember this post of mine.

The forbidden fruit is always the tempting one, so let her have a taste of it and carry the cross. But sure, you'll be there to carry it with her because you love and care!!

And when she finally comes back, don't just fall into her hands like a cheap handkerchief, you don't want to be a rebound treament either, make her want you, let her love you. Don't just be there as if your life starts and ends with her name. You have to be calculated to win this love story

4real:
well am glad to say that i met with emeka today and we have talked and you just watch out for the new site coming up, as for the nonso site it is not all that, the beauty of a site is for it to open fast and quick even with a slow dial up link, it took me 1hr to open his site on a board band link up, apart from that i think omotola site is very good but please don't bring nonso site into it, it totally wak

So its now you who tells us what to like, and not?? LMAO . . we choose to say Nonso's site is lovely, thats our opinion. On the other hand, we thought Emeka's wasn't, end of story.

You don't have to shine a bad light on Nonso's because we didn't approve of your work, our critics are for you to present a better one next time, afterall we didn't know you were the hand behind the nothing-to-write-home-about site, so don't take it personal, ok??

We love Nonso's site, and there's nothing you can do to change that, cappiche??

Unfortunately I'm the wrong person to be asked. I don't live in naija so dearie i'm just as much an observer as yourself.

But if i should go with what i've been hearing, then it should be worst than it was the last time you saw it

That's naija for you

LOL @ Luxoire

Is that an invitation or advert

And i'll like to see your pic So i can be the judge to announce the "worthies"

@ omo eko

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@ thread
bye bye , i just needed to call omo!

hailtopsy:
so i still am on crossroads weither to just let her go or maybe i should give it a try and check out her reaction.what u think?

Read through my post once more, the answe to this question is right there. I hate repeating myself, thats one of my characteristics.

Make a difference yourself, she ain't dating your mum, she needs you to show her you care or that you're all for what you guys have.

What good will it do if your mum wants her in your life and you don't??

Go tell her what you feel

IS IT OVER??

The truth of it all is that, something or someone is behind it. Thats the much truth there is to it

Now what you have to do is confront her, ask her outrightly what you did to warrant her leaving you. Tell her the wors thing or correction you could give to a child, is beating them without them knowing what they did . . I'm sure she'll atleast tell you

Either:
1) She's not happy in the relationship, she would so much want you to buckle up but you're not reading the hand-writing on the world or
2) She's head over heels in love withsomeone else
3) Or her feelings for you just left the window (not necessarily because of someone else, but because some get a happy ending, but there are some that don't get to that part)

Only the first one has a chance of a happy ending. But that only deends on how far you're willing to g to get her back and how much morem chances she's willing to give you. Now both of the things i just named has to go hand in hand if you'll achieve something tangible.
Just plead with all your humility, sincerity, love and genuiness. Let her know you're willing to change whatever bad behaviour you've been nututring. Tell her you could not dream of loosing her, and you aren't taking a NO for an answer. Then listen to every word and body language she gives out. Follow them, act on them and respect them. That'll make her feel appreciated and understood

Keep to your promise, because the next time might actually be the end. I know some girls when they feel they couldn't take it no more, ahave a tendency of doing the worst to make their points or get some personal attention. I hope fior your sake thats the issue here.
Be that which she thinks you can't be, and i'm sure at the end of the day you'll be singing a whole new "love song"

If one out of the last two options i stated is the case, then my dear its time to move on. The journey has eneded, and in as much as it pains to the core, you don't want someone that doesn't feel for you what you feel for them. You'll be better off without. Take your time heal, just know that you're a good person, you found yourself in an ineveitable situation but the future might be holding your best. Take heart, its not the end of the road, even though for a while it'll seem so.
Good luck!!!

Is she gone?? Only a fortune-teller would be very sure of that

Do you have a chance of getting her back?? YES (but i said a chance )

10 weeks is a real long time if you ask me, are you sure she isn't seeing someone else?? Cos if she is then your battle might just be over . .

If she isn't on the other hand, then you might just have a chance.

But you have to be sure you've let go of all your childish and heartbreaking behaviours, I've never heard that pressure" makes someone become "possessive", but lets not go into it as long you've woken up from you slumber

Yiu have to let he see your changed you, aproach her and ask for a second chance. Don't get too desperate Cos that might give the wrong impression, don't go over board with your pleadings either. Show her how much you love her, you can even go on your knees, surprise her and take her breath away, i mean try sweeping her off her feet

You know her better than we do, give her a pleasant surprise that she'll not dare forget. Do each and everything with love, care and sadness of loosing her. Let her know it was too much of an expensive mistake, and that she should give you just one second chance to prove your commuttment towards her . .

If at the end of the day she still would not take you back, then honey maybe is time to move on. You can force a horse to the stream, but you cannot force it to drink. Believe me you wouldn't want her back because she was only feeling sorry for you, would you??

If her love for you has mistakenly left the building (her body and soul) then i assure you that you're better off without her. As sad as it may seem, you will be fine. The regrets might come once in a while, but you never know what plans the future has for you until a chapter closes.

It might be a lesson or future, I mean after this, i'm sure you wouldn't go back to those attitudes
The end justifies the means, I wish you luck, with or without her!!!!

maree7:
Hi

cute-ass, Omo eko, acid, n creamish

how have u guys been doin?

I've been doing great, missing you sha , where have you been at, darling??

rowlandwhy:
Omo eko,
DGB4 is qualified please add him

She said its too late to add new contestants, what part of the simple sentence did you not understand??

dgb4:
Omo eko, What do you mean by this please explain

What she means is that we don't want photos of non-contestants everywhere, it'll just make the thread crowded and not to mention untidy. Some of our viewers may also get confused in the process.

I'm sure you'd have been qualified if we saw your pic. earlier, but unfortunately we didn't . There's always a next time, in this case "a next year" and you'll be our nominee no.1 if you're still interested. But for this time, you're just a minute or two too late
Some of our contestants are doing "shakara" lol, if we saw you on time, we would have replaced them with you

But hey even in beauty peagents we end up saying couldn't this country or that do better, well they could but those were the ones among millions that were seen. This is the case here too, and we apologise to all others that may find it unfair, we started a thread earlier, we had to pull it down Cos of some unproffessional decisions and we put up a new one (this one), now we'll be damned to start all over again. It'll actually now be more of a child's play, so like strugglers, we just have to make the best of what we have . .

So keep it rolling peeps!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome to nairaland Lade685

I'm very posuitive we'll live up to your expectations and even more, Be cool


See ya around, don't be a stranger

eeennnnnjjjjjjooooooyyyyy[color=#990000]!!!!!!!!![/color]

Hi darling, how are you I slept off yesternight, sorry But we'll talk this evening about a lot of things, amongst them "this competition"

neelsel:
@Cute-Ass and Omo Eko, please report to my office ASAP. This thread is losing its potency.

Also PLEASE add my Shining Bobo in this contest,

PS. Am offline, leave me a message,

I slept off on you too lol, didn't mean to
We need a conference, this evening, ok?? I'll holla at both of you

Is this friendship?? Lets see . . believe me by the time i'm through with my post, we should be very able to answer that

We were told and taught that friendships and any other relationships for that matter is entitled to its own share of ups and downs, good days and not so good days,  but at the same time, they'll be happy, appreciate each other, love each other, be there and help each other, comfort and console each other at times of need,

but under no cicumstance can i remember being taught it was going to be like battling with the devil, trying to prove yourself, sincerity, unconditional friendship and love and yet have it thrown to lions, one party doing eveything to meet up to the other ones standards when it actually should be a case of accepting each other with open arms . . 

The latter of my descriptions is your case and dearie, unless some new dictionary that i don't know about has been produced, that is in no way the definition of friendship

Now i don't care if she's suffering some mental setback, insecurity problems, low self-esteem and confidence cases, she has no right to treat you like a doll. You have feelings too, and dearie until you stood your grounds and show her you're sick and tired of her bullshit, and she either put herself together, or you'll be doing it for her

If you have to go all these lengths just to keep her friendship, what time do you guys have to spend together, since your times are filled with name callings, and all what not. NO ooh, thats it!! She should either treat you like a friend, appreciate you or go to HHHHHHEELLLLLLLLLLLLL!!! She should get a grip of her self biko. She even tells her starnger bf lies about you, what friend does that??
she's not worth it, but you'll give her a chance for old times' sake (which one sef?), be reserved, stop throwing yourself at her every beck and call, preserve your dignity, behave like you couldn't care less, show her your life is 10times better without her and would go on if she weren't there no longer, now believe me if she was a friend she'll come back to seek your face, and if she doesn't, honey please i plead FORGET HER and move on
Good luck in getting more worthy friends

My birthday wishes for you

I am sending birthday wishes
from far across the miles
tied with lace and ribbons
my special birthday smile

Also hugs and kisses
wrapped in special prayers
happiness and laughter
joy beyond compare

Wishing you warm sunshine
each day when you awake
peace within and harmony
with every step you take

As you drift off in slumber
and nestlle upon the clouds
know i am thinking of you
from way across the miles

Here's one more cake, for my lateness lol

Love Ya!!!!!

Well this birthday feeling won't be complete without my presence ooh Ok, i know I'm a bit late (5 hrs late, according to naija time) but hey better late than never, abi??

Darling busy girl, i wish you congratulations with your birthday that just was, you are a special being, and therefore i wish you every special thing life could give. May your days on earth be filled with hapiness, joy, peace, love, success, and everything that could be on a happy-life list.


May the love of the Lord be with and upon you, for the rest of your life, AMEN!!!

Happy Birthday, Darling

@ Abike26 


@ oraxs

My dear, when did having a girlfriend become one of a must's' on the priority list??

Of cousrse its such a wonderful feeling to be in love and be loved, but it sure doesn't come just like that. It requires being in the right place at the right time, then meet the right girl

Please do not out of desperation to be like others, or because you're being pushed to the edge fall into the hands of a "lion(ess)". Love will come to you, you don't have to chase love around Cos you'll definitely not find it that way (you might find something that looks like it though)

You said you're a proff in girl-toasting, and that your looks couldn't be classified as anything beyond good (your pic doesnt mis-quote you sha ), now i just have to believe the right girl for you is on her way

Until then, just continue to be yourself, have an open mind, know what it is you want in a lady so that when you see her, you'll know.

And please cut down on the "i'll do everything" for her,  it might be one of it. No matter how a girl loves yyou, believe me it could get boring having you be a chikling, Yes, be caring and stuff but know where to draw the line so you don't get too mellow. You're the man, remember

The patient dog they say eats the fattest bone, you won't know what hit you, but you'll be very pleased, just live life and don't let life live you!!
Good luck

Nella:
( cought d thanx 4rom d air, before it got 2 her) soo you're welcome!!

the real thieves are not the one with guns

A benefit of doubt though, ok dear i'm here can i get my "thanks" back?

@ topic
when is the "day 1" out of the 45, or she's in there (jail) already??

A yoruba??





@ IBDat
I'm curious Cos you're unique ooh, why the frontal?? most have and will pick "back" due to the username lol

I learnt something today that i've been struggling with for ages, so i'm happy

Well the truth of the whole thing is that its a competition and there's bound to be some contradictions of the aim

In situations like this:
Some will vote based on physical appearance, some will vote based on popularity and some will vote due to familiarity

Be it as it may seem, but that also the case in most competitions

I once watched a british singing comp. and though the other guy was a so so better singer, Robbie Wlliams won because he's british

And same goes for others like dancing and sometimes beauty pageants, even on tele believe me its not all the time that the prettiest carries the crown.

Who we vote for is our preference

macalurs:
God is a sadist.

I resent that Please no matter how frustrated you are, show some respect . . he who you call a saddist is the rock, pillar stone, saviour, all in all, (and the list is unending) to some

Now you're entitled to your opinion(s) but please keep the ridiculous ones to yourself. Bash a whole people's religion and symbol of religion with integrity please!!!

And NO, you don't have to reply.

That guy is a beast, how rude and heartless of him??

Before they take him to jail, some very hot pepper should be put into his "thingy", infact i'm mad, no . . furious, i'm ravaging boiling in anger. What the heck does he think he is?

Yeye man, the biggest coward on the face of earth, infact he should rott in jail (he should be sentenced to triple life imprisonment), he's a dubious he-goat son-of-a-b*tch

Poor lady I hope she gets over it, and that her husband doesn't hold it against her ooh

How i wish i was the court judge, his stinky shrinked hot-dog d*ck will be roasted on barbeque for a start, to totally reap a human-being of their power rendering them helpless and going on top of them is the climax of all crimes . . he should be shown no mercy.

Wonder what he looks like, I''m sure nothing to write home about, which makes it even worse

Infact i'm too mad to type, my heart is bleeding for the lady

bebe2007:
@Cute-ass,

Just want to say thanks for your comment. Really well thought of. Its her loss like you guys said. Thanks also for putting ARIKKY straight at least you saved me the trouble. Dunno where she got hers from. Been reading your other comments on other threads and i think you are a very smart girl. Do keep it up. Thanks mate!!!!

Thanks for the compliment dearie, very well appreciated. Just keep cool, your story is yet to be told

Ikomi:
Boy am not being nossy, but are u looking 4 a girlfriend or your just a very nice person . Forgive me if I passed my boundary, its just that I need someone to teach me Igbo as well

Now that was the biggest lie of the year