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@ Luxoire

Well well well, what a small world. Its true what they say that peeps who are so good in helping others can't seem to know what to do when they're in the same shoes
But not to worry, I'm right here

I'm all for second chances, I mean, why not? BUT in a case like yours, "second chance" isn't actually in my dictionary. This guy if you ask me, isn't actually arrested by love, NO, its too obvious

Now he might be drawn to some other things like the sex, you've always made a story about your looks, so my next guess is that he's in the relationship to have a girlfriend he can fling around in public or in the midst of his friends. No matter how much of a player someone is, he always wants a girlfriend that would go out to places with him, and the girl has to be fine too

Is that what you are to him?? I think so.
Now putting aside the fact that he's a shameless cheat, why on earth will a guy that whole heartedly is in love with his girl, step into the same town where his girl is and not take contact with her?? that is what i find most shocking
It has disrespect, unlove, unwanted, uncare, and "whatever goes" written all over it, and dearie if having a guy that only sees you as a sex object isn't what you're bargaining for, then you better start planning a life without him

Where did "ooh i miss my girl and will like to be with her for even if it was just a day he planned to stay in London", where's the communication between you guys, that he couldn't even send a simple text or call to say it??
And to crown it all up, he's cheating on you at random, please sweetheart there's actualy nothing to think about here, he's not worth your footmarks not to talk of the whole package. Now some girls cannot do without their pretty lovers, not because he loves them so much, but because he's just too fine to be left.
Now take my words on this, because i've been there, there are guys out there who are "drop dead smoking, breath taking, you want to drool hot good looking", but still would leave at nothing to treat their girlfriend like the princess among maidens that she is to them.

Dear i wish that for you, so get over with his cheating nature, "i'm too good for you" attitude and corky behaviour and look out for yourself, stop at zero till you have the best.
Your friend meant you should maybe move in with him?? Now that's not even an option, please do not bury your head in ignorance, someone doesn't change because you live with them, and believe me, it would cause you more pain than now.

Its time to get going, it was fun for the while it lasted, but thats as far as it could go!! I wish you luck hun

But @ whiteroses, if you look at it the other way round

The child is part of the mother, the child came out from the mother, a husband you can divorce or annul, a child even if disowned share your blood and will forever be biologically related to you.

You can choose your spouse but not your kid

I am still confused though, need to be convinced, I'm neither a wife nor a mother yet, just going from other's points of view and experience

sw:
Cute_asss can i hook up with u as i plan to visit Norway before d end of the year

What a cheap toasting line, so you want to hook up with any coackroah jas long as they're in Norway, na wa ooh!!

I on the other hand, I don't hook up with anybody coming to Norway

But you're most welcome to the fine country though, hope you catch fun

@ Chinnys
You're funny girl

sexxxxy:
well if u look good,then i guess it don't matter, then don't don't feel depressed

Just what i was about to say,

Tellthem:
i can't and wont be any body else i will be myself who ever can't leave with it can kiss my A**

If you really felt that way, there wouldn't have been need for this thread here.
Noone is perfect, and atimes we need people to correct us. No one is saying you're ugly or misfigured, but even the most beautiful creature on earth might turn to something ekse if care is not taken.
So either you take to advice and look your best or don't, its your life anyway

@ sexxxxxy
you're so so right I second you.

@ topic
Hello peeps, please lets come back to planet earth

@ Tellthem

dearie please come down, and do think. I don't think he'll tell you that just to hurt you out of the blue. If he wasn't interested in you any longer, I'm sure he'd have found a better way of telling you that,

If you guys weren't quarrelling, then something else might be behind it. He loves you, and will therefore want you to lokok your best, whats the point in him hiding it. You just got to ask him what he meant.
I can remember in 2004, we were in naija, everyone was like "chei, Linda, isn't there food in Norway, you look so skinny, i was hurt but my mum and boyfriend were like "honey, you look fine, you're gorgeous, blah blah blah" to my greatest surprise, when we were back in Norway, both of them were like "yea, you really do look skinny and too thin" I was like "and why didn't you tell me all this while" and they went "if we had joined the que, you would have been thricely hurt, so we had to cheer you by saying you looked fine.

Even though it still hurt, I understood they only wanted me to look my best, so i add some weight and looked much more healthier though still slim, but not to the extent of looking hunger-beaten

What I'm trying to say is this, isn't it better to hear it from someone that loves you?? and do something about it, or would you be more convinced if it ame from a total starnger?? He might have said it in the most wrong way, but not everybody is good at biting their words before shooting, iy might be your makeup, your hair do, there are million of things that could be the case, just talk to him and ask . . someone who asks never misses their road they say!!

whiteroses:
wow i hope so i would love twins as my first borns 2 big boys but i hope i don't have boil under my armpit eww

Dearie you can't eat your cake and have it, can you now??lol

Ok choose one, boil under your armpit or no twin

She's pretty

Genevieve

ikejoe:
congrats cute-ass u just won mii 4 kips!!!!!!!!

LMAO
Guess i'm lucky then, so where do i pick you up?

sussy1:
Bravo cute-ass
u got it right,as pal your prize,
not mention

Thanks

chiegemba:
girl its a long story, could tell u about it . "have yahoo id?"

yea i do, will give it to you on our next meet

Love ya too

darling

And congratulations on your new found job, when next i'm in London, i'll come look for you

Good for him

Really?? didn't know that ooh. . isn't that exciting?

Hmm i'm expecting my own set ooh when the time comes, or else Miss anikibaby, you'd have to answerto me

@ poster, are you a kid?? So if Nairaland users tell you to jump into a gulley, you would?? how old are you, like 3? Abeg go date whomever your heart and eyes desire

@ topic though
Now a drop dead gorgores to MR.A might appear as "she ain't all that" to MR.B, its all in the eyes of a beholder, So you might as well say that the lady should be pretty Cos though she isn't pretty to one, she might be pretty to another. So at the end of the day, you might say Yes, she's pretty
Some guys don't do beautiful girls for reasons best known to them, its all about preference.

So whatever your eyes fall for, should be your choice no matter what someone else says, learn to live by your decisions. Its you that'll live or spend time with the person, so I'm sure you wouldn't want a girl that you don't find attractive but your friend does!!

I have to go with "mother" That's a difficult one, infact i don't know

But i think most women would say "mother", which made it head turning when a lady appeared ion Oprah and said she loved her hubby more than her kids. It was a great show.

At the end of the day, she did make out her points of view, at first the other mother-ladies were startled but at the end of the show i think many would change their life styles and prioritize their husbands too!!

or maybe i'm
the one stalking
him, who knows?

Well i couldn't
be more glad
that you are
Cos you're my
darling, get that?

Ok dear, good luck ooh


@ topic
Yea, infact i'm smiling right now

not necessarily, but even if you do, you tried, didn't you?

I'm fine darling, you?

@ topic

I agree with you on that, it sure does take lesser muscle

so why did you take out the pic dear??

i love it
too you know

but wait ooh
seems you are
everywhere i go
hmm hmm hmm

Don't trust all these "make big money" peeps, most of them if not all are 419ers

not at all


tpbm, do i like you??

Tell him that he should leave my sister chiogo alone

Hei wa_do_mi, it would be so nice if you cast a cote on whom you find hottest, but it would be even more appreciated if you remove that pic. pics of visitors are not allowed, at least not yet until the contest is over with.

Thanks for understanding

[quote author=wa_do_mi link=topic=53834.msg1122021#msg1122021 date=1179361025]hun - its not a new thing - just know that you can't rule that out with guys - momo - take heart - the other day I caght my guy in bed with another girl - he denied it - said they were just playing - even with his pants down and the lady half dressed, he maintains they were just studying - studying what - Biology he says - because the question ask them to draw the male/female reproductive organ - men I was shocked, the lies men tell - so just take heart. who knows what the next one will do on u?[/quote]that is the most hillarious one ever lol, i hope you dumped his sorry "biology related" ass. Crap They're such nuisances *sighs*

@ dgb4

She wasn't referring to you, her shinning bobo is someone else

@ Neish

Dear, that you couldn't care less about the word "love" doesn't mean others should jump off a cliff It didn't work out, but that doesn't mean all guys are like the deciever of a person she was dating. Some have gone and seen true love, till the numbers are zero, there is love. You just have to find the right one.

Besides she doesnt have to throw her life at him to love him, does she??

I kind of agree with bebe2007, love isn't all it takes peeps, circumstances like this can lead to hatred and anger along the road, and always remember that the love isn't always like it was in the beginning, what then??

Please take time to think about the whole thing, its not a 2minutes decision, both of you should sit and discuss it too, be assured of what you're going into. 25% isn't that much, but on the other hand it is much

I'm sure if you ask some of these aready sickler-parents, they might tell you they would have chosen differently if they could turn the hands of the clock (and please merk that i said some)

Both of you should visit a capable physician and talk and think and talk. If at the end of the day you feel you can beat the odds, why the hell not?? But please just be sure

Smart boy

ikamefa:
single parenthood could be as a result of several things:

1. a divorce
2. a relationship gone sour
3. a deliberate choice to just have kids on your own
4. death in a marriage or relationship
5. Adoption

i don't see it as either trendy or trashy ,my take is : if you insist on being a single parent or find your self in that position be ready to give your all(sacrifices) into raising your child/children well, show some responsibility at any time "T "

what can i say?? you read my mind in and out
It depends on the cause, some didnt choose it and some are doing great about it, that we dont like the idea, doesn't give us the right to live other's lives, some married ladies aren't any better either!!