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james1:
The chinese peeps should deal with their problem;they created it.
@mediatrix.the peeps in some locality in china eat black peeps?

James1. . .I agree with you 10000% on what you said. I have no idea why anyone will be convincing a handful of girls who have sense and can make their own decisions to move to a country that self-created a problem for itself. How does all the women on NL moving to China solve their problem? They are freaking 1.3 Billion+, how many people even including men are on NL? Do you know that some people will rather be single than marry a Chinese man? Will you lead by example by marrying one for yourself first?

Look, we know them here and no one has the monopoly of knowledge about Chinese people. The Chinese are one of the biggest racists ever. . . a woman's bosoms and backside will never change that! BTW, my good friend is Asian (guy) but look, that thing has been configured into their system just the way killing all female children they can find has been configured into their system. If they cannot change course and avert this problem, will shipping all the women you can find change that? When a woman gives birth to a female child, and wickedly hammers it to death, who will marry the male one she's keeping alive? Is she brain-dead not to figure that out? Look, let's be realistic!

Now, to the unlucky woman who cannot find a proper black man who has more than your so-called Chinese man can offer, I pity her. Using and abusing is the order of the day, when you have no clue what they say behind your back! Like James pointed out, some of them eat human beings and I did see disgusting pictures of them eating a black man. Look, be their guest - you are only another piece of meat!

To the advocates of this upcoming feast (of blood), I ask that you start a procreation company designed to create only women to be shipped to China - this is your best bet and I mean to be very practical. From their youth, the girls can more readily be configured to know their ultimate destination and they can visit China and live there for long periods of time to get used to it. Finally, did you see the word "Hungry" you wrote up there? Whoever ends up in their belly will only have you to blame.

This is my 2 kobo on this issue.

NL, I publish here an observation:

A man sees a lady who he likes, the lady sees the same guy who he may/may not (or neutral) like. Under "normal" circumstances and assuming that this is a "normal" guy, he knows if he is interested and if yes, will approach the woman (assuming a "normal" one, not crazy!). Knowing how a typical woman reacts, they guy can expect an initial "no". Say after a period of time (weeks to a couple of months) of talking, she finally comes around and says yes! Man is happy, woman is happy - (1)

Man will most likely set the tone of the relationship and will seek to "prove" his love to this woman for a period of time (a few months to many months) depending on the individuals and how things proceed (2).

After this stage, they are both settled and it becomes more of a 50-50 thing (3).

If your relationship will move forward to marriage, it becomes the woman's job to prove to the man that she is all he needs and will want no other person in this world. What they guy "invested" at the beginning (not talking about money or material things) will now have to be multiplied and placed back in the relationship (4)

A normal man, who made the move initially, cannot resist asking this woman to marry her on his knees (5).

If your man never goes down on his knees to ask or doesn't ask with a lot of respect, you know what you are worth to him. (6)

After marriage and of course this man will spend anything to make this kind of woman happy, believe it or not, it is now the woman's job to make this home a heaven on earth. Look, don't ask me how but the SEX, cooking, taking care of the house, wifely duties and LOVING him truly must never be in short supply. The man of course will do his own part and I do not mean he does nothing or does not contribute significantly to the home. He must still be very responsible financially and emotionally, etc to the wife but it is the woman that must communicate to him by her actions that he needs nothing from any girl outside his home. (7)

Fast forward 5 years or 10 years and the guy is maybe around 40 or 50, he now takes over! It will not matter what opinion anyone has about his wife again. He will NEVER leave her or look at another woman. Every secret or thought that crosses his mind in daylight or dreams will be discussed with her. (

Women, this is how to have a practically sweet marriage, not all the Hollywood stories you have loaded your system with. I invite you to ask older people (parents, uncles, aunts, etc) for their opinion. These were the ideas that shaped the very sweet marriage that produced you. A word is enough for the wise but I have written more than one word so now, the ball is in your court! Now, ignorance is no longer an excuse. (9)

Go now and have a blissful, permanent-term happy relationship / marriage.

Iya. . .I salute you oooo. . .

Kay177 is quite right too sha. . .LOL.

NL. . .can you ladies give the "best secret" or most effective method that your guy uses to calm you down when you are angry or being mean?

Guys, what methods have worked best for you in the past??

(Trust NL, but please do not suggest slapping her or shouting back at her or something. . .no woman violence is allowed! )

Hahaha. . .TOO funny! Look, you better buy bullet proof vests, flak jackets, build a bunker and hide in it because the kind offensive that will be unleashed on you will be worse than the Battle of Britain, El Alamein, Stalingrad, Operation Babrbarosa, Market Garden, Iraqi Freedom, Claymore, etc all combined into one!

I siddon here they look!

Gabby, okay, you may have won and while I do not blindly support the poster approaching every woman on NL, can you blame him for hunting? He's a man for goodness sake and if he does not do anything now and comes back when he is 40 - 50, asking for advice, many NL will totally abuse him and give him lots to regret about asking for any advice.

Plus the shakara woman in question may be secretly liking this attention and in reality may be looking for someone too. All said and done, if NL labels this innocent man a "loser", well he will get on with his life later but if the woman in question clocks "27" ± 2 years now, the wahala she go give everybody on this NL about some guy that has not proposed to her will make everyone scratch their head for the "right" advice . Why do you want us to waste all that bandwidth when a stitch in time now will save 27?

Dyt:
Blinks n sneezes
cyber G

You're such a bucketload of trouble! 

Well, you love the name and I wish your boyfriend will see how much wahala you have given me and discipline you accordingly. You should be apologizing on the bed!

I am NOT sorry to let the cat out of the bag but this is how ~99% of western marriages will end-up in the near future! This includes Nigerian girls who see the west as the ideal model of everything, feminism, women liberation, yada, yada. . .but I'm glad you will have stories to tell. It will give NL more hits and eat-up internet bandwidth.  

In case anyone disputes the high percentage (which I won't be surprised at), all you need is to consider the Concept of Limits (Calculus) and as that function, tends to infinity, 99% is more than realistic. If you think I am crazy, look at the statistics in 1900, 1920, 1940, etc. . .now extrapolate that to 3050! Is the series a progression or regression??  

Well for those doubting the story, I read the same thing but no long thing: Who can cover a smoke under a small bush?

Just copy and paste my name anytime you want to mention it 'cos you seem to love it so much! 'Cos if not I would be talking to my OPC, Egbesu, Militants, Arewa boys, etc to pay you a quick visit tonight!

@ Dyt

Mehn. . .wetin I no go hear / see on this NL??  .

But, why must you continue spelling my name wrong all the time? Is it that your keyboard automatically presses the "Spacebar" after you type "Cyber" or what? If that is the problem, use the "Delete" key for heaven's sake! And that "G" is not a small "g". . .it is a BIG "G". . .what else can I do that I haven't done to correct the misspelling, abuse and desecration of my good name?? 


[size=80pt]==>   CyberG[/size]

Dyt:
efpmk ooooooooo

Dyt. . .Dyt. . .interpretation??

@Ogaga. . .I don't think you understand where I (or we) are coming from. This is not about any kid issue, that is a different discussion. This "stealing" from the pot is not about not having enough to eat.

I am talking about you having your own everything including the house the Ogbonno soup resides. In fact, you cooked it or your girlfriend cooked it and you had a decent portion to eat for lunch. Small time, you cannot stop thinking about it and you say, I think I am gonna taste this thing to be sure it is still as tasty as you had it 30 minutes ago. Note: tasting is not the issue but you will find any available reason including manufacturing a reason to still eat this Ogbonno soup. This is the kind of "stealing" I am talking about 'cos it is just irresistible!

Another problem of love from the heart and not love from the heart & head!

Poster, I do not intend to be mean and this but there is most likely a really deserving guy, who really loved you, but you never gave the chance. . .see what is happening now?   This happens everyday because of ladies' poor judegement! Even on this small NL, there are guys who could have done much better but you pitched your tent up-north. Well, see you see trouble now?  

I will bet my bottom dollar that some ex-girlfriends REALLY deserve this! (Journal of Wicked Women, 1900), (Longer Throat Journal of Women, 1500). Yes, and there will always be an ex on the line for this yawa!  

For you folks who ever read in your Bible: When the Son of Man returns, will He find faith on earth? (Some paraphrase, not copy-paste).

I believe faith can not exist without love (yes, I know there are 3 types of love) but with the way things are going in the world these days, including NL, LOVE is dying very fast o. Love is a thing of the heart but do you know it is getting to a point now where LOVE only exists in the HEAD and far away from the HEART! There are a lot of benefits in loving from the head and not from the heart!

If you love a girl from the head and she fu<<ks-up , most likely, then no heart breaks, no stress, no worries! In fact, you would have several backups long time before anything like that happens. The volume of bandwidth usage on Romance section and related section on NL and several sites will decrease drastically, then the bandwidth can be used for more meaningful things (Journal of Forecast, 2060). Loving any girl from the heart is becoming a joke day by day and the evidence speaks for itself: Just see what section of NL gets the most hits! ROMANCE. . .see, you are here now reading this! Also, remember this issue is indirectly at the heart of Politics section too.

So, what is my advice? It is in form of a question to you: Should we not just love with the head and not from the heart?  Your opinions please. I know this NL has a lot of bile, daggers, missile and atomic weapons ready to be unleashed at a moments notice. Look, you are all welcome to say whatever you like about this issue! 

_{[size=4pt](God forgive me because this is an issue humans today are facing but they are too sinful to change)[/size]}

You too much jare. . .wey dem??

Hahaha. . .no kill me o, Dyt. Yes, you are VERY, VERY, VERY beautiful and no one can dispute that!

The golden rule for women: The less bleep mates you have had the better your chances . (Source: Journal of Marriagability, 2015).

I have no idea how you are. When did it to show a person's real character through NL post?

Good. . .now clap for yourself!

Dyt:
Cyber g dats sexy DYT 4 u
m i nt beautiful enuf ni
y do men run away 4rm me?
Sobbin

Dyt. . .like you know, it's been said that ladies on NL are really hideous. . .hence, they don't post their pictures on NL or look for the next model they can pillage her cute picture. Well, methinks you are only taking this a bit too far. . .but yes, hammer me your real picture on my email and I'd keep it a secret that you want it to be!

^^^ Neither cloak nor dagger except you mean the internet version which is only virtual reality anyways! 

^^^ Don't be naive. If your wife is getting furious about you sending money, what do you think that means? The very fact that the poster decided not to tell her, ab initio, most likely would be her disposition to such things in the home. If you don't get a positive reaction from your wife when certain issues like these are on the table, why would you tell her? Then, she gets furious and you apologize?? Well, your choice!

No, that is NOT you. . .and you may be charged for impersonation by NL cops! This offence carries "maximum" penalty in my books! Gimme the real sexy D y t not this so called one in your picture!

Now, you massacred my name again! The name is called CyberG <== add it to your spell checker and autocorrect options! There is a big difference between what you wrote and this one.

I am not married but when I do, my wife will NOT be having such information. Except she has always been wanting to send more money, things, and totally love my mum in a special way. I will do the same for her as money, itself, will never be a problem. But one thing for sure: she MUST never get furious about me sending money to my MUM!

Excuse me. . .how is this a case study??    

@Dyt, that is not you on that pic. . .why are you doing this now? Post better pictures. . .

I can authoritatively confirm to you that YES, they make good lovers and husbands because I am ONE. Most of the time, they think most decisions through much better, do not like or start drama, usually make very good decisions about things, will most likely have a job and take being responsible seriously. Note, there are people like these who can still be very outgoing, dance, sing, party, club and socialize like a total extrovert only that he doesn't do this every time and certainly not when he has a major decision, deadline, exam, etc to undertake within the same time frame.

But note, very dull girls usually will find it a hard time dating a smart guy. It's like light and darkness, these two types of people are a billion years apart! Hence, they can never be on the same frequency!

Also, the converse applies if the girl is very smart and the guy is just too dull to be on the same frequency with her!

^^^ Xerxes refused to take the bait! LOL. Okay, no offeinse o, truss me! Just gotta make some trouble sometimes. . .

@ Dyt. . .no, not really. But we've only heard one side of the story. But I think you gave good advice sha. . .some people will just dismiss the person in question as thought they know ALL the details. But how come you totally massacred my innocent name CyberG? <== This is how it was created, please take note.

@Godmother, your trouble is becoming too much on NL, must you post every minute? People like you are the ones sucking up all the bandwidth on this internet using NL and Facebook . Please when are you going on vacation?

Funny. . .there are some ladies who have, so far, posted on this thread that just gotta make a man laugh! For goodness sake, some are trying so hard just to get a man or stay in a relationship and they know it: most men will only stay with them to get sex (if it is good, BTW) and with their faces covered, and that is it! Why on earth will any man wanna control such a person? Next, what you hear from then is bragging about dropping him like he's hot. . . ROFLMAO!! Some people are just ridiculous. . .hahahahaha