₦airaland Forum

Complicated question but I tell you for a FACT, different women want different things! Being responsible may be what you like but not all WOMEN want a "responsible" man and I have proof!

Oh boy. . .if your CGPA not good, no go kill am completely o with this kind heavy distraction, abeg! Well, for me, I still finished in one of the highest grades in my class. But kai, maybe it could have been better sef if I no

NL. . .has anyone or does anyone "steal" food from the pot? Well, not me. . .not most food anyways! But. . .

Ogbonno soup? Goodness, I can't stop stealing that thing! FYI, I cook it myself, it belongs to me, in my own house and I am capable of cooking it everyday if I wanted and the things is so goddamn sweet! Oluwa o! I have been thinking of making this "confession" for a long time but no chance to write. How on earth do you cook a meal, eat the meal and store in the fridge. Few minutes later. . .you go to "taste" it . Then, you taste it again. . .and again! I tire o. I hardly gain weight but when there is constant Ogbonno in the house, it is a convenient excuse to eat and over eat.

Now, I have resorted to punishing myself by not cooking it often. Is there anyone else who has experienced this kind of thing before? Is it because I am a really good cook or something? FYI, I learned to cook it myself by experimenting and I think I have now perfected a "killer" recipe. . .who will deliver me from the hand of Ogbonno soup??

Trust me, it is very possible! When I was in my 4th year doing my internship in Abuja, there was this babe who wa a pharmacist in a pharmacy. . .close to my office. These offices were in a hotel, one of the bigger hotels in Abuja. This babe was pretty, VERY pretty indeed and she had the BEST legs or (SECOND BEST) of all the legs I have ever seen on any woman! Oh, and was she smart?? Smart as a whip! Imagine all the senators, MDs, etc doing conferences in the hotel and the "big" men who practically live in the hotel chyking this girl then? Sometimes, I would be in her office (after we started dating) and men would come in pretending to want to ask questions but after start toasting her. . .LOL. They never saw me 'cos the windows were tinted black and while I could see the main pharmacy floor from her office, they could not see it from outside. We started talking, it was like a joke. . .and then soon, I couldn't wait to get done at the site and get back to the office! Just to see her before she closed and went home. Then, I will walk her to get a taxi. . .and return to the office. One day, I dropped the bomb and of course, she raked! Hahaha!! She said not to talk about it anymore otherwise, we should stop talking! Me ke? Iwin jingosa! LOL . She was even a year older than me then and I was the "smallest" in the whole company as a student.

Well, I no gree o and with cunni, cunni style psyching. . .one day, we went out to somewhere to see her cousin who just came back from the hospital or so. Right there on the road, somewhere around Jabi, she looked at me smiling and said: "Yes". I pretended as if I no kascope. . . :Duntil she scatter ground with the details! I literally carried her off her feet. . .and we had the relationship until I went back to school. The night before I left, we went to a park and she broke down crying 'cos I was leaving! Well, this is one of the hardest chicks I had seen then and that she could cry was almost unthinkable. Well, the bad news be say when I returned months later, we had to break-up . Really, she thought this student BF, how am I sure he's gonna even make it and come back to Abuja? Well, I told her I would but she found it hard to believe and less than a year after break-up, I graduated, got a job in Abuja, had a place in Zone 7 and invited her after a church service. She couldn't believe it and she did make comments that betrayed her real thoughts. But I understood 'cos she wanted to get married so badly but she did not until after 3 years later or so. But that is another story but my point: It is VERY possible!

No, I do not regret moving abroad and wish I did it right after secondary school. But in life, no two people are the same or will have things work out exactly like the other person. Nevertheless, I achieved a lot while I lived in Nigeria.

Despite everything that I know, hear and read about Nigeria, I still miss it. Sometimes, it gets so crazy, I just gotta buy a ticket and go right back for a few weeks. What do I miss? My family (although I also have family here but it's not the same), the food, (traveled to a lot of places in Naija and eaten the food), and one BIG one is girls! Ladies! Chicks, call them whatever name but we are talking about the same thing! Now, everywhere I turn is white, white, white!! Not a lot Nigerian girls and the few have their big attitudes. . .some do not even come close to the pretty and hot Nigerian girls back in Nigeria, in spite of their heavy make-up.

Tell us more about your experience instead of this code speak!

LOL @ alarina. . .

Look, if ANY guy dates a girl, virgin or otherwise, let your most important target be to do am strong thing ASAP! If you dull yourself, when the break-up happens because it most probably will, na LOSS you dey so. . .

denony:
i have been a lonely guy without a relationship for a year and some months
come back again no relationship for 6 month, this last one is getting close to 5 months.

Why? I thought there are lots of beautiful ladies with those crazily sexy hips and behind where you live. So, why?

Goodness! Did you learn anything about writing in school? But look, it's your choice. . .

@Nubian. . .Haha. . .no, am no psycho. . .I dey far from that field!

Okay, I will but I am thinking it may be more appropriate to not have the questions and answers on this thread because it is a public forum and it will more likely derail the thread. I provide you a an email address: fine.royalme@yahoo.com and I invite you to make yourself a disposable address too.

Nubian, I am not picking on you or anything like that. . .but I once had a friend who had similar dispositions. If you don't mind, I'd like to ask you more questions.

Nubian. . .well, seems you have a good sense of humor. But seriously? I think if you really are the big three ooh then, you'd not joke about it. Anyways, most ladies get carried away until they realize that they are not getting any younger.

Where are you BTW?

Because they've been sleeping for a long time!

Just one woman? How is one person women??

Olajide, you don't know me but I understand what you are talking about very well. I will make it brief: 1. In case you have not totally moved on, do that right away and LEAVE HER alone! 2. Look, I know how "hard" things could be for an introvert, now you will need to get some balls of steel and meet new women, only they are just in your head at that moment you see or talk to them, NEVER in your heart until you are married to the RIGHT ONE! 3. If you ever date another girl, NEVER forget this: Your first mission in the relationship is to BANG the girl silly, load-up her snatch, ridiculously -- ignore this at your peril. This is like an insurance policy against a break-up, 'cos you know there is nothing new about her that you have not seen or done. 4. Never be a cheapskate, spend money when you have to but get VALUE for your money and time so that you feel perfectly happy to have spent even more 'cos the ROI is really impressive.

Again, never forget this: Bang her very good. . .in any and every way a woman can or be made to take IT. . .in fact, take pictures and record the "happy times" in detail on your camcorder! Be on your guard and as soon as you see any curious signs. . .don't wait for her BS. If you see one that you really like, parallelize your "operations" because in the 50's, 60's and maybe 70's, there were "REAL" women and girls but in this day and age of honor and what you saw was what you got. . .but now, it is just a "game" where there are winners and losers! It's your choice whichever you want, but even for the most gamed-up biiaatch, the worst you should settle for is only a DRAW!

This is just an advise for you guys: Never let a girl you date go without banging her good. Make this an ** important ** priority and never buy any BS from any girl, okay? I am sure no one will ask why!

Don't marry that girl with this kind of attitude! If you dump her now, you may not "win". . .but you haven't lost anything. However, if you marry her and have to dump her, she has won and you will lose everything! Well, you are in Naija so this will not be too difficult.

Jarus, it was a nice gesture to do what you did. Unfortunately, I can't seem to find a way to reach you without opening a thread, so please feel free to delete it as necessary.

One suggestion: I think it will be a good feature to allow people to send private messages on NL (e.g. in this situation) and if it already exists, how do I access the feature?

BTW, I finished from Ife myself and it was nice to hear from you!

Guys, I have a question for you and will appreciate a honest answer. If you are able to provide details from your experience, that will be great! So, here:

1. Would you marry a girl who has had two abortions before turning 21?

2. If yes, under what conditions? E.g. good conduct, smart backside, pretty, hot, etc?

If you can't contribute meaningfully, just pass on and open your own thread to air your own questions.

Ladies, I have a question for you and will appreciate a honest answer. If you are able to provide details from your experience, that will be great! So, here:

1. How easy is it to forget the guy who disvirgined you when you broke-up or had a fight?

2. How much do you want to keep in touch with him, assuming the guy was really good to you?

3. Given the right set of opportunities, would you still sleep with the guy again?

This may sound harsh but VERY TRUE! If you date a virgin, BANG HER FIRST and as soon as you can! Hit the iron while it is RED HOT, later you both will balance the equation and if the relationship breaks, ONE PERSON WILL NOT BE LOSING! Who is that? Your guess is as good as mine.

Look you guys here on NL figure something out, sign the agreement and lease a truck to this business after due diligence. I am too far away otherwise. . .I would be willing to do something about this issue. This is how the Indians/Chinese take over everywhere they go, Naijans. . .make una no slack ooo

You will not become a "world-class engineer" in Nigeria. Sad but true.

Boutiq a la bobbie

Boutiq a la bobbiano

Any of the 2??

Mehnnn. . .there is some really "bad" reason why she forgot! Don't buy that crap 'cos if you forget your girl's birthday, what do you think she will do? What do you think NL ladies will advise her to do? DUMP YOU of course! Open your eyes and brain and don't dull yourself o. The girl probably has a backup guy or you are the backup guy and the main guy was busy with her mind then!

Gbeborun! Gbefila! Gbegele!!

No pinshure?? Wey the ride? I hear say ladies for London. . .em. . .

Goodness! Well, if any woman ever reads this story: never follow her path! I don't support a man beating his wife neither will I do that in my life but anger, nagging and constant provocation from your own wife will ALWAYS produce this final result. A good man only needs one moment of MADNESS and this story repeats itself like a recurring decimal! I have seen a relationship like this and my advice is NEVER marry a woman who nags and gets angry all the time! It is better to be unmarried than to marry a fool 'cos anger rests in the bosom of fools!