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mrvitalis:
The informed you 10 months ago ...you are now setting committee now to save face abi what ?

And one idiot said he is suppressed about our security situation

How in heavens name was I convinced to support buhari in 2015 ?

You were convinced to suppport Buhari in 2015 because you are very gullible and does not learn from history, same problem with our gullible, brainless and visionless leaders since 1960.

Exmilitant:
the west didn't succeed in economic war on china, they are trying biological war.

You know what’s up.. and before China finish containing this plague, her adversaries has gone far.

CIA doing their dirty work. China done buy market.

SifonAbasi:
He is aware.

Below is how you will handle this issue, be firm and resolute while at it and be ready to absorb whatever that will come out it.

CyberWolf:
Trust me, that your ex is out on a revenge and he won’t stop until he destroys you and your husband. He wanted to get his payment as both of you agreed last time but felt your husband stood in his way so now what will he do?

He will get close to your husband and try to win his trust, once he has achieved that, he will activate the 2nd phase. It’s a well planned operation and he seems to be succeeding by getting closer and closer to your husband.

Very soon, your husband might start trusting more than you and that’s when he will likely activate the phase 2, whatever it is. Now that your eyes are still clear, stand your ground and make it clear to your husband that you don’t want him around your house.

If your husband insists on him coming, tell him that he should choose between you and her and be ready to accept the consequences, that is ending the marriage.

That your ex is a dangerous idiot and he needs to be handled in a dangerous way. Also warn him to never step his foot in your house whenever your husband is not around even if it means pouring him hot water. Get his mother involved too. Be fast about it or else it will be too late for you.

If you like, take the advice, if you like be soft and stay there, you’re the one that will suffer the effect of your negligence at the end.

Ehimen4God:
How did you know all these informations about him, clearly you've been having some "Decent" intimate conversation outside work you shouldn't be involved in whatsoever...

My dear you've made that mistake but you can correct it now, don't entertain a man that's not your husband inside alone, leave the people telling you is nothing, they wouldn't tell you the battles and struggles they face inside and how many times they misbehaved but because they're not caught they say it's nothing but you and I know, each time spent with him creates a bond, guess what, even if you're quarreling, arguing or having normally innocent conversation, bond is created. Now tell me why would you want to create a bond with a man who is not your husband, my dear you don't need that kind of confusion and emotional turture.

Save Yourself and save your marriage
KICK the Guy Out nobody will do it for you, your husband will not do it for you, he expects you to respect him enough to do it yourself... He's watching and observing from a distance, men are Logical Beings.

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Did you bother to read the OP? Her husband brought the ex home after all that has happened which he is full aware, so he should be the one to get rid of him.

NoToPile:
Exactly, I read that thread back then and now this, that ex is out for something.

This one is not ordinary eye.

Which sort of obsession or evil is this.

I’m telling you and OP needs to handle the ex dangerously and violently if not, he will keep coming back.

jaxxy:
Probably I missed that part. I responded based on the info I read sofar bt if her ex still habours any ulterior motives then he must be a lunatic bt I don’t think that’s the situation yet.

Then I ask why also is the husband being so nice to her ex? What cud be his reasons? because he’s the one responsible for all this frnds associations.

In the previous thread, the lady always ask for help from this her ex and the ex requires for sex before helping her. So the last time, this lady asked for help as usual and the ex requires for sex as usual but she told him that she is seeing her period, he said ok and gave her the help she asked for with promise that she must come back for the sex when her period is over. So when the period was over, she called him that she is ready but he told her that he is not in town. She okay whenever you come back, let me know.

This ex didn’t call her again till after 4 months, he called her with a foreign number, tell her that he was outside the country for a course, that she should remember her promise, she said okay[b][/b]. So when the ex finally came back after 2 years, this lady (OP) is already married. The ex called and told her that she should come and fulfill her promise, OP told him that she is already married so it’s not gonna be possible. The ex said even if you’re married, you must come and have sex with me per our agreement, OP begged him that she will pay him back his money with interest, but the ex refused so, that’s when OP came here and she was advised to get her husband involved ASAP and that’s what she did. Below was how the husband handled the issue:

[b] Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!

Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.

After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.

He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.

Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.

Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.

My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.

While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.

Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.

I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.

After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.

The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.

My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.

My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.

My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.

My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.

My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.

We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.

On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.

We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.

We just arrived home not quite long [/b]

So that’s how the husband and the ex became friends. Who in his right senses does that?

jaxxy:
Not every ex is a terrible person. Aslong as ur ex was good to u when u were dating and even after and now Ure married and he’s meet ur husband and no longer interested or disturbing u for anything I don’t see any problem here.

For ur husband to still associate with him despite all u told him only means he understand the kind of man he is and knows he isn’t as bad as u think and carries no bad intentions towards u guys. That is a good thing.


I have also gotten to know a cool guy just cos he was dating my ex(kinda) and how we got talking was pretty ackward bt we have a decent conversation and he explained his serious intentions towards her and he didn’t mind us being frnds. Quite unusual bt I respected him for that and even stopped calling or chatting the gal. I chat with him more and we discuss biz together so I don’t see so much negativity in this Aslong as ur ex respects ur marriage and has moved on. Cheers.

Sometimes you people talk anyhow and use instances that are not the same as example. If you read the first thread as far back as 2018, you will understand that this demonic ex has no respect for her marriage, has no respect for her or the husband. Him coming back now despite how the issue in 2018 was handled shows that he has ulterior motive. So you telling this lady that it’s nothing shows you’re not sincere.

Trust me, that your ex is out on a revenge and he won’t stop until he destroys you and your husband. He wanted to get his payment as both of you agreed last time but felt your husband stood in his way so now what will he do?

He will get close to your husband and try to win his trust, once he has achieved that, he will activate the 2nd phase. It’s a well planned operation and he seems to be succeeding by getting closer and closer to your husband.

Very soon, your husband might start trusting more than you and that’s when he will likely activate the phase 2, whatever it is. Now that your eyes are still clear, stand your ground and make it clear to your husband that you don’t want him around your house.

If your husband insists on him coming, tell him that he should choose between you and her and be ready to accept the consequences, that is ending the marriage.

That your ex is a dangerous idiot and he needs to be handled in a dangerous way. Also warn him to never step his foot in your house whenever your husband is not around even if it means pouring him hot water. Get his mother involved too. Be fast about it or else it will be too late for you.

aumeehn:
few in Politics?? Look you guys down south Over estimate yourselves alot. You guys are known for one thing and that's your biggest weakness. Love of Money and Worldly materials. Besides since the days of OBj the Ruling class consist of 60% northerners till date.

Animals like you always overestimate yourselves. Your god Buhari has been contesting since when?

MiddleDimension:
you did not listen to the press conference at all that's why you say what you are saying. in the conference, trump and netanyahu praised jared krushner, the ambassador of isreal to the US for the job done. so tell me what you are saying again.

You mean Jared Krushner is the ambassador of Israel to the United States?

abiolap89:
He his a citizen of that country nd he can't use western union cause he has no domincilary account nd besides he wanted to deliver goods to me so used d opportunity to stash the cash in there

They’ve scammed you.. old format.

Clown

There is no legit money anywhere. 98% of rich people today all over the world ripped people off directly or indirectly.

xavuv:
Very cold!

Even life itself is very cold. That’s why some people are born into riches while some are born in to abject poverty. So no reason, that’s how you will see this life if you want to be successful. Most people do charity and turn motivational speakers once they are successful but not when they’re still hustling.

Immediately you mentioned to pay girlfriend school fees, my intestines turned. So some niggars still make this stupid mistake? Tell him to simply tell the girlfriend that he doesn’t have money to pay her school fees. If she loose the admission because of lack of funds, she should look for work, save up money and try again next year. Nonsense

So if they give you 250k euro now, you go and waste it in court case which outcome is uncertain? You better use the remaining small money you have and look for a small and lucrative business to start.

tinsel:
Please check the identity of all the comments on this matter in nairaland. Start with this first. You sound like the idiot.

So opinions on an anonymous forum is higher than prominent Yoruba men like Afe Babalola, Prof. Wole Soyinka, etc.? You really an idiot.

tinsel:
I am an igbo man, but if you check all the noise about this matter, igbos are propagating the it the more.

Aside NK Who does not speak for Igbos but his IPOB, tell me any other prominent Igbo man that is propagating this Amotekun? Sometimes you people talk like idiot just to look smart.

I hope they are paying attention to the coronavirus outbreak in China? We import almost everything from China thus, this useless government should be taking proactive measures to curb the spread of the virus and not when it arrives here, they start running up and down.

solmusdesigns:
we should do that, Makinde is also a business guy without much political background and he is slowly finding his footing same as countless business men around including Dangote that can run Nigeria effectively and profitably

Lets see Makinde’s achievment and antecedents as a governor first and then take it from there. Another business man that has made a mark too is Mr. Peter Obi. Dangote is ok too..

solmusdesigns:



how many times are we going to read this news naa

Two class of career men had ruled Nigeria into Comatose (1.) Lecturer/Teachers and (2.)Military / Paramilitary

*Shagari , Balewa were teachers, Yaradua was a lecture Jonathan was also a lecturer
*The Rest are Military, From Ironsi to Obasanjo, Babangida and Buhari with exception the of Shonekan a Lawyer

Both Military and Lecturers in Nigeria are fantastically corrupt, love women and are so rash and brash with Authority that they act as demi-god


.

That’s a fact.. Maybe next we will try a successful business man like US and see what we will get.

It’s because of the undersea cable break, they explained that on their Facebook page.

Her luck.. Good luck to her!

sunshine1974:
I don't blame you, it's internet that gave you the opportunity to hide behind your keypad typing nonsense.

Get the fvck off my mention this sick animal.

sunshine1974:
you are nothing but a low wattage minion. Idiot!!! Mention me again and thunder will strike u dead.

you’re such a lowlife sycophantic idiot feeling too important.

sunshine1974:
are u sure u are not the cursed one here?

Mentality of animals like you is the reason the country is like this. You and your leaders has the same idiotic mentality.

Wasting scarce resources on a dead factory. Is that money not enough to build a brand new and manageable steel factory? .... The leaders are really cursed beyond redemption.

Obaseki is really holding Oshobaba’s balls very tight.

OYEDIPE:
Don't spoil your chances in the future because of little things... Who knows? You might have a ground breaking concept that you'll want to actualize. The finance houses will say big No to you and still steal your concept because of your negative credit rating.

I’m not a debtor

dominique:
As long as you submitted your BVN, any account linked to that BVN will be debited with heavy fines as penalty.

big lie

switspin:
The US also misfired in 1988 killing 298 people

stop talking bulshit. They didn’t misfire, they shot the plane down because it refused to indentify itself after several attempts. Also they didn’t deny it, rather they admitted and explained the circumstance on which it happened. US army will never shoot down a civilian plane on American soil, they are not dumb to that extent.