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Tzar:
You see the folly of children like you?
In court, as an offender who recognizes he has done wrong & pleads guilty without wasting the time of the court to go on trial, you are almost certain to get a minimum or relatively light sentence.
You can get a fine or 3yrs imprisonment for an offence that carries fine/3yrs jail minimum or 21yrs max. But if you are stubborn & plead innocent and there is a trial, if found guilty , you get the max 21yrs sentence.
THAT IS HOW REALITY WORKS, CHILD!

He totally misses the point.
The point is that under NO circumstances will the judge then reward him with ANYTHING, talkless of making him the supervisor of the same product he fraudulently marketed!
Now run along, genius OLD MAN

Flamemignon1:
The same reason heterosexuality is good to you

You are trying to obfuscate. You said homo will not be legitimized in our lifetime. I asked what good then would it be to YOU (since you'd be long dead). Heterosexuality is legal right now

Tzar:
So as an individual you have NEVER taken a decision you thought was right but ended up being wrong? Yes he made a mistake, just like I did with Buhari in 2015, so what?!
What makes a real man is to realize you made a mistake & retrace your steps. The fool is the person that made a mistake & sticks to it just because of what people like you will say.

Just listen to yourself. Only a thoroughly biased mind can be talking like this. It's like if you go b4 a judge and plead guilty you made a mistake marketing a fake product, the judge will not only not punish you at all, he'd make you chief inspector of all marketed goods!

Tinubu aggressively marketed Buhari TWICE. It is at least evidence of poor judgment. We may forgive him but we also ought insist he not be anywhere near the presidency!

Asine:
Exactly! There was a malfunction in the JAMB system and it is obvious the girl saw a score of 362 initially. I believe she later got a score of 249 but decided to stick to the first score she saw.
JAMB should address the problem with their system giving some candidates different scores and avoid this problem in the future.

You forget she's a Nigerian 19-year-old - all scammers!

taylor89:
And Buhari and Tinubu has been ruling you people without a single certificate

Fake certificate is better than no certificate

Useless people

At least Buhari had a verifiable name and background.
NOBODY knows Tinubu's real name nor where he came from, nor who went to school with him. Dude is a ghost!

IamANigerianMan:
Most of the Emefiele policies were good but the corrupt country like Nigeria headed by corrupt people eg Tinubu , Shetima, AKPABIO, Tanjudeen etc , the policy cannot work.

They were good but DRACONIAN! How can you suddenly make Naira scarce all in a bid to raise it's market value? It would have gone to $1=N1, BUT you won't be able to find that one Naira!!

Tzar:
Are you a minor who was underaged in the last 8yrs? Otherwise , Clowns like you forget how Buhari sidelined Tinubu & embraced the CABAL throughout his tenure. Tinubu was even mocked about this. You also deliberately ignore all the anti-Tinubu moves of Buhari during the primaries and elections.

How does that change the fact that he's the one who aggressively marketed Buhari. So what's his punishment for that?
The punishment is to reward him with the presidency?
Go borrow some sense

seanfer:
As it is now with the CBN removing the embargo on oil companies selling Dollars to banks, the Naira should appreciate between 10%-15% by the end of the year.. The CBN just need to monitor the banks and sanction/punish any bank that try to sabotage this policy for their own selfish reason....

So why did dollar appreciate this morning in black market? I'm not understanding

Nahunger:
Lol
Ogbeni if you had integrity you won't post this on the internet, eye service...

Nigerian Politicians are all ******

WHY DON'T OTHERS DO SAME??
How can someone with any conscience be collecting the humongous entitlements as serving senator and SAME TIME be collecting "pension" as ex-gov?? Isn't pension for those who have retired??
THIEVES!!

Gamesmart:
Whatever you say.

We have all now seen that tolerating you guys a bit will only end in an attempt to tyrannically impose yourselves on society and forcefully brainwash our children.

We will not tolerate you guys for a second in Africa.

Maybe you might get some tolerance in Southern Africa as they have they lowest perception of self-worth in Africa, as they are the last batch to get independence, so they easily surrender to please Whites.

As you can see from the very successful boycott below, most people in the West are NOT pro gay. It's just that the gay lobby is very powerful and gays control key aspects of the culture. So what will likely end up happening in Africa is that pressure from outside combined with pressure from inside by our pro-gay influencers will inevitably lead to liberalization of gay policies in Africa

Flamemignon1:
Like I said,it may not be in our lifetime

In that case what good is it to YOU?

Gamesmart:
Don't ever let loonies and deviants dominate, determine and control the language.

The traditional definition of a "phobia" is when you have an unhealthy and unnatural aversion to or fear of something.

Seeing abnormality as what it is in not unhealthy or unnatural.

The definition is straight from the dictionary (see below). Maybe they already control the language!

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Gamesmart:
They have started a war that they will definitely lose in Africa.

It always seems that way at first. It's like there's a supernatural force working for them!

Nwokochri:
Marriage is a significant milestone in many people's lives, symbolizing love, commitment, and partnership. However, in today's society, we often witness women waiting longer to tie the knot. There are various factors contributing to this trend, some of which can have dangerous consequences. In this article, we will explore ten reasons why women may delay marriage and discuss the potential risks associated with each.

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10 Dangerous Reasons Why Women Wait Too Long to Marry

Introduction

Marriage is a significant milestone in many people’s lives, symbolizing love, commitment, and partnership. However, in today’s society, we often witness women waiting longer to tie the knot. There are various factors contributing to this trend, some of which can have dangerous consequences. In this article, we will explore ten reasons why women may delay marriage and discuss the potential risks associated with each.

Pursuing Career Goals
In recent decades, women have made great strides in the professional world. Many women prioritize their careers and aspirations, dedicating substantial time and effort to climb the corporate ladder, start their own businesses, or pursue advanced degrees. While this pursuit is admirable, it can inadvertently lead to postponing marriage. The danger lies in the potential for sacrificing personal relationships and missing out on the emotional support and companionship that marriage provides.

Fear of Commitment
Commitment can be an intimidating concept for both men and women. However, some women may experience a heightened fear of commitment, stemming from previous negative experiences or a reluctance to compromise personal freedom. The danger lies in waiting too long to confront and address these fears, which may result in missed opportunities for love and companionship.

Unrealistic Expectations
With the prevalence of romanticized movies, fairy tales, and social media, women may develop unrealistic expectations about relationships and marriage. They might envision finding a perfect partner who fulfills their every desire and matches their idealized image. Such expectations can lead to a prolonged search for an elusive “perfect” partner, causing women to delay marriage indefinitely. The danger lies in missing out on potentially fulfilling and loving relationships due to unrealistic standards.

Prioritizing Personal Growth
Self-improvement and personal growth are vital aspects of an individual’s life journey. Women may prioritize their personal development, focusing on building their confidence, exploring their interests, and discovering their passions before considering marriage. While personal growth is essential, waiting too long to marry might result in missed opportunities for shared growth and experiences with a partner.

Financial Independence
In today’s society, women increasingly value financial independence and stability. They prioritize building their careers and achieving financial security before entering into marriage. While financial independence is empowering, excessive focus on economic stability may lead women to delay marriage unnecessarily. The danger lies in potentially losing out on the emotional and relational benefits that marriage offers.

Fear of Divorce
The fear of divorce can be a significant deterrent for women considering marriage. Witnessing the high divorce rates in society, women may develop a fear of entering into a lifelong commitment that could potentially end in separation. While this fear is valid, it is important not to let it paralyze the desire for a fulfilling partnership. The danger lies in allowing the fear of divorce to prevent women from experiencing the joys and growth that a healthy marriage can provide.

Societal Pressures and Expectations
Societal expectations and pressures can significantly influence women’s decisions regarding marriage. External factors such as family, friends, and cultural norms can impose a sense of urgency or create anxiety around finding a suitable partner. Women might feel compelled to meet these societal expectations, which can lead to hasty decisions or settling for unsatisfying relationships. The danger lies in succumbing to external pressures and compromising personal happiness and fulfillment.

Focus on Personal Accomplishments
Women often have a strong drive to accomplish personal goals before considering marriage. Whether it is completing higher education, establishing a successful career, or pursuing personal passions, the desire for individual achievements can take precedence over marriage. While personal accomplishments are important, it is crucial not to overlook the value of shared accomplishments and the support of a life partner. The danger lies in becoming too focused on personal achievements and neglecting the potential for building a fulfilling and supportive marital relationship.

Lack of Suitable Partners
In some cases, women may find it challenging to meet suitable partners who align with their values, goals, and aspirations. As women become more selective in choosing a life partner, they may face difficulty finding someone who meets their criteria. This can result in extended periods of waiting, hoping to encounter the right person. The danger lies in becoming too fixated on an idealized partner and overlooking potentially compatible matches, ultimately delaying the opportunity for a loving and committed relationship.

Fear of Sacrificing Independence
Modern women value their independence and autonomy. They may fear that marriage will require them to sacrifice their personal freedoms and individuality. This fear can lead to a reluctance to enter into a marital commitment, as women strive to maintain their sense of self and freedom. While it is essential to maintain one’s identity within a marriage, the danger lies in allowing this fear to hinder the development of a deep and meaningful connection with a life partner.

Conclusion

Women waiting too long to marry can be influenced by various factors that carry inherent risks. Pursuing career goals, fear of commitment, unrealistic expectations, prioritizing personal growth, financial independence, fear of divorce, societal pressures, focus on personal accomplishments, lack of suitable partners, and fear of sacrificing independence are some of the dangerous reasons contributing to this trend. It is crucial for women to strike a balance between personal aspirations and the desire for a fulfilling and committed partnership.

While individual circumstances and choices may vary, it is essential to assess the potential risks and consequences of delaying marriage. Women should consider their long-term goals, emotional needs, and the benefits of a supportive life partnership. It is crucial to maintain realistic expectations, address fears and concerns, and be open to the possibilities that marriage can bring.

Ultimately, the decision to marry and the timing of it is a personal one that should be based on individual circumstances, desires, and readiness. It is important for women to prioritize their happiness and well-being, while also recognizing the value of a loving and supportive partnership. By understanding the potential dangers of waiting too long to marry, women can make informed choices that lead to a fulfilling and balanced life journey.

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KingOfTheDamned:
My family have a tradition to never leave kids outside. I have lots of friends who are doing the same. The odd thing is you are trying hard to justify your abnormal experiences as normal. Dude you should be worrying about your life and why you know so many irresponsible men who won't take care of their kids. It's a you thing bro. You should sit down and ponder why your energy is so negative bro

Has nothing to do with me. How many Nigerian male celebrities (people we both know) are raising their young children alone while mama is around and healthy?

KingOfTheDamned:
I am 34
Raising an 11 year old alone, we been on this journey 9 years now. We have gone from sleeping on counter top and at one time am empty shop to flying first class. Life is a journey it all depends on what you make of it. Stop being a coward and take the steps you need to

Well, congratulations, but you an outlier not what usually obtains. And most likely you had no choice or you'd have left her with momma!

jeromestarks:
I think the CEO of nairaland should reward you if you create good thread that hit front page.

You mean FTC. They should give prize for first to comment not creator

KingOfTheDamned:
You over think things
Nanny or girlfriend = treat them well I mean kindly = good care for kids. Don't be paranoid. Even mothers have treated their own kids badly.

Stop trying to control everything and sometimes trust fate

C

It is not that simple in real life. You are not richer than Davido and all these celebrities. How many practice the scenario u described?? CHILDREN infinitely complicate these things. What would likely end up happening is, the children will stay with their mother who'd subtly twist their minds against you!

Joychinonyerem:
Embarking on a first date can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking. It's an opportunity to make a positive impression and potentially establish a meaningful connection with someone. However, it's crucial to remember that first impressions matter, and certain actions or behaviors can hinder the chances of a successful outcome. In this article, we will delve into "12 Things Not to Do on a First Date" to help you navigate through this exciting journey and increase your chances of a successful and enjoyable experience.

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12 things NOT to do on a First Date: A Guide to Successful Dating

Introduction:

Embarking on a first date can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking. It’s an opportunity to make a positive impression and potentially establish a meaningful connection with someone. However, it’s crucial to remember that first impressions matter, and certain actions or behaviors can hinder the chances of a successful outcome. In this article, we will delve into “12 Things Not to Do on a First Date” to help you navigate through this exciting journey and increase your chances of a successful and enjoyable experience.

1.Don’t be late:
Punctuality is a virtue, and being late on a first date sends the wrong message. It displays a lack of respect for the other person’s time and can create a negative impression right from the start. Always plan ahead and strive to arrive a few minutes early to show your date that you value their time and are excited to meet them.

2.Don’t dominate the conversation:
While it’s essential to engage in meaningful conversation, avoid monopolizing the discussion. Remember, a date is an opportunity for both parties to get to know each other. Give your date an equal chance to express themselves and actively listen to what they have to say. Balanced conversation fosters a sense of connection and demonstrates genuine interest in the other person.

3.Don’t overshare personal information:
While it’s crucial to be open and authentic, oversharing personal information can be overwhelming for your date. Avoid delving into sensitive topics or sharing intimate details about your life right away. Instead, focus on getting to know each other gradually, allowing a comfortable level of vulnerability to develop naturally over time.

4.Don’t talk about past relationships:
First dates are about building new connections, not rehashing the past. Avoid discussing past relationships, especially in a negative light. Dwelling on previous romantic experiences can dampen the mood and make your date feel uncomfortable. Instead, focus on the present and the potential future you could share together.

5.Don’t be rude to waitstaff or service personnel:
The way you treat others reflects your character and values. Being rude or disrespectful to waitstaff or service personnel is a major red flag on a first date. It shows a lack of empathy and basic manners, which can be a major turn-off. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, as this will impress your date and showcase your genuine personality.

6.Don’t use your phone excessively:
Nothing screams disinterest more than being glued to your phone during a date. Show respect and attentiveness by putting your phone away or on silent mode. Give your date your undivided attention and be present in the moment. This simple gesture can go a long way in creating a positive and memorable experience.

7.Don’t be too negative:
Negativity can be contagious and detrimental to a first date. Avoid complaining excessively or focusing on negative aspects of your life. Instead, strive to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. Share stories and anecdotes that highlight your sense of humor and ability to find joy in life. Positivity is attractive and can help create a pleasant and enjoyable atmosphere.

8.Don’t be overly flirtatious:
While it’s important to show interest and attraction, being overly flirtatious can come across as insincere or desperate. Maintain a balance between showing your genuine interest and respecting personal boundaries. Pay attention to your date’s body language and reactions, ensuring that they are comfortable with the level of flirtation.

9.Don’t talk about controversial topics:
On a first date, it’s best to avoid sensitive or controversial topics that could potentially lead to heated debates or discomfort. Politics, religion, and other divisive subjects are best saved for later when you’ve established a stronger rapport. Focus on common interests and light.

10.Don’t be too pushy or aggressive:
Respect personal boundaries and avoid being too pushy or aggressive in your approach. It’s important to let the date progress naturally without forcing any physical or emotional intimacy. Consent and mutual comfort should always be a priority. Take cues from your date’s body language and verbal cues to ensure that you’re both on the same page.

11.Don’t forget basic hygiene and grooming:
First impressions are not just about your personality; they also include your physical appearance. Pay attention to your personal hygiene, dress appropriately for the occasion, and take care of your grooming. Clean and well-fitting clothes, a fresh breath, and tidy appearance will make you feel more confident and leave a positive impression on your date.

12.Don’t rush into expectations:
While it’s natural to feel excited about the possibilities of a new connection, avoid placing too many expectations on the first date. Putting undue pressure on yourself or your date can create unnecessary stress and make the experience less enjoyable. Instead, focus on getting to know each other, building a connection, and letting the relationship progress organically.

Conclusion:

Navigating a first date can be a thrilling experience filled with anticipation and excitement. By avoiding these twelve common mistakes, you can increase your chances of creating a positive and memorable impression. Remember, a first date is an opportunity to establish a genuine connection with another person. By being punctual, engaged in conversation, respectful, and authentic, you can set the foundation for a potentially meaningful relationship.

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Whether you’re new to the dating scene or looking to improve your approach, following these guidelines can help you make the most of your first dates. Remember, dating is a learning experience, and each encounter brings valuable lessons and opportunities for personal growth. Embrace the journey, stay true to yourself, and enjoy the process of getting to know someone new.

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geez18:
that is what you get in a terminally ill country with a terminally ill president.

Terminally ill indeed

omololu2020:
Yim means yimu

Yimu .......meaning what?

I giogled it. See the answers below

zedegit:
Check the source.

See screenshot above

OP is another dishonest Scammer.
Ridiculously false headline

Bullion van again. Calls to mind a certain Nigerian polithiefian.
I NO CALL ANY NAME O

Say what you will of him Dino is a show man. Never boring!

This guy is WEIRD!