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KingOfTheDamned:
That is an entirely different thing and it's best left to a personal preference.

But let me be blunt. If you have a child already then skip marriage get a nanny if you can afford it.

Then when you click 50 find on desperate evening newspaper who is in her 40s then marry jer so she can look after you in your old age

Just know she needs you , you only need her for kids and someone to gist with
Fini

It is actually complicated. Have you seen how women treat kids that are not theirs? You have total peace of mind only if your child is with her own mother, and the only way it is perfect is if that her mother is also your beloved girlfriend or wife. So you see, nanny doesn't solve it. It is complicated

Sooo, why do men keep getting into monogamous marriages?
Just curious

We already know!
Tinubu did EXACTLY same, except on a larger scale - with bullion vans and in front of everybody!

Philtropy:
Mmesoma is also very brilliant, she's clearly a victim. This whole thing should just be concluded so the little angel can prepare for school in peace

It has already been concluded by JAMB and the result is her result is withdrawn and she is barred from taking JAMB for 3 years. JAMB said the public doesn't know 90% of it.
Little angel my foot. And to think I was defending her!

Onyiridike:
Did you read anything at all or you enjoy fooling yourself?

I carefully read every single word because I saw that JAMB interview. You are a DISHONEST fellow who just had to post a DECEPTIVE headline. Incapable of simply telling the truth!

Izuogu4Presdent:
Since OBJ and other Yoruba Elites dealt with Sunday Igbogho , have you heard anything from him again?..This is what Ndiigbo Leaders should do to that Idiotic criminal called Simon Ekpa

You are talking nonsense. OBJ, etc have nothing to do with it. He was taught a lesson in Benin Republic prison, and before he was released he had to sign an undertaking whereby he agreed to go back to prison if he says pim

Onyiridike:
Do mind reading to understand instead of being emotional?
Many other students were also involved.
DSS carried out this investigation.

Meaning what? Why must you also be a scammer??
Why must you post scam headline. I was defending the girl, but no more. Call a spade a spade. Her result has been withdrawn and she's barred from taking JAMB for 3 years - and rightly so!

SpatialKing:
Exactly, she was a victim of fake score syndicates

OP is equally a scammer. Read content she posted.
Intentionally DECEPTIVE headline.
WHY IS NIGERIA FULL OF SCAMMERS??!!

Izuogu4Presdent:
Ndiigbo wake up... Simon Ekpa is ready to make Igboland inhabitable for everyone.. Emulate South West..See how they neutralized Sunday Igbogho, why can't we do the same to the idiotic criminal called Simon Ekpa?..°Tufiakwa cowards we have as leaders

Define Neutralize. Ekpa is CITIZEN of Finland. Sunday is citizen of Igboho!

EyeCumInPiece:
Meaning...
#BringBackBuhari

U mean #BringBackElsudani

1nice:
Criminality is behaviour that is forbidden by a country criminal law: and Nigeria Criminal law forbids the behaviour of gay and lesbian in the land of Nigeria; gay and lesbian practices is outlaw in Nigeria.

Well, the following are also part of Nigerian Criminal law. Which of them are you carrying on your head?

1nice:
Some people like confusing themselves!!

The priority of concerns Nigerians now is the eradication of gay and lesbian practices from Nigeria this year 2023.

You mean YOUR concern.
That gay guy arguing with you is also a Nigerian. I don't think his main concern is eradication of gay from Nigeria this year 2023!!

ceejay80s:
She's too young to do it herself, so at her age she knows how to use Corel draw

This is wishful thinking. Not true at all. SHE forged it.
I was one of her early defenders. No more. SHE forged the result, no other person. But JAMB, I hear, is also corrupt!

AareGaa:
Jagaban's defeat of Peter still dey pepper you?
E go pepper you tire!
Jagaban will be there for 4 years.

Anyway, Obi will soon be sworn in as biafran president, the land of the rising crimes.

8 years and then his stooge will continue until he dies - unless he grooms his son to keep it going (or unless there is a coup).
If he could do it in Lagos with only MC Oluomo, how much more now he controls INEC, Police, military, CBN, SC through being the one who appoints them, Senate and House through being majority party, and part of Nigerian masses through tribalism.
Who can stop him? WHO??!!

1nice:
Criminality is behaviour that is forbidden by a Country criminal law: and Nigeria Criminal law forbids the behaviour of gay and lesbian in the land of Nigeria; gay and lesbian practices is outlaw in Nigeria.

If gays and lesbians in Nigeria refuse to respect themselves and continue to display their gay and lesbian practices in public and showing it in society's face then we concerns Nigerians and Nigeria security agencies will disgrace them and arrest such fools displaying their gay and lesbian practices in public.

No Nigerians is above the Nigeria constitution that forbids gay and lesbian practices in the land of Nigeria.

I mean the examples you gave of harassing subordinates and molesting children. As for Nigerian law, marijuana and bigamy are also illegal, so is sex with a 17 year old. Why don't you carry those on your head too??

Flamemignon1:
You can blame your religious institutions for carrying it on their head or maybe they are feeling guilty on how they treated queer people in the past with hate and violence, either way,it has nothing to do with us.

Also if you don't know why pride was created,then here it is,as long as people are still being killed,lynched and discriminated for being gay...... pride will always be celebrated,as long as homophobic like y'all exist,it will always be celebrated,no one is going to kill you for being straight or find your sexuality disgusting that it should be treated with hate

Well, being gay will never be OK in Nigeria and Africa because we have seen what tolerance of gays has led to in in the West - they tend to somehow take over and start dictating the agenda. It's almost like there is a supernatural force working with them!
Now we have gone from G&L to LGBTQ to LGBTQ+ to LGBTQIA+ to LGBTQQIP2SAA+!!!

1nice:
Gays and Lesbians have already been criminalized in Nigeria due to them be open about it: you will see a gay man publicly displaying gayness in public and corrupting little children to the point that underage children are learning this evil menaces by which underage male children now dress up like females (crossdressing) and also displays gayness in public; this gays and lesbians have taken this menaces too far to extents of taking advantage of the poor and underage children in Nigeria.

Gays and lesbians lecturers molesting their students who can not withstand their pressure, few government officials who are gays and lesbians molesting those they employed, few pastors and imams who are gays molesting their church members and muslims and many more evils this gays and lesbians are committing on daily basis.

Criminals have no rights because they disobey the Nigeria law and are label outlaws and must face the consequences of their criminal actions: this is Nigeria and African were evil menaces like gay and lesbian practices are not allowed to spread like virus.

While I see some of your points (see my screenshots and post above), I must say that all those things you mentioned also happen with straight people. Criminality is not confined to gay people. My only thing is that they should do their gay behind closed doors, NOT shoving it in society's face and demanding rights!

Flamemignon1:
Good, it's ok to accept you are homophobic afterall it's Nigeria

Also,the point of marriage is subjective and doesn't exist in a vacuum, marriage is a social construct taking a variety of forms and also buddy,you don't need to get married to have children

Moreover,the whole "queer people can't have kids" have been rendered moot,back in the day lavender marriages(research it) existed between gay men and lesbians who wanted kids and still happens today,I know of countless ones in Nigeria doing it to please society besides family can come in various forms,I do agree with you that a kid needs both a mother figure and a father figure as that's ideal for a kid but would you rather a kid have two messed up opposite sex parents or two same sex parents that's raising them with love because love is the number thing that matters in raising children,every other thing comes secondary. Also kids don't get to choose the family they are born in be it a single parent household,a guardian,a same sex or opposite sex parent household as long as they are raised in a loving family, that's the paramount in their lives

All that Love nonsense is a camouflage. They're even fooling churches with it (see below). They even caption their events "Pride". What is there to be proud about being gay - how is it an achievement?? That's exactly what I'm afraid of - they have gone from "tolerate us" to "I'm proud I'm gay and throwing it in your face!"

basilo102:
Politics is local.

Meaning what EXACTLY??
Just thoughtlessly repeating a popular MEANINGLESS aphorism you read

Not fair

1nice:
It is not matter of been molested but it is a matter of limiting this menaces of homosexual and lesbianism before it starts corrupting the little children residing in Nigeria.

I encourage you for condemning this menaces of sodomy ( Homosexual and Lesbianism practices)

Those Nigeria Homosexual and lesbians eyes would soon clear; they would soon know that Nigerians hate criminality with passion.

Gays and lesbians have been with us since forever. But it is always like one known person in an entire village, even allowed to dress as women and seen as an oddity. Problem is that these days it is rampant, maybe due to hormones in foods. But I still don't think they should be criminalized just for being gay, as long as they're not open about it. When they start demanding rights then that's a problem!

epondudu:
The madness in Nigeria has not reached the level of L to + do you have a problem with the word Homo ni?. Homosexual lesbians are terrible people and they deserve terrible names. OP you can call them Faggs or Adofuro

Actually it's more than that. See below

zumbigbo:
What a waste of time.

Build road and infrastructure..NO

Chase gays...YES

Maybe there's a reason it is more important to this particular person, more important than road and infrastructure.
Maybe a gay tried to molest him or his. If that happened to you gay trouble will also be more important to you!

Flamemignon1:
Dude,the bolded literally shows you are not a fence seater rather you are also homophobic just not to the extreme of murder,if you think being gay isn't normal then you are homophobic plain and simple and it's ok as long as you are not going out of your way to murder them just because you don't agree with their "lifestyle".

I would advise you join your fellow homophobes in the fight because we really are indeed coming for your kids,if you are against us,at least be fully against us

Here's my stance (if you think it is homophobic, then I'm homophobic):

The point of marriage is to raise children in a balanced mother and father family. If the norm becomes gay marriage, that purpose will be defeated. Gays ought recognise and respect that by keeping their gayness behind closed doors, out of the public space!

epondudu:
Gayism is alien to our culture, people should support this initiative to eradicate homosexuality and lesbianity in our society.

Now I think of it, this is probably why gays end up controlling all the creative art industries. Because society forbids expressing their sexuality, they channel that sexual energy to creativity!

Flamemignon1:
Well it's the fruits of your own medicine,you made us see living in our sexuality as something we need to apologize for, now the tables have turned,you are getting your wings in a bunch. Did you ever say anything then when you were wallowing in your straight privilege and seeing gays suffer? No

So instead of automatically comming to the defense of gays as I used to do, I now just mind my own business and let gays and homophobes fight their own battles.
I don't want to see normalization of a man casually calling another man "my husband" or children being taught that being gay is normal. That's what "leave them alone" has led to in the West!
So I'm staying out if you folks' battles - neither pro nor con!

Puss360:
Next week, I go post say I don comot 2 belle for Davido... As e be say this June/July na OBO month....

Except, you can only fool people not familiar with NL.
Everyone here knows you're really a man

Continue to forgive the departed ones?

Peppysco:
Yet, his people won't like him for this, they will rather hail Samuel Ekpa, the terror instigator who hides abroad but gives instructions for the destruction of their land. Make anybody nor sha blame anybody for matter wey hin use hin hand cause. As you lay your bed, na so you go sleep on top am.

Samuel Ekpa is as Samuel Ekpa does

MySolace:
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Lol... Uncle, I don't need to call u mumu before u know U're one.

I hope u know u ain't just writing to me, u're writing to d public. Is dis how u wish to expose ur gross lack of understanding?

Also, d pics u attached talking about phobia, I make no sense out of it. What info were u trying to pass across plz...?

🤣😅😂 😂🤣 Our old uncle what makes you MUMU is that you don't understand that a lot of human and animal behavior is irrational, not based on logic or reason. Even what you are doing right now - investing precious time and energy arguing with a moniker you don't know anything about, will never meet, and which will likely disappear forever by year's end. That you don't understand that, despite all efforts to teach you, is what makes you MUMU!!🤣😅😂 🤣😅🤣🤣

Old news.
OP instead of writing "homosexual and lesbian" why not just write "LGBTQ+"

You the only one who doesn't know all Chinese phones and tablets are preloaded with spyware