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Ray360:
It's just insane. The comments got me thinking where sanity, fairness and all the canons that define the tenets of idealism flew to

You will never see any of the aforementioned when it comes to a matter between a guy and a girl. Even when the guy is dead wrong they will still go out of their way and type trash just to defend the guy,

But if it was a female that did what the guy did now everybody will condemn her actions as wrong and evil, then they will call her a hoe, olosho, ashawo, this and that. But see how they went out of their way to type trash to defend the guy.

Misogyny is deeply entrenched in their minds.

The number of likes those comments got is disturbing.
So they are saying over 200 posters agree with the nonsense those 2 wrote.?

Ray360:
I don't want to believe the calibre and breed of guys on nairaland is a microcosm of what we have out there in the world. Look at all the silly comments above me. Smh.

And the worst part is they are so proud of their foolishness and stupidity.
One fool is giving excuses for the actions of the guy and turning this shít into a joke.
Another fool is asking the girl what she's doing there.

Then the number of likes those two comments have.

The useless men on FP supporting this trash should also support this if it was a female that did this to her bf, but I know they will become hypocrites and start with their usual hoe, olosho and ashawo stupidity and foolishness,
I'm tired of how misogynistic nairaland animals pretending to be men or sometimes women(because I've seen misogynistic comments from women here) are.

Many are mad, but few are roaming, so we are now giving reasons why someone should hit his wife

As if divorce doesn't exist again. Get a divorce, simple, no one should stay in abusive marriages,

For the case where she slapped you, you can. Report her to the police.

And in the case of number 1, the man should chill, don't men cheat on women and the women forgive them, how many women beat there husbands because he cheats on them?

The proper thing is to get a divorce (or work it out if the husband wants to)

All right, since we are now giving excuses why men should beat their wives. Make sure you give excuses too and why wives should beat or kill their husbands.

Lol, they really don't like trump do they?

LMAO

Emzyme:
Tanx I appreciate

You're welcome.

makydebbie:
Yes na, I fought and won her.

You didn't watch my match?

I didn't know you fought, I didn't watch and I wasn't paid, chaii, Shane has scammed me,

I'll twerk when I've been paid.

I'm telling you we are going to tear down raw on Monday

makydebbie:
Wow, you must be a vegetarian. Abi

LMAO you have no chill where bayley is,.

I just too much jare

They don't know

Emzyme:
Wow tanx

Buh I can't see how I would hate what deh stand for without actually hating them

Been reading this thread and read a little bit of your diary ( only a little bit of the last 2 pages), sorry about what you're going through, really sorry.

If you don't mind, this is my opinion.

Find a way (legal) to gain financial independence and cut them out of your life and move on,
I like your plan of not seeing them once you enter school, that's perfect. But also try and gain financial independence(in a legal manner), so you can pay for your own schooling, and everything relating to it, and when you're done with your schooling, no need to move back to them. You're already free, no need to go back.

In my opinion cutting them off and living freely is the best thing you can do,
If you want to hate them you can, atleast for a while. You are allowed and I think it's advisable to acknowledge your feelings, don't repress them,
But not for long, acknowledge your feelings, don't bury anything so you don't start feeling bitterness, the move on, don't let the hate consume you, move on and cut them off.

You come first, above your parents. Above anyone, don't try and please them, won't work. And I feel if you try and please them and they continue to rebuff you it would hurt you even more. Trying to please them gives them the power to hurt you even more if they choose to, Don't give them that power.

Cutting them off Is the best thing to do, you don't deserve such negativity from anyone and just because they are family and your parents doesn't mean they get a pass. It's even a reason to make you angrier because they brought you into this world and therefore should take good care of you but they are doing the opposite.
Like I said, being a parent doesn't give anyone a pass to treat their child anyhow.

Gain financial independence and cut them off and move on with your life, no need to hope and wait that they change, who cares if they change? just move on from them completely, you deserve far better.
You deserve to be happy.

Maybe you can go for therapy one day. Maybe.


It's not easy and it hurts, but you'll get through it,
All the best.

makydebbie:
Me too.

I've been scammed

makydebbie:
You want me to twerk? Lmao.
. I'm having serious stomach pains here.

Sorry dear,

Twerk tomorrow

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Pierohandsome:
Check her out in her boyfrnds house having christmas time there. Women no dey miss

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salisuammy:

It is with sadness in my heart that I announce that her lifeless body was found today

So sorry dear.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Sister don't mind them imagine one was saying if you give women something they ask for more,like as if women are not human beings and have human rights.

Na their way.
Who are they even giving anything?
We are not asking unfortunately, we are telling them.
It's a choice, whether they like it or not.

EmyLeo:
it will shock una , seriously..lol

good morning..

Lol, Good morning

EmyLeo:
one corner ,one corner

One corner one corner one corner,
Oya, where is makydebbie come and give us style

monex:
maybe he didnt

Maybe.

makydebbie:
But bae, we fought and I won na.

But I wasn't paid

It should be the woman's choice, if she wants to change her name or not or hyphenate both last names
Also the man is free to take his wife's last name, or hyphenate both,
Or both can just find an alternative.
That will be the names the kids bear.

It's disgusting that some people in this thread are saying that because a woman was purchased she has to bear the Man's name,
To many people here a woman is nothing more than an object or a slave. How can someone use Purchased for a human being again.

When he becomes more possessive and abusive she should continue to laugh and not disturb us oh,

it's little signs like this people ignore.

Removing her wig because she was talking to guys,
Didn't she go there to talk to people?
Didn't the boyfriend also talk to girls?

makydebbie:
She couldn't even beat me.

LMAO

You that refused to wrestle after I had spoken to Shane and even chose an entrance song for you,

You that I wanted to use to make small money,
You just fell my hand
LMAO

MissWrite:
You Make The World Beautiful (John Flanagan).................Daeylar & Maezara . Please, don't change.

My heart
Thank you
This is so sweet

pu7pl3:
Lol...thats how you know great heels baby...they force you to hate them but you cant help but love them eventually and chant for them ...those 3 are the best heels in the company right now....miz joe and owens
Then close behind you have the bar(cesaro and sheamus) sami zayn and rusev day

Lol, o only like mix these days because he those more of promos and not his unofficial 3 against 1 handicap he usually does. If he starts that bs again, I'll go back to hating him

I never cared for Joe, but I like how they chant his name when he is comes out
Cesaro and Shaemus are now heels? Since when?
Naaaaaa, Sammy was better to me when he wasn't a heel, and I only cared about russev when Lana used to walk with him, now that she is with tamina I don't really care for him, I wonder why they put him with a tag team partner sha, wwe stays messing up people.

Told you, I only care for Owens to troll you

Im happy im making you love owens....its good for your health ....that he can wrestle a little will soon transcend to he can wrestle well when you really warm up to him

Never he can manage to wrestle very small, maybe Sammy Zane gave him tips, LMAO

I forgot about ziggler too oh but he earned my attention with the most legendary thing ive ever seen in wwe

With him forfeiting the belt,?

makydebbie:
Honestly, they should do something lol, it's just mediocre stars that she beats these days. When she came she was above average.

Does she even beat anyone? She lost to absolution, who has she even beaten these days, they are messing her and Mickey James up.

makydebbie:
I swear you know she had it in her, imagine ddt dey finish bailey. It is finished.

It's sad, although I always preferred everyone to her, she wasn't this bad, I wonder what she did to wwe that's making them book her like this.

makydebbie:
Sure.

You know it

pu7pl3:
Yea roman is boring as a face but his cocky attitude is what qualifies him as a good heel plus the legit heat he has on him from the fans....he wont be able to match the miz or samoa joe tho talk less of owens

Is Joe still a heel? Lol, seems loved, everyone loves miz or has a love/hate relationship with him now, lol. He is good,
I like Owens because I can use him to troll you and I admit he can wrestle a little, he and Zayn crying over Shane being mean to them was funny I won't lie, they did good,
See, I can say something nice about Owens

Why is nobody saying anything about dolph ziggler tho

I've even forgotten he exists, no lies

cococandy:
Read his response to me
He’s an imbecilee

Just did that,
Just some nonsense then he posted the nonsense thinking it makes sense.
Modified: Lol, didn't even know he quoted me, same trash.

cococandy:
You’re stupid.

Comparing human beings to phone. Mumu

That's what he really sees women as, we are no longer human beings, to his ridiculous deluded motherfuckiñg mind we (a human being like him) are comparable to Iphones. An inanimate object.
Many are mad.

I don't know why men think they are in control of a woman to the point whereby they can control if a grown woman can have sex or not and discuss her virginity or lack of as if she is an animal or object they own?

What the fuçk is anyone's business if she is a virgin or not?
What is anyone's business if she says if she is a virgin or not? A grown woman, she can say whatever the fuçk she wants about herself.

EmyLeo:
lol, don't you believe in miracles ; D..

chill, she once won the women's championship right?

That's what I'm saying
But until she wins,
Makydebbie and I will continue to laugh at her. LMAO

makydebbie:
Hahahaha no surprise at all, no surprise.

Okay dear, I'll change.
I just feel she's overhyped and she has nothing to offer.

Don't, i was just kidding Batley deserves it,
From being the woman who gave Charlotte 3:0 to collapsing because of a tiny DDT. It's a shame.