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MissWrite:
Lmao! , I quoted you before I saw your full break-down. Thanks for improving my mood, sweetie.


Have a lovely day!

You're welcome


Lol, reply the post , I want to see what you think about the breakdown.

Have a lovely day also.

MissWrite:
Babe! Real question for the gods. Most of us would fail the psyche evaluations necessary for ownership anyway, but you know how it is here , driver's license doesn't require an actual test; road worthiness is issued for a vehicle unseen. It would be crazy with guns.

LMAO

Truth @blue.

But, let me whisper( you know if they see this your press a button post you may fail right )

Misswrite all done

MissWrite:
Exactly what I was thinking. The average Nigerian is angry bordering on psychotic - rowdy arguments, road rage, gra-gra, I-big-pass-you.

And the most irritating one "do you know who I am?" Question for the gods LMAO

MissWrite:
Whatever your morning pick-me-up is, coffee or tea, please endeavor to indulge yourself before quoting someone. At least, it would increase your cognition and reduce the chances of you making yourself an unnecessary annoyance so early in the morning. CAN they?

you didn't take time to vex sha

And SHOULD they? Are two separate arguments in the gun debate. Let's not even go into the methods you proffered for acquiring a gun as contraband; the argument is that: it would give me so much satisfaction to push a button right now and have your head explode wherever you are, just for annoying me this morning.

Gosh, ROTFLMAO, especially the part in blue, so funny, sometimes you just feel like slapping someone, but to push a button? I can just imagine the satisfaction you would feel this morafucker annoying me is dead, haaa. Peace. LMAO jeez, I'm afraid of you now oh

If you were in front of me and I had a gun, I would likely shoot you. Not to protect myself, but because I find you annoying and because the gun is in my hand and would likely shut you up. We have so many unstable citizens who would be annoyed by: a girl turning them down; someone refusing to accept their point of view; someone cutting in in front of them in a queue or in traffic;

Preach

someone calling you "woman!" In that annoying derogatory manner.

LMAO very very annoying,

I'm very sorry for laughing I know you're being serious, but the posts were filled with some funny sentences sorry

Everyone carrying guns in Nigeria? Recipe for instant death for 90% of the population

Every time these people need one thing or the other,
Allah come and see your people, are they right?
Cc maezara.

Seahawk:
My other account was banned for calling out rapist apologists.

I saw,

knows his house is full of misogynistic assholes so he and his MODs (who are mostly idiots BTW) know he can make more money by moving this thread to front page because of the traffic it will pull.

Honestly it's so annoying money over women,and this is a place that the owner said was a feminist forum.

Assholes breeding assholes

Yeah.

Optimist1998:
Million dollar question.
No surprise he skipped your mention. Homosexuals are the mysterious works of God

Don't mind him

Seahawk:
Why do Nigerian men hate their women so much?
The hatred, rank misogyny and disgusting need to demean women at any opportunity is frankly nauseating.
What’s the aim of the fool that created this story if not to create another fembash? You people need to do better seriously.

Say this again and again and again, especially the part in blue,
Honestly I'm beyond disgusted,

The hate is too much,
Misogyny is so high in this country.


What's the point do this thread now? This thread doesn't condemn Yahoo, furthermore all this rubbish isn't even real, so what's the point of this thread?

Now I see what was said about people being misogynistic. People are banned for speaking out against rape, but others are not banned for defending rape even when they have a rule saying don't defend rape, mtcheww.
Now this.

How can a topic like this blatantly disrespecting women be moved to FP? Calling women living dead? Then all the ridiculous comments which follows insulting women.

Somebody will just tell tales by moonlight with the sole purpose being to insult women and it will be pushed to FP, mtcheww


Most Nigerian men don't deserve Nigerian women
I swear,
Wish women can just tell these misogynistic men to go fuçk themselves.

Pataricatering:
Not one word of advice for the yahoo boys only for the women , abi ! Why are you men always unnecessarily concerned about female issues , why ? Have they used women to swear for you ? Woman wrapper !

Its so annoying, their job is to be insulting women left and right, that's the only thing they can use their lives for.

ebosse:
OK. That question was meant for the other lady who obviously wouldn't answer the question because we all know what the answer would be , going by 'her Logic'.

But U decided to answer the question anyway, which you didn't ( Since the answer should be >>>Yes, we should + OR + >>>> No, shouldn't ... Before any explanation). What you did is what I call 'sitting on the fence'.

I didn't sit on the fence, you asked me a question and j answered you properly. Stop trying to invalidate my answer because you can't counter it.. I ended my answer with the fact that if the situations were the same (her situation and your hypothetical example) I wouldn't be in this thread,

Funny thing is Yoga pics most times shows the curves of a lady just the way a gym pic shows the built of a guy, if talking about the curves of a lady is seen as sexualization then talking of the built of a guy should be seen the same way.

The point is that you don't know her, keep your sexual compliments to yourself, you agreed with that before, why trying to change You don't know the person, keep your sexual comments to yourself. It's common sense, you don't know how the person will take it. Some may mind some may not, she clearly minds, what's wrong with that?
Must it happen to a guy first before you agree it's sexualization?

I get your 'drift' tho. You may think these guys ( Nairalanders) dislike ladies by their remarks/post but no, they don't.

, I'm judging everyone by their actions(posts) if they don't post how will I know how they feel about ladies or not? I'm not a mind reader

Everyone is just tired of ladies playing the gender card @ every given opportunity.

Always Making a mountains out of molehills.

'Much ado about nothing'

You all should learn not to take offence @ every slight remark.

And every damn person is tired of you men starting shīt and when you men get called out, try to act like you all are innocent

You condescending misogynistic men should learn to stop diminishing, dismissing and belittling the experience of ladies,


A lady says she has a problem, instead of you misogynists to listen to the issue, because you see its a woman, you immediately and condescendingly dismiss her issues because it's a woman speaking," they blow everything out of proportion, or whatever excuse you men use, blah blah blah", ignoring the issue, starting the gender war first,
when she points out and rightly so that she is being treated that way solely because she is a woman you silly men then use reverse psychology to attack and blame her for Turning it into a gender war when you men were the ones who started it, then at the end of the day nothing is resolved,

Don't in that annoying condescending way try and tell her what she should have an issue with or what she shouldn't have and issue with, mtchewwww, nonsense,
You don't decide what she can have an issue with and what she cannot have an issue with. Stop trying to control the actions and feelings of ladies.

Mtchewww.

Stop those nonsense, stop starting drama

ebosse:
Dear, I asked a simple question which you've managed to deflect.

Darling, Do you know the meaning of deflect?
Look at your original question before you modified.

ebosse:
Question for you ladies. If a guy post pictures of his chest and abs and a lady decide to compliment him would you call her a 'Pervert'?

And this is my answer, now please show me how I tried to deflect, note the part in bold.

Daeylar:
Answer to your question, she didn't post of a pic of her ass, she posted a pic of a yoga pose, OK her ass is showing,
that's the pose. Should she cut off her ass? abi she shouldn't do yoga because some people don't have sense?
If she posted a pic of her ass and started complaining. I won't be here.

why rush to give her sexual compliments? All right you've given her the compliment, she then tells you she doesn't like it, then you proceed to threaten her with more verbal sexual harrasment and tell her that you can to speak to her any which way you like? Why?

And why ask me about perverts in the first place?
Did you see any of my posts calling anyone a pervert? ask those who called him perverts why they called him perverts, direct this question to the right source.

I called the men misogynists. And I stand by that.

ebosse:
Question for you ladies. If a guy post pictures of his chest and abs and a lady decide to compliment him would you call her a 'Pervert'?

Answer to your question, she didn't post of a pic of her ass, she posted a pic of a yoga pose, OK her ass is showing,
that's the pose. Should she cut off her ass? abi she shouldn't do yoga because some people don't have sense?
If she posted a pic of her ass and started complaining. I won't be here.

why rush to give her sexual compliments? All right you've given her the compliment, she then tells you she doesn't like it, then you proceed to threaten her with more verbal sexual harrasment and tell her that you can to speak to her any which way you like? Why?

True!!!. I have never done that in over 10 years I've been on social media, and I will never do that!! I know how easy it is for ladies to play the gender card, self-respect is something I never joke with!

So you know what they did was wrong.

@Topic. What I still don't get is why people choose to live in a fantasy world. In Life there's the good, the bad and the ugly. This applies too to social media. Expecting to get the 'Good' only is unrealistic.

If you choose to be on social media be ready for both sides, it's a public forum for crying out loud!!!! If U can't take the 'bad' and 'Ugly' then shut down your account, its that simple!!!!

Did she tell you she couldn't take it? Did she post anywhere that she can't take it? She just spoke out against something she doesn't like.
She has the right to speak out against the bad, she has the right to clap back against comments she doesn't like.
You people love to play this card of "I can say whatever I want" but at the same time try and restrict the right of the other person to say whatever the person wants.

If you feel you can compliment her body however you want irrespective of her feelings, she has the right to reply you however she wants also.

DEAL WITH IT!!!!!

Shut down account indeed mtchewww

That3:
Seems misogynist is the most used word for women. Calling it a Yoga pose doesn't change the fact that that is a well magnified picture of her àss, And everyone who look at the pic the first thing he/she would see is her àss.

Because you can't counter my post you decided to disturb my mentioñs with your silly posts.

Those pictures were created by silly people to try and belittle anyone who speaks out against misogyny,

There is no self respecting woman who if a man tells that he doesn't date a woman who smokes or a woman who is overweigh that would get angry,

So those pictures are trash.

Futhermore I gave a reason why I called you all misogynists, you have no respect for women,

You see women you don't know and start giving them sexual compliments, whats wrong with you all? That's wrong,

So you've already made the mistake, what happens next, The woman tells you she doesn't like it, accept, apologise and move on, you start behaving like toddlers and start ranting up and down. Saying you can tell her anything you want. How she feels doesn't matter, that's what makes you all on this thread insulting her misogynists.


The fact that you all boldy sit and say her feelings doesn't fuçking matter, you can talk about her and about her body anyway you feel like, even when she has told you that she doesn't like such, you even boast and threaten her that you'll increase the sexual talk. Threatening her with verbal sexual harassment, for daring to say that she doesn't like the way you spoke about her body,
Then you wonder why I call you all misogynists.



You're not worth this explanation, but it's to clear up the stupidity of those pictures you posted to try and belittle anyone who complains about misogyny.

This thread is just more evidence to the misogynistic nature of most of the male gender in Nigeria,

You gave a girl a sexual compliment, she doesn't like it, move on, yet your little egos can't take correction, so you insist and say you must talk to her anyhow you want, how she feels doesn't matter, it's what I as a stupid male wants, after all she is posting pics of her ass, therefore I am entitled to talk to her anyway I want. when she has made it clear she is posting pics of a yoga pose.

Nigeria, a country where the male gender sees women and girls as nothing more than an object.

PDPGuy:
Even if she is wearing only bra and panties, the guy should behave himself if she makes it clear that she doesn’t appreciate those kinds of comments.

Another reasonable comment
, finally human beings are posting comments on this thread.

CeeKay17:
I don't think it's right to complement a lady sexually except you've established some level of familiarity with her.

One of the very few reasonable comments on this thread,
Finally,

lovelygurl:
Lmaooo.

The stereotypical Nigerian Christain. I keep telling you all, Christians in western countries aren't the Christians you believe they are.


Look at him

"Very disappointing"

Who cares about what you think is disappointing? No, seriously who cares? Is it your country, are you by any means affected by it?

The way they hate homosexuals scare me some are even ready to kill or maim a human being like them because the person is a homosexual, then they will use the Bible to back up their stupidity while consistently ignoring the part of the bible that said don't judge.

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panafrican:
Where did you read all this BS? Why is Sodom referred to as a sinful place in the Bible ?

Only homosexuald can reason like you. You lost the battle, sorry ! because you will not prevent people from exposing the wicked practice you are fond of nor will you be able to intimidate anyone.
Homosexuality is a sin just like theft and lies, as such it should be exposed.

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Isn't it your god that created the homosexuals?

I love this, it's perfect

Maezara:
Nice development. I hope this doesn't result in VIOLENCE. These people can start hacking off heads for the most trivial reasons.

In Nigeria, dressing your children in religious regalia and branding them as members of a particular religion when they're still impressionable and easy to brainwash should also be declared ILLEGAL. You're forcing the children to put on Hijab AGAINST THEIR WILL and making them Muslims without their consent, which is against the provisions the Nigerian Constitution and the Universal Declaration of Human Rights have made regarding their Fundamental Human Rights.

If it's wrong for the state to force adults, it is equally wrong for parents (the leaders of the government of the home) to force Children to wear the Hijab.

Let them decide when they grow up.

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I hope someone doesn't get assassinated.

Cc maezara,

musicwriter:
Check the reply I gave that guy, cause he have no idea what's going on. I really don't blame him cause its not an easy thing to decipher.

OK will check now thanks

Maezara, what do you think about this?

Nonsense all through.

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kolawoleibukun:
This na something way Aisha burahi suppose take up and address. office of president no be free oh. we are paying for it. Aisha should get up and do the work she is paid to do.

everybody should rise up. no be by prophecy is by being responsible.


almost all the girls for this country don turn arshewwoh. they just believe say tohto na office. some girls go just believe say their level don change becos dem day date one rich guy. dem go just forget their papa level begin fly go where husband no day.

feminists dem day hide now cos they are fake. she Beverly Osu follow naked woman day snap picture. unto wetin na? den if I talk dem go won kill me put. people no day respect themselves first before person go respect them?

No feminists fit come out and condemn Beverly for wetin she do. but if na man do am you go see them.

the girls na better street girls. no be the girls you go blame na Buhari and aisha. if to say them fulfil their campaign promises many girls for day too busy to day follow men. many girls cannot go to school cos of money. they end up wating their lives

which school Daniella Okeke go? Omega Fire university

teflonjake:
Now this is funny to me



But some ladies have really lost their sense of dignity...shame

DuBLINGreenb:
Is it not 9ja girls? Anything is possible because they have iQ's a little below room temperature.

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Olalan:
Girls seems to have lost their sense of dignity these days. Once the guy has some money anything goes.

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As if the girls are holding themselves, is it not a man that is holding them? Did the man also lose his sense of dignity? And any small thing you men call money,

How do you know anything about who has money or who gave who money from this picture,

It's too early in the year for you guys to resume your misogyny.

Maezara:
You're welcome, sweetie.

How're you this morning?

I'm OK dear, how are you?

mvem:
...honestly the truth and i am in support...the victim blame stuff is mostly an african thing and a 3rd world mentality...the arab world is the worst, a raped lady is guilty of a crime....insanity, just imagine...We will keep on speaking for those without a voice. But atleast you got my initial point i was trying to pass right?

Exactly victim blaming needs to stop.
To be honest Not really, you said if you go a place where there are gangs and wear signs and all of that, but how do you relate that to a rape case?

Happy new year by the way.

Remmythe:
All that you mentioned are jst gon be done at freewill by d husband
And who said I'm gon sit and watch her get a job,what we're saying here is dat she's gon be working and d husband will be working too,and dat regardless of dat job of hers,she still shouldn't forget the fact that the house chores are her own dutysolely...I might render help at will...
Stop saying it's mandatory ma.

Whether you like it or not, taking care of your own child is mandatory,
There is no excuse in this world, and the ridiculous excuse of "I am a man" just doesn't cut it, that's is plain nonsense.

You don't deserve a child if you feel it's freewill on your part to choose to take care of your child and to choose when to take care of your child,
Taking care of a child is more than just throwing money at a child.

This is not men vs women matter, this is what's best for the child.

It's unacceptable that you think taking care of a child is solely the responsibility of the mother, you do not deserve to be a father with this mindset, when later the kids grow up with this kind of father and abandon him and take care of only their mum, you men will start complaining.


And that nonsense of house chores being solely the responsibility of the wife is only for stay at home wives
(SAHWs) and/or mums (SAHMs) that's when this your idea of I can help once in a while can be reasonable, but Once a woman is working the same way the man is working then house chores must be shared, it's non negotiable, sheeesh,

How can the job of the husband only be going to work?
While the job of the wife is going to work, cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids?
Whats the point of being a wife? Won't she just go and ask to be a maid so that she knows that that is what she is?

Remmythe:
All that you mentioned are jst gon be done at freewill by d husband
And who said I'm gon sit and watch her get a job,what we're saying here is dat she's gon be working and d husband will be working too,and dat regardless of dat job of hers,she still shouldn't forget the fact that the house chores are her own dutysolely...I might render help at will...
Stop saying it's mandatory ma.

Whether you like it or not, taking care of your own child is mandatory,
There is no excuse in this world, and the ridiculous excuse of "I am a man" just doesn't cut it, that's is plain nonsense.

You don't deserve a child if you feel it's freewill on your part to choose to take care of your child and to choose when to take care if your child,
Taking care of a child is more than just throwing money at a child,

That is unacceptable that you think taking care of a child is solely the responsibility if the mother,


And that nonsense of house chores being solely the responsibility of the wife is only for stay at home wives
SAHW) and/or mums

Maezara:
Happy new year to:

Daeylar
lovelygurl
MissWrite
Edimolu
MhisTahrah

May the new year be an entrance for you into a new world of beauty, joy and happiness, where you watch the movie of your life under a new light, sing the background track with delight and peace of mind, and dance away with glee to the mellifluous melody of your new song.

Not only will it be a happy year for you---the year itself will join you in the mood.

My zara

I cannot write like this
Wish you and everyone mentioned the same. Wish you all everything you all desire.

Thanks for the happy year

lovelygurl:
Wishing

Jigba
Atlantia
Daeylar
Maezara

And other Nairalanders a happy New Year

May your boobs, ass and hair grow, your skin glow, you all continue slaying and your goals be accomplished this 2018

Wish you and everyone mentioned the same dear (except ass and boobs for zara )

LMAO
You eh

Maezara do you want long hair

edimolu:
Cc maezara aka zandha

Wishing u guys a fruitful and fufilling year...

Thank you. Wish you the same, wish you a wonderful year

lovelygurl:
Yes it is down in several countries

Lol, too many happy new year messages