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hedonistical:
When the time is right dem no dey tell person. Na your body go tell you when you're a divorced, hopefully childless and perpetually bitter old wrench at age 50+.

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Unfortunately for people like you. All these scare tactics don't work again,
See the way he is saying hopefully childless. See the kind of bitterness in his heart, no wonder he is looking for who will be bitter with him. LMAO

You people want to bring zero to a relationship while expecting to be treated like Gods but when women don't put up with such nonsense you become bitter.

Wake up, we are in. 2018,
Divorcees are getting married, women above 50 are getting married, heck women are even choosing to not marry and to not have kids.

Better move with the times, before you are the one over 50 lonely as Fuçk and without kids. Unable to find a good woman, because you're Still crying about all these women who won't kiss your ass

Remmythe:
smiles,there's nothing to it..
it's jst natural,there's nothing like gender or marriage equality(90% of guys,myself inclusive)sees it as nothing bt pride and unsubmissive act from the wife..
you wouldn't expect me&my wife to be exchanging roles for house chores jst kos she's working too,bt d husband can help at will tho...not seeing it as mandatory or one of his own duties...

Submissive wife in this century, na wa.

Taking care of your own house, a house you live in. Taking care of your own children, cooking your own food is too much for you to do, mtcheww
It's mandatory, whether you like it or not,

The wife will get a job, while you sit down and think you can choose if you will take care of your own kids or not. Story.

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lofty900:
Instead of wishing for God's mercy and pray to enter heaven u r here wishing to see people that will kuku give express visa to hell

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Why did your god not heal him, why did your God allow him to have cancer mtchewwwwwww

Pray to a god that allowed me to suffer and is watching me suffer and still won't do anything. Nonsense.

Mvem

My simple point is that rape apology needs to stop, stop blaming victims.

WHOcarex:
Hippocrates everywhere. Why una dey update una phones and apps? Why una to stick to the old version? They want women to work so they can assist with bills. Saying, its not easy these days for a man to handle the responsibilities alone. But ask them to assist with house chores, you are a feminist. Ask them to treat you with respect, you are demanding equal right.

I should follow the rules some stupid men laid ages ago just to glorify themselves

King my ass

LMAO truth,

danthamccoy:
Wow. Looks like a handbook for maids.

For those saying no wonder their marriages lasted, of course they'd last when the women were so docile and made to stay home and be glorified househelps. It's crazy that over half a century later, a significant number of men still walk around with the same sense of entitlement and some women see nothing wrong with it. Oh well, wetin be my own?

no lies told

mhizsuzzy:
Thanks dear the men won't see this part ooo nah to open mouth dey talk anyhow.

At least the older men were more mature when it come to women matter not babies we have today in the name of men.

LMAO
Serious babies pretending to be men, there are a few good men sha.

Unfortunately for the pathetic men and pathetic op women were never created to please men, women are their own independent selves and delusional men babies should stop acting like the female gender is just there for male pleasure

So where are the tips to please your wife?
Mtchewww

mvem:
....like your writeup

Thanks,

ya actually is the truth but we re living in a world that is not ideal. Even in europe they caution ladies about bad spots/zones or to be accompained in certain areas

So? We are living in a world that isn't ideal and we can do our best to make it more ideal, instead of sitting down and using the fact that the world isn't ideal to do nothing.

Humans are still humans meaning take peecautions first before arguing about rights or whatever.

*Sigh* More rape apology and victim blaming, rapists will see your post and be happy, they still have people defending them and blaming their victims, if I rape someone they will blame her for not taking precaution,
You guys need to explain to me this desperation to blame victims of rape for the rape.
If it's not telling women to dress well it's telling them to take precautions. Do you have any way to combat rape that doesn't include victim blaming?

Why telling women to take precautions? Why not going after people who rape? Dress well, women in Saudi Arabia covered head to toe are raped,
Sometimes you can even cover your whole body and tie a scarf on top, the rapists find a way to isolate you, points a weapon at you and tells you to strip, what's the point of the clothes? What good did all the dress well do for such a woman now,?

Don't go here, don't go there, your house can be broken into and you can be raped In your own home. What good did don't go here and don't go there do for such a victim now?

I understand you mean women should protect themselves, but sometimes, protecting yourself just doesn't work, and telling women to protect themselves has the undertone that if they are raped it's their fault in a way for not protecting theirselves. When all the blame should solely be on the head of the rapists.

Women shouldn't stress themselves because some people decide to be wicked, women should be able to wear what they want and live their lives without fear of rape.

but truth be told, there are no excuses for rape.

There are no excuses for rape but you just gave excuses now saying that women should take precaution, subtly insinuating that women can give rapists a way to rape them by not taking precautions subtly blaming women for rape.

Are you a feminist

Why did you ask if I'm a feminist?

Rape is now something people use to make jokes,
"The day I see you, I will rape you", mtcheww.

You want to give up your baby for adoption, not that you want to sell, very wrong wording you used,

How do adoption agencies work? Why not try them?

However if you actually meant you Want to sell the baby, then I have no words for you

Richy4:
Some people have the superiority mentality...They got it at the back of their mind that anything called servant are maggots and doesn't deserve anything good.

True, I really don't understand her anger, doesn't seem like they are hurting for money.

However if she doesn't want the maid they should get another one.
Drama is too much.

You might even be surprised the girl in question might be a distant relation of hers that was branded a maid..

Maybe

Richy4:
U sound like a maid is not human.. and doesn't deserve anything good... Your question should have been how buoyant is this man and his family ? If they are really rich, is it appropriate to buy the young lady Nokia 3310 because she's the maid?

Exactly, how rich are they? If they can afford multiple iPhones what's the problem.

I don't even understand this wife's post, its just all over the place, from buying iPhone to buying hair to big breasts to sleeping with neighbours what's actually her problem?

If she doesn't want the girl she should talk to her husband and let him know they should get a new maid so she can have peace of mind.

Why have a 17 year old maid though.

lovelygurl:
Exactly! That's how it's done here. It's up to you to decide if you as want to go on leave around the same time, or the mum stays at home during the first year and the dad the second year.

Thanks for explaining dear, learnt something new just now.
And the best part is, it's best for the baby, I Iove it.

Chaii,
Oristefemi's wife is Savage,

"Address me with my achievements and not what your generations are know for" jeez,
Epic finishing.

lovelygurl:
Me too

I think the months are even longer in Switzerland

If there are two parents involved in the raising of the baby therefore both parents should be given leave,

True equality, no excuse again from any angle. And the man cannot say it's a woman's job to raise the baby because he is going to work, since they are both on leave, and companies cannot say, I won't hire you because you'll get pregnant, since both the father and the mother will be given leave to take care of the baby,

Am I right? I don't know how it's done there.

lovelygurl:
The example of the pregnant woman is ridiculous because in a country like Germany, there's sth. like "Vätermonate" where not only the woman is on leave but also the man. He's given the chance to spend some time with his family (baby). That IS equality and what happens in a "feminist" society/country

I love that

mvem:
...leave that thing, because it was in a controlled environment and with security outfits...try this on a normal day and i bet you will hear stories...pls am not glorifying anything am just saying fact

Exactly my point,

The reason those uselēss rapists and rape apologists give that asinine excuse of "the way she was dressed" and "I saw the way she was dressed and couldn't control myself",is because they know that people will give excuses for them and blame the victims. Or ask that eternally stupid question of why were you dressed like this(part of victim blaming)

Here, in the calabar carnival no rapist(because I'm sure there are men who are rapists or potential rapists who were in the crowd) attempted to try that rubbish because they know no one will tolerate that rubbish and stupid excuse of "the way she was dressed" and that they will be dealt with immediately and without mercy.


My point in plain terms is that the way a woman is dressed is never an excuse for rape,
The women wearing only a very short skirt and nothing on their breasts would have been a prime target for rapists but instead the rapists removed their eyes and controlled and respected themselves. No one attempted rubbish,
Which proves that the rapists can control themselves and actually choose to rape or not to rape a woman and that dressing has absolutely nothing to do with it. You could be half naked (in the case of these women) and if the rapist chooses not to attempt rape he would not,
It's never the woman's fault in any way.

If they ( the rapists) feel they can get away with it or not is actually one of the reasons why they attempt to rape.

lovelygurl:
Anyway since op doesn't wish to be broke shamed, I'll keep you in my prayers and pray you shouldn't be broke shamed this 2018.

In fact I'll pray you remain forever broke, so you can give your testimonies and be the evident that prayers work and you weren't broke shamed even though you were broke.

No need to say thank you. You're welcome

What kind of prayer is this LMAO

Khonifer:
Please don't slut shame us please

You know that your opinion of us is the only thing that matters. If we are not approved by you, you that wields the holy joystick, what will our lives amount to? Haven't we become useless?

Please. I dey use Baba God beg you.

Sarcasm used here will not kill me

pocohantas:
LOL. The only reason you're getting away with your posts is because your a male. My dear, if you were a female, you dare not say one-tenth of the reverse of what you say and have some e-peace.

No lies told abeg, not only with they follow you with you useless mentioñs left and right, they pounce on every single comment you make, the next thing is to start, hoe, olosho, ashawo, and other IQ reducing mentioñs they give people.

See the way they are feeling like superstars, "the shaming will continue, I can shame who I want." But dare call any man broke or say anything against them and you will see wailing all over your mentioñs, the kind of mentioñs you will recieve eh

No time to tolerate such childish behaviour abeg.

pocohantas:
They'll follow you all round NL with alternates. They'll mention you unnecessarily, they'll even form a team . Females rarely go that extent.

Serious team oh,

Funniest part is they will bully you with one alternate. And quote you nicely with another one, LMAO.

lovelygurl:


Admit it johr, he looks like a snack

Compare him with the others now or

Buhari

Absolutely no chance

Please don't spoil my morning with that name lol

makydebbie:
I tell you, grandpas won't give snacks a chance.


Very nutritious bae, complete diet.

I have nothing left to say

Preach simi

“Cyber bullies also need to expire this year. Trending is nonsense if you’re trending for being a shitty person. Try not to say things about people on social media that you wouldn’t like to be said about you. You’re a coward if you’re an idiot bully hiding behind a keyboard.”

lovelygurl:
The president of the DrC is looking like a snack

Na wa
Lovelygurl

makydebbie:
I concur, that's some healthy snack.

Not even ordinary snack a healthy one at that, very nutritious snack right?

You girls have big eyes sha

Bollinger:
You see. Morality is relative. Curious that no comment about how the women are sluts. Lol. Nigerians.

You know them well

Pataricatering:
How has she spoilt your image ? If she hoes she is not using your body , so how has she spoilt your image ? When guys go around with anything g in skirts do their fellow men come out to say anything ? It’s only women u will see tearing other women down !

Thank you jare,

Someone is on her own, another person carried her matter on the head and said she has spoilt the image of women,

She better leave me out of her nonsense tirade.

[color=Red]People need to learn to stop policing women's vaginas

A grown woman can do whatever the hell she wants and does not need anyone to tell her how to act or not to act. [/color]

If you want to be a virgin or stay celibate, fine, no one should shame and bully anyone for that, that's a person's decision and the person doesn't need to explain a damn thing to any damn body, likewise if anyone wants to have sex, still the person's decision and the person shouldn't be shamed nor bullied for that also, the person also doesn't need to explain shít to anyone also.

They should stop trying to control and run the Lives of grown women under this useless cover of forcing morality and how to be a so called good woman nonsense that they always do.
How does what she does with her vagina affect anyone now?

Even the useless men who fuçk at least 2 different women every week will still call someone a hoe.


A woman is not an object, no part of a woman's body should be discussed as if it's an object. Mtchewww. A woman is not alive to please anyone either men or her fellow women, Everyone should live their own Lives in peace.

Nice to see some men condemning slut shaming sha, it's rare.

That's nice.
Yet nobody raped any of them, they were not harassed, they went their way peacefully,
later, some rape apologist fools will say a woman's dressing can lead to harrasment and/or rape.

Ray360:
I repeat, you can't attribute all that hating and bashing to just sheer misogyny. They have girlfriends.

Having a girlfriend doesn't mean you can't be misogynistic,
You can have a girl and still be misogynistic. You can even have a wife and still be misogynistic,
you'll still treat her in that same misogynistic manner. She either tolerates it because she doesn't know better and thinks thats how she should be treated or she thinks there is nothing else she can do, or for one reason or the other she won't leave you,
Hope you know some women themselves are misogynistic.

But we can agree to disagree.

Ray360:
I don't want to totally believe t these pile of nonsensical comments were totally out of misogynistic passion. I think it's just a crystal picture of what the average guy has metamorposed to.

Some also believe they belong to the "bad boy" clique, as such, bashing the guy for such action will be tantamount to weakness on their part. It's just a realistic panorama of what some guys are turning to.

They are misogynistic, lets call a spade a spade

Why does the bad boy cliq have to be one where they act misogynistic to women to show they are bad boys even when they know the guy is wrong?.

Yes. Guys are turning into misogynistic assholes. It's clear as day.

And these 2 stupid as hell trash comments have hundreds of likes, misogyny is a serious problem in this country.

brosci:
He never lied.
He really had the headache but on his way to a chemist store he saw a lady that looked quite hungry and since it's the festive season he decided to take her to dominos. The lady should be proud of her bae for been so thoughtful and charitable, he is definitely every girl dream guy.

TheUbermensch:
What was she doing there herself?!

cchiagom:
looking for you! what a silly question

Extremely stupid question, so because her boyfriend was ill she shouldn't go out?

Misogynistic mad men