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adepeter2027:
Ad-hominem.

Anyways, you gat a big head with an empty skull which can't even accommodate a tiny brain cos if only you've read your bible cover to cover, you would have realised Abraham's side chick was Haggai and David's side chick was uzziah.


Like god fvcking Mary to give birth to jesus right?

As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. (NIV, 1 Corinthians 14:33-35)
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. (NIV, 1 Timothy 2:11-12)

So much pain

Schooled him

adepeter2027:
So you're here too

Same as you

Martin0:
Hahahahahahah chai women with mouth

MissWrite:
Lol! seriously? Does "The Spinster" make you think of a show where a bunch of "hunksome" guys work for the attention of a woman? "The Bachelorette" may be a prize (it's glamorous) but "The Spinster" just sounds glum. It's such an ugly sounding word (spinster! Whoever came up with that?). It would be a show in black & white, of a middle-aged woman who's forgotten how to smile, who takes walks with her poodles and screams at children in hallways. Exhibiting her spinstrosity.

Lol,

To be honest I don't mind the word
I think the reason why the word denotes negativity for you and for a number of people is because of misogyny, misogyny made everything that related and relates to women as something to be ridiculed and mocked,



If the words were switched. Bachelor for women, spinster for men, today I think we would like spinster and use it,
(The Spinster and the Spinsterette )
While bachelor would be seen as distasteful and dropped,
(Or maybe that isn't your reason and you just don't like the word

Toh! We cannot have them arrested, but they'd do well to swerve . Nobody needs the negativity, biko.

Exactly

That's why the bible is trash especially for women, misogynistic book

Very violent book too

Anyways freeze told no lies why only tithing?

MissWrite:
Lmao! , see now? I'm going have to work on that, calling him "Man" won't be offensive to him at all. Same way that spinster has more sting than bachelor; so, we had to come up with bachelorette. Lol! If that reality tv show had been called "The Spinster" it would be a different show.

Lol
Just wanted to show you an example, lol, example of those people didn't really care sha, I can't take someone who says trash serious
How would the spinster have been like? tell me, lol,

, Don't mind him and his ilk, people now prey on feminism to say that women shouldn't consider marriage an achievement, lol! They are missing the point actually

Feminism is paining them to the bone , they see that more women are less willing to take their trash. So they find any reason to discredit it.

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The feminist concept simply implies [color=#770077][/color]that I should be free to define my goals for myself, and not have society define them for me. If it's my goal to get married, and it works out for me, then haven't I achieved? After all the self-improvement books, and conscientiously positioning myself for a relationship? They don't just fall into a person's lap, you know. If i consider it to be an achievement for myself, then what right does anyone have to discount that?

They think it's easy



Don't mind him, the misogynistic controlling spirit inside him was disturbing him badly when he made that comment
They just sit down and look for new ways to attack women, before it was go and marry. Now that women either don't care about what they say or are marrying left and right. they had to come up with a new one. Now it's, "Why are you happy you're getting married? Marriage isn't an achievement. It's only an achievement to____(insert derogatory names here)"
Mtchewwww
So in their mind now they have 2 arsenals. Either go and marry or why do you consider marriage an achievement, nansense


Somebody will sit down in his house and think he has the right to decide what someone can consider an achievement and what the person cannot consider an achievement, misogynistic control freak.

But if it isn't my plan to get married, I shouldn't have to, just because other people expect it of me. The independence of the emancipated woman ensures that she doesn't NEED a man to guarantee her basic needs; and she can, therefore, decide if she WANTS one or not. After all, marriage provides a person with much more than (possibly) financial security (where either the man or the woman can be the beneficiary); it's also a play for love and companionship. So, all this talk about this woman having nothing to offer, simply because she considers this quick union a blessing, is really unwarranted.

Exactly, don't mind him and people like him. They are just looking for new ways to insult womenx you know it's their favorite pasttime,

And you were spot on when you said that both men and women could consider marriage an achievement. Haven't we been seeing ads here put up by guys? At the end of the day, we define what we want and set out to achieve our goals. And people who want to rain on our parade are all just bad-bele people.

So in this case, is bad belle allowed or is it not allowed?

Tozara:
Hahaha. If Yahweh is on nairaland, man should be afraid---man should be very afraid.

Such a jealous God that wants no rivals. The lunatic that epitomizes pettiness.

Like I said once on this forum, there's only one way to solve this problem: all the Gods should bring out their dicks and urinate. The one that wins the urine contest, that releases more piss than the rest, should be declared the True God.

Methinks Dionysus would emerge the winner. A God with a Jewish mIcrophallus can only end up at the bottom.

I really don't understand this method at all

donnaD:
maturity is of the mindset and not of age. their mothers will be happy and celebrating that their sons are grown up not knowing that they are still babies in need of breast milk .over grown babies both husband and the ex.I just pity the lady.

Chisos
This one strong

trustyshoess:
1 month? Proposed after 1 week? you mean they couldn't wait to get to know each other for at least 6months to a year? see what family pressures can do. People need to learn to stop, sit and think long and hard before they make such decisions. Marriage a lifelong commitment and your goal should be to do it once, so to maximise the chances of a lasting marriage, you have to study your partner's compatibility, his/her attitude and behaviours that you might be able to put up with or are a complete deal breaker. 1 month is barely enough to remember someone else's surname. what is the rush?

Is that how you are? Lol, can't stop laughing. lol

alexialin:
Yes o! The women are happily married and settled in their new homes. They are their sharpening teeth like sharks.

Lol,

E dey Dia bodi. I read their insults and laugh.

Thanks dear.

You should, they can be tiring.
You're welcome

Definitely I will but not too flamboyant.
A moderate and classy wedding that's what we are looking @.
Thanks dear.

Congrats once again, HML in advance.

Thanks dear.
By God's grace, we shall both be settled in every areas of our lives, in Jesus name
Amen.

Take care dear.

Someone who was disqualified for sexual harrasment wants to advise people?

Imagine.

Seahawk:
Look at the kinds of comments on a thread this serious. Damaged human beings that’s what all of you are.

LMAO

I know this comment was serious but honestly I had to laugh, that Guy's comment is so out of place
They have started again, I'm weak.

Phonefanatic:
Don't be too quick to pronounce her innocent. She may be a bigger cheat that may not be honest enough to say she has cheated. Don't apportion blame nobody has made you a judge.

A woman boldly telling her husband she wished she married someone else? Don't even tell me career bulllshit..... You may be surprised to see her social media messages or chat platforms full of messages from that particular guy. She will wake up when she spends months in Nigeria.

That was a slap in the face no lies, I married you because you were the better option not because I actually wanted to marry you.

In my opinion your wife treated you horribly
Acting anyhow she wants and still expects you to be there. (You did cheat though)
Sorry op.

KanwuliaExtra:
Congratulations on your freedom from a marriage in bondage.
Better luck next time.

Simple and short. You didn't even want to say they may come back together. I couldn't help but smile.
Story is sad

pu7pl3:
You tried sha but more effort is needed

Becky lynch that broke up with me...
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I'm not surprised. LMAO
[quote]Lemme go and watch it...tho i like bryan for helping kevin


Lol wwe must be naively ignorant if they think they can turn bryan heel and make fans boo him


I see kevin viciously screwing sammy to pin aj styles all thanks to the loving yes man daniel bryan

That's what you'll like, how did you see it?

I was angry, then he started doing that yes thing and the fans were even supporting him

Lol, may happen, very likely, but I don't want a Kevin Owens champion, they give him championships too Much. They did the same thing on raw, I want to we him work for a championship for once.

MrBONE2:
I so much hate that irish girl cos she used to lost focus

Yeah Becky loses focus alot but she has a nice submission move.

Seahawk:
No. But they eat with the plates. Useless brains

It's their way, just to avoid putting the guy they even had the guts to put the guys mother,

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Sirheny007:
Trying so hard at feminism..
Do men consider marriage as an achievement?
A woman is entitled to marriage as much as a man.
That is no achievement!
If you are a true feminist, are you not being foolish?
Do not quote me again.

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When all has failed resort to feminism

A woman is also entitled to choose what she considers an achievement and what she doesn't consider an achievement, it doesn't concern you, it's not for you to use to insult her.

I won't do so again

alexialin:
You should know it's pure envy from the men.

Especially men who are lonely and miserable.

Don't mind their mouth and prophesy of doom.
Everyone has their race to run. They can stand in one spot and be condemning every action a woman takes. The said woman, Don Waka.
No time to waste jare.
Let the men saying thrash marry at the age of 50/60/70years old.. Na their wahala.
By God's grace am tying the knot this year with my boo. Amen.

Serious envy, the painment is real,
Don't mind them

They will continue to insult women, yet all the women they are insulting are living happily while bitterness is killing them there, LMAO

No time to waste at all.

Congrats dear shey you will tell us venue

Sirheny007:
Let me set this straight woman.

Misswrite come and see them

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I have no prejudice whatsoever against women.
I love and admire the sensible women out there.
Marriage can only be an achievement to a dependent and illiterate woman.
Moreover, if you were not pained about the truth in my post earlier, why did you feel the need to reply it?

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Rubbish and nonsense,
Marriage will be an achievement to whoever wants to make it an achievement.
Any woman or man can make marriage an achievement to them and it doesn't concern you in the least,


Imagine all the insults you threw because someone considers marriage an achievement?

The ones with this mentality are majorly parasites, who have nothing to offer apart from their bodies.
Marriage can only be an achievement to a dependent and illiterate woman.

How do you know the second statement? Do you know every woman both independent and dependent to know if they view marriage as an achievement or not?

Very myopic statement.

Why are you so pained that someone could consider marriage an achievement? Why are you pained over what someone decides to make an achievement or not? Why?
It's a free world,

Someone can consider marriage an achievement, the next woman may not consider marriage an achievement. Everyone should be free to live without facing unnecessary insults.

Truth indeed, mtchewwww.

Nigerian men have not finished using the fact that a woman is single as a means to insult Nigerian women,
They have now started a new trend of using marriage to insult women too,

If you are single, you can't get a husband this and that, blah blah blah
If you marry, why are you happy you are married?
marriage is not an achievement, Only this type and that type of women are happy when they get married, and all the other IQ reducing trash they spit out.

The misogyny knows no end.
Useless men.

Absolute Trash,

It's an achievement to her and non of your business,
Mtcheww,
Someone is happy she got married all of a sudden that translates to 80% of Nigerian women have no sense, and are parasites, what kind of stupid reasoning is that?
Anyways, i shouldn't be surprised, that's exactly how you are, and so because that's how you are, in your myopic way of thinking, you think Nigerian women are like you.

See how pained he is over someone's happiness,

Pained misogynist.

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Sirheny007:
Nigerian Women.
80% of them have little or no sense.
The ones with this mentality are majorly parasites, who have nothing to offer apart from their bodies.
To them getting married is an achievement.. and why not?
They have got a man to nag and bore prematurely to death.
smh

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adepeter2027:
which section on NL do you now patronise aside ROMANCE cos I wanna migrate as well.?

But I've seen your posts in romance
Lol, don't mind me,

Blackfyre:
Are you ignoring me?

No

Maezara:
No sex BEFORE marriage? Tah. I think people should just go for partners who share their orientations and ideologies.

I, for example, can never rush into marriage, and can never marry any woman a virgin, because I want to SEE and KNOW what I want to marry before going for it.

Some of us are like that.

Ominiknowest
So because you want to "know" the person, it's no longer "who" you want to marry, it's now "what" you want to marry abi
continue "knowing" more power to your "knowing"

Before I forget, MAS

Uyiii:
there are a thousand and one better ways to check up misdemeanors as this in advance countries, such that the driver even in the absence of security will respect himself.
but in 9ja, we find joy in treating one another like animals, well it's the language many understand anyways.

P.s: on my way to abj recently, close to sojis check point, I saw a man waving and smiling at every car passing, I was thinking he's a new intake in the madness industry because he was well dressed, not until I was told he's been compelled to do so by the soldiers, then I noticed his car was parked close by.
It was really an interesting sight to behold.

Truth.

Martin0:
Sure you re!
Trust me na!I know ur way's are better!

How today take go na?
U go work today?

my day was good how was yours?

Martin0:
Chai!
Sometimes if I jus see ur mouth like this eh,fear go jus catch me!

Ur mouth pass blade oo

But honestly, the option of the Man's mum should be changed to the man,
So the man will really sit comfortably and see his mum washing plates and won't jump.up immediately to take over just because he is a man,? That option of the Man's mum wasn't meant to be there at all.

Ligxy:
The guy no get grandmother? Let the grandmother wash the plates for them naw. Nansense!

This one weak me

Gosh LMAO

What kind of nonsense question is this?

Misogynistic nairaland rises again,
The useless guy is not there in the options why?

Mtchewww

How dare you tell a guest to wash plates?
How dare you expect the mother to wash plates when she has 2 grown children there?

My answer,
They should dump the plates for the guy to wash.


Misogynists.
Guys don't wash plate abi? Nonsense.

The guy and his sister should wash the plates, if the fiance offers and they let her help she can but if they choose not to let her help, she can be gisting with them in the kitchen.