₦airaland Forum

AbdulMagaji:
Nigeria lied to you about the coup.

So what is the truth?

This man started to divide this country along tribal lines by selectively killing Northern and southwest politicians while leaving politicians from his own tribe untouched.

Nigeria was once together but now we are torn apart along tribal lines started by this guy.

I wonder why they erected his statue and what this is doing on fp on a Monday morning.

DesChyko:
True. Most Nigerian bosses are evil. I am a teacher too and I have a lot of evil things to say about my boss. That's if I choose to ignore all the positives he's had in my life. This is an experience that probably goes the opposite direction of yours.

I started as a lowly graduate teacher of a subject in a private school; but my thirst for self development meant my other skills in tech and guidance/counselling were offered for free to the school and students.

Didn't take long for the students to take to me and I took to them. Soon, I began to have more audience with the boss and took over everything tech-related in the school (website checks, electrical faults, DIYs tutorials, name it) and still teaching.

In addition, my knowledge of vast subject and willingness to read made me a buffer for many subjects. If the teacher is unavailable and I'm free, I'd cover for the subject. A number of staff then said it's eye service but I don't really care. I was doing what I love for a not-so-good pay. Soon, I became the V.P.(Acad) the year before COVID. and you could say it was a good achievement.

During COVID, school shut down for 6 months, my boss paid me salary all through, not 100% salary but better than nothing. The next year, my boss accepted my plea for an increment due to the rising costs and jacked up my current salary then by 50%, making me the highest paid in the school. I forgot to mention that the gifts in cash and kind I get from my boss could be worth up to my three-month salary per year in terms of value. He moved on to pay all the expenses for me to partake in a state-wide competition which I emerged first-runner up, putting the LGA on state map and the school too.

The presence of these achievements in my CV positioned me to land a remote opportunity whose pay dwarfs what I earn at the school by almost 400% in terms of value. My boss agreed to allow me spend only half the normal school time after which I leave to begin the remote task. Note that he didn't reduce my salary; neither did any of the benefits I get cut down.

The first 3 alerts I got this year were from former students I taught; who for one random reason or the other, thought of reaching out. One of my female students who graduated in 2019 has my account sitting in her DM now as per her request yesterday. Not to mention the many ways, many of them used their capacity to help me here and there (even to recommend/purchase quality electronic gadgets or jump those humongous queues at MTN Office ). My birthday is tomorrow. I can't remember the last time I actually planned to celebrate my birthday. January tough. But not these students/former students. Every year for the past 5 years, they always turn up with plans.

I am Igbo, and we're quite few in my organization, my boss is Yoruba. I could have all sorts of petty things to say about him. I'm sure many of my colleagues will have a lot lot more to say about him. But in the things that matter, he has been a catapult to the very high grounds I find myself today and that is all that really matters to me (not petty things and not other people's opinion of him).

It's a lengthy read but I don't know who is sitting in a similar bus headed in a similar direction. It'll probably work out sooner or later. Just don't stop doing something legit. Anything.

Having a positive mindset, being hardworking and being resourceful is priceless... You have a wonderful go getter mind.. That's amazing

I don't need to tell you to keep it up, you are already reaping the benefits

Kog45:
Oh Kunle's father is Ade Afolayan known as Ade Love the taxi driver movie producer,that film started the love affair between Shina Peters and Clarion Chuckwura cos both featured in blockbuster taxi driver movie and led to birth of Clarence Peters another cinematography guy.

Wow. That's interesting

He and his brothers got those talents from their father who was also a great actor and film producer and handsome to a fault...
Kudos bro

AntiChristian:
It doesn't matter whether they are Hebrew, Igbo or Yoruba!

If you obey Allah as He mandated you to, you are a Muslim!

Adam, Noah, Abraham, Solomon, David, Jesus, Elias, Jonah, Moses, Muhammad, Joseph, Jacob, Ishmael, Isaac, John the Baptist, etc are all Muslims!

Awwwnn

You'll be alright, las las

Romanoff:
Dude will never learn.

Still the same type of plastic white women who will strip him of all he's ever had.

Typical of rich black guys. They always fall for sexy, plastic surgery made white gold diggers who would come to limelight through them, use them and leave them high and dry

AntiChristian:
Islam is the only accepted religion from the creation of the earth!

Noah , Abraham, Jesus and all others were all Muslims.

And whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers.
Qur'an 3:85

Abraham, Noah and Jesus were Hebrews. How are they Muslims? Islam came centuries after they passed away.

Their lives were written in the scriptures which Koran copied only to be making untrue claims

And what did the DNA results say?

They probably have the same father as a player that played home and away matches with different women

I read up on your story and I feel your pain. I encourage you not to give up. Better days are coming.

Injera:
Ibos have a delusional sense of importance. This election has clearly shown the fanatical and intolerant nature of an average ibo man.
Everyone hates the ibos out of envy they claim, why Ibos claim its because they cannot compete and so are less educationally and financially successful than them. When in truth they're mere economic migrants taking advantage of the generosity and livable conditions provided by their hosts.

Igbos have always hated Yoruba politicians, from Awolowo to Abiola (they called him and he stated he didn't need their their help to win. So they went to court and stopped further announcement of votes with court judgement just to prove their usual "if we can't help you, we can spoil things for you" attitude), now it's Tinubu.

Killbillz:
This isn't right.. u are supposed to prepare them for the outside world and trying to control them this way is not the best option to achieve that. These are grown adults for chrissakes. Not encouraging indecent dressing or exposure but there are better ways to go about this than all these..
Faculty uniforms indeed

It is training them to bring sanity to the school environment. What some students put on even an angel must fall. The hairstyles like crazed people....

When they go back home, many don't dress same way. Peop6have got to dress in the way they wished to be addressed

RichDad1:
Everyone knows the Igbos are in perpetual servitude to the PDP.

And any northern Presidential political flag bearer

Jostoman:
Thats why everybody love Atiku.

Everybody loves who?

Speak for yourself

A known national thief, saboteur, etc

Too little too late

clockwisereport:
Kenji na "bascard"

You want to ble this wickedness on konji?

Many of those idiots will have wives at home. Yet they must still taste any lady that enter their eyes.

How will her fiance marry he now? Hope his dismissal will not be the end of his punishment...

Btw, what is wrong with men?

ENDTIMEISNEAR:
D guy even know say She be stubborn Goat still dey date her

He never see road to enter her account despite his yahoo tactics hence the stubborn goat something

southsouthking:
Lunatic father.
Though I'm a stoner, but non of my kids Gon see me with a blunt anyday anytime.

There's no pride in been a stoner, most of us got into it through peer pressure and the tough street.

Do i regret it? Yes Yes Yes.

Would i want my kids to be stoners? No Never Never.

You are doing well bro.

So help you God

DollarBuddy:
See what killed him... Dog with Muscles like John Cena.

God forbid I keep such aggressive macho dogs.

Rest in Peace sir

Ugly mean dogs... Imagine he had 3 of such brutal dogs!

If he had only 1 maybe he could have survived the attack but 3?

Lies!

They escaped from the kidnappers or they were let go due to being too young/old. Or nursing mother plus baby

SLAP44:
Jagaban has realised he cannot win, he's started to cause trouble all around the region

Jagaban is living rent-free in your head. Everything done by anyone is attributed to him.

Is he that powerful? Dokpesi arrested, na Jagaban, Ojota is burning - Jagaban.... You're just making him popular with this free advert

LeoDeKing:
At 61, the "youngster" who ... youngster in quote.

Ipob don't understand sarcasm.

61, yet young.

Exactly what I thought.... They do not know that the English is savage in their use of sarcasm or polite insult. The ignorant will believe it is a compliment when they say things like "a youngster @ 61

Though I think the obidients just see only what they want to see and they have taken the insulting headline as a compliment

martyns303:
It actually doesn’t matter, except you are naturally not smart person. Grade doesn’t matter anymore, I know someone with a pass earning $7k right here in Nigeria.

Please enlighten on what the person does for a living, thanks.

funkmrflexx:
3 of my sisters children live with my mom. I'm the one in charge of their school cus their parents don't live in the same city. So I found out the last one which is about 7 years Fingered my neighbors daughter of about 3 years. The father of the girl who's a good friend of mine told me.
He said it had happened twice, first about 3 months ago and again before Christmas.
He said after his daughter told him the first time he warned the boy but the boy did it again. I asked my mom and she mom said it's a lie that the boy can't do anything like that, I even later find out that my mom told the little boy to stop greeting the man.

So I took the 3 of them to my house for holiday and after I heard the issue I promised the girls father that I would find out the truth, he told me that the boy is very smart but we need to be careful with him. And the reason he didn't take the issue very far Is because of me and I apologized to him and told him I would deal with the issue.

When we got to my house, I bought cane and I flogged the boy, at first he denied it but later confessed that he did it, that it was another boy (of about 20 years that showed him how to do it) that the boy even fingered his anus twice. I severely punished him and he promised not to do it again

Now the issue is that I don't feel like letting the boy going back to stay with my mom cus the other ones are saying it's my mom is one of the people spoiling the boy cus he's her favorite grandchild. I'm thinking of taking the boy from my mom and have in stay with Me and my wife but my wife thinks he's too small (he's just 7) she said we should wait till a bit older and we should take one of the other ones who are older.

But I feel a little boy having gone through something like this needs to be straightened out now before it's too late and I also don't want to make it an issue with my wife.
I'm scared that if the boy grows up and becomes something else knowing that I could do something when he was little, I will feel very bad because that's how them bobrisky take start

You're only talking about the last born. I'm sure the other 2 siblings are also getting spoilt under their grandma's nose.

Let their own parents come for them. Raising 3 kids together these days is not an old woman's job.

mariahAngel:
He even dey type epistle give me.

All these " unfortunately, there's nothing you can do, since there was no penetration to prove it" I swear, I no get.

Psychotic people full Nairaland. When you realize that, you're less bothered especially with all the substance abuse going on around us

mariahAngel:
Aggressively probe a 4yr old?
For what?

You dey reply a maniac?

Meaning he's a psychiatric case

MsJackson:
we're presently at my mum's house. Mum just told me my daughter came to meet her in the shop yesterday and told her that the girl told that her vagina was sweet. Imagine that.

This is unlike me. I'm thinking you may need to go there acting like all is forgiven until you get close enough to actually beat that spoilt 15 year old piece of shit up in front of your daughter to reassure her that you've dealt with her molester. Your little girl must witness it cause she's being haunted by the horrible words and acts done to her.

Or your husband should do it since it is his family. In my tribe, Aunties and uncles do treat any nephew or nieces fvck-ups just like their parents can.

virginprincess:
This can't be true love only,this guy actually went there for something aside love,let be truthful to ourselves for once .

An ugly broke normal guy will not go for her if not for monetary reasons not to talk of this gorgeous one.. Big inheritance is involved from the woman. Shameless Faworaja Gigolos everywhere these days

Johnthejohn:
Love is blind

Money... Lots of money is involved.... Don't trust that gender...

Which love?

Praxis758:
Still wondering how the French government delights in causing instability in francophone countries in Africa.

This French government are using the instability to cash out by selling arms and also using those unwise francophone countries to flex muscles in the global politics.

France is the Ultimate Parasite in Africa. Causing and Feeding off West African instability. Initiating and supporting coup plotters to kill uncooperative leaders of African countries. They love war to keep the focus off their evil stealing of diamonds and other precious stones.

Temptee101:
He is far better than the rest.

Be truthful to yourself for once.

Smh

JasonScoolari:
In a nutshell, Peter is better.

NOT SO