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This guys no dey tire even in stupidity...

When them part ways she will cut off her own throat

1 and 3 are boys, while 2 is a girl

All I see is that he was aware of the wife cheating on him. The guy with her probably told his friend what was happening. The friend must have disbelieved and I am sure they both set up his wife. Reason probably why he referred to him as a good man. We never really saw the guy who was caught in the acts face...
The positioning was just right for everyone to get what they wanted.
The husband, blackmail for divorce and probably custody of the daughter
The man caught in the video - Video not showing him, and probably continued friendship with the woman's husband

Hahahah Killed ke...

6.

"He moved in with his lover at the time, who is a divorcee with a female child and my husband said she would give him a boy since i gave him 3 children who are just girls.

Is there any logic in this statement, he had had 3 girls with her, he went to settle with a divorcee who had had one girl already and no boy, and he said she will give him a boy....Hmmm beats all logic
7. Now I get information that my wife is seeing someone I wait and see them both, who am I to attack, my wife or the man. It should be the men that should be fighting not Mr John and his wife
8. Why is the identity of the friend never mentioned every time Ivie if he is just a friend as she tries to portray it?

4. According to her Easter which is normally March or April he came back and wanted to be part of the kids lives. She said she allowed him which means she did not see any harm either for her or the kids. What happened between easter and June 19th to turn him from a man to a monster?
5. Did he have any previous documented record of violence? I am sure he passed through the hurdles of a test and interview before being employed at zenith bank?

As much as l do not support the events that led to this event (battery). But lots of things don't add up...
1. She said she was coming from her dads birthday party at 1:00am, why didn't her kids go with her after all its their grandfather?
2. She got a GREAT JOB according to he where?
Did she just say that to explain how she paid for the accommodation?
She got back by 1:00am and left her 3 kids in the care of a help slightly older than 13years. Hmmm
3. She never explained what led to the breakdown of the marriage that urshered her to her fathers place.

Cross rivers monorail is on the ground, Rivers is suspended so they cannot cost the same.

Smarter in quotes and ending up single is absolutely correct.

Did he rape her mother NO. So.....

I thought she should have done it to her mum also!!!

Has it ever crossed your mind that your husband might be feeling the same way about you?
Drawing from a similar story l would guess you have slept with someone else already and you are just trying to seek public validation so you don't beat yourself too hard!!!
I am sure your husband has not yet found out and all l can advise you is to put your marriage and the few minutes of ecstatic pleasure if its worth it.
You admitted that it used to be great with your husband. So you start off with the new hump and few months down the road it is no longer fun then
If you cannot think correctly for yourself then think of your son. A word is enough for the wise and believe me you do not want to see the ugly side of your marriage when you have been caught in adultery.

Tired of acting the man you want him to be. Probably you have been complaining to the high heavens in forcing change. He used to dot on you when you never noticed he was there. He has probably met someone who does on him and loves him for who and what he is and it fun to be dotted on don't you think. Read your intro it tells the whole story!!!

She is having it somewhere else check!

Facts of the matter the last child is 8 years old. She has been with him for a year. The man and the wife could be really separated as he claims

If the guy has a d.i.c.k then there is an issue

The interest rate given is annual not monthly, so the calculations are wrong.
N500,000 at 7% means N35,000 / year.
for 30days i.e 1 month it is N35,000/12 since 12 months make a year N2,916.67. At the end of 30days you have N502,916.67.

Who took the picture while the wife was in that situation

Really pathetic story, if she had listened
Women sometimes in a bid to defend equality / rights tend to loose far more. If this had happened around the area this would not have been an issue.

If the husband commits suicide will she follow
If her answer is YES then she will be justified

Every opportunity I have to pray. It is better for me than the way present day Christians pray in tongues as they say!!!

Matthew 6:5 And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.

1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made . And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said , Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?
2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden:
3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said , Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die .
4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die :
5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened , and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise , she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat , and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat .
7 And the eyes of them both were opened , and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together , and made themselves aprons.

Till date a woman cooks and gives to the man!
The woman had conversation with the serpent and has the full details of there discussion and DECIDED to eat, which makes her responsible / guilty.

YES. If you have reason to suspect your partner. Once you confirm it true you move on.

@Wahala 90, ON POINT

Different scenarios require different approach to solving the problem; for instance I suspect my wife is having an affair I confront her we argue about it and tear the roof down would you expect me to eat her food, because you think it would be childish if I don't!!! PLEASE

*** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN ***

1) Rejecting food wen there's an issue:

Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you don't allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on. The devil was not involved when she got you angry abi

2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head is that how you treat the head, it is like saying if your child insults you, s/he still knows you are the parent. You need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. For a thick skull-ed woman you might need to drum it in

3) Issuing threats:

Chinese have a favourite saying to the effect that "a woman's tongue is her sword, and she does not let it rust;"

Beating, verbally abusing your wife not right, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man does not make you less of a man either. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man." Nothing wrong in her acting her childish woman part abi

4) Reporting your wife to friends and family:

Wen your wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis.

5) Competition:

Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names.
As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team.

like a stud

Can a woman do something good for a man without expecting a reward. If the poster can answer this then there will be an answer for her.

Can somebody please explain why most young girls still run after married men. Why do girls find it difficult to stick to their boyfriend no matter what the present situation is? This is so pathetic.




Before any relationship of this nature / S E X can commence there MUST be the consent of the lady involved else it becomes R A P E.

All the ladies that have posted said a total NO, that the past should be left where it belongs
They all sound like the machine would only test men
Just thinking aloud

The whole essence of the test was a test of free will. To test free will, inhibitors would not be required!!!