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Pain:
Clip Views: 10,844 as of Today. Does She Still Want to Be A Showbiz Star?

I read somebody talking about suggestions on how to stop circulation of the clip

You don see am, and you want to prevent others from seeing it Why if I may ask

Do not cry mote than the bereaved, or soon you would be accused of having a hand in his death

uche1:
Today is the D-Day, hope to see you guys soon

Hope u guys have a good time

Lots of appointments and disappointments

Tolerance is the key to life

3d_hunter:
Like BB2, i hope we get the full gist about the reunion here.
please mind how you drink,
no one should be as tipsy as Rich ard
as drunk as Ofunne
as confused as Maurine
as smug as the paramedics,
so you wont end up like BB2 Africa, trying not to wash in public the dirty linen they have wearing in public

true talk

HEY U GUYS SHUD LEAVE 2BABA OOH,HE MAY NOT BE THE RICHIEST BUT HE IS AMONG THEM.LETS SEE WHAT GOOD COMES OUT OF FAZE FROM KONVICT MUSIC.YOU GUYS THAT ARE BEEN SENTIMENTAL SING AND LETS SEE HOW MUCH YOU WILL MAKE THATS IF ANY BODY BUYS.LEAVE 2BABA 4 ME.

I think wifey needs to meet him half way.
You should have married couples close to you guys seek their opinion and solicit for their wives to talk to your wife or better still take your wife to see a gynaecologist for advice

Except you don dey eye the babe since and want to use this as an opportunity subconsciously

finemocha:
no nigerians are just stupid. they always think if a girl and guy hang out together they are screwing each other. its sooo damn annoying.

i see where your girl is comin from trust me its not easy and if u were in her shoes u would feel the same way as well. just stop telling her about the other girl chikina.

If you are Nigerian, that means that the statement includes you, if not then that is an insult on Nigerians
When a guy and a girl hook up under what ever name you call it, a seed is being sown, and it depends on where the seed fall that determines whether it germinates. And when you have an over 80% probability of it turning into a full relationship based on previous experience, would you not be forced to believe that assertion

You can only decide who you hook up with, at which point your heart takes over the drivers sit. Remember the song with the line the heart is not so smart. See the only absolute control you have is preventing the hook up

@LC

I have been in and out of town, but I am good
Always dropping by to read the threads
How are you
Hope you guys have a swell time at your re-union

Forgot to add this one from our very own Larrybabe

vivi, why don't you just give up ehh, accept the fact that you are fighting a lost battle because you started this row from what i have read, by asking her to shut up when she was not referring to you in anyway and secondly that Omosexy rules!!!

U probably need deliverance and concentrated fasting no very dry fasting to shed this weight

larrybabe:
Dalby too argue sotay, him pick race, no worry you too go soon pick race because you never jam. You think we are all fools here, we don't just buy opinion, you must justify yours which Lawyerchap has done, all u see is from the surface. (Watch film and make your conclusion.) Mr. air my Opinion, u never start.

My brother or sister, them no dey give prize for this argument

You argue with somebody that knows his onions what do we call that?
Accept the fact that you are wrong, any Laywer that shares the same view with you will do it for the dough and not because you are right.

Na the Judge get the final say, not the lawyers

You never see anything, i think say you want to air your opinion. Opinion Ko, Voice Ni. I no think say u get work sef. You wey get good home training i don see u.

@Savage or Salvage

tut, tut, tut Go get a life!!!!!!!!!!! and quit beefing somebody that already has one.

Well you are entitled to your own opinion but you are wrong, wrong, wrong

Now before you start getting shocked, is there a link to this story before we conclude?

Back to the R A P E issue now shey make she sue Richie boy and collect some fine dough Me i go stand behind her for that one oooooo.

People keep mistaking Richard's sister for his wife. WIFEY DON PICK RACEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

@Dalby
abi na Debbie self you for answer, e be like say u go like trouble well well, Womam Wrapper ****hissssssssssssssssss*******

Please LC, Ndi & Spora i think you guys should just ignore the r*******d let him rant for all we care. Afterall Silence is the best answer for **********

I thought we were supposed to have buried this Fingergate Topic?

Like Ndi rightly said after reading his analysis its like you right there with the HMs, you either want to go into the diary room or do the task with them. Nice one! That is what it is like when you read a good writeup.

Try to be original, rightly say your own is that asking for too much

The show is getting real interesting by the day but Lawyercap don't neglect this thread ooo!, We need your analysis, you know from Lawyer's point of view

If u go UNIVERSITY, no offence u go be heavy copycat

Yes you are right tng, I vote BERTHA out,

BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT
BERTHA OUT.

Just one "BERTHA OUT" would have conveyed the message

Omosexy is pretty and has a lovely smile, anybody that does not agree with that well, i wonder what the person is still doing on this thread, just a little curious here.

I am still trying to see how to get snapshots of the billboard with my phone. But the problem is that most of them i come across, is majorly on the highways so i can't position my phone very well to get the shots. But i will keep trying though.

Stop and snap the damn picture, abi na public transport you dey always

Ndi signatures "Be yourself" is what she is been through out because being yourself could be in a good or bad way or do u know her personally now to call her a hypocris or because of the battle?

U seem to have been fighting this battle a long time. Life no be fight. Anything when be your own go come to you, any one when no come allow am flow pass because if you follow am e fit take your head.

You really do not have to take a fighting posture all the time. No matter how loud you say, or how many times you say it, or the insults you handout to people what is right will be right and what is wrong will be wrong.

Something tells me you are female, I might be wrong, but if true wahala go dey with this your nature (There cannot be 2 captains in one boat).

Salvage:
@Kaydee

I have nothing I have done wrong to correct. I have my opinion and I aired it.

Cant you get it into you head? You were talking about rights before. Dont you know what it really means?

People like you and larrybabe think shouting insults will make you shout down the other person that has a different opinion from yours.

Grow up.

They say opinion is like an asshole, everyones got one.

Or don't u have it?

You should learn to let people have their opinions cause everyone is different.

We all can't be thinking the same way or running the same course at all times.


I still think you should get off that *stuff*

Have u not noticed that it is the same people coming back to post here.

You are not entitled to think here O. Just dey follow follow

Imagine if Ofunneka had won, this one when u dey see na small one

Read previous threads, and see what happened to those with counter opinion

We talk, till the thing enter french

You can be at this the whole day and is pretty distracting

Nigerians, and hypocrisy

You believe that Christ is GOD, so all the verses that supports that notion you take while those that do not you dust under the carpet.

The one thing that I know is that the truth is one

cgift:
You try to take academic reasoning into the scriptures. Christianity is not Islam. The way you read and understand the quran is not the same way the bible flows.

Why are you guys like this . Have you read the Quran, truthfully?
Remove the log from your eyes before you remove the moth from somebody else's eyes
It is statements like these that provoke the Muslims, later you will say they are a very violent lot.

Why so much hysteria about the senators' decision to ban BBA frm being on Nigerian tv if thats the only way to restore sanity and moral standards in the society so be it. This is Africa for crying out loud, not the western world where there is little or no respect for morality and values, our cultures and values should not be compromised for a million bucks!

Please when did we loose our sanity and moral standards

This is Africa for crying out loud, not the western world

Africa where over 70% of the populace live below the poverty line

Africa where their leaders are known for the highest level of corruption

Africa where leaders perpetuate themselves in power

Africa where in the 21th century, its populace are still grappling with the 3 basic necessities of life as we were thought in social studies those days (Food, Clothing & Shelter)

See all the disasters that has happen in the western world, see how they come out to help each other (live and lets live). Majority of African would not act in that light (Every man for himself, GOD for us all), so I am a little bit lost at which culture we are talking about.



Which one will I say, and which one will I leave

romeo:
i wonder if some people are defending press freedom or BBA 2!! but somebodies freedom ends where another persons freedom starts and BBA 2 went too far

i just stumbled upon a news about the Nigerian girl in the show being fingered while unconscious due to excessive alcohol and the other mates( girls ) begging the guy doing it to stop and he did only to sit somewhere and smell his fingers, and this same guy happens to be the winner of this ugly show

well done senators

I don't think you watched it so why judge Did you not stumble on the story of the women rights group that insisted and watched the footage , what they said after that

bigboy2006:
i support that because na rubbish them just dey do .all the money wey them they using to do that rubbish why can't dey bring the money to AJ so that me wey dey eat 1 0 1 go dey eat 111 as an average man.senator kudo to u

You no ask for the one when your leaders dey carry go swiss banks when be your right Nigerians

texazzpete:
And just for the record, I'm also strongly against any planned anti-gay legislation. i say this because it seems like the next step these jobless guys in the House will take, and it'll still be met with the same level of support on Nairaland. because. . .

"It's not in our culture!!"

Right.

These things have been there from the days of Abraham (Father of all nations) and Lot. That they are in a minority does not mean that they don't exist, or that it is not our culture. I wonder when Nigerians will learn to be fair to each other

On the issue of those selling porn DVDs above, I will suggest to those supporting the ban to suggest to the government to arrest those involved, and be executed by firing squad. That was
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[li]You would have totally rid the society of such materials[/li]
[li]You would have reduced the population of Nigeria, which is a problem we are having now[/li]
[li]You would not have solved the problem of unemployment, but reduced the number of unemployed persons[/li]
[li]If you ban the sale, there might be a spike in criminality, but by firing them you would have nipped the problem in the bud[/li]
[li]We would get the names of those that have been executed before execution, and sent to INEC, and those producing the National ID card to stop the processing of their papers that way we can conserve foreign exchange, which will be usefull in other sectors of the economy (Pockets of the politicians)[/li]
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ayusman16:
Nigerians with holier than thou attitude. When is this going to stop?

This was what I complained about in the BBA2 thread.
The speaker of the HoReps was involved in an over 600million scandal, how long did it take for them to act
Look at how they handled it. This country really needs help
Well those compaining about nudity, especially shower hour on BBA2, and are happy with the recent developments(the BAN) should start suggesting methods to the government on how to eradicate guys selling porn DVD at traffic junctions all around the country

We have issues of power generation and supply, job creation, Niger Delta militancy e.t.c, them leave that one run go NBC

babyjeff:
i beliv so much in dignity and self respect.this is no time to apportion blames anyway but i must say tha the two are living in sin and self deceit.the guy in question is not man enough to accept responsibilities and the girl has no dignity in her.for crying out loud, she should leave that house with immediate effect and and accept jesus christ in her life, only then can she find true love, peace and joy in her life.the man has no respect 4 her womanwhood, so why waste her time with him.well, to be forewarned is to be fore armed,the hand writing is boldly written on the wall.she doesn't know love when she sees one because the love of God is not in her.cheers! [size=8pt][/size]

i must say tha the two are living in sin and self deceit

Who isn't

she should leave that house with immediate effect and and accept jesus christ in her life

Is that the solution, when she leaves the house what next. Will that force him to marry her

the guy in question is not man enough to accept responsibilities

Why are you people like this, you do not know what effort he has been putting in to improve their lot. If he enters highway robbery now you will be the first to throw the first stone

the man has no respect 4 her womanhood

Please can you be more elaborate

she doesn't know love when she sees one because the love of God is not in her

I'm sure you have it all worked out, remember equal measure will be used to judge you if you fail

This situation is one I expect young ladies to understand by now. A girl should not go out with her age mate, why because the rate of development of both sexes are different. How many young men do you see getting married at 30.
The prevailing economic situation allows guys to find their bearing about age 35 and above after which they begin to talk of marriage.

There is no romance without finance

kaydee:
@ All Thinking Ofu is Guilty

Before You blame Ofu too much,try to take 5 shots of Vodka,drink yourself into a stupor,then tell someone close to you to get all your actions on CAM.I'm sure u'll even grab the mad man's d**k.Alcohol is an afrodisiac if u d u n n o. It's worse with ladies.

Alcohol was made for man, not man for alcohol. What would you say about maureen, she was also there

people react differently
the way i will react to a touch is most likely different from the way you will react
also, under the influence of alcohol or drug, we loose all inhibitions
the only difference is to what extent. .  . .  . .

Will the reasonable mans test apply in court  

See our leaders at work below

http://www.thisdayonline.com/nview.php?id=95284

@Mamus 2010

@ dalby,

king Solomon issue na for another day. truth is there is something like morality or public morality!! am sure king Solomon didn't do stuff to his wives or concubines in the full glare of his subject. so Richards behaviour was quite inappropriate.

anyway, he won! congrats to him and congrats to ofunneka for making Nigeria proud.

Who defines morality, or public morality?
I get from what you are saying is that you can do stuff but don't do it in public, but what I have always preached is don't do inside or outside what you consider to be "BAD" least you become hypocrites like the religious leaders referred to as wolfs in sheep's clothing.

congrats to ofunneka for making nigeria proud

If I remember correctly, I am Nigerian, and you did not ask me before making a general statement that includes me

mamus 2010:
@ dalby,

i don't think you get the gist here!! the issue is not about judging richard, but its about choosing someone who we felt didnt reflect the core values of africa as the winner. and on this forum, we are trying to figure out why.i.e is it that public morals have degenerated so much so that watching a guy humiliate his wife and family in public is entertainment? or is it that a lot of africans identify with richard, or like someone said tanzania's neigbours simply voted one of their own?

the debate my dear, is whether choosing richard as the winner is a reflection of our degenerating moral values, or our idea of a sick joke!!

@ tampico,

please am still expecting your reply to my mail as regards the reunion.

What you just said above is the jist after the result show, what we are talking about is actually before that

Back to your question, what values are we talking about, before the advent of the church or after

Adultry is not alien to any culture, talkless of the world David reguarded as a man after GOD's heart did it so

From the begining of time we have always had this mix of "GOOD" and "BAD" the world over

@LC

Thanks for your honest answer. I respect you for that, Just wanted to say problems could be classified in the same group, but the answers could vary based on peculiar situations, It was never always about Richard or Tatiana, was just trying to say slow down on judging people
And it is by the measure you judge others that you would be judged ( Forgive us our sins as we forgive those that trespass against us)

The reason why a guy that actually commits adultery and the guy that looks at a woman lustfully are both guilty of the same sin is the intent, not what was done.

@Salsera

This is not a bait. You think I say these things because of Richard
No but the possibility that it might be dipper than you know

@Dalby
Your hypothetical analogy is off, because we know that Richard and Ricki are newly married (4 months before he entered the house). They were supposedly still deep in love when he entered the house. We can surmise that they were not having any life-threatening heated arguments because Richard couldn't stop talking about her at the beginning. So Richard got married and 4 months later was in love with someone else? And we think it's right?

Wasn't talking about Richard or Tatiana forget them and answer the question based on what is written down, why are you so on guard?

@LC

That is your opinion
What I have always said is to remove the log from your eye before the moth from your neigbours
Show me a thread that I submitted where I said all hail Richard, being married and having something with Tatiana

I apologized to you but you were not big enough to even acknowledge it

Apologies accepted, I agree I am still small

but as soon as i put you in that position, you turn am to fight

Really funny, Just told you don't bring my spouse in to it. If you have an issue with me, direct it at me thats all.
But if my spouse falls in love with somebody else, will killing my self bring her back? I life a lot of things happen, but what I know is that anything that happen happens for good even if we do not see it when it happens - Every dissapointment is a blessing in disguise.

If you love somebody or something you give it space (freedom) and if it was yours in the first place it will surely come back to you if not, such is life

What's wrong is wrong. Let's just admit this

Why should we judge, when we do not have the full picture (Why he did what he did). The inter play of all the perties involved

Hypertetically Speaking, Somebody gets married and later finds out that wife does something continually which he cannot stand (They are always fighting in the house every day). Would you advise that he has taken the vow for better for worse and as such should remain in the marriage?
When you later hear headline news MAN KILLS WIFE AFTER HEATED ARGUMENT the same people will say if they were having irreconcilable difference why did he not leave

@Modups!
Its a long story

@Ndi
Please interpret what you agree with, so that others in the forum can understand

Ndi:
@Dalby

Il est vraiment malheureux que vous avez dû dégénérer à ce niveau, mais plis multiples de que vous m'avez souhaité vous viendra parce que tout ce que j'ai fait était à l'air mon opinin sur un thème particulier.

It's really a pity that you degenerated to that level, but bend multiple of what you wish to me comes back to you because all i did was in the air of my opinion in this particular matter.

You would have just typed it this way:

Il est vraiment malheureux que vous ayez dégénéré ā ce point, mais je pries pour que vous receviez au multiple ce que vous m'aviez souhaité car, je ne l’ai fait que pour un but précis.

It’s a pity you degenerated to that level, but I pray and receive in a hundred fold what you wish to me, because I did it for a particular reason.

That goes without saying that you must really be like Richard.

This was how they interpreted christs' message and took it all the way arround. I think we better use english so no confussion arrises. WHAT I SAID IS

It's real pity that you could degenerated to that level, but multiple portions of what you wish to me will comes back to you because all i did was to air my opinion on a particular topic

On being like RICHARD, he said it that I am like all of you. If you take a statistics of the views and opinions of some of the ladies posting on these sites, one begins to wonder who are these girls that date married men, have more than 5 boyfriends at the same time, steal their bestfriends boyfriend after the first visit and all that

The last time we exchanged post i found out that it was really useless trying to hit a point with you.

Madam, must I accept your point of view because you are a lady, or because I believe it is right
We must not always agree, sometimes people can have divergent view does not make the person a bad person  

@ spora

When I read your post, I really do wonder how you get your kicks.
No showdown with you from me sorry to disappoint you, like LC said a french dictionary would help before posting

@LC

My spouce really has nothing to do with this you know

lawyerchap:
@Dalby, Latin is too difficult to translate these days so i'll say this to you in french, which you should be able to translate with any English-French Dictionary.
"Que votre épouse rencontrer quelqu'un qui elle tombe en amour avec et voir comment vous remercions de son être humain et soumis à des sentiments"

I was about to commend the speach before your quote above.

Your french is incoherent, But you have said translates to

"That your spouse to meet somebody who it falls in love with and to see how thank you for his human being and subjected to feelings"

But in my usual manner say thank you. And give you some homework below

Il est vraiment malheureux que vous avez dû dégénérer à ce niveau, mais plis multiples de que vous m'avez souhaité vous viendra parce que tout ce que j'ai fait était à l'air mon opinin sur un thème particulier.

Dis Guy:
nigerians are well known for being two-faced hypocritical bunch, same bunch calling someone ugly are now calling someone an adulterer

My thought exactly

toksdam:
his goes to show how morally loose Africans have become ,if Richard can win,then that tells you what the future holds if God does not help us

Africa and all of the world have been like that from the beginning of time having a blend of the good, the bad the ugly. Remember homosexuality in the time of LOT and Abraham

mamus 2010:
, then Richard!! a married man in the house?is this bba2 or temptation island? he proved to be crude, brash and at the same time caring and loving to a certain housemate,

, the show is going as planned, and a voting pattern emerged. while ofunneka was going according to game plan,Richard saw the voting pattern and changed his game plan, indeed he was street wise!!

he played his trump card at the penthouse, and the slacker that i was, i imagined the viewers would see through it just like i did - but i was wrong!!

he knew the only way out of his dilemma(the richiana saga) was to show the world he was only human!! he practically told us to cast the first stone if we were without guilt!! how you may ask? he appealed to sympathy by playing the reality check card! i have sinned, i have broken my marriage vows, i am hopelessly in love, viewers and housemates forgive me because i am only human!! and that was the moment Richard won the cash - majority of the viewers in their heart of hearts sympathised with his predicament, they thought he should not be crucified for portraying his weakness on national tv, and that was what Richard wanted - sympathy votes, and that was what he got.

Richard being married does not make him a super human devoid of human feelings. Why is it so easy for us to belief that Ofunneka was being herself all the way, and so difficult to believe Richard. Richard the always calculating scum, knowing what the viewers are thinking from inside the big brother house and modifying his strategies accordingly

Any more analysis
When I said voting was by country, every one was saying keep voting OFUNMAMA.
Legal analysis flying left right and center. Latin became our mother tongue


No body would say you guys did not give it a good shot, but always remember, there are no absolutes

@Tampico

@All
I see the form has attached. Please let us enable to fill it even before the stated date. if ure word doesn't open it. Open it with notepad. Fill and send to my box jiggywit_tam@yahoo.com or fill it and attach it back here. i will take note, and tabulate the info which i will post back here for futher scrutiny. Thanks!

Application form out, and N3500 has been mentioned I don't hear a lot of people getting as vocal, check previous threads
Thank GOD you will publish the names of those who FINALLY signified interest via the forms. Please after the re-union, do us a favour of publishing the names of those that finally showed up on that day. Put an asterisk against those who would call latter that they just got a life threatening call from the village or had to travel to another state on official assignment but will still try to make it or have been trying to locate the place and as such could not make it

@Uchetobi

@Dalby, if its at Richard the pervert I cast the first stone

Sin na Sin o!!!

Salsera said

you can have a difference in opinion and still get along, it really depends on the importance of the issue at hand.

Kikice said

Let’s see the surprise one come Sunday. Odea……,  olodo  mumu de smell.

Individuality, calls for differences, and differences allows for difference in opinions we are supposed to be adults. We really do not need to curse to make our points.
You like ofunneka fine and you chose a user name kikice, I like richard fine, I chose a user name dalby. See we are different and with different opinions, that is expected. Lets try to keep what makes us human and different from animals.
I could also be on Richards side because I believe no one is perfect and I am giving him the benefit of dount ( a chance). Somebody killed a a rival club's football fan recently, that gives me cause to worry

@ Spora so there is no mistake

@ Dalby and Hazie
Two MFM (Mumu follow mumu)

Thank u

@ Dalby and Hazie
Two MFM (Mumu follow mumu)

Thank u