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Is that really possible
Times exist when a man is not intrested, but s**t still happens
I do not think that it is possible in marriage, remember the vows
If you guys become one then you cannot rape yourself

Hi everyone,

Am not suprised this post is bringing so much bite and hate, Thats the reason why I called myself a bitch at the beginning.

Thiefof hearts
Thanks for your post.

tinard, babyosisi, sweet t and omo eko,
You all sound so much like saints, I am very sure u are no better that I am when it comes to conscience, Just search yourself properly.
onsidering the other thread I started about investing with two hundred and fifty thousand, I was only planning in case.I also made another post about starting a job with school cert, maybe you didnt see that one.
Someone said something about being cheap or ripping my husband of that amount. If I need to reap off money from him it should not be two hundred and fifty thousand I should be talking about millions.
I saved this money for two years by myself, I mean myself-- Its a small money to save in two years plus, from my upkeep money and others but I took care of the home very well.
My husband never allowed me to work or do any form of buisness, I only stay at home- do house chores, browse the internet and sleep, This I have tried to work out but to no avail and if eventually I have to be out of my home, then I should be doing something to gain income-- I am not a lazy babe,

Another about having another man-- am sorry i don't -- I don't need one-- at least not while am under a man's roof, I repeat I don't have another man, am not a sait though-- as in a virgin-- I love when am in love with all my heart body and soul-- thats me---

@ poster

No vex o, I am not able to reconcile the bold / italic statement above.
I like somebody now and later do not like the person, something triggers it or is responsible for it. Most often, when a man or a woman starts to have other relationships, we tend to want to compare the one we are with and the one we just found, thats why people are quick to go in that line of thought.

If you have been totally faithful to this man, then where does the I am not a saint come in
Married to a man, I dint see how you can remain a virgin
If we knew the whole story, we can better advise

Age is just a number

efuah:
Militia unseal your mouth abeg . . . errr. . . please hit me on my YIM whenever u're online!

Dalby

Whats up, missed you.
Its like you have gone underground for a while.
Hope work ain't too stressfull
You've been off yahoo msg.
Have a swell week ahead

Meanwhile tell am say I dey greet am o

@akara

The woman is always one step ahead
hehehehehehe, you got me there

Meenz328:
wait if its not selfishness then what is it that makes men cheat and how many men can you count that have stayed faithful to their wives all through marriage versus how many woman have stayed faithful, probably 1 in 100 men have stayed faithful and probably 80 in 100 women have been faithful,
how can you not believe im a woman because i think the way i think doesnt make me different from any other woman.
its just that i don't understand why the hell you would refuse your husband sex it makes no sense to me in the first place. i mean then why are u married, u better go back home and stay there if ure not ready to be pleaseing your husband! those are the stupid little things that send men out to be chasing little girls up and down and carrying different women, when theyre wives wont give them sex.

You do not have any statistical basis to support this claim. Anyway can you give us the statistics for people dating let us compare and draw conclusions

More often than not, the women lay the foundation, while the men complete the building.

hotfunmi:
I disagree, God did not make men selfish rather the egocentric ones just want to be that way out of shear wickedness. God implored men to 'love their wives' and not 'rape them' in the bible.

If it is done in love, thinking thats how she enjoys it then
Frankly you know there are cases like that

babyosisi:
Rape is when a man forces his way in without the woman's consent.

What do you guys call the reverse
You look for a good word and call it seduction

babyosisi:
Like many have said. When it comes to a stage where the man has to use semiforce,something is wrong is wrong in the relationship.
Sex should be enjoyed by married couples and where love exists and both individuals are fulfilled,both people should be looking forward to it.

Each party brings his or her part to the table, for both to savour

babyosisi:
A man whose wife always seems to have a headache when the clock strikes 12 ought to ask himself what he's doing wrong.

Why is the woman not supposed to check her self that she might be doing something wrong

babyosisi:
Women are emotional beings by nature.
If a man is not caring and romantic throughout the day,he shouldn't expect her to suddenly turn into anna nicole smith (of blessed memories )when the light goes out.
It doesn't work that way for most women.

How does it work please, women alway like to play the role of the victims in all situations. The once that can do no wrong, that can not even hurt a fly. When you hear their exploits you actually begin to wonder who the weaker sex is

almondjoy:
he he he he he he he he heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
Could not have put it better myself.

Yet some are looking for "nation rebuilders"!

Like me

@liquidmind

Name one country in the world that does not have these vices drug trafficking, corruption, 419, and human trafficking

In a mans case you call it seduction, in the womans case you say it is rape. And I hear you say its a mans world
The women are actually the men

almondjoy:
Dalby, how far na?  Any prospects yet?

Just keeping our fingers crossed

How is work? dearie Almondo? Almondo Jr.s and the free world am sure you all are doing great.

Have a fun filled day

@Efuah

Yeah you guys won Nigeria , we are all one and the same, woven from the same cloth.
We are all winners anyhow.
How work now, you guys have been running away from our jobless head of house at his moment of trial
That is not fair o

almondjoy:
A woman's worry really starts after she gets married.  Especially if she is married to a "useless" man!

Getting the husband is not the problem, but keeping "it" and making "it" do what "it" is supposed to do is where the real problem starts.

Stereotype

Not to also forget that the white man came with a gun, gun powder and all. The bow and arrow was no match for it, so our religion had no chance to thrive or evolve. It was just a matter of time to get to where we are today.

looks like an all female forum

@poster

Run fi cover mon Iman no give no reason to no mon

@babycool

You might be missing the chance of a life time, a shot at true love. I dont know how you guys met, but this might just be it

@Almondjoy

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-111110.64.html

would like to get your take on that ( I think you would not want to give an opinion )

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the African traditional religion. I just think that with other religions, you have a lot of human inputs or interpretations of received messages, which actually depends on who receives it. We have allowed the west to dominate our thinking on like the Eastern block of the world. I have heard Christian's ( so called born agains) talk about the killing of twins and all.
Every religion has its good / bad sides, good and bad are actually relative in my opinion. I did not hear the so called born agains refer to incidents like the GUYANA TRAGEDY, the killings of those that said the world was round, the reason for Pentecostalism and all that

I think they say "god of" like the Christians say "spirit of". The Christians say trinity, 3 Gods in 1 God

Humans, we just find a way of making the "bad" things we do look "good"

It could be stress related. You also have a similar situation when a couple in under pressure to have kids and try so desprately to no avail.

[/quote][quote author=efuah link=topic=106200.msg1921420#msg1921420 date=1202207712]your wife. . . or?

No expose am now

almondjoy:
No, I cannot marry from Edo state. We are all related I think. Of course it was a compliment. As for someone giving birth recently,---look around you.

A lot of waters have passed under the bridge that I am standing on, and I did not notice . Maybe its my glasses thats in need of an extreme makeover.

almondjoy:
Mavis is sick of the thread I see. Too may blows I say. But it is all one love now!

Ah-ah? Sweet sis-in-law, I was only teasing ke! You no trust me again? I no fit marry anybody from Edo State. We are all related. No fights either. I do not like Michael Jackson, so when my worthy opponent mentioned him, I had a sick feeling in ma stomach. But all is well now.

We are great over here. Enjoy life to the fullest as always. I trust the handsome little one is doing great.


WOW!!!! Love your pic!!! You are looking too pretty and rested. I think it is time for another little one. Hurry up please--I can't wait!

Mavis get well soon, was hoping we could do more than 8 pages on the thread

I no fit marry from EDO, na wa for you o, the last time I checked the average EDO man was not leprous

"Worthy opponent", sure hope that was a compliment o, or there will be no need to take the glooves off just yet

Looking pretty and rested, who are we talking about, did someone give birth resently

kaecy5:
i would say it was a function of the mind

what about Nigerians that relocate with their children to other countries have u seen them running back to Nigeria because of the food

what crapy food are u talking about compared to our home food? i hope it is not a biologically enhanced supplement you're referring to

i think probably because your mind was not in 100% support of your visit to nigeria then every thing started playing tricks on u

i have stayed in europe for quite some time now and i have had enough of the crazy taxation the crazy food the stiff neck people i am going back to Nigeria and i mean it

u can have every thing u want in nigeria u only just have to pay for it

if u complain about NEPA there are cheaper alternatives
if u complain about the Holdups get up early and go to work, there is no country in the world without traffic jam

i can't guarantee security in Nigeria and i can't guarantee it any where else, thank God nigerians don't wake up one morning and start shooting every one around and claiming mental instability

we Nigerians at times just love complaining and complaining and wont look for solutions to solve the situations we are in

for me Europe is not a place to live

if u have a job in Nigeria don't resign because u may not find it easy outside Nigeria

hahahahaha

PDP, carry go

@Almondjoy,

2555 days more
Better start using it yourself, so that when you get there you are used to the aroma. Old age is inevitable except you decide to leave now

almondjoy:
Which kain fight? The guy wants to take me into the "bush" with his kind of discussion and I am too smart to be used for cheap rituals! I justn had to slowly tune him out! Begin call Mr. Jackson name for inside this matter. I think nothing else to discuss here. Everyone gets what they wish for. Goodluck and no probs at all. Thanks for keeping me awake at work guys!

I gat mine!


Happy SuperBowl 42 dear Sis-in-law!

I will not answer that
Hope I am part of those being thanked for keeping you awake so the bills keeps streaming in

efuah:
hmmmmm, i ope this does nt end in a fight. . . Militia, i know u can do better

Dalby. . .hw far

how is my little Mavis doing?

I no go fight for another person wahala, infact she is my sister from Edo state, so no fights. We will settle back home when the elders gather under the iroko tree
How far, I dey o, have been under small work pressure, but we are keeping head above water.
How your end now, hope all is cool?
Hope you are watching the matches o!!!

Meant to say Americans will rub it in your face.

See what happened to MJ, who wanted to be white by all means, a word is enough for the wise

almondjoy:
That is fine! I can't change where I come from. I do have an identity that I am proud of! Thank you. I am stuck with it
so I have to deal with it that way. Next time, I have petitioned God otherwise!

Well said you are not Nigerian because things are not working well for Nigeria no probs.

almondjoy:
It was a stupid question and I really would not dignify that with a response! Only a Nigerian will ask that kind of question and I refuse to sink that low! You are very childish!

When person no agree with your "All wise" opinions, the person is very childish. I cannot be lead by the nose because you say so. What gives me cause for worry, is the way you insult Nigeria and Nigerians. I can really imagine what folks in your neighbourhood feel about Nigeria and Nigerians. Like you said you are stuck being Nigerian and at every point, I trust American will rob it in your face.

If you like tell them say all Nigerians na thief, when something lost, na you go be the first suspect