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Highest HIV prevailence in Nigeria is in desending order

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[li]Benue State[/li]
[li]Akwa Ibom[/li]
[li]Nasarawa State[/li]
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Cross Rivers is actually 6th on the list for 2005, report released April 2006. Cross check records

Highest HIV prevailence in Nigeria is in desending order

[list]
[li]Benue State[/li]
[li]Akwa Ibom[/li]
li]Nasarawa State[/li]
[/list]
Cross Rivers is actually 6th on the list for 2005, report released April 2006. Cross check records

That ur guy comes in u does not make u pregnant.
Use a pregnancy test strip to confirm it.
U have to have a ready egg for fertilisation to occur!

nice to know, I will be in Naija in diz xmas and I want to visit Calabar, I am wondering how much do u think hotel is for one night?

It cost from N6000.00 and upwards to get a good standard room in any hotel in Calabar. For the x-mas u have to book in advance

This is always how it starts out. My advise is try to forget about her. If that is not possible gradually withdraw from her by trying to build a protective wall arround ur self else u will end up hurt.
As time goes on the rate at which this incidents occur will increase. Worse for u if the guy on the other side is being very receptive. It will get to a point where she provokes u to say it is over so she can justify to others that u sent her packing. One of those day u will say it jokingly hoping that that will put a halt to the relationship, but na lie. Thats what she had been waiting for. U will go back and beg later if u luv her the way u claim and that will be the beginning of the end. Heartbreak sets in.

Best of luck at ur decision, no matter what i advise, ur heart will take the lead

See u have a generational gap between u guys in terms of age difference, he probably had rode the vehicle till the wheels fell of in his 20's. That for me is the problem. U can never eat ur cake and have it, that the balance in the world

This is not the full story. What did u do to ur friend to result in this feeling of insecurity? It is only in knowing that that we can give u a workable advice.

hope ur ex, can spend as much for u when he spends all day with u?
Men are not from mars at all.

Everyone married or otherwise likes a lil flavour, needs a lil excitement and wants variety said to be the spice of life.
A woman has got to know how to combine motherhood, work, mind blowing sex, cooking, cleaning, keeping a home, and still manage to look 16 all her life to keep a man at home.

plain and simple, married women are boring,

U took the word right out of my mouth.
The girls these days even prefer the married guys.
I have seen situations where a young married man tells a girl that he is married, the lady starts to ask why are u not wearing a ring?
Girls want all the sweet things of life, which cost money. The younger guys are struggling to get their foot on the ground and cannot provide fully. The married man uses what he has to get what he wants!!!

This does not seem like the full story. She is still on ur mind because she probably left u and not the reverse. Put more flesh on the story so u can get good advice,

watin relate sampson and delilah for this one?

My advice is to tell ur boyfriend, but also tell him that u know that this is the end of the relationship, cos it is.
Continue with the new guy. you have made a mistake, u have made a mistake.
I had a friend with an experience like this were the boyfriend agreed to continue, but the relationship was never the same. It got to a point were every one just got tired and drifted apart.
The heart can forgive, but not forget. And being man, remembering might act either consciously or un consciously in revenge.

So aciddrop u believe that in every case the man must first cheat and the woman follows. Why should she? she should quit the relationship.
I have seen ladies who had done it and blamed it on the devil, not their man. On one occation she said that she was forced and when evidence was brought that she was there 2 weeks later she went mute

In relationships, women are more unfaithful, while in marriage the men are more unfaithful

This guy probably will be getting married soon and you will be the first to get an invitation to the wedding

My brother, this thing happened to me years ago.
All these signs are the initial signs of what is to come. I see that you still love her that is why you are still trying to hang on. Please don't give her the accommodation money. In my case, I did and on a particular day i got to the room, music playing and voices in the room. I knocked, the music was turned down and no body was talking anymore. As luck would have it her cousin, who new me came and asked me if she was in, i told her i just arrived. She knocked and called her name. My girl thought i had gone and opened the door, there was a guy on the bed, the cousin apparently new the guy, and it had been going on a while.
Stop the relationship while you are still ahead. I supported her going to the hostel so we can spend more time together, so the father always gave her the stipulated accommodation fee (N1000.00), she preferred to stay in the BQ which then cost-ed (N30,000.00).
She was becoming too studious looking for any reason to stay in school. Reading in school all the time (she claims), infact she was coming to see me at times to fulfill all rigteousness. When she come she goes to the room and sleeps telling me that she has an assignment to submit say in 3hrs time in her tutorial class and things like that.
Advise is to go to her room more often in the evenings / pay more surprise visits and watch her reaction to all male visitors that come to see her. You should be able to know in no time who the person is.
I remember one birthday that she gave me a bill for a get together, i gave her money and she came later and said that she wanted to do a full party and requested for more money. The way she said it, i refused. On the said date she came to my house to still ask for the money and i told her i didn't have. A few hour later about 8:00pm i decided to go to her school, cos i didn't like the way she left saying that "she would just go to her room and receive her birthday cards", at least to take her out to resolve most of the problems we were having. O boy when i got close to the room the sound that was coming from there was like a night club, guys and girls moving in and out.
Infact the summary of it all "na to shine your eye o" and prevent the eminent heart break that is lurking around the corner. I am sure I would not be wrong.

He that has no sin, let him cast the first stone.
We would need to remove the logs from our eyes before removing the spec from the other persons eyes.
I still maintain if she has truely changed her ways, why not?
Over 90% of the guys that get married do not marry virgins, except i am wrong, the thing no get meter, so where does the fifth hand come in. The seeming angel that you think you have do you really know how far?
The difference between that and a girl seeing 5 guys at the same time is just the exchange of money!!!

What for me is important is what her actions tell you rather than what she says. A lot of girls say i love you and are dating more than 3 guys at the same time

send text messages

Stick with him or her and help with the problem. Some people just have weak bladders, and it could have been you!!!
Study the trend and help approprately. Advisable to remind your partner to empty bladder just before he/she sleeps. If you wake up at night to empty yours you can wake your partner as well to do the same.
Help to prevent your partner from taking too much liquid stuff before sleeping

hahaha never really thought of that windywendy

probably allowing his imagination run wild. It's a subconscious thing

That is abnormal, ovulation is once in a month, and for your 27 day cycle, it should happen on day 13 and for 24hours, the egg will be OK and ready to receive.
You are supposed to be safe from day 6 to 12 if you are constant 27, but to play safe, 6 to 10

don't mind just feel like knowing you guys opinion.i have a sweet guy who takes care of me emotionally, physically, and otherwise. just want to liven up this place

Man no dey from one place dey see the sun O!!!
You would never know how sweet he is unless in comparism with some other guy(s)

life's a bitch!!!, and that which you sow, multiple folds you would reap.
Would have been among the first persons to respond, but had to wait cos, no matter what anybody said here, you had subconsciously made up your mind to go for him.

crying ?, what? , U mean to tell me you will actually cry if your girl leaves you , it sums it all up , u not a man

These things do happen, does not show that he is any less of a man. It just shows how much he loves and cares for the person.

@ike&snazzy , Well i may not be telling u the whole truth but his girlfriend had an affair in the past with one of his friends which she denied and has now come to light

Hope you were not a part of bringing it to light?

It could lead to a whole lot of pain in marriage, cos the guy could be in a situation and allows himself to go (into a relationship out of marriage) and deepdown would justify it by the past. She betrayed me in the past, how sure am i that she is not doing it again or will do it again.

@WindyWendy

You need to work on your self control man.

Its a guy thing, there are those that have raging hormones and it goes beyond working on your self control. It is subconscious. The hormone adrenalin for fight, flight and fright how do you control it to be calm in the face of danger

@Kokoletz

but me I love wit my my eyes, brain and heart open

You probably have not met the girl, or you had but didn't end well. It happens to all at a certain point in life!!!

@WindyWendy

patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails,
and love aint blind either

This is the cinderella type o! it only exist in the books

@MyPeace

I can never marry a jobless man

Remember he can loose his job while you are married to him then what?

True love is totally blind, deaf and dumb because the person in love no longer thinks with the heard, but with the heart

Its supposed to be the release of the female egg from the ovaries if i still remember my biology
Its supposed to be on day 14 for ladies with regular 28 day cycle.
For those with irregular cycle, its 14 days before menstration starts of a new cycle.

Tell your husband, he should know how. Why should she still be calling and texting?
Tell your husband to discard his present line and get a new line. If she does not have the new number then your problem is solved.
If she later starts to call or text this number then ask your husband again whats up

Avoid temptation by all means possible. The good book says "lead us not into temptation" we are human and sometimes things can get out of hand.