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Adegunle4:
...I see people mentioning things like consult an engineer blah blah blah...
At this conceptual stage... the people required are the architects and the quantity surveyors..
I don’t think an engineer knows better than an architect in design or cost estimation than a QS.
My opinion tho

You are totally wrong.
The mistake you guys make is not understanding how construction works. The civil engineer is the head of construction, he has an idea regarding all other aspect of construction be it architectural, quantity survey, structural work.

The work he is trying to do includes architectural work, civil work, mechanical work, electrical work, quantity surveyor.

Architects are now coming in to do an engineer's work but believe me I have handled many site where an architect tries to do an engineer's work and they end up spending more.

To the OP, my advice is for you to get a design from an architect first which satisfy your taste, get a structural drawing too, then a mechanical drawing plus electrical.
Afterward, get a Q,.S to quantify base on cost of materials, labour in the area the project will be situated.
You can know or have an idea of the cost then.

Note, after the whole cost has been drawn out, let your civil engineer still work out reduction in the cost because as an engineer on site, we always have a way to reduce at least 15% of the intended cost.
All the best!

Any historians in the house to vet this:

Forgotten History Of Igbo Tribe And Northern Alliance.

Do you know that when Tafawa Balewa was Prime Minister of Nigeria;

Chief of Army Staff was from SE
Chief of Naval Staff was from SE
IG of Police was from SE
Chief of Defence Staff was from SE
Internal Affairs Minister SE
External Affairs Minister SE
Education Minister South SE
Many other key ministries to SE
Parliament President SE
Unilag VC from SE
The University of Ibadan VC from SE
North resisted same at ABU!

Still, there was dissatisfaction by SE, the officers from the region killed this same Balewa!!!!

Out of all the most senior officers in Nigeria, SE has 37, none was killed. 8 from the north, all of them were killed. 10 from the west, 2 were killed.

Then Ironsi imposed a unitary system of government on the country so that everything can belong to a region who snatched it!

We must know our history so that when we want to make corrections, we will not end up concealing the truth. This has nothing to do with tribalism but everything to do with the truth.....at times when lies litter the streets. There is a tendency to think those are truths and facts.

*What follows are documented facts that can be cross-checked for authenticity!"*

Thou shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

*“Prof. Ben Nwabueze was the man who drafted the constitution that took away powers from regions and handed it to the central government because his brother Aguiyi Ironsi was the head of state then. Today, he is shouting restructuring that he helped to destroy. We won’t forget.”*.

WHAT BIAFRANS WILL NEVER TELL YOU ABOUT THE REAL CAUSE OF THEIR WOES IN NIGERIA TODAY:

The Igbo man is known to enjoy blaming the Hausa fulanis, Yorubas and indeed every other Nigerian tribe and Lord Luggard/Britain for their seeming claim of being in third class citizen status in Nigeria. In their perpetual attempts to play the victim card, they recount the political events of Nigeria from 1914 to the present in a half-baked and highly selective manner which cleverly avoids the mention of the roles played by their elite who by all natural laws of judgement were actually responsible for the woes that befell not only the Igbo race but the entire Nigeria nation. The story told in the post above is one of such selective and distorted accounts of history which the average Igbo man is fond of narrating.

However, the national archives have the complete and unedited history of Nigeria regarding the political events beginning way back from even before 1914. I will therefore proceed to furnish my readers with the complete story for all to read and be endowed with enough facts so as to judge and act from an informed position.

Shortly after the 1914 Amalgamation of the Northern and Southern Protectorates, it started getting clear that the country was bound to fail as the amalgamation in question was done with colonial fiat without the consent and consensus of the different tribes which were over 300. This prompted the political leaders to start asking for de-amalgamation so as to forestall the future danger which the forced amalgamation portended.

To that end, Ahmadu Bello, speaking on behalf of the Northern protectorate in 1944 described the amalgamation as "The mistake of 1914 which if allowed to remain will ultimately lead to unstoppable bloodshed and a failed country".
Awolowo, speaking on behalf of the Yorubas and Western minorities, described Nigeria as a mere geographical expression not qualified to be called a country let alone a nation. Awolowo added that if the amalgamation could not be reversed, then Nigeria should be structured as a strictly federal state so as to enable each tribe enjoy autonomy this freedom from being dominated by any one single tribe.

But Nnamdi Azikiwe, speaking for the Igbos, denounced Awolowo and Ahmadu Bello, terming them ethnic champions. He accused them of nursing a sectional agenda against the unity of Nigeria, and he declared further that the Unity of Nigeria was non-negotiable.

After moving the motion for independece in 1953, Anthony Enahoro proposed that a secession clause should be incorporated into the future constitution of Nigeria so as to give legal backing for any tribe to peacefully exit the forced union if it feels marginalized in future. According to Enahoro, such provision in our constitution would instill in all Nigeria's future leaders the fear of the consequences of misgovernance. But Azikiwe, speaking on behalf of Igbos, rose against him in the parliament and labelled him an agent of disunity, and enemy of Nigeria. At a later date, Awolowo too made a case for secession clause, but Azikiwe again resisted him and instigated the colonial authorities to threaten him and Enahoro with charges of treasonable felony if they didn't stop proposing secession clause for the future constitution. While Azikiwe did all these, Igbos cheered and urged him on because they felt the future Nigeria was theirs to dominate and lord it over every other tribe

Before independece, Tafawa Balewa too had in a public speech described Nigeria as a British experiment and Nigeria's unity as a British intention which Nigerians themselves don't believe in. But Azikiwe kicked and demonized him too. Had Azikiwe co-operated with Enahoro, Awolowo, Ahmadu Bello and Tafawa Balewa about the secession clause, Nigeria perhaps would not have been this misgoverned.

For those in doubt, here is a link of one of the numerous instances in which Nnamdi Azikiwe fought against the secession clause proposal for the future Nigeria constitution.

It should be noted that there were many Igbo members of the parliament in which Azikiwe fought against Awolowo's secession clause proposal in the link above, but not a single one of them rose against Azikiwe or condemned him.

Igbos initially never wanted to hear anything like secession in Nigeria because they so much believed, though falsely, that they were the most educated tribe. (The first Nigerian tribe to produce a university graduate is the Binis). As an evidence of Igbo domination agenda hence their initial resistance to the idea of secession; here are some quotes:

"From all indications, the god of us Igbos have destined us to rule the whole of Africa"..... Nnamdi Azikiwe (1945).

"It is getting clearer each day that Igbo domination of Nigeria is just a question of time"... Oscar Onyeamma. (1949). Anascopeterson: As at 1900, the whole of the present Benue State, Kogi East Senatorial District and some southern parts of Taraba State called Munchi District back then; were all in the Southern Protectorate. Whoever doubts this should consult MacMillan Atlas for secondary schools in Nigeria. With that situation the South had a higher population than the North hence always had an upper hand in any democratic bargain.

But as at the early fifties when the regions were being created, common sense dictated clearly that these areas should fall in the future Eastern Region. But against common sense, the colonial masters decided to gerrymander them into the Northern Region. While they did that, Azikiwe who was supposed to be in Enugu fighting against it as the leader of the East, was far away in Ibadan struggling with Awolowo to rule the Western Region and also playing the spoiler role against Awolowo's attempts to have Kwara and present Kogi Yorubas carved into the Western Region from the North which was already too large by landmass.

Anascopeterson: While he abandoned his burning house and was far away in Ibadan struggling against Awolowo for his own (Awolowo's) region, Igbos saw absolutely nothing wrong with that. Rather they applauded him as a nationalist. A nationalist whose house was burning yet busy chasing rats in a far away land.
Anascopeterson: When opinions became unanimous that Lord Luggard and his government must be forced out of Nigeria and indeed the whole of Africa, it was still the Igbos that frustrated the attempts. Here is how:

In 1948, Anthony Enahoro organized an anti-colonization symposium in Lagos for which Azikiwe and some other Igbos had agreed to deliver the keynote address. But when the D-day came, Azikiwe was nowhere to be found as he deliberately disappeared into thin air for fear of being arrested and dealt with by Lord Luggard. Anthony Enahoro then quickly replaced Azikiwe with another person who did the job improptu but perfectly well as he lambasted and lampooned Lord Luggard and the British Government. However, the British soldiers invaded the symposium venue, arrested the speaker and Enahoro and jailed them for treasonable felony. Ironically, the next day Azikiwe came out of hiding and granted a radio interview in which he accused Enahoro and the other organizers of suffering from youthful exhuberance.

On regaining his freedom few weeks later and being told of Azikiwe's radio interview, Enahoro resigned from his post as Editor of Azikiwe's newspaper - The West African Pilot.

Then he wrote a book titled "Nnamdi Azikiwe: Sinner of Saint". After launching the book, Enahoro left Azikiwe's party - the NCNC, and moved over to Awolowo's Action Group.

Anascopeterson: The first military coup in Nigeria was carried out by majority of Igbo army officers. That was the coup that truncated democracy just six years post Independence and led to a succession of coups which put the country on the reverse gear for 33 years.

Through that first coup, those Igbo army officers who accused the politicians and government of the day of monumental corruption, killed the political leaders of the Northern, Western and Midwestern Regions but allowed all Igbo political figures to escape by tipping them off prior to the D-Day. In addition to the killing of political figures, they also killed a total of 27 innocent high ranking military officers from every region except their Eastern Region.

In the end an Igbo man called Aguiyi Ironsi, who was supposed to have been killed alongside other military officers, ended up becoming the new military ruler of Nigeria. Rather than immediately arrest and punish the coup plotters, he kept them in detention where they were treated as heroes. This was actually what sowed the seed for the eventual Biafra War. On the 23rd of February 1966 (i.e. a month and 8 days after the first coup porpularly but wrongly known as Nzeogwu coup, an Ijaw born Army officer called Isaac Adaka Boro who hailed from Kaima town of present Bayelsa State, declared the secession of the Niger Delta Republic in an attempt to free his Ijaw people from the monumental marginalization they had been suffering under Igbos in the old Eastern Region.
But Aguiyi Ironsi immediately ordered Colonel Odumegwu Ojukwu to arrest him and hand him over to the military high command under him in Lagos. Ojukwu went all out against Isaac Adaka Boro with federal military might and within 12 fighting days killed 150 Isaac Boro's soldiers, arrested him, stripped him naked, and had him driven to Lagos and handed to Ironsi who immediately charged him to court and within two months secured against him a conviction of treasonable felony for which he was sentenced to death by hanging fixed for December that year by the Supreme Court. His 'crime' was that he declared secession of The Niger Delta Republic from Nigeria. Meanwhile the Igbo coupists who shed innocent blood of other tribes and even sprayed bullets into the bellies of the pregnant wives of Ahmadu Bello and Brigadier Shodeinde were not charged to court or arraigned before any military tribunal.

Isaac Adaka Boro was in detention waiting for December to come for him to join his ancestors. But God so kind, a revenge coup happened on July 29 by Northern soldiers and Ironsi was overthrown and killed. Gowon took over and released Isaac Adaka Boro unconditionally, reinstated him into the Army with his previous rank.

Then on May 30, 1967, Ojukwu too declared secession of Biafra Republic from Nigeria and without consulting or apologising to Isaac Boro, drew a Biafra map which included the very areas that made up Isaac Adaka Boro's earlier declared Niger Delta Republic for which he fought against him and killed his soldiers. Seeing such level of arrogance in Ojukwu, Isaac Boro asked Gowon to provide arms for him to crush Biafra by fighting on the Nigerian side in vengeance for Ojukwu's frustration of his own secession declaration 15 months earlier.
Isaac Boro, as an Ijaw man conversant with the waterways, led the Nigeria Army through the coastal areas into Igboland to finish off thousands of Ojukwu's soldiers thus leading to the crushing defeat of Biafra. But today, Igbos accuse Ijaws of betraying them in the war. But from the facts as above, who really betrayed the other in all honesty? Be the judge. Why Gowon fought against Ojukwu's declaration of Biafra was as follows:

After Ironsi and Ojukwu successfully crushed Isaac Boro's Niger Delta Republic declaration, Ironsi immediately proceeded to promulgate the Anti-secession Decree which made the mere mention of secession from Nigeria punishable with death by hanging. Ojukwu openly supported and endorsed the decree despite disapproval of it by the general public. So when Ojukwu later declared Biafra secession, he was reminded of the Anti-secession Decree made by him and his brother Ironsi.

Deadly Truth: Igbos frequently reference Aburi Accord to create the impression that the rest of Nigerian tribes don't honour agreements. This is a very dishonest narrative from Igbos.

First and foremost Aburi Accord was organized by soldiers and unelected civil servants who should not participate in political exercises like making laws due to the civil service anonymity principle. Secondly, those civil servants and military men in attendance were not elected by their federal constituencies to the Aburi summit. In the philosophy of democracy the only universally acceptable way of making laws is through duly elected representatives of the people. But in going to Aburi the peoples' representatives duly elected in the 1965 elections were all sidelined for soldiers to hijack the process. Where on earth do soldiers make laws for the people? Rather, the civilian populace makes laws that guide the military. Aburi Accord therefore had no seal of the people's sovereignty hence it was an illegality which shouldn't have been allowed to stand.

Thirdly, in 1957, Nigerians from all federal constituencies democratically elected representatives whom they sponsored to London, paid their flight tickets and hotel accommodation for the Independence constitutional conference. Those representatives all resolved and agreed on federalism marked by regional autonomy and resource control in the Independence Constitution which they brought back home and everyone accepted it.

In that constitution, Nigerians all agreed that on no account shall the military take over power. It was also clearly stated in it that ammendments to it could be done by only democratically elected representatives.

That constitution was the first ever agreement between all Nigerians. On the day of his inauguration as the Army GoC, Aguiyi Ironsi stood before the whole world and with his own mouth swore to protect and defend that sovereign Independence constitution regardless of the circumstances that may later arise. But just six years after he manufactured an excuse to clinch power against the clear provisions of that constitution we all agreed to, unilaterally began to amend its provisions with his very offensive Decrees, and ended up dismantling the federalism and resource control therein, and ultimately subverted that constitution we all painstakingly sacrificed to draft. That was the height of Irresponsibility and the dishonoring of sacred agreement. That was how Igbos breached the first agreement, all Nigerians, ever all mutually consented to, thus laying the foundation for violation of future agreements.

So Aburi Accord was only treated exactly the same way Igbos treated the Independence constitution agreement.
Anascopeterson: Obasanjo removed history from the school curriculum hence the reason why many of what we know of the eventualities in Biafra war were altered to suite their narratives.

Anytime i hear or watch NNAMDI KANU talk i never take it serious but only as a noisemaker.

Thank God for this author. The Lord will bless him for us all! Everyone needs to know this for real. Knowing the truth sets free. We need healing as a Nation. We need to face facts, admit the stupid errors of history and eventual forgive ourselves for the sins, enormous sins committed by our forefathers. Love covers a multitude of sins.

Difrent:
There so much misconception about the revenue at the motor parks and how it's generated.
Inside approved standard motor parks the local government generates revenue, the state government gets its own while the transport union(s) also collect.
Because of corruption, little of what is supposed to go the governments get there but the NURTW gets most of its revenue intact which makes it earn most from motor parks...What NURTW is doing in parks is what tailor association or barber associations do, the only difference being some NURTW tickets are daily, mostly for the unit a driver belongs.
Some of these tickets are daily, weekly, monthly or annually

Why my epistle, the only thing that will be different when park managers begin to manage the parks is that the government will make more money as the corruption loopholes would have been blocked. The government CANNOT collect union dues......... All those millions unions collect daily are actually union money NOT state government revenue

You people need to sit and think more.
Have you entered bus from CMS to toll gate before?
Those stupid Union will collect money for ticket, for loading, for agbero, for police, for morning, for afternoon and if you refuse they will spoil your bus.
Meanwhile.... Most of the collections has no record, what does that tell you? They can collect 50m and report 5m and those idiots will share the rest doing nothing.
They encourage thuggery, drugs, weeds and nuisance.
Abeg they should scrap them in all the southwestern state. We need peace

Esseite:
He was not aware for 4 years?... which then begs to ask how necessary was this equipment to Nigerians that it eluded four annual budgets..

All the parties that needed the equipments could not have mentioned to him about the status of the equipments until after 4 years, a change of IGP, an election etc...

Come on... think

Did he say the equipments had not been purchased?
He gave an instance/example of how the COS usually override the directives of the president.
That brings us to the point to ask if the president is actually fit for office?
Why will kyari be the one taking decisions for him?

Esseite:
Like I said the story is one sided, if you had an iota of being inquisitive, you would ask why the pursuit of a contract memo of 2016 in 2020 when there is a four year gap difference to seek even if it's another memo with different terms from the president.

Why that exact memo of 2016 and from that particular company with blackmail of relationship ties as far back as 2016.

If only you haven't been so daft then you would know if another authorized memo was passed by the president, then the NSA would have been copied.
His point is that the president wasn't even aware the directives had been changed by the COS who is already an institution

Most of us are hypocrites.
Yes, he might put it straight that way and we might be feeling pity towards the lady but Nigerians ehn.
I am sure if the Man of God finally fall into such trap and start committing adultery and then the news get to the media, we will be the first to rebuke him even if he explained he was feeling somehow about her but didn't want to punish her by sacking her for the sins she didn't commit.
Na same Nigerians go first call am Mugun, dindinrin, showing sympathy when he could have controlled it by sacking her from his firm.
I remembered the song of Ebenezer Obey of Ketekete (horse) and it rider who humans tag names.
He was riding the horse, they claimed he wanted to kill the horse, he came down and started walking beside it... They still claim he was a fool for allowing the horse walk freely while he stresses himself trekking.

The truth is that the guy who mentioned Davido and Wizkid got it a bit.
Have you ever seen a billionaire or someone from a rich home or even a good millionaire forced to marry someone they impregnate?

It all boils down to who you are!!
Make Money first before thinking of impregnating a lady you can't marry!

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Sorry for what you are going through but all the fault lies on you.
Sorry to say but you have the worst type of.... anyone could ask for and this can easily cut short a Man's life. You allowed the situation to degenerate to a level that the seed of evil and discord has spread all over their hearts and your home.

First, as a Man you failed in your responsibilities by not being able to control your wife.
Part of the virtue of a wife is the ability to live or cohabit with his husband's relatives which your wife absolutely find irritating.

Your Mum on the other hand is someone you have known for years and all these attributes were things you would have known about while growing up. Working towards ensuring you have mutual respect in between them both

In all these, your Son needs protection because in between these two he would seek care, love and if you allow him grow to see hatred and resentment written over the 2 best women around him... It might affect him!

I have both Mother and Wife, I know each one of them and their attitude. What I have been able to do is plant respect in between both so that none will be able to face off or have an argument degenerate.

I have had situations where wife, mother, relative complained about one another and my ability to correct each one without bringing them together to give their own side of the story has kept the love.

Your wife need to understand that each person has his own weakness but appreciating our strength is what makes us a better person.

Take control of your home and stop allowing each one have a free day at showing hate and resentment

[quote author=KingAzubuike post=85666344]The Iranians weren't responsible for this. If that plane had been hit by a missile, it would have been a free fall. But the pilot even tried turning back to the airport.

For all I care this might even be the work of the USA and their allies. The nationality of that pilot is a strong ally of the USA. They no doubt collaborated to give more justification as to why the world should turn their back on Iran. [/quote
I hope you have peace of mind now after Iran admitted to downing the plane?]

Good morning house, I noticed slot of us don't even say the truth anymore because we want a contract.
It is important to be clear with the client from the onset on the possible problems, cost and also explaining the difference in method used

Rosay15:
...
I can say the song really make sense, what I don’t understand is why people criticize him?.
He is just being real but Nigerians are fu*king hypocrite.
Sinners judging sinner cuz they sin differently.

Sincerely, is this the life we all want/hope to live?
Do we really have plans to get better as a nation?

Very funny.... Nigerians are hypocrites and scammers, you come online to seek free consultation thereby taking food off someone's table.
How would you feel if someone also decide to give what you spent years to acquire free of charge?
Pay a professional to quantify your plan @OP

toyinjimoh:
you really hate this lady oo.... Is she holding something that belong to you

Yes, she is holding his destiny
He might never make it in life except Teni becomes a trillionaire

NigerianMan:

Common Men children won’t be able to attend the school again.

No School Anglican Communion manage that the fees is not always on high side

ILE ABIYE in Ado Ekiti is an example


I can sight

1. Mr Daramola (Perm Sec)
2. Venerable Bankole
3. Bishop Omotunde


Hmmmm

Who are you Nigeria man?
I need to know you... You sound familiar.

mercyvivv:
UP SCHOOL! CHRISTUS VICTOR!!!
Its a welcomed development, the glory of that prestigious institution is almost totally eroded.

Get FREE access to the best compilation of school lesson notes/plans, curriculum and other resource. Check my signature for details.

Up School!! Christus Victor.
Nice meeting an old student here

NkayStory:
Please pardon me,just sick of these people.

You are really matured in your reply so your type certainly deserve a shot by a beautiful,intelligent and down-to-earth lady(that is if you dont have one already)

But other Nigerian males on this forum are just so horrible and hateful many females here cant even deal anymore...too much masculine depravity.

Reason why a good number of ladies have left Nairaland...I hardly surf this forum too.

Thanks for the nice word, I can do with one more good friend.
On the shot issue ,I already have a woman in my life and I wouldn't exchange her for anything in the world.

Electronzeez:
Still in contact with majority of those names including you .....this was the all best nysc thread .

If I slap you ,who did you keep in touch with?
Certainly not me
How is life bro?
Blessed day ahead

Ahmed4002:
What a year. Miss you all

Brother, how is life after service?

We can only thank God... Some of those names you mentioned are now married with kids ooo .
All of us they push am hard until we can touch the sky.
Enjoy your day bro

victorian:
Oh OK, I thought u meant sex. I'm doing things right in my relationship and it's working.

I never said my relationship is not working o

I simply admired a couple on this thread and everyone has turned it, into somethingelse.

U guys should chill abeg!

You and I are not fighting ooo.
I admired all you said and only chipped in my little advice when you pray God help you settle with the right guy.
All the same, have a lovely day

victorian:
Lol, noted.

thanks.

You are welcome

victorian:
I'm fine. I don't need to help myself.

I'm serious .. My paramount need is not sex. And guys wooing me know.

I am not saying sex is a paramount need. What I mean by helping yourself is to be of good conduct, put in your own effort to make it work, be respectful and all..
LOBATAN

victorian:
Anyways huncle, the correct spelling is loose not loss, that's one

Then two! Quit lieing we've met. It won't help your situation. My fiance is not in nairaland, so your lies won't work on him or me.

Understood!

Ode! No be only loss, na locker!

I want to shake the table
It is lying not lieing.
Your fiance can't be [b][/b]In Nairaland but on nairaland

NkayStory:
Shut up!!...cry cry babies...Why would any right-thnking lady here do this when this forum is filled with worst set of males in earth?

Nairaland ladies not giving you guys here not to talk of 'shooting any shots' the time of the day is another reason to wail and cry against ladies

Nawa oooo ,take it easy on him abeg.
Truth be told, Nairaland has the highest number of kids both Men and Ladies.
The way they talk, relate, interact and joke is turn off already.
Most Nairaland guys are still under their mum's roof and does not even understand what it means to hustle and be a real man.
I see most Nairalanders as bullies who care only about like and share.
Between, if a Nairalander does this, most of the guys here will screenmunch and call her a hoe or witch.
I guess it is important everyone work on himself/herself to be a better person.
That Lady shoot her shot because she perceived a strong, intelligent, nice and respectful guy probably going through his tweet and all

victorian:
Am I miss sampler?

I'm not sampling anyone o

Just catching fun here.

I have a guy already who loves me to pieces. And the feeling is good.

I'm just having fun online, today's Saturday jor!


And seriously may God help me to settle with the right guy for me myself alone.

God will surely help you as you also help yourself

victorian:
Awww, place your pic on your dp, u can be lucky as well.

nawa ooo , are you sampling them to make your choice now?

Fountainofyouth:
That beard is disgusting, I do not like guys with beards

Deal with it

Of course, he has been able to play with words. No land for outsiders but he was too afraid to mention herdsmen or RUGA.
It is still all politics.... Of course, allocating lands for outsiders is different from allocating land for the purpose of "business" and Federal who are not outsiders.
The day he would finally do, those are the statements he would make

AwkaetitiBabe:
You meant inter bau? Yea we quiet people.

Hehehehe... Quiet is definitely far from it but lovely people

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea. Are u implying I know these people you mentioned? Funny

Well, if you visit home frequently... You might do
They are 2 of the most recognised people in awkaetiti
One is a big construction CEO and also a philanthropist.
The other an educationist.
All the same, I love awkaetiti people because of the few I have met from there

AwkaetitiBabe:
I'm lost

I thought you are from Akwaetiti as your name imply