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BubblingB:
Which HMO do you use?

DOT HMO

Easybet1:
Thank you boss... I also have an hmo but I am confused if it cover it or not. Under my benefits, it say fertility NOT COVERED, but semen m/c/s COVERED.

please what does that semen m/c/s mean. Is it the same test I need to do

Go to the hospital you registered for your use and confirm if the test is covered.

Easybet1:
please where did you do this and how much does it cost?

Farmacare lab at Egbeda charge 8k for the semen analysis. Although, I did mine for free since I am under health insurance.

codedgalaxy:
It's not normal cream.
The cream looks dried,
Comes out like particules.
Its not me o, just asking for a friend.

That's yeast infection.

emekabassey:
My story is going to be long and the experience is far from pleasant

I worked for Fouani NIgeria Limited, the customer service department.
The manager is Lebanese, most will think this is enough justification for the way he acts but all other deartments in the company(that I know of) all have Lebanese managers but their story is so different from ours aside from the general issue of not giving employment/appointment letters, most these complaints is peculiar to that department of the company

Our manager does not allow any form of interaction amongst worker as you can be terminated for turning your head in the office, as in say you just turn neck o. Someone was terminated for laughing after office hours, work don close o and baba say the guy laugh and the next day na termination straight. Your job security depends on his mood, as he might just decide to terminate you with the excuse of 'we dont want you anymore'

Approval of leave is at his mercy, I can remember a staff, although she was due for 1 week leave, this man denied her despite the fact that this lady was seriously ill, he made her come to work even with the drip connected to her body as he told her she will be terminated if she doesnt work. This lady fainted twice at work that day and had to choose her life by resigning.

This is just one of the many cases of staffs that were terminated because they were absent from work because of illness even after informing he resumed with a medical report after being unable to come to work for 2 days and in this man's word "sorry, you can go home and rest. You will see your salary at the end of the month" That was the end of it.

This man has made the work environment so toxic and it is not strange to see staffs crying after leaving his office as he talks to staffs as if Nigerians are lesser humans, he called a teamlead a slut and accused her of sleeping with her team members because she does not deduct staff break, he threatened Samiat and promised to destroy her because the young lady wanted to quit and go for her youth service.

This man makes it his office policy to to limit staffs restroom usage to 7 minutes, anything beyond this can get you break deductions, warning letters and even termination. Whereas he who sets the rules spends 30 minutes in the restroom (You and I know that no one can control nature).

A Muslim staff was terminated for dosing during ramadan(this man na muslim o, and he prays 5 times daily) and so many others that I can't mention all that have face similar cases on a daily basis. He employs today and terminate tomorrow with a reliable reasons. There is a post on nairaland as far back as 2020 about this man.

Work time is Monday to Saturday 7:50AM to 5:30PM with no visible compensation for working overtime instead he tells you he is doing you a favor and you will get as much as 5,000 deducted from your salary which is more than double of our daily income.

Staffs break are deducted x3 of the minutes they came late to work despite the fact that their salaries will be deducted for same reason. I heard they protested against that recently and the break deductions has been stopped and replaced with more salary deductions for being late 1 minute past the resumption time of 7:50am, not even a grace period of 10minutes.

I made a more detailed post some weeks back on this man, e no easy at all.

If you have an advice for the people still there and know of a way for these ill to be corrected, please reach out and drop your comments as every bit of info here has evidence to back it up

I got an offer with this firm after my service year in 2021. They actually waited for me to collect my discharged certificate and I was suppose to resume with them. Few days to when I am suppose to resume, that was how I got another offer that was twice the pay they were offering me. That was how I never resumed there again. Thank God, I didn't join them then.

ThisisIkemefuna:
You will smile in no distant time brother.
Amen.

Amen ooo

EnglishUsa:
God we do it for us, I am from 13 million sperm count to 33 million now and I have been taken drugs since April. This thing has been the most difficult thing I have experience in my life, the money I am spending on lab and drugs is very much. I am only hoping on God and he will do it for us one day. My wife is also very okay. My wife inlaws now knows what is happening to me and I feel so ashamed of my life and I can't even stand in front of anyone because they all have their children. God almighty will see us through.

The grace I am enjoying when it comes to cost of spending is that I am under HMO provided by my organisation. Its just few of the drugs that are herbal which are not approved by the HMO that I pay for.

From my little research about this sperm issue, one is advised to avoid junk food, alcohol and smoking.

Amen to you prayers ooo. When I dey date my wife, I dey avoid getting her pregnant, now wey we marry, weytin I feel say go easy come dey take time. I believe that before the end of the year, God will grant out heart deisres and bless us with our own children. Amen, in Jesus name.

Kingadex60:
good addyzoa is cool ...

Great

EnglishUsa:
you should also take your wife to the lab to know if she is the course of the problem

We are both on it and she has been certified okay to get pregnant

EnglishUsa:
your result is good. Very good

Thank you for your feedback. Although I have gone to see a specialist, he said my result is still okay to impregnated my wife. He prescribed an herbal drug called Addyzoa. He said I should use it for a month, that it will address the abnormalities and the motility issue. The drug is around 6500 per sachet and I am to use 4 sachets within a month.

I hope it works.

Hahnemann:
TTC journey is not an easy one, it can drain someone both physically and emotionally. I will try to be as brief as possible.

We started trying by Jan 2022 and at the end of 2022 still nothing. One thing that baffles me was that my woman's cycle is like a clock work, 28days and it doesn't miss even a day. I sent her for test and scan and the result didn't come bk with anything meaningful, only small homonal imbalance and scanty growth of staphylococcus infection.

I did some research about infertility and I realized that a man can be the cause as much as a woman, so I started to nutzte the idea of going for a test without my wife's knowledge.

Fast forward to Jan 2023, I went of semen analysis and the result shocked me, low sperm count, 70% dead, 20% sluggish and 10% active. I was depressed finding out that I was the cause and almost felt like to take my life but I summoned courage and decided to fight.

Then I started taking anything takeable, I boiled gauva leaf and garlic to drink, I blended banana, cucumber and milk, I blended tiger nut, I took Dr quick, Sperm boom capsule, and any other thing that I know that has sperm booster written on it. But still every 28day my wife will still see her period. I eat fruits especially banana and cucumber as if my life depends on it till my wife stated getting suspicious, all this while, she never knew wat I'm passing through. Sometimes, I will prepare banana and groundut with milk and drink like garri. I also took Wellman conception and oligocare many packs.

Fast forward to early April 2023, I decided to take another sperm test, my count improved to about 20million, morphology was okay but motility is now 60% dead, 20% sluggish and 20% active with heavy growth of staphylococcus. I decided to try new things, I started taking IV ceftriaxone and Ciprofloxacin as indicated in the culture test, I took it for 10days.

I jumped into kedi product, Reishi capsule and vigour essential with kedi revive. Within few days, I noticed rapid increase/thickness in my sperm volume and also improvement in my sexual performance. I got encouraged but almost went bankrupt because of the cost of this products. I started borrowing to buy drugs and worst is my wife doesn't still know bcoz I was so ashamed. Worst part is my woman continued to have her menstrual flow every 28days uninterrupted. I almost wanted to give up but decided to stay strong.

Fast forward to early July, I decided to try supplements as I could no longer afford other medications.

I got the following
Vit C 1000mg
Dr Hommels capsule
Folic acid
Vit B12
Vit E
Zinc tab
I made sure I bought quality ones. I took it for about a month and then I encouraged my woman to take it with me even though I never told her the main reason, I just told her that supplement will help us to boost our immunity and remain healthy. This period I also prepared Bittercola soaked in coconut water and I drink a shot of it like 2 to 3 times a week.

Early August, A friend introduced me to Afroganiks product, I bought Freeflow for men for myself, I bought Gynovite for my wife and we were both instructed to take Bitterplus capsule. We were taking the Afroganiks product before food morning and night and then take the supplements after food only at night.
My wife still saw her menstruation that August and September but we expected the menstruation first week October and after waiting for one week, my wife who used to have a very regular 28days cycle missed her period and we decided to run a DIY home pregnancy test and we were shocked by the result...IT WAS POSITIVE.

NB: I used mobile app to track her ovulation date and never missed having sex with her during ovulation. I think the style that helped us was the doggy style...I never left anything out as I was now desperate to be a father.

God that answered our prayers will answer urs too...I promised myself that I will confess about my medical condition after she deliver our precious baby.

Thank you for the information you put out there. I did mine yesterday and discovered that I have ASTHENOZOOSPERMIA. I have been worried to the fact that there is no medical cure for it. With what you have written here. I think I will follow ur footstep. See snapshot of me result below:

wrongnumber:
Sometimes I wish I could just look away from the ignorant posts I see on nairaland from people who have no clue of how things are in the UK.

They just imagine anything that comes to their heads and spill it as though they have an idea.

Bro, if you have the right to work and live in the UK earning average salary of £1700 after tax, you will still have at least £400 in savings if you don't cross your boundaries.

Thank you. Even with a consistent savings of €400 daily. It will take approximately 238 days to save 95k. Abeg, e no easy anywhere jare.

mannobi:
On a serious note, how do you convince someone that working in the UK as a security guard or rug washer with an income more than a civil servant on level 16 is worse? The truth is most people going to the UK only want to earn enough foreign currency that can be converted to our terrible naira before returning home to enjoy their retirement.
Just imagine that you have to exchange $95,000 to naira right now.
No be you go dey complain about bulaba till his 8 years tenure expires.

Na to get that $95k be koko na. Moreover, na pounds dem dey spend for UK. With their tax system, tell me how person wan take save 95k

November24:
Hope you know sleeping with an underage is not a sin in the Bible too.
So stay foolis. H

I believe you can express yourself without degrading too low by being abusive.

Microwhy:
Yeye people.. cohabiting is a sin and not permissible in any religion.
Instead of Christians to fight for jannah, they'll be busy competing with Islam.
Its a religious war indeed. Coming publicly to glorify fornication is not strange or new to Christiandom.

Mumu people

Show me where its been said that cohabiting is a sin. Let's assume you are a Christian. Show me where the bible stated that cohabiting is a sin. If you can prove it with a chapter or verse in the bible. I owe you 10k

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

Never forgive a cheating partner. Cut your loses and move on because she go do am again and even if she no cheat again, anytime una get issue, you go use am yab her. The trust too won't be there.

discusant:
What film is Jagun Jagun?
When was it acted? Locations? I want to watch it. Is the language in the film, English which is understandable by a large number of people in the world?
Is it on NETFLIX?

Yes, it's on Netflix

JimmySwaggart:
I like ogbono die. But I don't like the fact that a cup of ogbono is three times costlier than a cup of egusi. So most times I just change my mind and go for egusi or even okro sef, but whenever money plenty for pocket I just go for ogbono.

But the quantity one need to cook egusi, you don't need that for ogbono. Just a little quantity, and your ogbono don full pot.

MrUgo4christ111:
It is with joy in my heart and a gladdened spirit,I wish to inform esteemed family section members that I am now a father of a bouncing boy given birth to buy my wife in the early hours of this morning

We had tried for so long to have a baby,there were doubts creeping in from friends and family alike but our faith in God never wavered.It wasn't easy.My wife was having birth complications as the doctor said her pelvic region wasn't opening up enough to birth a child and that the baby was rightly positioned.Fear gripped me but I had to be a man and offer encouragement to my wife because she was already asking me if she dies while giving birth,will I marry another wife? Those complications took a lot of strength from her and finance from me and she spent some days in the hospital before she finally gave birth in the wee hours of this morning to the glory of God.Mother and baby in good health.

Thank you lord for your mercies.

Congratulations Chief!!! The resources to care for both of them will always be available.

OndoRaph:
Whenever I eat pasta based products like spaghetti and macroni, my entire body seems to swell the next morning when I wake, especially my face, hands and legs. For the face, I even feel the weight of sudden chunky skin even without a reflection in the mirror. What could possibly be the explanation to this. Am I alone or any other person feels same?

Your daily intake of water is on the high side. Reduce you daily intake of water and see the difference. Excess water intake cause the heart to over work, gives you headache, and also make you excrete some electrolyte from your body. Try this and see the difference after a month.

DECENTBWOY:
Good morning nairalanders, I know its too early to post this but this issue has been troubling me for a while now.
I can't sleep, even if i eventually do, i can't stay asleep, for example if i sleep by 2am, i will wake up by 4am and thats it for that night.
It has been going on for months now, and i hardly sleep in the afternoon too..
If you observe when i made this post, I slept around 3am because today is my birthday, i was answering calls and chats from well wishers, now i am up again around 5, thats why i made this post, i am fed up...

Please can you guys suggest a very strong sleeping tablet for me? I really need to sleep and stay asleep, i mean lock everywhere up, eat, take the tablet and sleep a very deep sleep, a kind of sleep that i will not know what is happening around...

Please help a brother, i don even begin de slim like who them de squeeze blood commut for body....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY HUMBLE SELF BTW...

Stop pressing your phone when you are about to go to bed, off all lights in the bedroom and lie down to sleep. If you wakeup in the middle of the night to unirate, don't go to your phone, still lie down, close your eyes and sleep. The sleep might not come immediately, but still lay on the bed. Before you know it, you will sleep peacefully.

Odewaleadesoye:
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The strike na plan to increase the liquor. Once dem get bck, the price go increase.

TheOldGods:
showing of or bragging, what is there to brag about, you moved in to an apartment as a tenant? Do you have a car? What is there actually to brag about. Congratulations to moving out, that's the first step, next step is harder but I'm sure you will succeed

Allow him celebrate his new win. You don't know what he has been thru or how difficult life has been to him. He alone knows his journey. If you had been in his shoes, you might likely do same.

While he is celebrating his new win, I believe he will look forward to achieve another.

kyber:
My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.

So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.

It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.

Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.

The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .

I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.

Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?

What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?

Guy, try check your blood pressure. If after you have confirmed it's normal.

Engage in daily exercise, mostly èvery morning before the day's activity. After a week or two, you should be bck to normal. Also avoid junk food and soft drink during this period.

Oseniwaje:
Oga dangote need to have an NGO to give back to the country that has contributed so much to his proceeds like Many big names in Nigeria and around the globe

He already has, it's called "Aliko Dangote Foundation"

Leebeedo:
Na today? It is very surprising that most of you do not know the implications of this event but continue to spew thrash. British pounds isn't the world's trading currency yet, it has the highest value in the world.

Kuwait Dinar is the highest currency value in the world and not the British pounds.

Brunosamel:
I just got a message for my first job interview it's a four star hotel I applied for an accounting position I'm not even prepared and I feel anxious. Please guru's in the house how did you handle your first interview enlighten me

Ensure your double entry knowledge is top notch

Odebayo4010:
Please can you share the reason you said "e get why"

See snapshot below:

gbengaoyeladun:
Agbafians

Once you see their writeup, you will know.

Hopium:
Just go here chat.openai.com/chat on phone or PC. It's free.

Thank you

Hopium:
From ChatGPT. Someone confirm if this is correct.

Please how do you use this chatGPT, the one i downloaded from google playstore kept asking I pay money.

DeLaRue:
The President 's pronouncements are invalid as they can't supercede the Supreme Court order that both old and new currency should remain in use.

El Rufai has merely restated the Supreme Court's order.

If banks nor CBN no collect your old note even after supreme Court gave a judgement in favour of the government that file against the FG. Who lose?