To marry rich man sef na wahala

From pleasure to HADES ...

These ones dey wear cooperate to advertise shayo.

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

If you have around 700k down let the pikin be oi

[quote author=Rhodaogunpeju post=99484107]I decided to write this because I have come to realize that Love can get boring..
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I remember when I met my husband , he was such a Nice and handsome Man. I mean I already decided if he ask me out I will say yes from the first day I met him but I still made him beg and purse me for a whole year before finally accepting to date him ..

6 months after our relationship we got married. and our marriage was bliss , I married a friend , we have our downs and quarell but we always make up before we sleep because of the fact that we made it compulsory that we must have a family prayer Every night , we usually settle most of our fights during these prayers ..

But sometimes marriages can get boring , you have gisted all the entire gist ,talk about everything talkable till there is actually nothing to talk about,. Then the husband starts drifting away .maybe he's got a new friend or found a new love ...sometime this new love might not be a person ,For instance my husband new love is politics..He's always working and when he's home he is either watching the News on Tv and even when he tries to talk to me he will be like "Baby can you believe what kai muhammad said again"..

And I'm just sitting like who and what is my concern with lai muhammad?... Yet he doesn't see my reaction,he just continues to talk untill we fall asleep.i listen to him because I have to he is my husband.

The love flame was slowly wearing our ,I mean he no longer wants me to wait for him before I eat. .. if I call him to inquire when he is coming back home , he replies with "I don't know but eat o.. don't wait for me "...

How about the sex life ... What use to be mind blowing sex is now just average .just because he's had too much if it ..I could also say the same about me..I mean before seeing my husband in boxers turns me on but now even if he's naked it doesn't seem to move me.

Love is one of the greatest illusion after religion

Mtchew kugujfgkjxyjjfdsstkkjkkkkdfj

Do you know that most healthy people give themselves reasons to worry.... All the abroad is just overhyped even life inclusive is overhyped .... Just do good avoid trouble. Show some love to the needy smoke some green and drink some green bottles. Smile and laugh at yourself cos your existence issa joke . Thank God for this life (hour of Mercy remaining). Wat eva work you are doing now you are working for another person so stop forming busy

chai ... I wan join fecc oi

People wey Never pay rent finish dey yab the building .... Until u buy land u go know how far

Repent righteousness2

Moreofitnow:
Quick info about me

Introvert
Always indoor
Financially Okay but no effect on my social life
Always bored


How I escape loneliness... Tired of being alone and yet don't even know where to go and nobody to associate with.

Guy I was like this before .... Just dress up go out enter one bet9ja shop , if you watch people u go begin laff at men , from there go one beer palour , from there just enter one church to watch miracle tricks and dance and sing .Go home and rest

Olayetan:



Okay, can you now take your miserable life elsewhere

Op that girl get BAD LUCK .... I have experienced this from one of my guy that wat close to me .... I really lost alot .... I had to run from him . I lost 2 phones and money and many others. Pls run from her .
No regret ur action bro

Whykidstarboy:
Hi guys am so happy am now a registered member of this forum after so many years of been a guest here cheers lol..back to my discussion let me start by introducing my self am a finalist of one of the best University in this country about some years ago we move from our base to a new apartment yes I mean our new site.. beautiful and comfortable! There is this particular woman whome we share the same fence with probably she will be in early 40s but am just 23 years.yeah I know this woman likes me and I like her also for being a nice and caring someone but she keep giving some greenlight that I felt it's beyond the ordinary likeness cuz she's fond of calling me my full name and she also call me oko mi(my husband) anytime we see each other with lotta smile.the woman is someone I considered a milf cuz most we see each other I do stare at her fat ass and nice breast lol and also this is also a woman I can bet she's cheating her husband a less educated man but he's okay because he's a trader and he took care of his family even his daughter is also a finalist of my school and he's someone I wouldn't like to offend in anyway cuz he seems like a family friend to us..I would be glad to know if this woman only portary just ordinary likeness or a string attached to this from those who had similar experience and I know already most of u guys would advice me to flee if I should ask about banging her so I wouldn't ask that cuz most time I see myself masturbating with her sexy ass..

Guard your heart bro .... for out of it are the issues of life ... once u nak m guilty conscience go dey torment you oi ... cos u go dey see her husband and daughter daily.

Nicenancy:
Have u crushed on q married woman?
How did u handle it?
What happened?

Mtcheeeew plenty times no be fat women ... Na the ones wey dey in nice figure.
I just changed the crushing to be playing with their kids shikina

k... I have seen it.

Send her packing ... No Time for drama ... Thank God sey u Neva marry m

iLegendd:


That's what's up.

The bigger the hater base, the bigger the exposure and the bigger the income.

so to make it in life we need more haters than friends.

[quote author=iLegendd post=98015545]Oh, do you guys notice my pocket looks like the vagina of a SWAN member who just finished doing abortion?[/quote

this guy ... ur haters dey increase daily oi ...
just dey live ur soft life , u don pay ur dues.

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GofuckYourself:


Bros I don't want to convince you

Wait till the point of death how hard can it be ?

Wait till you are dying and wait for the so called atonement for all your sins which you claim jesus has washed clean for you

Wait and see

wat can a man do to avoid these events in the afterlife

Yeyeboi05:
Done

sharp guy me too na akokite

omo you buy market for the babe hand oi

Preciousgirl:
I am just thinking out loud Why do people do that?
Is it inferiority complex Or such need attention
Or their own style of marketing for a sexmate?
Be honest. Why would u share your picture to the world?
Even here on nairaland

u are thinking wat I've been thinking we all want validation oi .... are an introvert

Yeyeboi05:
This is my experience with a runs girl..Please mind my typos ; I usually get stressed while typing for long....Last year was when I got into 200Level in UNILAG..We usually ballot for hostel(Very stressful) It is Then that you’ll know that your 4G is very slow because of the traffic on site at that moment.Everyone will struggle to get a bedspace...After all my effort balloting for hostel for days,I didn’t get one,it was very painful cause I live far from Lagos..Fast forward to the day school almost resumed;I saw a message from one of the accommodation groups on my WhatsApp that a guy wants to see his bedspace,so we negotiated and I packed all My luggages to School first day of resumption(Was trying to avoid house chores pressure) ...I got to School,after calling the accommodation guy severally,he made it up to me that he no longer wants to sell his bedspace..I was so broken,I waited outside from morning till evening because there was no where to keep my stuff and none of my friends had resume...I later begged one of the hostels potters and he decided to help me keep my stuff for the night but he said I can’t sleep in the hostel as I’m not a Bonafide...It was around 7pm when I decide to buy some chicken and chip,I didn’t finish it,kept the remaining in the white Nylon..I was just wandering around the School,I had no where to sleep..But I believe I’ll crash somewhere las las;I no be fresher na!!! I decided to take a strol to Our Lagoon front around 8pm where I sighted one girl..I’m a super-shy guy when it comes to girls issues but I summoned courage to meet her! I was like hello! She said Hi!! After the normal greetings,I ask for her name and what she was doing out at the time;She said she just came to chill...Before you know it omo,she ask me if she could smoke here...



To be continued!!! LET ME KNOW IF YOU ARE FOLLOWING

Come complete m na I'm following

Eriokanmi:
Come back 15 years later and share your Canada experience with us young man . But when you come back, hope you'd not hide when you see your friends and mates you left behind Progress .

Nigeria is a land of opportunities to only those who have the inner eyes to see one. Nothing can ever make me take such a decision of relocating. If you want to go, bye-bye but you'd spot the difference in later years if you choose to remain there . Why not apply same spirit on developing yourself here? Go there for studies and come back with opportunities. I'd like to cite a few examples below on some of us who came back, against all odds.

1- I've been around the globe, even acquired certificates, up to 4 different ones and some training skills in amazing facilities. I came back with an opportunity which is seriously proferring solutions to our problems in Nigeria. No manager in the leading oil and gas company in Nigeria can match my worth...no be bragging matter. I don hobnob with world leaders, including Barack Obama. I'd have regretted it, had I stayed back.

2-Anyone who goes to one of the old generation banks would see an inverter with battery banks on one side of their banking hall, powering their atms... its as a result of an innovation brought home by my uncle. He left union bank for Atlanta in the 90s, got employed at Walmart as stores officer. One day, as he was going home branched at a newspaper vendor( a mexican) booth to read papers as usual and there he spotted an Inverter company located in Arlington. I'm mentioning it as it is so people could check it out. Its called Trace Engineering, later changed their name to Xantrex. He applied to them to be their rep in Nigeria to solve the epileptic power supply in critical sectors but they refused his application for 3 reasons. One, that the product was new to Africa and 2ndly, that being black, it would be impossible to convince his people on adopting the technology. 3rdly, that they weren't ready to expand beyond the shores of America as at that time. He felt disappointed. 2 months later, they called and told him they had reconsidered his application and invited him for 2 weeks training after which he was asked to come to Nigeria with demos to show to his prospects.

Long story cut short, his friends of Nigerian decent blasted him, they said his village people had come calling. He summoned courage and left America with almost nothing. On getting home, he started from his 1-room apartment he left behind. He went to companies, the CBN and other places in government too. CBN told him they had constant power supply with 3 standby automatic switch generators so, they'd not need his ideas. He told them but its free, they now allowed him to install one at their IT dept. 6 months later they had issues with their generators as there were a major power outage from national grid so they over fired the generators. They all packed up within same time. They had to order parts from abroad but then they needed to keep their IT dept running to prevent loss of files. The moment the 3rd gen stopped , all the directors were panicking, rushed to the IT room only to find out that the staff were working as normal with lights on. The called my uncle over, thanked him for saving them a major disaster and gave him a contract to install the inverter on all the CBN branches nationwide. Shortly after that, the atm revolution came and CBN recommended this man to all banks starting from the old generation banks...this man won a global distributor of the year 4 times and was invited with family to the USA for an award each time. His colleagues back then can't even near him in anything. Rather he gives them money on each visit. If you want to go...go and school or you spend a little time and while you're there, study the environment, study our challenges back home and you'd not regret leaving for home ultimately.

A friend is talking with sanwoolu on ocean transport from ikorodu to lagos Island now and discussion is at advanced stage . He's worked with a similar company abroad for some years now and now he wants to tap into the opportunity and the company is ready to fund this project 100%. When you see his private jets or copter hovering ahead of you tomorrow you see him on forbes list, don't say money why...while working in the biting cold over there.

Kenny and D1 would have stayed put and remained stagnated. See the duos balling today. Their contribution to the entertainment industry is invaluable. These are the people we know. There are several other successful guys out there who took a similar decision.

My 50cents had been given...

we Nigerians have a slave mindset ... and nobody wants to contribute at all ... just consumers every where no production going. No place like home ... and Nigeria is very green . even the number citizen of Canada can't match up with a common senator here .... na just camera pictures we see and hyping abroad

BigDawsNet:
All you wishes to relocate will
come to pass

But I will like to share you a secret no one will tell you, until you arrive in a first world country...



”I just graduated college with $100,000+ in debt”! People clap,
celebrate, and even hug you.

”I just got married and spent $30,000+ for one day”! People
clap, celebrate, and even hug you.

“I just got a loan for $400,000 to buy my first home”! People
clap, celebrate, and even hug you.

“I just got a loan for $40,000+ for a new car”! People clap,
celebrate, and even hug you.

That’s $570,000+ in total DEBT that most people are drowning
in but they are feeling GOOD about it because they are
being CELEBRATED for it!!!


Goodluck

social media be deceiving Nigerians

nawao this Life ehn .... Good people with Good intentions always suffer ... No wonder people don dey toe the path of Lucifer.#steal , kill or destroy.

mtcheeeew ....

some sell turkey in Turkey ... very lucrative.