₦airaland Forum

Incandescent:
What if your mum had died in the process of the beating. Just maybe your dad would have remarried and life would go on while your mum would be resting in peace.

Morale of my analysis: learn to consider issues from every side not just from your limited lense of experience

And thank God my mum didn't die, but we the children know for sure, if she is to come back to life , she ll love to marry dad 100times.. in fact today she's my Dad's gold despite their old age. I envy them.

My case is one, and av seen more , a lot, and they didn't die.I've only heard of those that died on Social Media. just know that life itself is a risk, we play the game.


I'm not saying stay in a violent relationship, if its unbearable, Better to leave, that is wen u discovered the husband can't change..

SM ladies are always, once my husband touches me ONCE, its over.. these are the ladies I'm referring to.

ibkayee:
Every case is different, that something worked for one person does not necessarily mean it will work for another. So many different factors to consider that we the people looking in from the outside will not always be privy to too, we don’t know the details so perhaps the issue is something she/he could’ve fought harder for but perhaps it isn’t. Stop going by assumptions and using these blanket standards for scenarios that may very well be different and unique

Anyway, ure right sha , I'm just talking base on what I read from social media ladies who are bent on divorce at slight provocation, meanwhile most of the workable marriage today, none of them is perfect, I just to give my own parent into it. meanwhile most problem is from men , our wahala too much, if not aggression it ll b cheat, it is on d woman's discretion to make it work, u divorce him on discretion , within a month another Lady is in ,Who is doing who?

watch out , we ll have so many single mums in few years time compare to single dad..

lastly if u can't tolerate Man's wahala, don't marry man. Marry something else or stay single instead all this divorce.

makydebbie:
Including domestic violence dear?

Take it from me, her husband will most likely not embarrass her ..

Who does that to a reasonable wife?, few.

Moreover, my dad once beat my mum once in their early days , then we were young , just once..if she has divorced my dad cox of beer parlor analysis of domestic violence, she will b somewhere else I can't fathom. Today she's happily celebrating 30years in marriage and thanking God for how far the've gone with Joy + healthy promising children/grandchildren to show for it..

Ladies of today, make una calm down, Social theories and marriage are two different thing.. ask ur mum. she's ur best teacher.

Sterope:
Really? Like

She cheats on you with your best pal
Some or all your children are not yours
She is often rude to your parents and siblings
She insults your parents to get at you
She cheats on you and also badmouths you to the men she sleeps with
She is happy when things don't go right with you
She is abusive (could be emotional, verbal or physical)
She becomes a constant trigger of your anxiety

I know u ll not like this bitter truth o..

meanwhile the person u quoted is a Lady who has decided to make things work..

If a man cheat, do the necessary medical checks, forgive him, as a lady don't go and try such coz ure forever out , and he ll bring in another mistress comfortably as an alpha male within weeks, Man can't forgive a cheating wife, in fact I can't sex her again, irritating already.. that's nature bitter truth, but u ll disagree.


Men cheat and we talk it with confidence in fact, because we are Men.. One major thing that can tame a Man is a responsible wife, not d nagging ones like u, I'm very sure ur husband ll b cheating on u with confidence. ur fault..


Don't worry, wen ur husband cheat , divorce him and marry another man with ur children.. who marries single mother's this days self, tueh.. Another Man's left over, except she's a widow.

Herdsmen:
Hausa Fulani is in power ,government , and in charge
Please where is Tinubu,Yoruba tribe and acn .. and don’t tell me about his relegated boys...

Tinubu is finished.. and most importantly his ambition killed.
So what next.

Igboman saved the day for Oshiomole .. if not baguda a close ally of mr president for don wack Oshiomole..

After all . The yorubas at the meeting were shut

beer parlor analysis. Whatever jagaban touches turns to Gold.

Herdsmen:
I thought they said it was Tinubu.. the oracle of yorubaland and savior f Yoruba tribe of Nigeria

It’s all good.. delay is not denial

Most importantly.. it’s so impossible for the local champion to rule our dear country..

His lordship has been restricted to yorubas... and by then of this administration. The puppet emperor will be relegated to the dustbin of history and condemn to yorubaland

Jagaban of Africa wey Africa no know.

Meanwhile so it was igboman that saved the day for Oshiomole.. after all noise by worshippers of Yoruba god.

So the oracle couldn’t save his boy... yet you see his ass sniffers jubilating

Remind me if Baal and it’s prophets

Funny humans

This one don dey change tune already, I taught u said jagaban is finished.. whoever spoke for oshomole, the fact is whoever TINUBU put forward is final from d elders throne..whatever he touches turns to gold..

Mind u, Uzodinma is not ur serial ipob.. spare him, don't turn him to failure biko,

See if TINUBu said an igbo man should b d next president, nobody can stop it, if he said Atiku is d next ,nobody can stop it, We call him the KingMaker

PDP wish they have a charismatic chairman like Osho.. Oshomole don worry u guys no b small o.. see as una carry APC matter for head..

oin
Cry me a river, I'm sure ur wish was drowned.. I can see ure politically inclined than Tinubu..shebi

Oboy, Repent

SLAP44:
The truth is that, Sanusi will make a better president than Tinubu.

Educated
Royal
Experienced
White teeth

Tinubu for Vice president!

This one will end in tears as usual.. U know anyone ipob support is meant to fail as usual..

We warned saraki, he no gree hear, we warned Atiku, he no gree hear.. I reject u people.. Tueh,

Herdsmen:
Op don’t mistake lamentAtion of Tinubu to clout.

Tinubu is powerful.. only in the west.. his powers begins and end with Buhari administration.

But the sweet Koko , is that his presidential ambition is dead.
And his son Oshiomole is out and dusted.. Oshiomole remains suspended and that’s fact..

Giadom is the acting chairman and it remains so.
Tinubu can still remain in Uk .. while his wife remain consciously shut in the senate.

Why are Tinubu’s camp ain’t rejoicing.

The acclaimed sagacity of the Yoruba oracle has been demystify ..
He never worth the hype.. Yoruba people only hype him out of who he is..

See his boy Oshiomole running from pillar to post over a common obaseke..

Even the Jagaban of yorubaland called “ men.. powerful “ he can’t deal.. he had to shout.


Op na for people wey no sabi wetin sup una go Dey brain wash for online.

Finally today marks the beginning of the end for the crooked party

This one just carry Tinubu matter for head like gala . Be like Tinubu don don do this guy strong thing o.. ..

It's a new day, have u mention the name TINUBU today? .. nothing we no go see for NL..

BHigher:
Imbecility at its peak.

Please I beg u in the name of ur God. Just Avoid me.. I can't exchange word with someone who lack critical reasoning.

LegendHer0:
Nigerians think nao. God gave us brain to decode things easily.

I’m sure APC governors had a meeting with Buhari today about Oshiomole, Sanwo-olu used that avenue to report what happened in Lagos to Pres. Buhari firsthand which might even be that he is soliciting for funding from the FG for what happened.

You think Sanwo-Olu just went there for photo ops alone without benefit?

Think think think!

I taught I was the only one that felt surprised at the comment of those children of hate.

I'm still looking for the wrong act in taking pics along to show Mr President while the major visit was for a caucus meeting.,

MelesZenawi:
Chaii

They really want to finish tinubu.
Oshiomhole and now Ajimobi.

Tinubu must have Severely dealth with u, chai.. sorry o

Blue3k:
An athiest would still waste public funds on something dumb.



Lol there's links and screenshots in front of tour face. You're a confirmed zombie if you refuse call it out now.



Lol they've already taxed them to build the venue. It's going to be completed regardless.

Something dumb like

9japride:
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There is no truth in what you see on the internet, it's all lies and deceit. Learn to travel and see things for yourself don't believe all what you see on nairaland. Someone will just post a dirty environment in the east and tag it that its the way all eastern states are and due to your deep rooted animosity towards the east, you start getting excited. Lastly, don't deceive yourself with those propaganda IGR your Governors post which has no relevance in the lives of the people. Audio wealth. If una get mind, follow eastern to demand for a country and let's see who go suffer. Feeding bottle states will always want to remain

u may be right o but with how SW do play her games, they know how to make their demand from Nigeria at the right time, I'm still saying, if SW want their country, All political bigwigs will b the one to front it just like Amotekun, and not some set of group like(ipob and co. it won't materialise, they ll b oppressed), more reason why python dance was possible. I doubt if such can happen in SW. u wonder why sowore was left to his fate??. He was solely asking for the almost immediate impossible at the wrong time wen SW is looking for presidency.

9japride:
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Noted. I thought I could encourage unity, but it seems they are not ready.

I'm from SW. I encourage South unity too.

Meanwhile, leave those online warriors alone, Are u new to nairaland tribal warlords?? those ones are still been fed by their parent.

Very nauseating how uneducated region are politically inclined than the acclaimed educated region..


Northern is making move to strengthen their unity , population wise so they can make political decision.. here we are in the south forming political hatred for each other..

But one thing I'm very sure , SW want presidency at all cost..but its getting clearer that other southern region may not support them, so that general southern unity is shaking and in doubt.

ikh777:
You need to go to several other doctors. Due to the poor educational system, most of our doctors do not really know what they are doing.

ure trying to make sense but ur last sentence isn't necessary at all

Of all the fresh babe wey full outside, Na my fellow man wife go come dey hungry me. haa

looking at the woman on bed alone will leave me with zero courage. it ll b as if the husband is in d corner. As for me, married women has this invisible attachment to her husband.

Iretii0511:
Now we are on a page. While the experience engineer will give a better field performance, the one with a PhD will be a better lecturer. It is what it is. A consultant is good, excellent if I may. However, a consultant with PhD will perform better in the classroom and in research which is the core of academic.

are u trying to say after fellowship to become consultant, they should also further to get PhD as addiction??


if yes, are u ready to increase their salary intake?? because

If government want to achieve that aim, they should make a good added pay so that after fellowship, consultant will go for another PhD since it is necessary in NUC criteria, else they ll keep obeying NUC instruction to leave the lecturing job, consultant have decided to leave the teaching job both classroom and In ward round/theatre..

let NUC go and recruit consultant with PhD lecturers from God knows where that will collect the current normal pay and still give out d normal output..

SctDonald:
..Academics is different from clinical practice. What NUC is trying to do is to separate them. If you want to go into academics, then after your MBBS program.. Msc, PhD, and prof.. But if you want to go into clinical practice, then follow the normal path..,and not combining the two.. More so, NUC is trying hinder them from having multiple or at dual jobs in federal institutions.. For instance, a consultant after working for some hours in hospital, will rush to class to lecture....If this is done, it will create room for government to absorbed those that studied courses like pure Anatomy, Physiology,... etc to lecture those courses to medical students....This is what those consultants saw, and decided to embark on strike.. This might affect their salary...

U don't know what ure talking about. Lol, medicine is a very difficult course that need ur practical /visual knowledge to understand the theories. That's Y we use practical cadaver in year 2 so we can appreciate the theory. If not , medicine can break ur brain, I'm been real here..


Then wen we get to clinical class, we do classroom work, then ward round, theatre @ life practical comes to play with the consultant practicalise everything he taught in class to student.. So in other word, u can never have a seperate PhD in surgery and another Consultant in surgery..

Unless those consultant choose to go for PhD which on the good day too shallow for their wealth of knowledge.. A waste of time.

Correcto:
Who talking of treating a patient? Even MBBS holders till touch patients. From your explanation, you are still confused. Obviously you don't know the importance of research, but know this, everything you learn in the medical program came through someone's research. NUC is telling that you need Phd for career progression in the University, that is if you must teach. It is a requirement. Just a get a PhD.

Advocate of NUC, our consultant yielded to the no teaching since they have no PhD , in fact today they refuse to help guide us after clerking patient , they told us their hands are tight , we have to drop patient files and retire back to our hostel...

At least , they now decide to follow NUC direction. No PhD , no teaching,. Case close, since no teacher in medical right now , seems NUC has no direction, who open medical school without teachers, don't u think it's right time all medical school be closed down pending till wen NUC get PhD holders from God knows where?, at least no qualified lecturer according.

Corrector, edoairways, CSTR2 and co

one problem NUC body have is they are ignorant of medical terms , ethics nd requirements,

that's y they feel like making medical profession look like the other bsc course.

I feel people like saraki and Minister of health come into this game tussle to enlighten these NUC bodies what's medical profession is all about and how it works..

most silly ones are the ignorant general public who is always looking for every means to throw jab at Doctors.

If u don't know, make ur findings /research on Consultant and see for ur self their wealth of knowledge and what it takes to b one..

in fact MDCN shouldn't go on strike alone, They should abandon the teaching hospital , let the health system collapse, if that ll make Public know the worth of Medics(nobody appreciate u if they don't know ur worth).

anyone who is sick should visit private hospital where they ll be charged the hard way for what they refuse to know.

Just MBBS degree alone is killing not to talk of passing residency , (an average med student is most time depressed from year 3 ++)

see one of them clown chanting Get PhD ever since with high handed clueless head with nothing meaningful to contribute.

SciLab:
That anomalies impunity are allowed to go on forever as norms does not confer on it any form a form of legitimacy..

In the Academia all over the sane world, PhD is supreme and Nigeria cannot be different, if you are not interested in it, the retire to your private offices and consultation rooms and stop indoctrinating our students with the false belief that they can ride roughshod over any procedural system and get away with it. You can't continue to hold Nigerians to ransom.

It's a pity u don't av any alternative/ option.. Sorry bro

Correcto:
Get a PhD, that is a simple logic

Ure not logical enough bro.

OK, now that they choose not to have, sack them and go and employ those uv seen with PhD . this johesu boy self..hope ure aware not only consultant are on strike, their resident(student) are also literarily on strike too..

SciLab:
PhD is done in surgery, and if the lecturers in our medical schools are ready to do it, then they should give way for those with the qualifications. Fellowships and residencies are purely professional/vocational training, not withing the NUC's purview.

Most of those medical lecturers lack basic research skills and an open mind, that's why indoctrinate young physicians in training that they can get whatever they want with strikes and crude methodology and without going through normal procedural routes.

Get your PhD if you want to train students in our universities and get the entitlements accruable therein. That's what's obtainable in other climes. Ours won't be different.

I said name one PhD surgeon that u know who ll replace those ones on strike.

currently now, no clinical class since yesterday.

SciLab:
I never knew physicians in Nigeria answer 'Professors' without earning PhDs. That's fraudulent in my view.

In other climes it is practically, all professors of medical courses earn PhDs not fellowships all medical books and articles I've seen are written by consultants with MD, PhD suffix after their names.

NUC must not shift ground, all the consultant earning fat pay as lecturers in our medical colleges must go back and earm their PhDs as obtainable in advanced countries.

NUC should not allow itself to be blackmailed, the FG should get ready to replace the so called consultants. There are many jobless or underpaid physicians, let them take over after FG sacks the overfed consultants who earn double allowance as clinicians and as lecturers (without PhD).

Nigerians stand behind NUC.

Seems u don't know wat ure talking about.

Please show me one Surgeon with PhD, or cardiologist, nephrologists and co with PhD..

the doctors with PhD are those who go for masters/PhD after Mbbs degree in anatomy nd co, and they end up as Anatomy_physiology, biochemistry Lecturer in Basic medical courses (yr 2-3), and they never bear the consultant title. Just Doctor.

As for those who are going for clinical Courses, no PhD course offers cardiology , neurosurgery, u av to go for residency and become a consultant. these are the ones that teach higher classes medic (yr4-6)..


the problem here is NUC have no idea of what they are talking about, PhD in where did u want them.
Consultants are like gods in there speciality,still wondering where PhD will enter to fit in..

SciLab:
They still remain professional doctorate degrees not plausible for the academia, if you must earn your keep as a lecturer in the medical college, get your PhD. It is a universal law in every institution worth it's salt. You'll not be allowed to bend it.
NUC should stand it's ground.

u seems to b knowledgeable about this Nuc/Doctor saga.

Now that our consultants and residents is no longer teaching,

we av been stranded in class since morning with nobody to teach us both in class and ward round teaching with patient.


Residents too no longer have consultants to teach them

What is ur alternative for medic students , Residents and patient

More oil to ur Encephalon

kingkakaone:
I'm not against Ronaldo but Messi is an extremely complete player.

Mind you, Ronaldo never went to a smaller team, though he too, is a beast in front of goal but Messi goal to have!e ratio is superior to Ronaldo's...Check this if you think I'm lying.

The difference here is that one of them is a goal poacher while the other can score, set passes/assists and determine the temple of a game.

U should b ashamed of urself if ur GOAT can only perform with specific team, where is his 'vasatility', he couldn't temple international match game,

just assume Ronaldo was messi in Argentina, taa maa hear say Argentina no go rise up.. Ronaldo is the real temple of game biko,

tell one features of a good player messi has and I ll tell 10 of ronaldo.. no try headmaster biko.

AntiChristian:
Read the first sentence from the OP to get the meaning of successful!

Logically is me saying Jesus was not successful!

How much was the taxes that your Lord paid till he died?

How much was his bank balance and cash at hand before he died?

Treasure of finance? ;

Who was Jesus' daddy GO?

if this is wat u can come up with, then I think i downgraded myself to av quoted u.

AntiChristian:
All of you should pray to have same account balance as Jesus when he walked the earth.

To have similar properties to him when he was on Earth.

He wasn't really successful back then!

What is ur definition of successful?? That is personal to u.

to me it is ability to achieve ur goal, ,so what was Jesus aim?? to bring and usher in the new testament, last I check, he paid taxes and all necessary dues, he even had a treasurer of finance.. So I don't know what ure talking about again..

sometimes let's be logical abeg, making interior motive a subjective notion on a public forum is disappointing.

MetaPhysical:
Abeg carry this scam comot here.

First, I can see hair on her head. When you have brain surgery they access through the skull, which means hair must be shaved.
Second, to numb you from pain as they cut the skull open they first administer anaesthesia and test your receptors for sign of consciousness.
Third, they will never start the surgery unless they were first reassured that you have lost consciousness.
Fourth, consciousness is needed for the auditory and mental recall to play notes.

This video was packaged for people in Africa.

Are u a medic??