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Niniolahabby:
I shuld have left him during d domestic violence days but i still stayed in it ,its nt bcis of the video because i know abt the relationship with him and d babes i know all his gfrd because he talk to them in my present at times i just dont care ,have had enough.i was depressed last year after i got to know he was having sex with my neighbour i confronted him he denial it till i sent d audio record wen he used my fone to call her in to the apartment ,he beat me dat day ,family got involve dey pleaded i forgive right now am tired of his drama.

woman.. tomorrow morning pack ur bag and leave his house to ur parent house. Mistake is one thing, knowingly disrecpting u and putting it to ur face is something else..

meanwhile keep praying for him, and let his parent be aware u are no longer with him.
he will come for u but let him plead well and promise u repentance before accepting him back,
if he doesn't come back please divorce him...

Men b fucking up sha

inahlot:
why has tinubu been silent on this matter why has tinubu been silent on this matter

Tinubu is a smart politician who doesn't like being stained with failure. he chooses his battle wisely , and once he shoot, straight on target.

Edo crisis is too controversial, I'm sure he ll be working on how oshiomole will be reinstated . That alone will end the unnecessary crisis.

God bless Tinubu Jagaban

ImaIma1:
So when he's not rich and she cheats, he should keep her. Ok.

It seems being rich to some people means that they have the right to lord over their wives and others.

That's why God cannot allow some people to be rich. Because he knows what being wealthy will turn them into.

She cheat ke
I and my escort will go to ur fathers house uninvited to get my hard earned bride price..

@ur last sentence, leave God out of this cheat topic.

Kccheechy:
Why can't men of these generation just focus on the woman they married, transform her to whatever they fantasize and just have peace and long life?? The grass is greener where it is watered. I don't see why I will go ahead to marry a woman I know I will still cheat on. Why spending money to marry her in the first place??

How old are u??

isthatso:
Pawn? you mean Don? Like it or not (and i don't) Tinubu is the smartest political actor in Nigeria today, he is the don of dons and he will emerge intact. Tinubu does not embark in a battle he cannot win. He is the only political puppetmester be it PDP APC, that has remained untoppled in 21 years of our democracy. All the others are weakened or irrelevant. All those who try to emulate him always shoot themselves in the foot because they try to become Godfathers by bullying. Oshiomole will eventually go the way of Amosun who attempted to be a Godfather, while Tinubu will be stronger. What all these wanna be godfathers all fail to realise is that you cannot win all battles and sometimes you must allow your enemy to have his day in order for you to triumph tommorow. People forget that Tinubu allowed Fashola 2nd term even when they fell out and only went after Ambode because the faithfull wanted him out.



If Tinubu is behind you, you will always win even if you appear to lose initially. Tinubu wants to be president, we all know, but the difference between Tinubu all all these pretenders like I said is if he realises he cant win , he wont attempt because to fail would be to damage his aura. Tinubu picks his battles and strikes only when he cant lose!! Thats why he is the Godfather of all Godfathers!!!

baba , u spill the bitter truth about TINUBU..

I love godfatherism only because of his style of smart play. he chooses his fight...

below is his word and why he ll last in this game..

I look for talents that are better than me. I'm not afraid to bring on board people with higher wisdom because the most important thing to me is to get the job done for the betterment of all. I don't wait till zero hour to discover the next person to do the job or the next job to be done, from the first hour, I find them. The second, third and forth are as important as the first.
Time waits for nobody. Even the obstacles on my way, I predict them before those that will bring them will start to think about them, I plan for betrayal, I plan for backstabbing, I also plan for reunion and forgiveness long before they happen.
In life, I expect nothing, I expect anything, I expect everything..."
- Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

wany:
Man way carry sense. Only a cheating man will end up with a cheating woman.so when a woman cheats on a man look deep he deserves double dose.tueh

double dose ke,, try Single dose and ur father ll return my bride price.

Rozz:
you didnt think of all these when you were freely fornicating with her and committing murder all in the name of abortion and not yet ready.Do her biddings which is the right thing to do or free her forever.Dont be a wicked man in disguise

He didn't commit murder, The GF did.

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SweetCunt97:
Yawns... When you with a guy who is frustrated, Nwanne you gotta ball out.

The OP has only sex to offer and nothing more. The lady Needs a real man with strong balls, not whiny pussy ass Niggahs.

wait o, Did u lack comprehension to see that the lady depend on the guy for finance.. u just want to talk bah.lol

LudaChriz:
Edo people should rise to the defense of Obaseki and send Oshiohmole to a political retirement. The slavery going on in Lagos must not be allowed to happen in the great Benin Kingdom

Slavery in which Lagos? how.. please let ur madness remain in Edo. wetin concern Lagos with Edo. 2 different state in diff geo-Zone. abeg o.

rosalieene:
You're the only one to suffer the stigma of being a baby mama not him.
dont let him coerce you because of love. dont deliberately become a baby mama to please a man.
indeed, if you try it, you will disgrace your family.
Its not about now but future. in future, he might marry someone else while leaving you his baby mama and ofcourse give excuses.
love yourself first.... sheybi its love? most of us have at one Time loved someone so much but today, we have no iota of feelings for them as we broke up with them. Leave the confused young man, soon you would meet someone else you would love as much, who loves you in return and ready to walk down the aisle with you.

see emotion shouldn't overul reality. what abt the guy who ll b a baby daddy..Most of my female professors aren't married. they only have kid. And no one is stigmatising them.. life na jeje o..

Don't know y I'm seeing things from op boyfriend side though. at least he's acting responsibly for her.

Amhappy:
Go and watch the movie baggage claim. Never settle for a baby mama. All the best.

Don't b emotionally scared about it.. This method of relationship looks somehow creative. no stress, no tie down, freedom, no fear and it doesn't stop them from staying in same house to raise their kid together which op is scared of.

The freedom it brings,

Yinxies:
As if a common man will get a unit

Sorry, they aren't made for common man.

u ll never see any feminist here o, let it b about sex and how to track man or relationship advice now u ll see them. reile and co miliniumlady..

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
sharrap men kill and maul their wives to death 5 times more frequently
just because you dont see them on NL doesn't men it docent happen
I could post you some links

Be like say na contract marriage go b the answer now o..

We agree to give birth and train them without emotional attachment . If anyone want sex aside for procreation, he /she can get it ex-where.. So that no one will av guilt of cheating

fatymore:
I had a camp crush...

One NYSC Staff who really liked me a lot.


I was just so lucky to meet him.
Faaji Galore. I later relocated to Lagos.

God bless you Mr O...

hope say u gree make The guy knack u o?? else, u b wicked girl eh..

smiliyB:
well said, especially that part...is it how you do this and that for your husband...as if that's the only thing women came to the world to do. It's even making many ladies to end up with those they don't love just to answer that name "Mrs". Family is good but having it with the right person is the best.

The shut up part..Lol, only God can save us ooo...Anyway the new generations are trying with that part, kids ask questions these day.

All this plenty talk has kept African parent going and longer maritally. our oversabi on how to train children will show in few years to come wen the product of our training will show.

I only fault them for shutting us up wen we ask Y questions and lack of sex education..Marital pressure too , although u know their wish is for good, u apply sense while u work with the pressure.

others like good beating , show respect and lot more is cool and has kept some of us upright.

smiliyB:
They stop their children from establishing relationship with the opposite sex when they are much younger but once they are 25years and above... they'll now be the one to forcing and praying for spouse to fall upon their child. This is for both gender

Don't mind that I'm laughing, this is not how it should be. Allow your child to be in a relationship or establish friendship with the opposite sex, simply advise her on what to do and what not to do. Infact let your child bring their friends home so you can know who your child relate with.

OK. don't worry u ll re-edit this post wen ur daughter gets to teenage.

meanwhile that relationship style u called African is the best. if my parent didn't scare me from sec.sch relationship/dating, I would av been one of the randy guys around. maybe I for don give one odd girl belle self wey go scatter my career.

Muna4real:
If you like don't make your woman cum .she will get it from another man

And hope she ll b kind enough to tell her dad to help her package her bride price. the man and his squad of friends will charter cars to get it back anyhow.

silencer73:
1. Morning Dear, hope you had a wonderful night. How are you today? Wake up and get ready for work. Don't forget to send your application for the job I told you about yesterday.
2. Yes Darling, I miss you so much, I hope you are enjoying your day, I am heading out for lunch. Talk later. Take care of yourself. Love you !
3.Yes dear I am at the shop doing grocery for the house, next time I am coming with you.
4. Don't put yourself under pressure my love, I know you will achieve your goal. You have my full support.
5. Don't forget to say your prayers by 9am, 12noon and 3pm. Remember our strength is in God. Call me when you are ready for the prayers so we pray together online.
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6. Hello dear, are you back from work. How was your day. .. Hope it was not stressful?
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7. Good evening dear, i just wanted to call to find out how your weekend is going.
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WHEN DATING A WOMAN WHO IS A LIABILITY/ SLAY QUEEN.
1. Morning babe, send me some airtime,
please bae.
2. Hello sweet, I am coming over for some
pizza over lunch? And someone is selling nice perfumes can I take one please. Love you xoxoxo much.
3. Hey handsome, buy me data please. Also wanted to tell you my neighbor is selling skinny jeans, nice shoes from USA and Brazilian hair. You will let me know when you are ready to get me these. Loving you lots.
4. My friends are doing their birthdays this weekend at Ever Land Garden on Friday, Anita in Eko Hotels on Saturday and Famimi on Sunday at the famous Ark City, We must attend all. Cancel all your appointments.
5. Baby, I don't feel like talking , can we chat please....
A reasonable guy will marry a lady that is an asset to him and not a liability. Guys are not stupid.
NOTE:
So, if you are wondering why guys are dumping you, please check yourself, You might be the reasons for your own misfortune....
(Wanna speak for the Guys!!!!)

True . But see eh., sometimes ure stuck with slayqueens with no ambition.. best thing is to just Impregnate her and make her ur baby mama/sex mate, that settles procreation and ur progeny. don't marry empty head lady if u want peace of mind. They are just good as girlfriend. get a housemaid to b doing ur cooking and laundry at home.

Vikky1425:
I have told him I wasnt cool with it and then he said very soon he would bring his many friends to the house so i can cook for them all. I am not an unreasonable person. I really love my space because i am an introvert, going out of my way to do that means a lot to me. This is my second visit and I cooked the first time too.
I agree I should have served them water, but would it be much of a big deal if he does only that one.
He isn't trying to get to know me at all. It has been food and sex talk since day one. Do I have to base my respect for him on his kind of job too?

Hmm. omoh, e b like say the guy no one gentle o. The best part of me is saying u should tell him u can't continue like this, tell him u are afraid of ur fate if ur early courtship days is like this. Something like an Irresponsible Man meet a responsible woman. So he doesn't know how to responsibly treat her.

at least he should b doing everything possible to kpatakpata pretend to b a good nigga.. ur status is still reading someone's daughter and not someone's wife. hence likely to get worse wen una marry..

Aunty , I don't wish bad for a nigga cox I b Man too but I ll advise u run if u are young and not desperate for marriage.

TheArchangel:
1 month dating and you are already on call duty as a chef.

Naso she see am o, so what's ur advice??

Hathor5:
I think the story is cooked up but let me give you the benefit of the doubt.

When you serve people food, you serve whatever is needed to enjoy the food along with it, be it water to drink, to wash hands, napkins or spoons. If you need someone (your boyfriend) to lend you a helping hand then you simply say "Babe, can you please get the water already?/ Would you please be so kind and get the water?/Can you help me a little please?"

Now I don't know how he asked why you didn't bring them water because the tone matters but the question is justified. Why not? If you feel that you should not bring water because you came to his place sweating then maybe you should not have come in the first place. Doing something for someone you care about should not feel like a sacrifice neither should it stress you. If for some reason his request is inconvenient, you can always say no for whatever reason. You are his girlfriend, not his slave. But please don't do anything and then complain. Give cheerfully or don't give at all. Do what you have to do properly or don't do it at all. If you can only do half, communicate why you want support.

Your choice of words is also revealing. You said that "since morning hes been disturbing" you. If he is such a nuisance, why are you two together?

What I find disturbing about your boyfriend though is that he wants you to cook for his mother at your first visit to his parent's house.

@vikky1425
here is a reasonable wife advising u.
I laughed while reading ur post but
ehn buy this quoted idea. E get Y. see we men can b funny at times.
To me u should av completed what u started with Joy, in that scenerio of embarrassing u in front of his friend, next time look at his face eyeball to eyeball then go and do the walk. save him from disgracing himself while with his Friend. His Ego is needed.

But please let him know u aren't cool with him embarrassing u in front of visitors and beg him not to do that again. He will tell u nothing much but tell him 'babe I'm sorry but don't just do that to me again'.
he ll reason with u and b careful to try that next time.


Beside, hope u av paying job and also the brainy (not rude) type??, he need to see reason why he should respect ur person.

shallom

The kind of weak pussy Men we see this days self is tiring, how come those leeches don't come my way, where una dey see them self. Like u sent a lady (not wife/fiance) 400k. is this jazz of what.

still come cheat(sheat) on u on top.

oboy u need to learn the hard way o..send her the money na,

Nigga b disgracing men upandan.

safarigirl:
I know you can't afford data to watch the video, so, let me help your life

The Igbo man did not seep with her, he gave her a job and has been paying her salary. That is the help he rendered, I know Nigerian men in Nigeria cannot imagine helping a woman without sleeping with her, but there are those who do good without collecting sex.

Quiet.
Have u helped a Man without asking him for sex b4?? AntiMan

MichealKin50:
My Fiancée Does This. What Does It Mean?

Good day all.

The lockdown has brought my fiancée and I more closer. She spends most of her time now in my place than hers. While staying with me, I one day carried her phone to make call I discovered she doesn't put password on her phone.

Just few days ago while she was sleeping, I used her phone to Google something online and something pushed me to open her Facebook app. When I open, I realized she deletes chats after conversation. I was looking for the messages I do sent her on Facebook and could not find any.

I can't figure out what this means.

That girl is smatter than u. meaning if she wanted to play u, she will do that successfully.

Advice,
Ask her what u did and how u got shocked, open to her u no longer trust her.
Don't say much again, she ll begin stammering to defend herself, meanwhile follow ur heart whether to wife her or not.

seborrhic:
Any person in today's world that still believes that there is a jazz for stopping bullets,aside bullet proof vest,is a glorified dunce.

That urent opportuned to see doesn't mean it doesn't exist or should b casted, My neighbor is a repentant cultist with different firing marks of bullet that refused to penetrate. said u can only feel the massive hit leaving a dark spot.

Millenniumlady:
Hope the documents of the house are been written in her children's in case of the future

The man whom savings from cooking money can build a house must be a wealthy man.
If the house documents isn't in her husband name then she is not seeing herself as part of the wealthy family , hence she should be chased out of the matrimony house or just sidelined, let her go and stay in the new building herself probably look for man who ll stay there with her and let the man get another woman for sexual satisfaction in replacement. else she should do the legal reverse and change of document name and should b fined as demanded by the tradition.

sisisioge:
Oga...you never see anything! You go soon see! You will reap the fruit of your labour.... Only afterwards sha you be forgiven!

Here comes God the Almighty Judge. Did op ask for judgement human being self.

Op, keep begging her , she ll insist till she see the ur true repentance. and don't break his heart d more by going back to ur old ways. meanwhile don't let ur kid know abt this, just b keen abt ur wife happiness, take her out , kid will see It and shed their anger , just a matter of time

rosemary21:
The same way I've searched for a man who can agree to abstain from sex before marriage but found non. So many of you who want to marry a virgin are often hypocritical cos when you meet one you'll want to taste,even though she is a virgin.

U sound like ure a virgin though.. For real?

Liliantalks:
realistically , it is. With other things ofcourse.

Telling u as a Man,
Egun gun b careful, express dey ur front eh..

Another thing is u can't change who u are , u can only pretend , and that is risky.

Personally d reason men chase after bad girls na cox of young beautiful baddas babes just to fresh up sex desire and run back to church girls for marriage. meanwhile they ll still cheat even after marriage, that says a lot abt polygamous life of men, its a bro code, leave us like that.

Marrying bad girls are because bad girls mostly knows how to tie down their lover with pregnancy and co and d guy is pushed to the alter. life continues as d man has no choice of commitment.