₦airaland Forum

ThickSharon123:
You're a silly clown. I guess you're from the Ocean then, and with your words, I can sense you're from Ijaw. That said, we have Igbos in Rivers state keep on crying, even down to Bonny and Opobo. And other Igbo tribes as I said. I mentioned Ikwere becuase I thought you were those confused Bini-Ikwerre or Ijaw influneced Ikwerre that have influenced those pure Igbo Ikwerre's with their bitter hearts. That said Mr. Ijaw, I know an Ijaw person when I see one keep on fooling yourself, and Igbos are 95 percent of Rivers state, your tribe is a minority, keep on crying

PS; who would be ashamed to defend his tribe. You must be very ashamed of your tribe, chineeehhh skirt. , it's too bad ooooo

And if you're pained, tell your minor tribe to go and make their own state and stop disrupting the peace of the Igbos.

Igbos clans span from Edo state to Rivers and even Cross River. So, if it gives you headache take panadol. Ewu Nkita.

okay

ThickSharon123:
You'll be Ikwerre. He's not even talking of Ikwere. He's talking of Etches, Omoma, and Ndoni and the likes that are Igboid. You guys aren't Igbo and we've fully gotten the message. I guess you can rest now and be happy.

Dumbass I'm not ikwerre , mention the tribes of Rivers State and I'll tell you where I'm from , alot of ndoni people come to my tribe to live and to marry because we're very peaceful , just dey do guess work because I said Rivers is not Igbo , is it by force ?
I didn't even say I had anything against Igbo , I said we're not Igbo and you're here mentioning ikwerre between me and you , you sound like the ikwerre ppl they usually think with their anus , I can see the resemblance
The only people that I know that should understand a little bit of Igbo are omoku and etche ,
If Rivers belongs to Igbo because it's next to abia state , then akwa ibom and bayelsa should also claim Igbo because it's also next to rivers
Rest abeg
The Igbo states in Nigeria are;
Anambra, Abia, Imo, Ebonyi, and Enugu States

tonididdy:
A mother's love for her kid knows no bounds BUT....

"Let's turn tables and have a matured discussion"
SPECIAL KIDS ARE A LIABILITY TO THEIR PARENTS.
-the stress
-the stigma
-the capital
-the usefulness in life

My point is : isn't it best to peacefully end such a life at birth, than expose her to the ills of this earth?
I know it isn't either of the parents fault or wish but it will save a Child that will grow into hating himself because he's different, he can't even compete with his peers.
It's like an SS couples having kids knowing fully well the consequences.

***please mention me maturedly... I just wanna know because God I know is perfect, something medical must have gone wrong in the womb to have a special kid!

Thank God you mentioned a God
Please answer the following questions and we'll proceed
1) have you had a baby in your womb for months
2) have you gone into labour to have a child
3) have you lost a baby at birth
4) have you witnessed a dog that lost a baby at birth
5) have you miscarried
6) have you aborted

If your answers are anything but yes then your opinions are hereby disqualified , only a person that has experienced all of the above can truly understand
Everyday we hear and see people shaming women who terminate pregnancy and here are people who've never even experienced menstrual cramps or ovulation cramps or swollen legs , people who have not experienced morning sickness or carried a melon in their body and have waist pain , you all think you can tell a mother to eliminate a breathing baby at birth because he looks different

There is a real Gap between the male and female genders , there's a cloak covering your eyes from seeing the reality of a woman especially a new mother and that was her first child why would the first thing in her mind be to end it ?
You ppl would have come her to still call her a wicked woman
Why would you look at a baby and say it needs to die because it won't be useful Kai
I had a really good father and I'm happy that I was born a woman because I don't want to be as blind as the men seem to be

femiasaolu2014:
I remember when this lady used to boast about being a virgin and how she was keeping herself for marriage. Then she fell into sin with that her z-list nollywood actor and fell pregnant in error.
Had a rush rush, cut and join marriage to save face.
Then the useless husband abandoned her when he realized the child was a special needs.

I am sure in her quiet moments of introspection she wishes she kept to her virginity vow.

Maybe maybe....who knows....

So if she was a virgin what would have happened ?
Do you think it is a curse ? Are you actually joking

ogoloray:
Unpopular opinion:

Euthanasia (mercy killing on people with incurable diseases) should be carried out on children like this...

While a lot of people will think it's an inhumane thing to say, allowing children like this to live means sentencing them to a life of loneliness and pain...

Let's be honest, this boy won't be able to compete in the real world...

And finding true love will take more than a miracle...

Ending their pain upon birth would be the most humane and rational thing to do...

Nobody should quote me about how their imaginary sky daddy can turn any situation around.

I am hurt by everything you typed , and I definitely took it personal
We understand that some things are beyond our control nor our understanding but the only person that should decide who lives and who dies is God ,
Life doesn't revolve around competitions and frankly with proper guidance that child has a lot of potential
I feel like crying reading what you typed because I know Jodie would have had to deal with alot more comments like this and words really do hurt and hurting someone that is already wounded is cruelty , I'm aspiring to focus on clinical child psychology and I have chosen this path because of children like this , if you can check out SBSK( special books for special kids) on YouTube

Do you know that there are children who are diagnosed with cancer and they have the capacity of competition but not enough time , would you suggest that just because they might die anyday from now , let's just choose now ,

the least any loving parent can do is to give them the best they can provide for their short stay on Earth , and for children like him the best any mother could do is to provide warmth and comfort , but I feel like your idea of what children are for , is for you to invest in them so that they grow up and pay you back and if that's not possible no need to keep them? If that's how God felt alot of us would be dead by now

Even an animal cares for it's young no matter what condition the offspring is born , saw a video where a kitty had a broken leg ,back limbs were gone and mama cat hunted and brought it food all day , she didn't abandon him coz he couldn't leave the spot. I will look for the video link and post here

If only you know how it already hurts her that he can't be like everyone else , that she can't watch play football and she can't catch him stealing meat at night and causing troubles and she can watch him race others and win and how strong she is not doing what alot of people would have done abandon him , you'll applaud her , you weren't born normal because you wanted to , he didn't choose to be like that either , but it happened , and it could happen to anyone , think twice before making such a suggestion to a mother especially when it concerns death of a child that is very much alive

siofra:
So beautiful!!

I'm getting goosebumps.

I thought it was only me

STEWpid:
Chai

One of the Bandits with hornie gBoLa has been Bamboozooding their Bottokus for some time now, which warranted the impetus to cover for their secret escape.


Why are they women that escaped and not men??

The Power of Bottokus.

You're really STEWpid

STEWpid:
You spoke your mind and that must not necessarily depicts the reality.

It's your choice.

Statements are not gender based!!

Full Stop..

Any person with sense knows that you know that we know you are a man , a normal woman even the ones that did not have sense will feel sad at such things and here you are talking about buttocks , which woman do you know would openly sexualize another person like that , it can only be a man
Especially in this sensitive situation , that is concerned with 2 girls both are 19
Oga go and create a new one we don know you

AlafinofEnugu:
Where are the hijabs
Ipob propaganda
This is Biafra girls escaping ipob menace

Where is your brain ? Where did you keep it ? Let me go and help you bring it , Its all about tribe until you stumble into a beasts den that's when you'll know that life is life , I don't know why a human would be happy about violence because the victims and the terrorists are from the same tribes so it's okay
I really hope you don't experience the loss of a child , daughter , sister , dear friend , that's the only way you'll learn to sympathize with those poor girls up there , God knows how long their parents have been up at night

MonkeyMods:
Escaped after they would have been straffed raw and undiluted


By unzakomzaized infidels

Comments like this are a good reminder for good people like me that we have evil seeds in the form of humans , look at the sh!t you allowed your deformed brain to think and you still posted it , God forbid , Boko Haram are even on nairaland now

ariesbull:
he never called river state... Or counted them as igbo.. He only called Anioma (delta igbo)

[/i]These igbo regions don't eat snake
-All of Anambra
-Almost all of Anioma minus few parts of Ika and some pocket of communities
-Almost all of Imo. In Owerri, they call her Eke Nworie
-Almost all of Enugu minus Nsukka, Enugu Ezike and few pocket of communities
-more than half of Abia and significant amount of Rivers state.
-Few parts of Ebonyi. It is Ebonyi that have the lowest amount of People that respect Python.

So tell me, is this not more than 80%?

Remember that Ebonyi state that doesn't have much communities that respect the deity is not that populated.[i]


Either I'm seeing things or you didn't check what I was replying , so I've posted it up

I don't know about others coz I'm from riverstate and Igbo people are very fond of adding Rivers in their list of Igbo land even if Rivers people don't speak Igbo nor do they have the same traditions as them , you can start from page 1 you'll find out where he was asked to list the IGBO societies and that's what he was answering
And the second thing Rivers people no dey carry eye see snake , python or no python , they can kill it and still eat it that's another thing he wasn't sure about and he posted
I've never heard of a snake that was seen and not killed , you go dey pass you will just see it's smashed body on the road under sun so it doesn't come back to life

ThickSharon123:
When he says Rivers, you Ijaws and Ogonis should stop feeling funky. They aren't mentioning you.

Do you even know what state ijaws fall under ? I dey talk you dey shook mouth

ariesbull:
he never called river state... Or counted them as igbo.. He only called Anioma (delta igbo)

He did say a significant amount of Rivers State doesn't eat snakes , and I know that's not true ,

ThickSharon123:
When he says Rivers, you Ijaws and Ogonis should stop feeling funky. They aren't mentioning you.

And if I told you I wasn't from ogoni nor am I even related to ijaws what would you say? Mtcheeeeeeew

BKayy:
These Igbo regions don't eat snake
-All of Anambra
-Almost all of Anioma minus few parts of Ika and some pocket of communities
-Almost all of Imo. In Owerri, they call her Eke Nworie
-Almost all of Enugu minus Nsukka, Enugu Ezike and few pocket of communities
-more than half of Abia and significant amount of Rivers state.
-Few parts of Ebonyi. It is Ebonyi that have the lowest amount of People that respect Python.

So tell me, is this not more than 80%?

Remember that Ebonyi state that doesn't have much communities that respect the deity is not that populated.

Rivers State is not ndigbo , and a significant amount of rivers people eat snakes , you did not make your calculations well ,
Anyone who doesn't eat snake in Rivers is doing it because they don't want to , not because of anything , in my town the thing forbidden for human consumption is the olu ( a giant land crab that lives in holes) it's house is close to the river but the house is on land just close enough to the river, they are believed to be Messengers and if anyone eats one the pot or plate used for cooking and eating will be destroyed , the olu looks like a big version of akanga ( they build their houses on mudflats and can survive both on land and on water , you'll find holes plenty in mud thats where they stay ) we used them as traps for fish but they're also not eaten , I don't know why

also a curse on anyone who tastes human meat even by accident , it can lead to death , I witnessed just one person who experienced that , but snake is eaten by alot of Rivers people , even snake fish

Holy100x:
Well done.
I studied philosophy. I can give you up to 10 topics on psychology projects,you can contact me with 'signature' if you're interested and I can also write your project or proposals for you, not free thou..

I just need the topics , I can do the writing by myself , I'm completely free for the two weeks , I just need a starting point , can't you just post the topics here?

I chose an experimental topic last year that I was really interested in and just as I entered my chapter 3 , I was told that I couldn't handle it , it was expensive and it needed to be conducted carefully , my HOD suggested that he would only recommend it for a master's degree students project and then it's also expensive , so I can't really afford it
I have just 2 weeks to choose a new topic and then submit it and I'm just blank
I just need suggestions that's all , even if it's just an idea , I really don't want to be left behind

LordIsaac:
Not going to school sef no easy jare

Everything hard , it's to choose your hard , school is suffer but it's good suffer , noone can convince me that illiteracy is an achievement

zed7:
Well, people don't know why they want to get married. People should blame their spouses and not the person the partner is cheating with.
If you married a shitty person, your cross.

That lady was really bitter, blaming side chics. I'm a man by the way and I know that some women don't know how to 'keep' their man.

I know what you mean about the keeping of men but in my opinions , both genders are responsible for keeping each other , if one person is slipping the other one should also reach out , but most times I only hear , news , tips , advice , etc on subjects concerned with women keeping men when it should be a unisex discussion , and because of the idea that it is the woman's fault if anything happens , if he leaves , if he cheats , no matter how successful she is in her other life , many women are trying to keep irreparable relationships , and if they can't face their men directly they start to transfer aggression on other people ( e.g sidechicks aka homewreckers)

Drfernandez:
Yes, she and I have intimately known each other for a very long time within and outside here. But I am not here to discuss her and us. My experience with her is the reason why I have always advised men to avoid women who have small breasts.

Liar liar pants on fire , where's the proof

JonOfAustrlia:
u all kno each other?

He doesn't know her , he's just trying to insult her because she's a woman and he doesn't support her opinions , even if she said something that will benefit so far as she's a woman , he won't listen

JonOfAustrlia:
LOL thank u. Are u Yoruba?

I'm not , I'm from one of the minor tribes in rivers state

Demigod22:
School is not for cowards. The hunger, frustration, stress, sickness, studies. Since I survived four years in school, I can survive any situation in life.

I swear

Totilopussylick:
He was found in front of RUMUOKWUTA girls secondary school this morning.

All governor Wike does is to construct flyover everywhere in river state.

Endangering citizens lives.

Knowing very well that a hungry citizens may not have the strength to cross over to the other side of the road when hungry .

People are alive in Nigeria because of God grace .

What are you saying

confused ppl

sisisioge:
Most of naija guys married to foreigners I have heard of o

When they are broke or struggling, they castigate naija girls and move towards the foreign women who "help" them get made. Once made, they start gravitating towards the naija girls because they want to grow old with someone whose culture aligns with theirs. Iranu.

JonOfAustrlia:
I was nodding ny head and then u shock me w that last part
How many do this � �

Alot , check online for marriages especially of younger Nigerian men to older white woman bit if they don't want old women who are easier they choose anyone that's based in the country they went to , everyone here knows this , some even go ahead to have wives in Nigeria and then another wife there and sometimes the Nigerian wives know about it ,they are quiet because the man sends money home and that's good enough

Cousin9999:
He makes a fraction of what you do, you can't expect him to spend every dollar he has. If he earned more than you, he probably wouldn't ask you for anything.



School is a job, and he also has part-time employment. If school isn't a job, go be a full or part time student while working, then tell me it's not a job.



He's supposed to be your life partner and the father of your children, and you're actually complaining about paying for basic human needs? Seriously?



You don't treat him well either.



He's probably depressed about the situation. It's harder on the male ego, and starting over isn't exactly fun. Especially when your wife treats you like garbage. A better question is if you love him.



If you keep this attitude, you will be by yourself. Regardless of what you might think about him, at a minimum there's some fat girl that will gladly boo him up, let him live and eat free, go to school, and then reap the rewards of being a supportive partner when he graduates and gets a good job. If you're not careful, you'll be a bitter single mom scrolling his social media looking at pictures of him and the fat wife on a nice vacation with their kids, or relaxing in the big house he bought.

You sound like a narcissist , the kind that compares and threatens the woman he loves when he doesn't get what he wants

Like if you won't have sex with I have so many girls will gladly do it , so are we having sex or what
I had an ex will probably give an opinion identical to yours

JonOfAustrlia:
Posting this for a female relative:

Im a succesful career woman abroad. I worked so hard for my position that I finally got. My husband from Naija and he came here with student visa. He has his degree now but is only finding menial jobs here. He cant help that and I have been in this country longer. He is a good father and from what I see I think he doesnt cheat. He bathes the kids and takes them to school each morning. But he says because sometimes I sleep early that I should wake up early and get them ready for school. I agreed. I wake up 6.45 to get them ready its not fair because I work more than him.

I work 40 hours a week, cook and clean do all errands pay all major bills and on the nights and weekends he leaves to go work. So after work im taking care of two young children 1 and 2 and he comes back late doesnt clean anything.


For my birthday this year I wanted us to go out so I drove us all to a restaurant. He paid half the bill. Then I told him later we need more money this month. He paid 30% of the bills. Then he accused me of taking all his money when he still has a lot more money left. More than me.

I pay all the bills and make sure we are covered. He gets sad when he has to pay bills. Why is he behaving like this?

Im tired I labor myself till I cant take care of the kids. While im working he gets to come home and sleep he gets to go to school he uses the soap electricity and tv for free does not pay for upkeep of children clothes their diapets does not communicate with the daycare does not treat me well.

Does this man actually even love me? How can someone be so negligent? Doesnt clean the house barely pays for bills works 20 hours but I still end up taking care of kids after work and almost all hours on the weekends.

Does a man actually love me? I feel like im in a relationship by myself.

He's Narcissistic , I can smell it from here , from how he makes you feel guilty about stuff that you should be more upset about , he's still has that Old century mindset of [/b]it's not a man's job to lift a finger at home [b] , no it's likely he doesn't love you but he's not going to leave you because he needs to stay abroad and since he came on a student visa, I don't think he'll stay too long if you left now ( I secretly want you to , but I feel bad for your kids )

you can endure it as African mother's always advice their daughters , or you could go and get a professional counselor or therapist for yourself right now and start untangling , don't make the decision fast or on your own , you might regret it and you might end up going back and that would increase the bad treatment because going back to narcissists make them feel like "yes I have full power now and they will use guilt to manipulate you " and sometimes they play the victims (self pity card )and you'll pay for the damages were done to you

Kingpin1000:
This reminds me of a classic song.

O my brother, O my sister.
O my brother, come and hear my story.
When man get money, woman go chop am.
When woman get money, she hide am for pant o.


Madam, from what I deduce is that you earn 10x more than your husband, He walks menial jobs while you are successful, and yet you want him to pay 50/50 or even more.
Madam you are the classic hypocrite woman.
You want him to be doing cleanup because you have money more than him.
Madam, your husband is expected to send money back to Nigeria and Nigerians don't care if you are doing menial jobs or successful. We have this mentality that, whosoever is abroad is automatically successful.
Or have you been getting advances from another man. And you want an excuse to leave him.

So she should cover the bills , go to work , take care of the children , clean , cook and then what?
You're supposed to just go and marry Wonder woman , wetin you dey find, e no dey market oh

What is her business with what his Nigerian people expect him to do ? Eeeeew I was disgusted reading that
He doesn't have a good job she understands that but he should help out with the chores at least , jeeeeeez
Diapers , fees , clothes , his 2 children are less important than his relatives in Nigeria right?

Men go to abroad and forget their manhood and start running after white woman coz they are easier to manipulate and easier to fool , with a selfless love story ,I love you money doesn't matter , until you find out how expensive babies are and how expensive it is to take care of a full grown man

IzunnaOkafor:
By Izunna Okafor, Awka

It was dramatic in Anambra, as a homeless mother of two children, on Wednesday morning, held a nineteen-year-old robbery suspect for stealing the sum of two thousand naira (₦2,000) she said she hid under her breast while she and her children were asleep last night.

The incident, which happened at Abakaliki Street in Awka, Anambra State capital, did not only create a scene, but hooked the attention of the passersby, such that many people stopped to know what the problem was.

Narrating her ordeal, the woman, who said she is homeless, explained that people usually gift money to her and her children along the street, especially at the front of the ever-bubbling Big Ballers Restaurant where she usually stays with them.

The woman who simply identified herself as Mrs. Ifechukwu, however, said that the nineteen-year-old suspect, Chigozie Ezeani and his clique of two other boys usually track her to where she usually sleeps at night at a nearby carwash with her children; and rob her of both her money and other valuable things people gifted her and her children, no matter where and how she hides it.

“This last night, they came again to where we were sleeping, slipped their hands into my breast and stole the ₦2,000 a man gave us for food,” she said (in Igbo language).

Although she said she and her children were deep asleep when the robbery was going on on her body, due to heavy rain that badgered last night; she explained that she immediately woke up when she noticed a strange and rough hand caressing her breasts, and she quickly woke up, grabbed the hand and identified the boy, who also strugglingly rescued his himself and fled with his accomplices.

She said she thought the boys only came to romance or rape her under the cool weather, without knowing they also stole the money she hid in her brassiere that night.

“I thought they only came to romance or rape me; it was after they left that I noticed they also stole the money I put in my bra,” she said.

Mrs Ifechukwu, who said she hails from Ihiala, but left the town and migrated to Awka few months ago with her children in search of greener pastures due to family problem; went further to recount the numerous things she and her children had suffered in the hands of the boys, who, she also noted, are jobless street beggers and petty thieves.

While noting that she occasionally gives the boys money, ranging from ₦1,000 and above to buy food or noodles and cook for themselves whenever she notices they are hungry and have do not have any money on them, while she herself has enough; she regretted that the boys still pay her back that way.

“Few days ago, a man gave me the sum of ₦15,000 support to rent a house or get a basha somewhere, so that my children and I will not be be sleeping in the street anymore, due to the numerous dangers associated with it,” she narrated.

“Could you believe that these boys came to where I was sleeping at night and stole that money? Not only that; they had previously stolen two MPs (Music Players) and different amounts of money from me before that.

“Two days ago, they stole ₦8,000 from me; three days ago, they stole ₦4,000, and so on. I had two phones before, which people gave me; but now, I don't have even one, because these boys have stolen them all.

“There was even a day they came to where I was sleeping in an uncompleted building sometime last two weeks and told me to allow them to have sex with me for ₦500. And this got me mad, to the extent that I started scolding at them angrily; while they started stoning me, until I left the place for them and fled with my children. Imagine small children I'm old enough to be their mother, asking to sleep with me. Is it because I'm in this condition or what?

“These boys have stolen, killed and eaten all the fowls in this street, among many other things they have committed.

“Why I give them money sometimes to buy something and eat is because of motherhood, because I'm a mother and I treat them as my own children. So, I'm not doing it because I'm very rich.

“Look at my two children: Are they not supposed to be in school by now with their fellow children? But here they are, because I don't have enough money to train them in school. They don't even wear good clothes.

“Yet, from the little I have, I still care for these boys, without knowing that I am caring for criminals. And despite all I have done for them and all the bad things they had done me in the past, they still have the mind to come again and rob me of the money I put under my breast and and caress my breast too after almost stripping me naked. Can you imagine that?”

On his own part, when interrogated, the accused, Chigozie Ezeani confessed to some of the accusations, but said they were committed in collaboration with his accomplices, who are now on the run.

Ezeani, who hails from Agulu in Anaocha Local Government Area of Anambra State, however, revealed that he has taken the money he stole from the woman last night in the custody of one of his uncles, whom he identified as Brother FearGod —an Awka-based Barber, in whose custody he said he has been keeping all the money and other valuables he has been stealing from people.

While saying he is also homeless because his mother lives in Lagos while his father is unknown to him; he further confessed that the woman, Ifechukwu, caught him in the area in morning after she had identified him at night. He also pledged to take her to his uncle's barbershop to retrieve the money from him.

A child that wants to sleep with someone that can be his mother for #500 ? Chai what an insult , no matter the situation of a person they are still humans , that boy and his friends are very evil , no matter how bad the street is a person in their deepest hearts knows what is right and what is wrong , there are cases where a serial murderer can kill hundreds of people and still have that one person that they are protecting , it can even be a dog , that's their own comfort , they choose to care for that thing or that person , but this child is a dog that is biting the person that is feeding him and those type of dogs are easily eliminated coz when they grow they don't know anybody and that is dangerous

Stealing is bad but stealing from someone who's already giving you would release more curses on you and it's more dangerous , now if he stole from a heartless person and this woman could help , she wouldn't want to, he'll be doomed to death ,trust Nigerians and jungle justice