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@ shymex

You seem to be convinced that the op's piece is fictional/creative writing, may I ask why?

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shymmex: And do you expect people to open threads everyday about what goes on in their private lives?

That's just common sense based on the volume of threads a poster creates..

The guy is a provocateur as his handle 'acidtalk' implies - and you guys should know he'll create threads to keep people talking.

Dude, nothing wrong with that. Creativity should be encouraged. However, lies and dishonesty is un-ethical and the story's main aim is distorted.

If you want to entertain, so be it. But you must let your audience be aware of your aim. Which is to entertain and not to deceive.

@ shymex

I presume you are someone intelligent, from his response, do you still think this is creative writing or a liar getting caught for his obvious lies?

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shymmex: His only crime was that he wrote the story in first person - if he had written the same story in 3rd person, I don't think you guys would be crying foul.

Leave the guy alone!

Dude, ask him!

Let him be clear to everyone, is it creative writing or reality.

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shymmex: He's just jealous you make front page everyday..

You didn't do anything wrong, all you did was write a story based on your imagination - that's creative writing.

Lol. A lil honesty can go a long way.

Nothing wrong with creative writing, but to pass it off as reality is just plain pathetic and disturbing.

15 yr old boy that revels on the amount of attention his threads accumulates!!!!

I repeat, you are a boy-bi.tch that craves attention!


How much has Seun given you for your 'Blockbuster' threads?

You are a pathetic teenager with no shame. After reading the responses from various people on this thread, you still show your shameless e-face.

I desist from engaging with you any further, you are too immature to be taken seriously.

I know you itching to have the last say like any immature and attention seeking child would crave . So, the floor is yours.

Nairaland seriously needs age limitation.

Dude, the amount of people who have found out your folly is enough for you to hide your e-face in Shame.

Your posts stinks of immaturity and foolishness. You are getting aggressive because your folly and lies have been caught out.

You are a male-bi.tch that treasures attention. I hope you are happy now. You are getting all the attention.

Bloody liar!

Joker.

acidtalk: THE VILLAGE GIRL STORY WAS JUST A JOKE LIKE THE "ROMANTIC BEER PARLOUR THREAD"

Really!!!

why then did you say the below when someone initially doubted your story.

acidtalk: Joke keh?
Isn't until when you hear in 3months time that "Village girl shoots husband with her father's hunting gun" before you will believe me?

This na serious issue oh!

I know say una no like me for nairaland, so it will even make your guys happier if dem force me to maRry village girl.

Why was your 'Joke' not in the Joke section'?

The OP really underestimates the intelligence of Nairalanders !

I actually dont blame him.....This forum reeks of stu..pidity!

A nice fictional story though!

Jugding by tgirl's portrayal of the man, he is your typical average controlling Nigerian Man!

However, our advices would be futile and more damaging if we can't hear or read the husband's side of the story! The intricacies of a relationship can be very complicated, and typically friends cannot really get the full picture.

Let us be honest here, who is this 'third party' that she may be attached too? at what point did this party get involved to the extent that emotionality is now being discussed?

^ That in itself is a large contributing factor for the lack of intimacy. The husband's behaviour is unacceptable. No one should abuse another soul emotionally or physically!

However, the wife must also address her issues too, issues such as being attached to someone else outside her marriage.

chaircover: truth be told, this woman is cheating (cheating doesn't always have to be physical) and the fact that she is emotionally attached to someone else will continue to place a barrier between her and her husband.

With the presence of someone else sharing her emotions, She will continue to focus on her husbands short comings/offenses so as to make her not feel so guilty about the situation. There is a possibility that if there wasnt anyone else in the union, then she may have forgiven the husband and moved on.

For 5 years, she accepted being treated like trash by this man. I believe that in many cases people will treat you the way you allow then to. Before she became emotionally involved with another man, she was OK to let her husband walk all over her and Now she suddenly says no more. Most of the things that you have listed as the husbands offenses would have been there long before the ring went on the finger and this probably explains why the husband is confused as to what the problem is now cos its something that he has been doing from the onset.

Tell your friend that she cant serve 2 masters at the same time; so she either dumps mr emotional attachment and face her husband and marriage squarely or she dumps her husband.

Why am I not blaming the husband so much? and although he sounds like a nasty peice of work, I dont even think that he knows the gravity of what he has done/doing/did wrong until the damage had been done and if the first time he verbally abused his wife she made a big fuss over it, he most probably wouldn't have done it again.

After reading all the bias from other women who seem to have ignored this crucial piece, My ultimate respect for you increases!

How can you solve your issues whilst being 'emotionally attached' to someone else? how?

Technically and realistically, she is cheating on her husband.

- DP

coogar: cockcap28 is a weakling - a society degenerate who has done nothing to upgrade his life cos he believes as a negro, he cannot move ahead on the social ladder. he blames everyone else for his own failure. one question he's failed to answer since i knew him is.....if the whites are so evil, what is this field nigga executive doing abroad?

it's not like he's on exile or his international passport has been seized by MI-5. he's not wanted in nigeria by EFCC or the SSS so what is the simpleton doing in the uk? he's completed his masters degree some 4 yrs ago, his visa expired and yet, he wouldn't leave the country of the people he hates with all his heart...

it's mind boggling....

Sigh,

The most intriguing aspect is the bold part!

One would have thought that an individual who cannot trust the white race would not live in a white country or will not hold their passport!!

The hypocrisy is astounding because technically, if the claims are true, that nigga is British.

What has he done to help the black race?
Why is he not in Africa to help empower the black race?
Why did he apply to the 'white people' through their home-office to become one of them?
And if he was Born in the Country, why can't he revoke his passport and move to a black country?

Dude should have been used as the Joker in place of Heath Ledger, his delusion is beyond psychotic!

Mr Iyfe Namikaze

Yes, blame every problem on the devil!

Nigerian bad governance = Devil
Lack of security in Nigeria = Devil
Failing your Exams = Devil
An accident caused by bad roads or drunk drivers = Devil

Just a quick Question!

With the enormous amount of churches in Nigeria, how come the devil effect seem to be more prevalent?

Your reference to Boko haram is interesting, they dont want education = Yes, but have you seen the state of the North? Does it look like they need education or not?

morpheus24: Notice how you bring up "the whiteman" even when we are discussing a completely different issue.

ITS CALLED MANIA. Get some help!!!

Some people hate so much that they eventually get consumed by that same hatred. They eat, sleep and breath hatred. Every action is controlled by that hatred. The very fibre of their soul is carved in hatred.

It eventually turns them mad and psychotic.

dare2think: A conspiracy theorist is one devoid of reason and logic.

Very similar to any religious fundamentalist, a conspiracy theorist only understand his own absurdities and thrives on it to feed their highly addictive paranoia!

Simply and random acts are often regarded to have hidden motives and conspiracies. To them nothing happens by chance, someone is always responsible for the trouble in their lives.


Their situation is hopeless, and to engage in an intellectual or reasonable debate with any of them will subject you to insanity!

Notice to the sane people on this thread, please take the bold part of the above really serious!

Vacora: Saw Dark Knight Rises and it is a brilliant conclusion to the trilogy. Christopher Nolan is a legend.

The joker was Batman's arch nemesis and he was able to show how lacking Batman was as Gotham's hero. He describes himself as an agent of chaos and shows the audience how human beings no matter how noble can turn against other humans just to survive. Ironically, he played his "jokes" and watches people with plans fall all over themselves. He is able to take Gotham's finest and turn him into a villlian - Harvey Dent aka Two Face hence weakening the fight against crime in Gotham.
Perhaps people need to understand the plot, the characters and the underlying messages of the Dark Knight trilogy before dismissing the "Joker" as satanic. Heath Legders performance as the Joker was brilliant and he outshone Jack Nicholson's camp and cheesy performance
The Denver incident shooter was a psychopath plan and simple, blaming it on a film or a fictional character is laughable and bordering on the ridiculous.


" You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain " Harvey Dent - Dark Knight

Dude, saw the movie last week. Bane's performance is epic and to me, slightly better and more sinister than heath's Joker!

A conspiracy theorist is one devoid of reason and logic.

Very similar to any religious fundamentalist, a conspiracy theorist only understand his own absurdities and thrives on it to feed their highly addictive paranoia!

Simply and random acts are often regarded to have hidden motives and conspiracies. To them nothing happens by chance, someone is always responsible for the trouble in their lives.


Their situation is hopeless, and to engage in an intellectual or reasonable debate with any of them will subject you to insanity!

^^^^^

For a Man worth over 16 billion, that is just playing money.

Perhaps it would be insightful if you could provide the rest of us 'neutrals' with more adequate information.

Since you seem to be 'sure' of the intricacies of their marriage!

morpheus24: Its called a case of Psychosis usually prevalent in males aged btw 18-24. You people should come out of the dark ages. Its embarrassing.

Really embarrassing!

But hey, what do you expect from a generation that troop to jet-flying Pastors for satanic deliverance?

This is not the first time that certain individuals will commit murder due to influences from an entertainment background.

Games have influenced people to murder!
Movies have influenced people to murder!
Football fanatism have influenced people to murder!


There are several socio-psychological factors and background that instigates such violence and one must take each situation and study its underlying effects.

To blame it all on 'Satan' is just plain ignorance and mental laziness.

ronkebp: Na true....@ Poster so your wife was beating you and you folded your arms, no be so?? so, you did not give her a dirty slap, punch, beat and drag her on the floor...before she decided to defend herself....

-she saw an email, confronted you, you both had a "heated arguement" and all of a sudden..na bottle for your head this is all crap...to me, i feel it is a big lie from the pit of hell...

Even if it were the truth, she was acting in self defense. [b](that one i know for sure) [/b]what did you expect, you give her thorough beatings and she has her hand folded to her chest...?

Really?? Did his wife confide in you?

mukina2: when season start, 'the fly' will know this is hallowed thread.

i nefa get time for 'it' yet.

I sure hope the same rule will apply to other pests that disturb other threads. Including yourself when you keep harassing tottenham's thread.

I hope you play fair!

How about they sign a no terrorism treaty!

@David

I have always been surprised at your intense vitriol against the list you mentioned in your post, especially Moslems. I have always thought you were deeply inconsiderate and unfair to people of other faiths. You seemed to me as some fellow filled with pride and ego, values that I feel contradict the christian faith.

Even your attempt to apologise contains some elements of euphemism. Would't you have said sorry if you had not been in a state of delirium?

In all, it shows character to come out to say sorry in whichever way you feel comfortable. I salute you for that. I'll implore you to visit the Muslim thread to show them your apology as they too have felt the brunt of your attacks too.

I take into account that you too have been abused and may have responded in that regard. Your respect is much higher now with your apology, at least to me.

Nice one.

Pounded yam with egusi from iya calabar.

Can't get it tonight. Definitely get it tomorrow

Can't wait!

^^^^

Lol!

And a coward will always be a coward!

Your bishop is a charlatan! But you are too cowardly to face reality!

shymmex: But is Anton Ferdinand really black?

Him and Rio don't even like associating themselves with being black, apart from trying to let people know they're "tough" because they were raised in Peckham...

I call some annoying white people, white cu.nt sometimes, and I don't think it's racist - neither do they..

That is a very subjective notion. That you don't find it racist dont mean others won't!

If they are not black are they White? Pls research your history well. According to White racists, mixed-race= black.

As long as you are of colour and most importantly not white, you mean nothing to a racist. (with regards to White-racist).

Siga: Bros...make i ask sef....if kasala burst....u fit go back UK? or once u leave UK...no going back?

The most important question!

shymmex: There's nothing racist in calling someone a black cu.nt..

Given the unimpressive history between the two races, it is certainly not pleasant being called that by a White person.