InTheCloudySky: That's wonderful. The jollof rice looks delicious
Enjoy the freedom and growth that comes with living on your own; there's nothing like it. But don't forget to call and greet your parents from time to time.
gazeup1: I created this new handle to hide my identity.
I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.
I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.
After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.
Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.
I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.
I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.
She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.
Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.
You do not deserve to be a LEADER AT ALL.
You are not a MAN but a boy!! Being a responsible Man like I always say on Nairaland and elsewhere takes more than having a job and footing any fucking bills.
laluski: Look at your last paragraph...you mean you know this and you have the impunity to come here and ask us for advice...you must be very stupid.. I don't blame you, I blame her for marrying a slowpoke like you..infact between she marrying you and you saying all this here..I don't know whose more stupid..if to say na my sister come tell me this kind story WORD FOR WORD..my advice to her would have been a very dirty slap. Lemme ask you if your father did all Thai to your mother and you knew all this....will you love your dad the more or call your own mother a fool... Tell us your answer here sincerely before it enters your empty brain to get angry at the truth am saying and want to vent your childish anger back at me... Kai...this boy just spoil my mood this evening Sha...
dawnomike: In all these, I still wonder why saying "My wife, I am sorry" is so much of a problem to you... How to say sorry to wife is by first killing that your ego sir. #Peace
A Bi oo!!! . H such an ARROGANT boy not even a MAN!!!
gift0123: Firstly can you guys do without sex? Anyway women can stay without sex because we have self control more than men... It's not like we don't like the kin sexooo
No you have no self control!!!
It is because of the societal possible lashes that you all do forcefully accept to tame that 24/7 soft and hot kinky immense desire.
Infact some ladies do go into relationship not for money but for good CONSTANT FUCKKK otherwise, they will just dump the Man kiakia.
A mere smile-energised direct eye contact is enough to turn most of you ladies around. It works every now and then!!!
gift0123: Naa the ones you dey meet naa, una bitterness won't allow you to see good women.... In as much as we have bad women out there, we also have the good ones, and only a responsible and careful man can spot them out. What do you expect to get when you chase everything on skirt, you see a woman dey only thing that comes to your mind is how to Bleep her because she has a beautiful shape....
Out of 100, 95% of you ladies of this ERA are pre-moulded (expecially by MOTHERS) to be a Liability. One with acute, irreversible entitlement mentality[b][/b]. This is why Men (both "responsible and Irresponsible" naturally sees you as "good for sex only".
gift0123: This advice is for women that has nothing to offer apart from sex.. meanwhile I think Nigerian women should stop offering sex lets be supportive only and see how it goes......
Of course, Every sane person knows this is true. In fact, most ladies knows this is true. It is only those low life girls on nairaland who are always in severe pains and quick to insult every guy that thinks otherwise.
One Nairaland girl even said that A girl has absolutely nothing to bring to the table that she's the table. In a Layman's understanding, This means that Nigeria girls have absolutely nothing meaningful and purposeful to offer a man in a relationship apart from their over used pussies.
Date a Nigeria girl at your own peril.
One Nairaland girl even said that A girl has absolutely nothing to bring to the table that she's the table.[b][/b] O pari oo!!!
NIGERIA is in a state of diminishing returns to scale and here we are talking about holes that have brought great men down in the past.... Honestly,we still get like one full century to start to dey produce sensible people for this country
Was it A man that give name of your so called country as "" Niger Area(Nigeria)" to the extent of confusion in aslo naming another nation nearby "Niger"? If you ain't a deep and wide thinker, you can never link the dots between your thoughts about this thread topic and the questions I raised in reply to your thought.
A Nation Starts will the balanced Union of A man and a woman.
MAY THOSE WHO ADVICED BUHARI DIE AND ENDLESSLY BURN IN HELL!!! HAAA!!! MAY THERE GENERATION BURN FOR NOT ALLOWING US TO FACE THE ARMY THEY ARE USING TO PROTECT THEMSELVES.
celebritylife: A Nigerian lady, Zainab Abdulrauf has expressed disappointment with guys over the manner they lose concentration by mere physical appearance.
The lady made a video of herself fuming after some guys who came to patronize her mother’s market got distracted by her backside.
According to her, they came to her mom’s shop to get a couple of things and it was going all fine, but just as she was about to get their order the guys started making advances at her because of her back side.
neuf: show me the credible Intel that it's the US that instigated a coup? All these hearsay.
Before you write trash at least sit down in a quiet environment and ask your self simple questions. What benefits does Ukraine, Georgia, Kazakhstan and Turkey serves to the US that will make them do something that if uncovered will shattered and shake the very foundation of their generational alliance built for so long?
Not every thing is about Russia. what exactly is Russia contribution in the world? Did they fight the war on terrorism or how many countries have they been providing aids?
Simple question and answers will clear your mind. In the mean time take a look at NATO position (Red line) against Russia federation but you guys will happily sing NATO is surrounding Russia (Pic 1).
in pic 2, look at Russia position relative to Ukraine but in this case, you guys will say Russia is defending its National Security not Russia is surrounding Ukraine abi
So Britain-controlled USA is a friend of the Countries they are actually unnecessary policing and bullying??
Your mind-control tactics arguments is not sharp enough.
Go back to your employers to sharpen that for you properly and come back to try again....
Automolite: Awe!..u are going too far. Let's keep it within what's trending. But ofcourse, feel free to enlighten me since you know it all. Let me put it in a simpler way for u to understand...US "protection" of Taiwan also favors them. It would be naive of you to say the US is doing it pro bono .. If the US isn't bothered about China's growth/influence in Asia, why all fuss?..why empower its neighbors?..why all the naval military drills with Australia and Japan. U think US would expend that much time and resources just because they "love" the pple of Taiwan?..or u think US alliance with S.Korea is just because the love Korea movies?..expand ur perspective bro.. Saudi Arabia has been pelting Yemen with bombs for years..what has Uncle Sam done?..What has uncle Sam done abt the military junta in Myanmar?. Anyway..if u still don't understand the case in point, don't bother to quote/reply me. Peace..
You Know Just What Is Really Happening Behind The Curtains!!!!!!
BIGDADDY000: LUNATICS PEOPLE!, LUNATICS STATE!, LUNATICS COUNTRY!. with all these northern ideology, Nigeria will still continue to remain under developed country.
it's funny how you think some group of people control everything in the world and in that same world, you using their resources (Internet, media et al) is able to uncover their plot without them knowing.
Does that make sense to you?
You think this way because it is easy to hide away what is in the open from the "commons" globally or people they call "useless eaters" in there circle. But who are the "they"? Do you know them?
Sorry, it is not for you to understand what I am saying actually untill you dig deeper to get access to the real pictures.
neuf: they are not erecting anything in secret oga. it's all in the open. they are sending weapons and economic aids to Ukraine to defend themselves just like they are doing for Taiwan and have been doing all over the world.
neuf: they are not erecting anything in secret oga. it's all in the open. they are sending weapons and economic aids to Ukraine to defend themselves just like they are doing for Taiwan and have been doing all over the world.
sukkot: nigga decolonise your mind. african magic is real. however it is not really african magic, its just people using incarntations and symbolic astral rituals to tap into the electromagnetic energies in the universe. if you know how to write symbols to invoke rituals you can do and undo on this planet. you can start wars or start the rain or kill somebody or even do rituals to bring you wealth. its ways you invoke the elements with astral magic. bro you never chee chumtin. this world is not what you think it is. this space ? called the 3D is full of possibilities if you can harness the electromagnetic and astral codes in the atmosphere. you are just ignorant to the fact that we live in a magicians cube.
Bro, they know nothing at all.
Cctv camera do always capture witches and supernatural forces that nears it view but ordinary eyes would never see this elements unless you are as well "loaded".
Family › Re: Finally!! I Moved Out Of My Parents House!! by darediamond(m): 7:39pm On Feb 04, 2022
naturally sees you as "good for sex only".
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