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TheNeoMan:
[size=8pt]I'm now I Christian but anytime I don't pray for a long period of time or get depressed about my life and stop going to church, i mostly fall back into masturbation.
I masturbated 4 times last year and this year I have done it twice.
I have made up my mind to try everything possible not to do it again and fight it anyway I can.
Though I feel the damage is done already, but I can't still change and be better.


What has masturbation caused me?

1, I realised I release sperm in matter of seconds.
I got to know about this problem when I was dating my ex years ago.
I can release sperm in less than 10 seconds,that's how bad it is.

2, I feel pain in my penis anytime I release sperm.

3,I do have terrible stomach ache if I wake up sometimes and I feel erected for long period of time

4,I stopped masturbation and wet dreams have been disturbing my life.
Sometimes I have it consecutively for days before it goes away.

5,I sometimes feel depressed.

6, my penis is extremely small when not erected,
It is only when erected i feel it is a little big.
It is like 5.7 to 6 inches the day I measured.

Also lastly,
I have decided I won't get married because my wife will definitely cheat on me and will I blame her?
Who wants to stay with a man that can last ordinary 15 seconds.


Don't pity me please
Life is not fair but I refuse to be a victim.
I will just adopt kids and buy pets but no marriage for me.
I do think it sometimes that I will give absolutely anything to have my childhood sexual experiences erased and never knowing what masturbation is.
I will give anything to reset my childhood and grow up like a normal kid without any sister molesting him
But life is not flash that i can go back to reset the past,we just live with anything life throw at us.

Guy why are you sounding defeated?

You've got the victory, keep on speaking it.
Yes you may fail at times but you don't stay there.
Yes all these bad things happened to you, but you don't have to dwell there. Stand up and speak life your Pen*$. Speak life to your life and existence. You will not settle for what the devil is offering. "Remember he that is in Christ is a New Creation, old things are passed away, all things are become new"

Boss you are new creation. It is because of you Jesus came to give you life ABUNDANTLY.

STAND UP NOW AND SPEAK.

I don't see anything bad in this question. A secondary school Literature or English student will understand this and answer the question accordingly.

Like writing an exert from any Shakespeare work and asking what the theme means and how it affects people

Hmmm.....

No woman has done anything big for me before. Na me dey always give and do something big. I gave my girlfriend money one time, I almost went broke. I am still recovering.....

The past election in Lagos has made me "think about my life" as a resident of this state.

A little bit about my life, so my dad is from a north central state in Nigeria, because of the Fulani herdsman and financial problems he moved to Lagos. He started at the lowest point in life( worked as a gardener), he trained himself in school, up to University level at LASU, got a job and married my Mom who was Igbo.

They gave birth to me, here in Lagos. I schooled in Lagos, all of my live is in Lagos. When I was young I was even thinking of running for a political office here in Lagos, especially around the area where I live, because I know the ills and the change needed in that vicinity. I was working towards it.

But after this election, I think that dream is dashed. To a lot of people, I am not a Lagosian because I am not Yoruba, even though I was birth here, and have lived here all my life. I work and pay my taxes here.

A man who has not lived here, nor does he work here will be more Lagosian than me. I should be entitled privilege of a political office in my Area/Place of Residency .

My point here is I shouldn't be disqualified or disenfranchised a political office because I don't have a name of that locality. Rather political offices should be open to those that have lived in that city or birth in that city/locality.

Smart man

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This is actually great..... But ......"in France"..... my incoming President...... I just hope the French president can one day come to Nigeria to rest

EriMma1:
Good this is coming from a man.
First, let the men stop disturbing them for sex. Men are the number one major cause of this premarital sex issue. I know how many men left because I told them no sex before marriage. The pressure from men in a relationship can make the weak ones give up their decency and give in to sex against their wish. For me, I was able to stand my grounds and not give in to pressure because I had a good home training, which takes me to number two.

Secondly, parents should start educating their girl child about sex at an early age and the consequences of indulging in it. They should also take pragmatic steps to monitor the child for any behavioral changes, moods and habits. A good parent should try to know the kind of friends their ward keeps.

My Mom taught me about the sensitive parts of my body at an early age of 5 . She told me not to allow anyone touch me in those areas and that I should run away from uncles. Then the emphasis was on big uncles ( as little boys were not much of a threat then. They were still innocent compared to what we have now) who were fund of sending little girls on errands just to get them into their rooms and finger or rape them. At that tender age, my mom told me about men fingering girls. So that sort of helped me tread with caution where other girls fell and we're either fingered and injured badly or raped. Even up to my adulthood, I still tread with caution around men. Till now I dey fear. Na only mouth I get.

It wasn't until I finished secondary school that I started allowing a guy to walk up to me. even then, we would be miles apart because the words of my mom was always ringing in my ears and my keeping my distance was so if the boy tries to hold my hand, I'll take off. Like serious take off o.

My dad on the other hand followed it up with serious discipline in the form of corporal punishment . If you're caught standing and chatting with a guy, he will flog the hell out of you and that boy will be dealt with. In fact, he made sure we all went to an all girls primary and secondary school so we don't get to mingle with the opposite sex. That was how pragmatic he was in making sure we were raised decently and I think it worked.

We were not allowed to attend or go for any non religious activities. It's only church activities like catchesm, baptizmal classes and children bazaars. As a result we were not really exposed to some bad things or lifestyle that will corrupt our minds and that was why it was easy for me to withstand and overcome the pressures from men asking to sleep with me before they can marry me. I didn't care if it was Otedolas son, Ill tell him to his face to go!

Another major cause is exposing them to indecent video contents , romantic movies and the likes. You'll see a whole family watching zeeworld. Before you know it, this children begin to fantasize about what they see. They begin to create a mental picture of those romantic movies and any slight opportunity they have they want to experiment with the opposite sex. Very easy for such to be layed by boys .
During our time, we were only allowed to watch TV programs that were age appropriate for children. The only adult movies we saw together as a family were frank Spencer, Tom Sawyer, Oliver twist, Jake and the fat man, Robin hood and films that didn't have erotic scenes like we have today.

Till now, I still live by those precepts and I don't regret it one bit cos it has helped me in so many ways to stay out of trouble and challenges. I also hope to train my children the same way.

God bless my parents.

Love this..... Everything here can also be used for the male child..... We are so focused on the female child but the challenge is really from the male child

I don't think it's about the word but context...... Maybe the context sounds intimidating or aggressive

Everything is about your MIND.
All these you mentioned is needed for growth and progress.

What are the things you can do to move forward?
1. Read Books. Inspirational book, Christian books

2. Know your Creator. Your Soul is in desperate need for purpose. Your inner being wants to fulfill purpose. To find the purpose of an item we need to ask the manufacturer. Go to God in Prayer. Know Jesus

3. Join a Community. A church is a community, participate in every activity, involve yourself in a department you handle.

Seriously, I just watched the video now, and am confused. I need to watch the whole video. For that translator to shock like that I want to shock too in full and not just for a clip

The Zhuyu Yu, a grandiloquent tetrapod, engulfed in China. The word "Yin Yu" is the word "YOU" of any great normal person see. "You are the eng ", and you are easy ". It is possible that the excitability of the West is stronger and stronger than ever.

The issue of weight loss is very important. One thing I have noticed is people associate weight gain to living well or peace of mind but that's not always the case. Other things can cause unhealthy weight gain like bad eating habits, stress, depression, loneliness, joblessness and so on. I will be showing you results of how these Women loss weight and i would write how they achieve this feat.

Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxcC7RbvqHo

But What are the things to do to lose weight

1. Change Your Eating habits. Eating right cannot be overemphasized. Eating fresh food is a necessity and eating less food that promote weight gain like bread, spaghetti etc.

2. Portion Control. Although this is still under changing habits, for emphasis sake i would like to deliberate on this. Portion control has to do with regulating the amount of food you eat. DO NOT OVER EAT. Do not eat too much. Eat enough but don't over eat

3. Eat 2 meals daily.

4. Exercise. At least Jog every Morning. This in particular can give you great results plus changing your eating habits

5. Drink water

6. Rest

LegalWolf:
My Oga, that is it o. This life no balance at all. IF they loose in 2023 (which is very likely), they’ll return back to agitation for Biafla!

And what does this tells us, I want us to think. It means the Igbo are not enagaged enough in the affairs of the country. And the look for any glimmer of hope. The words of Nnamdi gave them that hope and it's like a seed planted in their hearts. Peter also gives the Igbo this hope too. When has an Igbo Man ruled this country since after the civil war. Am not Igbo neither am I supporting Obi nor Ipob. I love the idea of a one Nigeria

Elvis2kay:
Life no balance ooo. Ipob's bros don forget Nmamdi kanu inside prison. It's all about Obi now.. Feb.2023 when Obi go looooose woefully. What will be the way forward for my ipob bros.

Don't you think the Igbos are looking for some form of Equality (am not sure if equality is the right word) or engagement in the affairs of the country. It's like a tiny voice in their heart and when people like Nnamdi comes up and say something about freedom they get all jerked up. Now it's Obi, it gives the Igbos a glimmer of hope. I believe this is the reason for the support in the part of the Igbos.

I was just checking my profile today and I found out I have been registered on this great platform since 2013. Honestly, it's unbelievable, because it seems like yesterday.... So I am 9 years old, wow.... And I loved every bit of the social network.

How old are you on Nairaland?

Am pained right now...
We can do better


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Blessedmercy8:
For me it depends cos I receive pay from different mediums as a part-time teacher.

Now, some schools pay directly into my account. For these ones I don't say thank you except when I receive a pay raise from that particular school, then I can call to thank the director otherwise I don't.

You see the ones that pay by hand, I just feel courtesy demands you say thank you when you receive the money as you're sitted there with them cos it will be mannerless of you to just grab the money, sign and gerrout. So, for these ones, I say thank you.
In fact, there's one that always likes to rub it in my face that she's paying me by always complaining each time she's about to pay that " parents have not paid school fees. That she's just paying me from her pocket... Bla bla bla.. hm. Now, when someone tells you that, she's making it seem like shes doing you a favor therefore expects some thanks or appreciation from you. You will just have to say thank you.

Case closed.

What subject do you teach?

Five EASY/LAZY ways to lose weight without tedious exercise ~Lose 1kg daily doing this ~Weight loss Journey

There are five EASY ways to lose weight without weight having to do extreme exercise or extreme dieting or ingesting weight loss pills that are overprice but actually works, Yes, those pills exists and it works but a bit expensive, I will be making a blog on such medications.
Now back to the topic, I have lost weight doing this. But I did it unconsciously; my intention was never to lose weight. My folks were telling me I was losing weight, every week people kept telling me this. I even thought I was sick, so I went to the hospital to know what was going on, but I was well. I was fine, I was told to eat more. I was eating well before. Then I figured the reason for the change in my weight, the reason was my lifestyle. I changed my life style, that was the main reason for the weight loss BUT what exactly did I change is what am about to share with you today

So FIVE EASY WAYS TO LOSE WEIGHT

1. Change Your Diet. My Diet change because I was a little broke. I had to make some changes, I was conscious of what went into my mouth. I wanted to eat right even though I was broke. My breakfast was always light. Most mornings, I take coffee and two or three slice of bread. Mid-day I take fruits and vegetable. Like carrots and bananas. For lunch, I take something heavier, like beans and rice, for dinner I take something light. If I want to snack on anything after that I eat carrot. Please take note, I stayed away from alcohol and soda. If you need diet plans I made a list for different countries please send an email if you need.

2. Take a Walk Daily. Always try to take a walk daily, and don’t do it like an exercise routine, make it a reason to go for a walk. For example, instead of taking a five minutes’ drive to the store or something, walk for fifteen minutes .

3. Drink Water. Always drink water before and after every meal. Doing this will make you feel fuller and you wouldn’t want to eat over and over again. The down side to this, is you might always visit the loo through out the day.

4. Eat a home cooked meal(organic). To achieve this weight loss, you need to eat more organic food and not processed food all the time. Forget noodles, pasta, can beans, you know them all you need to reduce you intake of those and eat more fresh meals. Eating a balanced meal in terms of nutrients cannot be overemphasis.
And the last one on my list here is…….

5. Sleep well. Without a good sleep you will definitely breakdown and all your work will be in vain. In as much as you are putting in the work you need to sleep well.

Other ways you can lose weight quick is doing other forms of exercise like skipping and jogging, TMAD, Two Meal A Day, that is you are expected to eat only breakfast and dinner, and the meals should be enough and not too much, do not overfeed yourself. Never overeat.
In the next one, I will be introducing the pills that are legally recommended for weight loss and obesity


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It wasn't easy losing weight but after making this decision I began to see Tremendous CHANGE

Before I go straight to the point, as we know the naira is loosing it's purchasing power daily, things are on the rise, food especially is very expensive at this time. We can sit at home or stay in that our job where they will not increase the salary, or maybe you can also wait for the government to show you the way. The choice is left to you.

I did a lot of research to find out what works, that will give me an edge to make extra income. I came to the realization that earning in a stronger currency is necessary for every Nigerian that needs to make an extra income. One of the ways to earn this stronger currency income for the common man, a man with no skills whatsoever, is to go ONLINE. LEGAL ONLINE WORK.

Till today I still wonder why so many Youth do Yahoo, when there are so many legal online businesses one can do with no capital whatsoever.

We need to earn in a stronger currency so as to scale up our income. There are so many online business you could do. All this online businesses has been put into an app. It will teach the steps we need take and how to take. It also let's us take surveys and get paid (in dollars of course)

Follow the link below, answer some questions and get the app
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This is good. In as much as education is being passed, no prob....
But I still believe the Taliban can do whatever they want to do as far as it doesn't hurt anyone....
Their aim is to serve Allah to the fullest....
So weytin any western media