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skypeople:
Happy sunday everyone.

As you may have noticed as i entered, am completely new to you guys here, so its gona be completely understandable if you guyz dont wana associate yourself with a she-devil like my self.

**spreads mat**

Yeah i just want to bring to una notice some things i observed in churches have been to so far --- that are very distracting.

1. Most churches have no provision for kids. Their child keep standing up, running around, crying...etc. Thats very distracting abeg.

2. Choir uniforms : the choice of the choristers attire sud be completely selective. A too-bright attire will end up distracting the congregants. It might be a little bit difficut to resist turning to their corner instead of the altar.

3. Sitting arrangement: This is peculiar to some churches. In their bid to curb immorality and sexual sins, they have dermacated the female seats from the male seats. At the end of the day, our dear brothers wont concentrate on the bible reading or the memory verse. They keep tunning to the females section for inspiration.

4. Speakers: I wonder if heaven is such a noisy place. No it is not. The kind of speakers some churches uses is enough to host reinhard bonnkee crusade. Why The congregant will have to start using cerumol wen dey get home.

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ABEG FEEL FREE TO SHARE YOUR OWN DISTRACTIONS
Who knows, we might be helping a church owner re-strategize.

Thank you.



Also remember to support scentmarlc as MR NA1RALAND

Wait what?!?! Churches demarcate based in gender? What is this? A mosque?

repogirl:
Lmao! Tough question... I will answer after I finish laughing....

Why do people give money to people simply because they are in a relationship? Naija mentality sef.

If you don't want to give her money don't! Regardless of if you're in a relationship or not

Abi o! I just understand the concept of giving someone money simply because you all are dating?

kponkedenge:
I met this girl some two months back, and asked her out. She told me she'll think about it. Up till now, she hasn't given me a reply but hasn't stopped requesting for cash from me. Of recent she told me she'll need about N15k for personal reasons. She didn't even tell me what she wants the money for what kind of person is that. And she hasn't even accepted my proposal yet. I feel like letting her go even though I love her so much. What do u guys feel?

Kai! Naija una try o. I can't seem to understand the concept of giving someone I am only dating money. Its one thing to be married and its another to be seeing someone but to be giving them money is something completely different.

Change they say, is constant.

I assure you, I have heard the saying, " You can't change anyone"...I used to believe that until I had a reason to doubt it... They also say stuff like "Once a cheat always a cheat" etc.

I do believe Love changes people.

Turning him to a Husband material is all about touching certain spots in him so much so that IF something happens and you're no longer together, he never forgets you- You Left An Indelible Mark In His Heart.


NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship, not only in a LOVE relationship.

How Can You Turn Him To A Husband Material?



1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High



Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.



2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.


Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.

Being real with him means you have to always open up when you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.



3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.


Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...



4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority


Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two? Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all the 7 points to practice.



5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.


Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc. Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.


6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.


Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.


7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An Avenue For Him To Correct It.



He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not a Spoilt Brat.



This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You will change...

Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who won't be a tough but to crack.


Good morning.

See wishful thinking.
Whoever wrote this must be unmarried. They are in for a rude awakening one day.

NameChecker:
Village People

And what exactly is wrong with being from thw village?

debbie223:
most beautiful ke,come to my house,we've got them beauties even without all d make up n all dat,mtwwwww

For realz?!?!! Please tell me you are lying?

mccoy47:
Queen Christy Daniel?

Smh!
Some girls in a bid to form Behind would just throw away their identity, thats how met a girl in nysc den whose name is Andriod!
I'm like WTF?

What?!?!?!?

Lalasticlala FP please.

Chei!

Can you kindly tell us the details of the text and what your dad's response was?

falconey:
Yes my cousin Alex and thats because he is in prison

Hahahahahajahajajaha

anthoniaz:
I have been dating a guy for about 3yrs now and about a month ago,someone in PH where my guy is living claimed 2 have been seeing me coming to visit my guy and at the same time going to visit other guys.All this while my guy didnt tell me cos according to him,the guy in question told his own sister and the sister told my guy's elder sister.When my guy's elder sister called my guy,he explained everything to her that am not that type of person,she agreed and two of them(my guy n his sister) agreed to let the matter die.Last week my guy travelled his home town for the elder brother's marriage,behold,the sister of the who brought up this story had gone to report to my guy's parents that the girl their son wants to get married to is dating other men and even before my guy got home they had concluded that they were not going to let him get married to me.My problem now is that,the text msg I sent to my guy's younger brother is being misinterpreted.When I went for the marriage,though my guy warned me not to go,but I felt he just fabricated the story cos he told the whole thing just a day before the brother's marriage,I noticed the brothers were not happy with me so I sent one of them a txt msg,that they should knw am not desperate ro get married to their brother and that I've never cheated on him rather,he's the one that has done that to me.I also said in the txt msg that my hrt is bitter cos I didn't do it and that it won't b well 4 d guy who cooked up this story.Now,my guy's pple are saying I insulted them,my guy has never ceased to blame me,they're all on one side while am alone,I even asked him yesterday if he's going to leave me but he couldn't reply cos from what I see,their parents control them.What do I do?Am so bitter,my hrt hasn't known peace since this started,I can't eat,I can't sleep cos am always crying,Hw can someone spoil my name this way?Nw they've diverted their attention to the txt msg I sent.Please I need serious advice here cos my hrt is broken.

Abeg move on with your life jare.

Mom007:
I just can't seem to get over that dirty compound.! Who even drives convertibles these days? Sorry, not impressed!

Oh please! girl you and i both know that if someone bought you one you would be happy.

Interesting. I would see if it works.

blueseacats:
Globalization so far is only helping China and the few billionaire taking advantage of cheap labor, we have tried for thirty years now and Ohio, Pennsylvania and Michigan have completely become a ghost factory town with factories looking deserted and drugs everywhere.

Wrong, wrong, wrong! Until recently, i lived in Northwest Ohio (pretty much next door to Michigan) while you watched on tv so please don't tell me anything about Ohio being "a ghost factory town". Yes those regions had there tough times especially the city i lived in but the region has gotten better. The auto industries are doing well again so the news about there demise has been greatly exaggerated.

There is a difference between statistical figures, news reports and LIVED experience.

With united State owing debt equal its gdp and having recorded loss (deficit with China) for 10 straight years. It's obviously time to try something new.

You are confusing trade deficit with actual debt. Those are two different things. First of, two thirds of the U.S debt is held by the American people (NOT CHINA) and whenever the united states revenue is not able to match its expenditures (spending) for the budget year then that gap is what we call a budget deficit which is different from a trade deficit. Now to close the gap for the budget, the U.S govt has to find money from somewhere and that somewhere is usually China. The Chinese lend the Americans so much money its not even funny and this is what the U.S govt uses to finance tax cuts (when you cut taxes money has to come from somewhere else) and close the budget hole. So instead of blaming the Chinese blame the US govt. Last time time i checked over two thirds of the U.S spending goes to military spending and the entitlement programs (social security, medicaid, medicare etc) and the U.S has to get this under control.

Now when it comes to a trade deficit, that's a completely different thing. A trade deficit simply means that you are buying (importing) more from a country than you are selling to them. For example, the U.S buys a lot from Mexico than it exports (sells) to them.
Now this is not exactly bad. Japan has had a trade surplus for decades yet it has been in recession since around 1991. To make matters worse there debt is so large because there revenues are not able to match there spending. Now Australia on the other had has run a trade deficit for decades yet it hasn't had a recession in 25 years.

"The definition of madness is doing same thing all the time and expecting different result". Trump is a business man and running a business for ten years without profit is madness.

If you think running a country with so many complex moving parts is the same as running a running a real estate business then you are in for a long thing. Yes, maybe some skills do transfer but its a completely different field. As the CEO of a company your word is law, you can make unilateral (individual) decisions by yourself but in govt you have to govern by collaboration and consensus building and that means that you have to be work with people (including your enemies) and you have to inspire them to work towards a common goal. And i don't think Trump has the temperament for that. Let's see what happens to him when he can't get what he wants and how he reacts to that.
And oh, don't forget, you can't fire federal employees like you do in the corporate world. You can fire your cabinet members but you can't fire the career govt workers and they can frustrate you if they want.

Another point i want to make is that nation states are not corporations they are sovereign nations free to do what's best for them and that can occasionally conflict with yours. In other words, if you think that you can talk to China anyhow and bully them then you got something else coming. Some things are simply non-negotiable in the arena of Geo-politics (See the One China policy for an example)

Am willing to pay more for what I buy, as long as my purchase in NY creates a Job in Ohio.therefore let this trade war begin.

Hahahahaha, are you sure about that? see wishful thinking at its worst. What happens when your wages stagnate and cost of living increases? Inflation! say it with me I.N.F.L.A.T.I.O.N with a big capital letter i. Yep, that same phenomenon that central bankers fear so much is the one that you are looking on to with anticipation.

Trump said he wants to start a price war, increase spending and cut taxes all at the same time?!?!?!?!? hahahaha You Trumpites all deserve each other.


At the end of the day, automation is as much to blame for the loss of manufacturing job as any free trade agreement and Trump is about to find that out real soon.

To learn more about the debt and more topics you can check this out.
https://www.thebalance.com/the-u-s-debt-and-how-it-got-so-big-3305778
https://www.thebalance.com/who-owns-the-u-s-national-debt-3306124
https://www.thebalance.com/u-s-debt-to-china-how-much-does-it-own-3306355
http://money.cnn.com/2016/12/16/investing/china-japan-us-debt-treasuries/
https://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/2016-06-13/truth-about-trade
http://money.cnn.com/2017/01/09/news/economy/us-mexico-trump-cars-imports-trade-deficit/

Chiefobdk1:

He is right...



You will never see an afonja here.. Typing rubbish

Thunder go fire naija hypocrisy....

D same people dat rejoice dat dey roasted 3 million Igbos 1967/1970

They still threaten to do it again though they know its a different ball game now

Hr might be right bit that's not what I am talking about. What I am saying is when has fighting fire with fire ever worked? When will people learned that an eye for an eye doesn't work and that it has led to so many civil wars and untold suffering?

macluvph1:
He never begin peep.

Evil man with evil intention to make the world adore Muslims as if they are demi god.

Thanks to American people who booted this guys party out from white house.

Wow! What a truly racist comment. Whats wrong with promoting peace between world religiins? happened to working together in harmony?

blueseacats:
Yap, I know that but we all know it will take jobs away from United States just like WTO, and NAFTA. Clinto called it gold standard. Trump opposed it from day one. Moreover the idea of tpp was to decentralize manufacturing away from China to other Asia countries, I don't see how that helps American workers.

And you think protectionist policies is going to help American workers?

Watch out for a trade war coming near you very soon.

Luckylife:
DUDE! Go read what constitution means in a democratic government ,cut me some slack ! Even I drunk judge gives a judgement , it must be obeyed unless another high judgement is giving not to talk of constitution of a country.

So if there constitution is all that why was his predecessor allowed to stay for 22 years?

bigtt76:
Might be a tactical appointment so as not to leave a void in the country's governance while he's in transit back to Banjul.

Might simply be that the rule is so dumb. I mean what brilliant constitutional scholar came up with it in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy.

Besides, the law is also unjust. Its age discrimination. The most important thing about rules is that they should fair, be sensible and should be for the good of the people and not just for arbitrary reasons.

BlackDBagba:
Now this is getting interesting.... slight overlook or tactful disregard for the constitution?

Only time will tell.

What we should be asking is who came up with such a dumb rule in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy. Besides, that's also age discrimination.
Most important thing about rules is that they should fair, they should make sense and should be for the good of the people. They shouldn't just arbitrary.

admax:
Was it constitutional for Jammeh to be in power for 22years?

I tire o.

Luckylife:
No wonder is a fulani man ! Much is not expected of him just to avoid the heart attacks their kinds are passing through in Nigeria .

Dude, what you should be asking is who came up with such a dumb rule in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy. Besides, that's also age discrimination.
Most important thing about rules is that they should fair, they should make sense and should be for the good of the people. They shouldn't just arbitrary.

helinues:
Same same African leaders

Babu laakaye

Why is no onr asking who came up with such a dumb rule in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy. Besides, that's also age discrimination.
Most important thing about rules is that they should fair, they should make sense and should be for the good of the people. They shouldn't just arbitrary.

RingimKabir:
That's the negative side of democracy. Performing or non-performing, good or bad leader, progressive or not, one must vacate his seat to pave way for another. Jammeh tried for Gambia and I didn't see Barrow bringing anything good.

And most of the times, people failed to appreciate what they have and thank God, instead, they will ask for change not minding the fact the devil you know is better than the one you don't know. Nigerians made this mistake and I believe Ghanaians will also become guilty of this.

We cannot be asking God for more when we fail to appreciate what He gave us.

So you prefer never ending term limits and a leader who uses his country's treasury as his personal fiefdom?

Jekwe1:
So this man wan dey disregard constituted authority

What we should be asking is who came up with such a dumb rule in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy. Besides, that's also age discrimination.
Most important thing about rules is that they should fair, they should make sense and should be for the good of the people. They shouldn't just arbitrary.

Anyways, they need to ammend that constitution either way.

emeijeh:
What kind of a country is this?
Is he not supposed to have a running mate during the campaigns?

I tire o. Who wrote that constitution in the first place. I would like to know.

Lifestone:
Again this brings to fore the lack of details that have been the undoing of most African leaders. The error here is just too basic to have escaped him.
For whatever, the constitution is still valid and should be respected until ammendments are carried out.The new VP should be replaced immediately.

What we should be asking is who came up with such a dumb rule in the first place? I can't imagine that happening in any advanced democracy. Besides, that's also age discrimination.
Most important thing about rules is that they should fair, they should make sense and should be for the good of the people. They shouldn't just arbitrary.

Africans and their penchant for stupid rules. Who made up such a stupid law in the first place?

Nig4Greatness:
This guy is one of the typical blind followers of Trump..semi illiterates with high school diploma.Mere looking at his picture self says a lot of his intellectual capabilities..now I think he needs some lesson on governance.
TPP is just a proposal that never made it to Congress talk less of signing into law and even OBAMA didn't pushed the law and Nafta can't be veto by mere executive order without congress approval,he only said he will renegotiate not cancelled.so where is the 20% of his campaign promises he has fulfilled??..on abortion laws ,hiring freeze and all others,he's trying to use executive orders to achieve his shortsightedness policies which can be undone also by an executive orders from his successor.these illiterates should bother themselves about the long impacts his populist policies will have on the economy in near future and these half educated working class shouldn't just believe america belong to them only.
They will soon realise trump can't perform any miracle because USA is built on strong institutions and not a one man show.the whole world is watching.

No mind them jare. Watch and see the coming trade war.