elgramz:

So please be sincere to yourself, is it every time you put on your shoes that you check if dangerous things are inside before wearing it? Only a paranoid person does that. That woman must have been dressing up her daughter for school every week day for years and nothing like this ever happened. You don't really expect her to be so paranoid as to always think that there could be something hiding in her daughter's shoes anytime she wants to put them on. What happened is just an unforseen circumstance. Scorpions don't live in kid's shoes!!! So the insensitive teacher who posted that story should stop try to make the mother look like a horrible mother. What happened to that woman could happen to any other mother out there. I am sure even in your own life, you have had many unforseen incidents happen to you, does that mean you are a careless person? The woman is also a victim here and she shouldn't be vilified but supported to get through this harrowing experience

It's not about being paranoid. It's about paying attention to your kids.

elgramz:
The person that wrote this story is just being over dramatic. Why is she trying to paint the mum as a bad mother? How could the mother have known that there was a scorpion in her daughter's shoe and just ignore it? This is just an unfortunate incident that could have happened to anyone and what the parents need now is sympathy and support in this trying time and not an insensitive, attention seeker running to social media to paint them black

Rubbish! It's you and the mother that are both insensitive. The mother was completely insensitive to the child's pain and completely ignored her. What kind of parent is that? Now who knows how many times the girl has been bitten and if she would survive. The amount of venom that has been injected into her is probably enough to kill her or maim her.

seunny4lif:

I was In Bahamas but lasted only 2 days.
Those people hate Nigerians

Wait, what have done this time around?

chineduemmao:
Bro dont deflect the subject of my discussion with you. Please we are neither analysing the leadership of Nwankwo Kanu nor dissecting the action[s] of his brother, if he stole ticket or indiscretion as you called it. What am arguing with you is your opinion of marriage that you are trying to force down on people, please if you still have something to say, stick to the topic.

I.am sticking to the topic bro. The topic is amara accused ogbomna for stealing tickets for her kids of which she called him out in and you people started blindly defending the brother in law. If what amara said actually happened then she has the right to defend her kids whatever way she seems fit.

jayarziki20:
you can't compare any of them to Nigeria cos they wish they live in Nigeria too....we have a great country that others wish they are from here....try travel... don't come here hating on Nigeria.. if u are not happy leave d country n stop bad mouthing ....only Nigerians say bad thing about d country n want others to respect it.

Dude, why are you being so defensive? Have you even been outside of this country before? Yet you are so quick to say "You can't compare any of them to Nigeria" when you have never been there in the first place.

BedLam:
He should be flogged for that. Not even close to Lagos.

And how do you know that? Have yu ever lived in Abuja and Accra before?

blackpanda:


LIES! aCCRA CAN never BE BETTER THAN ABUJA

Have you been there before?

donstan18:
She's indirectly searching for a husband, hereby telling us that she can cook soup.

She should try another pattern, cooking pattern is outdated and old as Buhari's first pubic hairs


She de form "Men are scum" with her face looking like a bucket face and her nose looking like an ancestral whistle


Afang soup kor, Adam soup ni

What exactly does a bucket face look like and what exactly is an ancestral whistle? It doesn't make any sense.

BruncleZuma:


I bet he didn't see that one coming...

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Chai! Una too get bad mouth.

IForgotMyLoginD:
Hahahaha. Yahoo boys can afford to do plastic ID card for less than #500 and register a company and write a letter of recommendation too. Lol.

Just don’t have pre-marital sex. That’s the way to avoid being an offering to the demon of ill gotten wealth.

G bam! G bam! G bam!

Hope they listen.

bluelaptop:
Yahho boys dont do rituals





Ritualists does





please and please these are two different things






G niggas are brain while Ritaulists re folks using Yahoo abi G to cover up


abeg dont call real yahoo G a ritualist, he worked his ass off to earn




#bless_up

Hmmmm you seem to have a lot of knowledge about this kindly tell us more.

Shortyy:
Lol. My dear na so e be o these guys ain't smiling these days. They almost killed my friend yesterday. But God pass them.

Wait what??

chineduemmao:
Can christ be in convenant with one who doesnt love God the father? Christ loves his father and it is his wish that anyone whom he loves to also love his father and do his will thus he said "if u love me follow [obey my father]". On this ground i ask u- can one be in conventant with another who doesnt love his family and is not willing to?

The better question would have been can I be in a convenant with a man who looks the other way when his brother steals tickets for my kids? Can i be in a convenant with weak spouse who can't stand against the indiscretions of his younger brother? Doesn't that show a lack of leadership on Kanu's part that his wife had to step and defend her kids like a lioness defends her cubs? Let me tell you something, if a leader of the house fails to step and defend and protect his family, the wife will take matters into her own hands. That's what mothers do. So if you don't want women to overstep her authority or boundaries then do your job as the gatekeeper and the head of the family.

chineduemmao:
My brother you are the one misunderstanding the scripture, being "one" means u must appreciate,respect and love what i love and i must also appreciate, respect and love what u love. It doesnt mean i should side with u even when its obvious u are misbehaving, "i still love u as much as i love my family but sorry this time around u messed up". I love my family so much that my wife must also love my family so much its not a choice and thats what the scripture is saying. Honestly no one wants to be put in that position where he would have to make a choice b/w family and wife and godforbid if my wife forces me with bad character to make that choice, i will prove to her she is a second citizen to where my family is b/c this same woman might decide to leave tomorrow but my family is my family get that bro. Thesame thing is also applicable to women- a man must love the womang's family as much as the woman loves her family. A woman should never make a man alienate his family b/c of her for no reason, i have a far distant cousing brother that married since 2014, eversince my cousing married everything changed he no longer allows his immediate cousings freely into the house, he no longer pays their school fees like he used to, he no longer comes home for xmass, the most funny part is that we the family were barely invited to his white wedding, this woman has never visited the husband's home for the first time, they now have a son but me i never use my eye see the pikin. However this same woman is living with her younger sister in her husbands house and is paying her school fees and all sorts. When people talk of love and marriage i laugh do you know that 50% of marriages in america ends in divorce? These are people we are sure say atleast they marry for love... and we are trying to mimick them

Dude, your relationship with your wife is a convenant recognized in heaven so your relationship and your bond for her must be as strong as the one that Christ has for the church. Now that doesn't mean that you don't rebuke her when she is in wrong but it doesn't mean that you relegate her to the background either. Both of you are one.

As for your cousins scenario, I don't know about that situation so I don't want to comment on it since there are multiple sides to each story. All I can say is that one needs to pray for discernment and clarity when looking for a life partner.

godfatherx:
I don't like Okorocha o, but COREN should shut the fvck up!
Do you mean to say all the buildings that have collapsed in the country don't have structural designs or your members in Imo State are not being carried along in the looting spree.
There are several roads in this country that are death traps, what noise have you made about those.
Bunch of thieves, pot calling kettle black.

What kind of reasoning is this for goodness sakes? So because there have been so many building disasters in this country of which COREN might or might not have been responsible for but hey they should now "shut up" because you say so? Chai!

9japrof:

There is no way in Africa, a man completely abandons his nuclear family because he believes he's married, let's be realistic, so Amara coming online to blast her brother inlaw because of match tickets is very stupid and immature, if you don't see the wrong there, I do

Amara is stupid in a million years to do that, and for the fact that she has not come online up till now to seek forgiveness and apologise for her rant means she has self serving ego which is even more dangerous than her uncouth tongue.

No one is saying you abandon your nuclear family, what I am saying g is that your wife comes first before them shikena.
Secondly, Amara's job is to defend and protect her own family that's just how it works and if the so called head of the home is too weak to do that the lioness would step up and defend her cubs. That's how things work. This is a failure of leadership on Kanu's part. If a husband does not step to the plate and defend his family then the wife will step up and do so. That's how things work in the animal kingdom.
Three, in gonna should be discerning enough to know when he is coming in between his brother and his wife and know how to tread carefully. Apparently in this case, he hasn't and seems to have been lacking the self awareness to see that and has overstepped his boundaries.

9japrof:

There is no way in Africa, a man completely abandons his nuclear family because he believes he's married, let's be realistic, so Amara coming online to blast her brother inlaw because of match tickets is very stupid and immature, if you don't see the wrong there, I do

Amara is stupid in a million years to do that, and for the fact that she has not come online up till now to seek forgiveness and apologise for her rant means she has self serving ego which is even more dangerous than her uncouth tongue.

The more reasons I tell rich dudes to marry from rich homes, if you can get a humble girl from a rich home, the probability that she would remain humble and respectful is over 90% while that poor humble girl might be humble because of condition, give her fame, money and power and you would be surprised by the tigress she would become

The fact that you marry from a rich family does not necessarily mean that you would be humble. That's an over simplistic generalization. Truth is everyone is different. The fact that you are from a rich family doesn't necessarily mean that you are humble in fact, she might have been super spoilt growing up and expects you to spoil her and pamper her like her father or she might throw a tantrum like a little child
Truth is everyone is different and what you need is to pray for discernment and clarity so that you pick the right person as a life partner cos assumptions like this don't always hold water in the real world.

9japrof:


Bros you are just ranting and know nothing, Kanu had done all he could for Amara who was nothing before he married her, given her a career, kids and a luxurious lifestyle of money and fame which most ladies dream of and am very sure kanu's wealth must have rubbed off on her family also.

Kanu has done all he could? You are talking as if marriage is a one way street? This is not some generous donor to poor peasant kind of relationship, this is an institution created by God for goodness sakes. No wonder so many marriages are terrible in naija; its because a lot of people see it as a sort of financial transaction and not a convenant.
Marriage is supposed to be mutually beneficial to both parties and not about some rich donor looking for someone to give him kids.

Eight ke??

Threebear:
The wife did a stupid thing, as repulsive and shameless as his brother is, a wise woman should know a way to handle her business without making a fool of herself.
Real bosses don't act like kids, only a child makes family business public business. A woman that is a mother and wife has the extra responsibility to act mature even when everyone around her is acting crazy. A person who fights publicly with a mad man is also mad.

So you are holding women to a standard that you are not holding men to?
Have you ever asked yourself what ogbonna must have done to push this woman past her limit? Evetyone has a breaking point. That's what makes us human just pray that someone doesn't push you past yours.

Pubichairs:
my future wife tries this kind of bullshit with any of my siblings , I will blind one of her eyes and send her packing, arrant nonsense

Then please on no conditions should you ever get married abeg cos you don't know what it means. In fact, if it is your intention to put your family above your wife then please stay single or marry your siblings cos some of y'all don't understand what it means to honor ones wife. Don't come and torture another mans daughter abeg.

9japrof:
No matter the wrongs, calling out family business on public domain is the most "wronged thing to do"

Family business stays within the family, besides sometimes these girls don't have any respect self, how can you call out and disrespect your brother in-law who is miles older than you are.

I may understand her grievances,but it was the responsibility of kanu to sort his issue with his brother. Besides Ogbonna is his blood, suffered with him, Amara only joined when the fame and riches came along and might not know the underlying reasons why kanu condone his brother.

No female on earth called a wife can make me abandon my siblings, my parents never in a million years.

Amara how have my disrespect

Wrong! A man shall leave his father and mother, brothers and sisters and cleave to his wife and they shall become ONE FLESH!!! What is it about being ONE that you people don't understand? It means that no one should come between you and your wife and that includes your mother and even your children. Do you people even know anything about loyalty or what it means to have your wife's back or defend her honor? If you don't, please don't marry abeg. Don't punish the poor girl biko.
No wonder a lot of marriages in Nigeria are just loveless. Wife just stays with the husband because of the stigma of divorce not because he loves him. Your wife does not come after your family but before them.

Pubichairs:
my future wife tries this kind of bullshit with any of my siblings , I will blind one of her eyes and send her packing, arrant nonsense

So your siblings are more important than your wife? Gotcha

Aquariann:
Cute baby..

I'm gonna say something dicey and I hope my intentions are not misconstrued.

Over time I've come to notice most Yoruba celebrities stick with Yoruba (first) names for their kids as compared to others who seems to be in a competition for the best sounding English names available...

Tobe, Somto, Diuto, Baridi etc. are all great sounding names than Aliora, Ariana, Jason etc

We're Africans and our names should be our first identity.

Somebody give this man an award.

victorvezx:
Well, remember he was first a Nigerian soldier. Even America pardoned the confederate secessionists long after their civil and now recognize them as American soldiers or veterans rather than confederate secessionists

But was Gen. Robert E. Lee buried with full state honors? What of Jefferson Davis, 'Stonewall' Jackson and co.?

Mynd44 and Dominique abeg FP things.

soberdrunk:

Wait whaaaaatttt?

Isnt this supposed to be beneath him? So childish!

Ereolamide:
What message is this dotard trying to pass across, is it that ex president Jonathan is an humble man living like the average Nigerians?

What is the cost of a house in Maitama?

The interior of the parlor betrays any form of projected humility, that it can't contain ten people show that it's not a place a commoner would be invited into.

You dey mind am?

Sprumbabafather:
His parlour is so small, I counted 8 persons sitting and 2 standing. This is the most humble president in African history. He was a very educated man who values human lives and peaceful coexistence.

Wait what?? Humble? Because he didn't steal enough? That's like saying shina Rambo is not as bad as Josef Stalin who was responsible for the death of millions of his people. Smh.

Wait what?? He was arrested for criticizing a President? Wow! But they told us Jonathan was a Democrat now...

Evablizin:
Heeyeh there is nothing in the earth and under the earth i will not read on nairaland

As in eh?