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When its convenient for you you jump on the African tradition train e.g do 4 different ceremony, Man must pay for this for that, No 50-50

But on the flip side when it comes to divorce you are quick to throw the way of the West into the fore front

The man has already married her, What difference does the registry make.

Our grandparents only did traditional, No registry, no court, Does that make their union illegal?

[quote author=Dudu_Negro link=topic=883858.msg10317158#msg10317158 date=1330719872]Katz, Gowon or any of those leaders could not even save their own necks from their mutinous soldiers much more save someone else.  You are intimate with this history and have written extensively about it yourself. . . . which one of Katsina, Murtala, Gowon, Danjuma, Adekunle, Ogundipe did not come close to being shot to death for standing in the way to save a fellow Igbo Army officer from the bullet ?  Igbos see these guys as non-Igbo officers but they on the other hand see the Igbo officers as members in an Army bound with espirit de corps.  The action of Fajuyi is a billboard story and a model for portraying heroism and courage.  If a cenotaph ought to be erected for a soldier, any soldier, in this country. . . . . Adekunle Fajuyi should be that soldeir.  He died for his fellow Army officer. , . he died for his Head of State. . . . he was not blinded by ethnicicty. . . . he put family aside and clung to the spirit of nationalism and the espirit de corps that bound all commissioned officers of military service together.  We need millions more Fajuyi.  Banjo fought for their cause. . . . Ojukwu put a bullet in him.  Banjo stood above ethnic differences and fought because he believed in their cause but murdered for it.  Even Effiong that saved many more from slaughter and devastation and surrendered to Obasanjo was labeled a coward by these beasts.  They hate Effiong for surrendering. . . but they love Ojukwu for prolonging suffering and deaths and then escaping.  They want him immortalized.  Igbos are blinded by their ethnic bigotry and asking for cenotaph for Ojukwu and Nzeogwu but not for Fajuyi, not for Effiong.   fvck Biafra and all it stands for!   Untill ndIgbo respect and accomodate others within their own interest. . . I have no respect or wish to sympathise with their woes.  

Beside, Gowon already apologized, though he did not have to.[/quote]I completely agree with every word posted here

Why should you do 4 different ceremonies to achieve the same aim?

The oyinbos you all like to point to do just one

Its the Ibos who owe us all an apology for the way their sons behaved in killing other peoples leaders.

I still agree that Nigeria should split on everyones terms

How many ceremony

4?

Say wetin happen

Registry, Introduction, traditional, Church is wedding the only thing one comes to the world to do?

Who would be sponsoring all these ceremonies?

Op Listen to me and listen well

I dont know what happened that led to that decision to take your baby away.

But this is what I would do.

I wont go to forcefully get my baby cos an infant straight from hospital needs the mothers care for a while, So the child needs to be with the mother

I would call the wife and ask her whats the reason for acting that way, If no genuine reason, I would give her an ultimatum to move back in, after the expiration of the ultimatum, The marriage is cancelled.

Get a court order for a divorce since she has abandoned her wifely duties, Thats easy to get.

Now wait till the child is weaned and can survive without the mother.

Now surprise them with a pickup of soldiers, area boys and every force you know in the world. Lock that MIL up for kidnapping your child.

Its Nigeria, If you have money you can get away with it

How can Retardeen tackle corruption when he is the center of corruption and even benefitted from it

^^ There must be a Ghetto in Columbus

Check the east side of Columbus Ohio. There must be some Akata hood there

with $20 you would get correct weed

If you have already done the traditional, then why are you insistent on registry.

Women sabi pursue unnecesary things when there are more pressing issues

Doesnt your husband take care of the family?

A man is busy hustling how to feed you and your baby, but your own concern is Registry

Abeg do you work? How much do you contribute to upkeep? and how would the registry change your life

Where are you located?

if you are in lagos, I can introduce you to some weed sellers

2 puffs and you go become more irresponsible than area boy self

Thank me later

MEND dont kill innocent Shebi na wetin dem tell us be that

I am not sure oo

Only God knows what Ojukus carcass has been through in the hands of those people

Its a personal warfare since he has never seen where one would run 60yards to score a goal except vs the incompetent English

War is not an exchange of bouquet its an exchange of fire


At the end the coward fled to Abidjan

Oya Retardeen come out with your usual m0r0nic press statement exonerating MEND

Why the countries no send help when Biafra needed it?

Why didnt the Igbos send help when Ojuku was deaf and dumb dying in London?

They waited till he is dead to roll out drums?

Whats the use of sending delegate after death?

Why not send assistance during war

Like Igbos typically do, They would rather celebrate the dead than take care of him alive

Ojuku became deaf and dumb on a lonely bed, everyone abandoned him, Now he is dead, they are congregating to feast on his carcass

^^ Keep whining and bitching all over the web

When American bombed Iraqi civilians in Gulf war 1 was it after the Geneva convention.

Adekunle is there, Go and catch him generation of wussies who took a beatdown from Black Scorpion

Heard Bale is injured and out for 3 weeks

aribisala0:
High Chief You crossed the line with this post!

I know you are a bitter old man but please pretend to have some manners.

If you feel so strongly why not prepare for war again.These impotent vituperations are pathetic

No he is very well in line, Surely when I get on a PC I would get him an appropriate response

^^ The childbirth argument

I think the woman wanted the child as much as the man if not more self.

Why then should you be compensated for doing what you so much desired?

How many women would consent to a childless marriage. If the man wants children and the woman doesnt, I dont think she can be forced to have it.

In cases where the woman was forced to have kids then I support her to be compensated cos that is synonymous to being a surrogate. But not while doing what you have always desired.

Personally I think women crave children more than men. If you see on NL alone the number of women who insult their mates for being barren. I hardly see men who go about the inability to give birth thingy as fiercely as women do.

Go to churches see those going to Pastors daily for children and compare the ratio of sexes

Back to my question: Why should you be compensated for what you prayed and fasted for?

^^ Any venture can only be worth it based on what you contribute into it.

If you and your husband start a joint business You deserve every single Kobo from the business or split it 50-50

I know a couple both lawyers who have a law firm, In case of divorce the wife deserves every single kobo

But your husband was doing his own business you were working as an accountant somewhere, Now tell me what you contributed to his wealth

Or worst still a wife who was a housewife and wants 21m

How many of her working mates made 21m in their career or what has she invested to make 21m

Militancy

Go and See the luxury which Militants live now

Asari, Boyloaf, Henry Okah even ex militant sponsor retardeen

Its not in the Nigerian spirit for a man leading his people to flee from the warfront

The people that abandoned him are now celebrating his death

^^ Adekunle is doing just fine

You need to worry about the mentality of Igbos who are celebrating the dead Ojuku but abandoned his sick body in a London hospital when he was rotting from STD he got from Biancar the National bicycle.

I didnt know you Igbos are these heartless. You hail a man as Ike-eba wuru wuru didnt vote for him as Senator in 1983

Didnt vote for him as president in 2003, Didnt even visit him in his hospital

When I visited London, I went to the hospital where he was admitted. His chief- of- staff was with him and I was told upon entering the ward that I should just hold his hand and speak; [size=18pt]that he could hear but he could not talk[/size]. I held his hand and greeted him, “Gburugburu,” that is Igwe of Igbo Land. He was a very good Catholic. I told him that he had suffered for the Igbo and that our mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary would take very good care of him.

I spoke to him, encouraged him but to tell you the truth, I was not happy at all with his situation. There was a Philipino nurse taking care of him, and his daughter was also there with him. [size=18pt]They were the only two people with him in that ward[/size]. I told the daughter that as she was taking care of her father, that our Lord would bless her and that her own children would pay her back by taking good care of her. Then, I left the hospital and since then, I have been saying Novena Mass for him so that our good Lord would take good care of him.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/12/in-london-ojukwu-was-lonely-dumb-igwe-nwokedi/

See wetin Igbos do Ike-eba now they are congregating to feast on his carcass.

Bayern kill them all in commercials

The cost of matchday ticket which is low is what is hindering us from breaking the upper echelon, Also the undue advantage from TV rights

if we are allowed individually negotiate TV deals Bayern would be tops in Europe

If these argument between Debo and dudu areways of keeping me out of your thread, I would like to tell you that its working perfectly

Anytime I see Dudu space as the recent poster, I skip over this thread ;d

dasparrow:
@OP

Why would a 23 year old girl marry a man with that much baggage and against your parent's wish? I could understand if you were close to 40 years of age and your biological clock was ticking. But for a young 23 year old girl to marry a man who has not one, two, but three children is quite bizzare. At 23 years old, there are usually a whole bunch of single, never before married bachelors with no baggage lining up looking to marry a girl in that country of ours called Nigeria. You could not pick any of those and chose a man with baggage instead and now he does not see your inability to get pregnant as a big problem because he already has his kids. Maybe, you thought he was rich and so you fell for his bait. Anyway, pray. Maybe he was never even meant to be your husband in the first place, who knows. However, if he is the one God intended as your spouse, your wish for children will come to pass. Goodluck!

The man hollo pepper wella

abadaba:
He hasn't died yet, he is in a nursing home today in America diagnosed with dementia.

The way Ojuku was in a hospital bed deaf dumb and looking like ab imbec1le when everyone including his family deserted him

^^ Let him come and wiggle out of his own stupidity in defining World class

When all his definition fall flat

yarodin:
Is Adekunle even alive? I mean apart from NR is the man still relevant even in palm wine joints?

He was relevant in the lives of Igbos between 1967 and 1970