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Correct! Praise God!
One down many more to follow.

When was her last sexual experience?
Gonor can stay in a lady's body for long n not even show.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Let us publicize this so that the world can know that fraidsters exist all over the world

Divoc19:
It's probably time to clear my Monika issues.
Divoc19 is Covid19.
2ndly. That's how I have been feeling all these years. It's time to get a life for me.

I get you. It's good to get a life of your own, infact it was one of the advice I once gave to my wife though at the time she misunderstood it but I am not a kidnapper and all her life shouldn't rest on me, the burden too much to carry a full grown person isn't small work.
Too many childish men this days.
Another question?
Pls let it out, tell us, no vex tell us even if it means doing it on a new Monika.
Then also today's marriages has plenty issues because of the lack of a place for a good third party.
Have you tried some third party interference

I have read through the trend. Tried so hard to understand your person by reading through your 16 personally created trend by you and also trying to view some of the places where you have made comments.
1st thing I don't get is why that Monika.
2ndly I feel your marriage can still work!
Pls share more reasons why you need this separation.

Have they taken her to the hospital?
This could be a symptom of a disease such as scabies

You the definition of STUPID according to Uncle Steve Harvey.

No offence intended rise up to the occasion and stop been stupid

Travicon:
Hello Nairalanders,
I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.

I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.

I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).

I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.

There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.

Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)

I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.

I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.

I NEED genuine HELP, please.

I cast out and cast down everything wey u dey think in Jesus name amen.
Well I served it in a very responsible way without fight all the time. Those relationship were not made to be.
Don't think I am the wicked type

purehustle101:
And in your mind you done excape am... smiles

E no pain you

Juliet751:
I LOVE FOOD!!

How can you be crying n eating? Or you mean crying n not eating

Juliet751:
Throughout that day,i was just crying and eating.

Na me dey serve am, never got served till I got married

Not the same sir, Fr. Mbaka is turning the church to campaign ground devoid of decency. How can you call a political aspirants cursed and stingy. He should use the pulpit to guide not insult people.

Parachoko:
At a mosque in Abuja, an Alfa was suspended for criticising Buhari, people wailed bitterly about it. They said there is freedom of speech, and the Alfa shouldn't have been suspended indefinitely for castigating Buhari.

I hope those set of people wey wail against the removal of the Alfa will also wail bitterly about the removal of Father Ejike Mbaka for expressing his opinion.

You are doing what you know can help your marriage and it has been helping it.
Don't let anyone talk you out if it. It's the best remember how the bible puts it,
"1 Peter 3:6-8
King James Version
6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement"
Always imagine if your marriage goes bad how difficult and stressful it will become.
Abeg if it is working for you continue it, even if it get to a time that it doesn't seems like it is working continue it. I am a man and I love it too.

rolloicecream:
There are some things my husband likes when I do that I know drive him wild (sexually + ego). Kneeling for him is one.. kneeling to thank him occasionally, or kneeling to apologize for mistakes I’ve made.. g

We are relatively young (early 30s), but I am wondering if other traditional wives in our age range also incorporate kneeling for their men into their marriages?

What are some other things you do (day to day or occasionally) to show your total respect for your husband?

Also, am I the only one that sometimes gets shy about kneeling? Lol.. I want to force myself to keep on doing it regularly, but I don’t it to lose its specialness..

Advice from wives or husbands pls..?

Spiker777:
I just discovered that my wife I married 10 years ago has a son before i married her and she had be hiding it from me .I just discovered now and I know find it to trust her again,what do I do?

She has not done well.
Pls try to be calm, seek counsel from people who you know can help and don't rush to do anything before you go n kill someone pikin n end in jail.
Finally nothing that can't be forgiven, consider your marriage is 10 years old and in this 10 years if she has been a great mother and wife, don't be in a haste to throw her out.
Though you can purnish her for her actions and also show your displeasure to her family.

The total domestic debt for the 36 states and the FCT stands at N4.1 trillion.

The document revealed that Lagos leads with N507 billion debt, Rivers follows with N377 billion, while Akwa Ibom has N232 billion; Delta is next on the debtors’ list with N213 billion.

The fifth indebted state is Cross River with N162 billion, followed by Ogun with N156 billion; seventh is Bayelsa with N142 billion and then Plateau with N134 billion. Osun is ninth wih N133 billion and Benue is 10th state with N128 billion. The total debt of the 10 states is more than N2 trillion.

The least indebted state is Jigawa State with N31 billion.

Here is the full list of the states and their foreign debts:

DOMESTIC DEBT DATA FOR THE 36 STATES OF THE FEDERATION AND THE FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY AS AT MARCH 31, 2021 AMOUNT IN NAIRA

SN STATE DEBT STOCK (N)

1 ABIA - N70,570,905,849.97

2 ADAMAWA - N95,223,661,061.51

3 AKWA IBOM - N232,204,284,318.65

4 ANAMBRA - N59,710,637,126.27

5 BAUCHI - N100,790,289,024.13

6 BAYELSA - N142,936,287,958.14

7 BENUE - N128,252,738,662.85

8 BORNO - N91,855,414,649.11

9 CROSS-RIVER - N162,341,364,113.48

10 DELTA - N213,782,129,604.56

11 EBONYI - N43,790,839,758.40

12 EDO - N81,750,262,718.83

13 EKITI - N83,722,280,923.58

14 ENUGU - N68,855,130,073.45

15 GOMBE - N82,473,640,326.98

16 IMO - N149,888,233,113.49

17 JIGAWA - N31,572,060,237.67

18 KADUNA - N68,754,361,083.75

19 KANO - N119,427,638,899.46

20 KATSINA - N58,339,331,273.92

21 KEBBI - N55,096,954,426.87

22 KOGI - N68,860,011,515.06

23 KWARA - N63,243,935,109.34

24 LAGOS - N507,377,449,198.76

25 NASARAWA - N58,671,278,563.84

26 NIGER - N62,327,267,332.33

27 OGUN - N156,335,308,358.54

28 ONDO - N72,598,126,601.96

29 OSUN - N133,924,122,386.17

30 OYO - N91,954,231,316.98

31 PLATEAU - N134,223,134,679.17

32 RIVERS - N266,936,225,793.65

33 SOKOTO - N38,550,547,344.38

34 TARABA - N100,004,214,754.69

35 YOBE - N60,094,287,156.78

36 ZAMFARA - N96,980,834,485.22

37 FCT - N69,532,417,465.77

Total - N4,122,951,837,267.7

Wait till you see the whole list of debtors

odinson1:
I wonder why you People don't make use of the brains you were freely given. Later una go dey call Redpillers small boys

Wetin these type of guys dey see in these type of girls. If it were a charm I would have agreed that it is because they have been charmed. But it is not so in most cases. Abeg if you have a male child pls help the society, save us from this type of men by giving them good upbringing.
I am not calling him a simp o, I am neither a simp or alpha male but we can't continue with men like this.
Abi na their Toto dey sweet una like this ni

Suddenly, I can't notice Yahaya Bello supporters here

She is too far, infact she has gone to sleep. Wait is she pregnant?

Yahaya Bello for President! How is the market

Jatuski:
By; SULEIMAN ABBAH

The new global trend leadership and management of nations is one that favours the reality that younger leaders have a significant advantage over their older counterparts which is the reason they excell faster.

The younger leaders all over the world are proved to embrace change and exhibit great skills at marketing their new ideas.

They have the courage to make difficult changes, possibly because their youthful dynamism causes them to be more optimistic about their proposals for change.

They are more willing than their elders to be the champions of change.

Younger leaders also know how to get others energized and excited about accomplishing objectives and are able to inspire others to high levels of effort and production to an even greater degree than their more elderly counterparts.

Their older colleagues tend to lead by “pushing” while younger managers lead by “pulling.”
Young leaders are also extremely open to feedback.

They ask for feedback about their performance more often and seek ways to digest and implement the feedback.

Older leaders, in contrast, tend to be less willing to ask for and respond to feedback.

Understanding the strengths of this younger group is extremely helpful and leveraging these strengths would present a big opportunity for higher national productivity.
Virtually, if Nigerians want to hear the truth, they should be told that they will need to appoint younger leaders to fill vacancies to be left by the retirement of long-term predecessors.

It is these natural advantages coupled with a proven integrity, honesty and experience that would make the Kogi state Governor Yahaya Bello a refreshing alternative to the traditional class of Nigerian leaders who come to power ill prepared or ill equipped to lead except for their personal ambitions for power or quest for vendetta.

He is known to be constantly looking for innovative ways to accomplish work more efficiently and with higher quality.

Focused intently on results, Yahaya Bello has a high need for achievement and puts every ounce of energy into achieving his goals, dedicates to continuous improvement as a result of having less invested in the past, and more willing to challenge the status quo.
In contrast, Nigerian politicians who have been in leadership positions for a long period of time, have become complacent and see the status quo as sufficient.
And quiet unlike these older predecessors, Yahaya Bello, by his antecedents, will be more willing to set stretch goals and to assemble and inspire a strong team to achieve difficult tasks in contrast to the older leaders who have learned to sandbag goals so they don’t have to work so hard or run the risk of falling short.

With his ample energy and zeal, Bello can be trusted to work for an inclusive society that provides at least the most minimal of equal opportunities for all Nigerians.

The past cannot be entirely remedied, but a future with the likes of Governor Bello can be built on a strong foundation that benefits from a flawed past.
The earlier Nigerians can address the challenges and shore up the strength to give a chance to more young leaders, the more the country will benefit.

Abbah a journalist wrote this from Kaduna

Yahaya Bello for President.
We will challenge this matter in court

How come a strong contestants,infact the strongest is not been spoken about.
Didn't Yahaya Bello attend the screening exercise?

bakaredc:
Vice President Professor Yemi Osinbajo GCON, this afternoon appeared before the APC Presidential Aspirants Screening Committee headed by Chief John Oyegun at the transcorp Hilton hotel in Abuja.

Are we discovering a new order? A performing executive does not know politics! Ben isn't a politician, check his issues with PDP

ValCon888:
A sitting governor cannot win a senatorial primary election. And yet purchased expression of interest forms for president. What a joke.

noelahjones42:
Gov Yahaya Bello will make Nigerian better,he remains unbeatable in infrastructure development, education .security,women and youth inclusion in politics and leadership positions ,infact all round he is the best

Are you talking about the state of primary and secondary education in Kogi State?
Are you talking about the roads in Kogi State?
Are you talking about the state of the civil service in Kogi State?
Percentage Salary payment at the Local Government level.
Has the state become more industrialized like some states who are now building and owning companies and getting the youths employed?
How many employment has he created in 8years.
Travel through Kogi State and you will be shocked with what you see

I guess you are really yet to be a parent. And if it's true that u don't beat your children. Let the school know from the beginning. Some schools will even not admit your children sef.
Flogging is the fastest means of correction around here.
And how would you feel when your children have to attend 3 schools before graduation.

Lanretoye:
If them born one nonsense teacher well make e flog my son for what so ever reason,even me wen born am self no dey beat am.if una know say my so no dey do well for school make una expel him no be to beat life out of him.

yesloaded:
16yrs corruption dey learn under this 7yrs administration, if you don't get my message fogerrit

Under the 7 years of mal-admininistration

gentiles:
Anyone aside Yorubas can become the president. We will rather vote a cow than vote a Yoruba man as President in 2023

So what should happen to you when Yoruba wins.
Or wat should we call you ? The man that saw tmr or a cow

Visit NDLEA and ask from them about their rehab.

Augustwife:
He has been sent to a specialist that works in aro (Abeokuta) twice but the doctor said he doesn't really need to be admitted he only administered drugs and counselling.

Bornbiafra:
Today is one of the worst day of my..

As rain d fall this morning ,I went out to the bathroom to ease myself ,coming back to the room, I sat on the bed while checking out naira land with my phone.,

My wife grabbed my from behind pressing my nipple and kissing my ear ,the next thing my mumu buttom got activated ..

I unconsciously dropped my phone beside me on the bed while I grabbed her

I started knacking her wotowoto without knowing she was lying on my phone ..

Immediately I turned her for a doggy I realized that my phone is blind and the screen damaged..

The most painful part is I no cum and I don't think she come .....

What a bad way to start a day

Who did I offend

Why do women like it when it is raining

It's not that most of this guys set out with plans to beat their wife.
I want you to understand it this way, the woman's power is in her tongue and the man's power is in his fists. So when the woman begins to misuse her tongue some men attempts to compete but she will win him easily, the next thing the devil helps him with is his fists.
While I condemn in totality the beating of wife's but woman should understand their husband too and help tame the beast in him.
I have never beaten my wife and she has done things that others did and their husbands beat them up and I pray never to raise my hand to do that in Jesus name amen

Jennyclay:
@kasaliola I don't blame you. I only blame your wife here.

What are some women still doing in an abusive and terrible marriage?? If you claim you're still there because of the children.. If you die through domestic violence your children would still be living thier lives comfortably.

INFACT, your children will hate you in your grave for not absconding from that abusive marriage when you had the chance because they would believe you deliberately rendered them motherless.

Just see how op is beating his wife like he's in a competition with Anthony Joshua. Nawa oo!!

violence against women should be condemned by all means and women should stop believing that a man is going to change. HE CAN NEVER CHANGE!!

I wonder why a man would raise his hands and hit a woman he claims to LOVE. I wish moderators could push this thread to crime section because this man will kill his wife any moment from now oo!!

May God help us all.

Bros or Sis. U should check up the word Patriots or citizen atimes and not assume everyone is in PDP.
This is the truth that the handlers of the affairs of the country in the past didn't do well but the present handlers must not try to think that they were better because they are actually doing worst and people like u should stop coming to public space with shift blame attitude.
We need our country to work and if anyone is to make it happen it is the present leadership not the past.
Abeg they think this things well

pquaver:
For 16 years your pdp didn't wish Nigeria to be like that yet you worship dem. bubu no send you joor. U think UAE was killing its citizens like ipob down east n boko up north to be like that?